#TW rape mentioned

[littlestpersimmon]

My dead rapist who is also my uncle, his son is trying to continue his father's legacy of trying to terrorize me by vandalizing our house with spray paint magen David because he thinks I'm a "betrayer" for being antizionist, and he keeps editing pictures of ghosts behind me in our holiday photos because he knows that I have been having a fear of dying lately because of a random scary symptom I am experiencing. One time my parents accidentally locked ourselves out of the house, and my window is broken, so he was asked to climb inside our house using my window (with my consent.) And he left a pocket knife under my futon. Im not scared and upset about most days but then there are days like today, where, idk I guess the sun being down so early is genuinely affecting me. It hasn't been like this before, now I feel anxious and upset most of the time. Does anyone know what to do to settle these fears

[mouthwashingconfessionsblog]

Tw: rape threat. Not cool.

Whoever sent “Oo imma rape Operator next😋” you’re fucking disgusting. Stay the hell away from my inbox.

If I see anyone harassing her or anyone for that matter especially with that disgusting threat—when you all know that she is a victim and has said so before—I’ll won’t hesitate to out you. Harass me all you want but don’t even think about mentioning her or I’ll find you my godamn self. She’s miserable and in pain, do you honestly think she’d want to read that?

I won’t hesitate to delete this blog if I ever see that shit again. Keep your disgusting thoughts off of her.

[uninformedartist]

What the actual fuck

They should be scared, its a fucking Nazi character. Putting your family potentially at risk cos you so so want to cosplay your nazi character, tf. Why the hell would you want to cosplay, no back up why do you LIKE a nazi character. Nazi's aren't some fictional thing or should be made fictional in any way. Honestly to whoever has that nazi character they like & want to cosplay fuck off, this "they like the character but don't support his actions" & its a bloody NAZI. Norry is going to such, such lengths to defend that rapist bastard Valentino by now bringing up, BOTH ARE FUCKING BAD CHARACTERS TO LIKE ONE IS A RAPIST, THIS INSTANCE YOU BRING UP IS IS A NAZI. There's no justification.

"Nazi-like so probably a fictional equivalent" oh shut the ever loving fuck up Norry. Jirre they keep spouting bullshit after bullshit, this takes the cake.

Thirty three years of age and you talk such bullshit, 3 decades old & 3 years. I can't, there's no coming back from this for Norry.

[edennill-archived]

tw attempted rape mentioned/discussed:

seeing it's a hot topic lately and thinking I'd add my two pence to the conversation again... weirdly enough, in so far as any of the great tales contains a rape threat per se from one of the elvish princes, the fall of gondolin always read as more that to me than the nargothrond incident.

maybe it's that despite celegorm's obvious attraction/lust for lúthien, she is ultimately treated as a political pawn and while the former has much bearing on the subject, that's a huge part of the motive for the kidnapping. they would have done so either way. meanwhile maeglin openly considers idril a spoil of war.

[asliceofteaa]

nicolai and guardian make me ill

this is the good ending unfortunately. nicolai also ends up killing himself in custody of innovation inc and they meet again in the afterlife... guardian is. well. it's disappointed to say the least. but they get over it 💗

[sugaroto]

I described dandadan to someone as "a girl believes in ghosts and a boy believes in aliens and then they go to two different creepy places and get attacked by both and then they kinda have to fight both" leaving out the plot points of the aliens trying to rape the girl and that the ghost steals the boy's dick and his response was "that's not weird I've seen worse" so I can't wait for anime night when he watches dandadan. I want to see his reaction

[lavender-teardroplettes]

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Whoa, first off- chill out. 🙌🏽

Second, I know what you’re talking about (Aradia bot and the forced red feelings he programmed into her) and….I’m not sure that amounts to that, though the forced feelings are indeed a breach of consent. Yes, he’s in the wrong for doing that and it’s discussed in the comic how she feels about it and her discomfort with interacting with the Aradiabots and how he interacts with her, but they’re cordial by the end of things with alive Aradia.

Each of the trolls (and humans too tbh) have done some really shitty things to each other and others, but he never RAPED her. The most that happened was the pitch flooded kiss SHE forced on him durning the revaluation that those feelings were there. I’ve also seen other people talk about this since there’s another anon (or maybe you’re the same person) going around and saying this, and if that’s how you feel about it personally then that’s fine- but that’s not canon in the comic or side stories/closed canons.

You can dislike a character and their actions but repeating that to everyone doesn’t make it true. People also could be triggered by you randomly using the r word without any context or knowledge about who you are- stop that.

[hyperose-culture-is]

TW abuse/ 🍇without the g Hyperrose/hyperromantic (?) culture is thinking that someone abusing/🍇-ing you in the most dehumanizing way possible is romantic but then also feeling absolute shame and disgust in yourself because "Hey! You never went through any of that! Why the fuck are you romanticizing trauma you've never fucking experienced you absolute sicko!"

Sadly the mind when having traumas or situations where conditions like this exist, it’ll like “forget” about it and just kinda forget. It’s always good to acknowledge and understand the harm the thing does. Just so you don’t forget.

[pregduo]

Every time I see someone say grape instead of rape it makes me want to blow my brains out. You aren't gonna get shadowbanned or any of that bullshit JUST SAY THE DAMN WORD! Stop making it sound like something unserious when it is VERY serious and should be treated as such.

[foxglove-garden]

My ex decided to come out as asexual and I don't know if he's serious or just trying to make excuses for not being attracted to me anymore and trying to be a dick about it because his "coming out" basically consisted of him calling me a rapist for having a higher sex drive than him and saying "wanting to have sex with someone who's asexual is basically rape" and like....

Dude, me wanting to have sex with the person I've been in a relationship with for five years, who used to want to have sex daily, isn't comparable to sexual assault. It's just being in a relationship. And saying that shit to a survivor of repeated SA is really shitty.

[thatoneawkwardfanthing]

Finally reading Bloodlines so spoilers for the first book below

TW! Rape Mentioned

Dude Sydney Sage is a better person than I, if the guy who raped my sister said she "liked it" and then started calling her a slut? I'd have taken his other eye with a fucking spoon right there in that diner.

Also I DO NOT trust or like Lee very much. What is that full grown man doing with that 15 year old girl? I get that romitri was also problematic but they realized that and tried a little bit to not. He's just like "yeah I'll date the teen girl!" Gross

[mouthwashingconfessionsblog]

I wanna rape Jimmy

tw: rape

[confessiononadancefloor]

love this song from prince that could either be abt corrective rape or wanting to turn that twink into pudding

[thequeerlibrarian]

I finished this book and wow... I'm a bit speechless tbh. 5/5. This book follows the life of a very young girl getting older and older and finding her place in the world and then losing her parents but the main focus is her relationship with her father. Who raped her since she was a very young child and it's so so hard to read but beautifully written (in poems). I cried a lot. I bought this for my library and printed out a big trigger warning and helpline numbers I put in the front of the book. A rec but only if you want a no fun read that is emotionally devastating but very raw & honest.

[tightjeansjavi]

Hello,

First, I would like to state that I am still on a hiatus, but before I go, I wanted to make my peace on here.

I am deeply sorry for any SA survivors that I personally hurt/offended/triggered in any capacity by my venting. I did not have the intentions to diminish anyone’s feelings, or the fact that SA survivors use noncon/dub con to cope with their own trauma. I understand how it came across and while this is no excuse, my venting was purely based off of my own emotions. I was upset and hurt because it felt like my trauma was being romanticized and made out to be “hot.” “sexy.” While the fic itself upset me, it was the comments that truly effected me because it made me feel like my assault was sexy. Nothing about me being assaulted, on multiple counts, is sexy.

I recognize that I should have tagged my vent post appropriately. I truly did not know that I needed to do that until it was pointed out. I thought venting was just free rein and whether you choose to believe me or not, is completely up to you.

While I’m sure people will continue to call me a hypocrite, and send hate in my inbox, I truly would just like everyone to know that I’m sorry.

I normally do not let my triggers effect me in the way that they used to. Am I perfect? No. I have my good days, and bad days just like anyone else. I have been going to therapy for over two years and I am actively working through and processing my trauma. I also understand that I had every chance to not participate in reading that fic and I still decided to. I am holding myself accountable in that aspect.

If you choose to actively hate me, think I’m some terrible person for allowing my feelings/emotions to control my actions, I don’t have anything to say to you other than the fact that you are beating a dead horse.

At the end of the day, I am a real person behind the screen. As is everyone else. I am a human being and I make mistakes and hold myself accountable for them.

If you have read this entire post, processed it, and learned to forgive and understand where I am coming from, thank you.

Goodbye for now,

-Gi