#Solo Poly

[daisylovesrumble]

[buildingrelationshipsinanarchy]

So through my university I've been able to get my hands on a lot of scholarly research around, nonmonogamies, polyamory, sexuality and all sorts of gender, race, class intersections on those topics.

Anybody interested in me posting them? Maybe even commenting on them as well?

[kimchicuddles]

I love this page from the booklet update to "Love Retold" (details about all that on TikvaWolf.com/books ). You can also just get the booklet by itself if you already have the original book ❤️

[teaktty]

I just found out about Kitchen Table Polyamory, and I instantly started to weep.

Oh my goodness...

[tapet-wallpapers]

Solo polyamorous/solo poly wallpapers/backgrounds

Definition and flag can be found on this wiki post:

[rmtomboy17]

(via Groups)

[daisylovesrumble]

Solo polyamory is a form of polyamory where individuals engage in multiple romantic or sexual relationships but do not prioritize a primary partner. Instead, they choose to maintain their independence and autonomy while forming connections with others. In solo polyamory, relationships can be varied and may include various levels of intimacy and commitment, but the focus is often on personal freedom rather than traditional relationship structures that emphasize exclusive partnerships or hierarchy among partners. This approach allows individuals to explore connections without the constraints often associated with conventional monogamous or hierarchical polyamorous relationships.

[buildingrelationshipsinanarchy]

Theorizing Multi-Partner Relationships and Sexualities: Recent work on Non-Monogamy and Polyamory Christian Klesse Manchester Metropolitan University, UK

Beyond the non/monogamy system: fluidity, hybridity, and transcendence in intimate relationships Jorge N. Ferrer

Need Fulfillment in Polyamorous Relationships Melissa E. Mitchell, Kim Bartholomew & Rebecca J. Cobb

[this-butch-bad]

It's such a strange and overwhelming feeling to be falling in love again after 11 years.

It's even more strange for my wife to tell me she can see me falling and how beautiful it is to witness. Also how dare she call me on it 👀🤣

[kimchicuddles]

Here's one I wrote a million years ago lol. I should update it with some of my favorite types of "relationship milestones" that I've experienced over the years. What are yours?Thank you so much for supporting my work!   PATREON patreon.com/kimchicuddles COMMISSIONS & BOOKS TikvaWolf.com   TIPS! venmo.com/tikvawolf

[pleaseshootthejester]

I won't ever come out as poly to my dad's side of the family, but the temptation to bring a different partner to every family event until one of them asks is super high

My mom's side will be chill about it, fairly sure they've already guessed but are waiting for me to say something. I do think my mom's in denial though, she was visibly relieved when she met my girlfriend because it confirmed to her that me and another partner (who she really loves but thinks is a bit strange) must just be friends, wait til she finds out there's 3 almost 4 partners and they're ALL FUCKING WEIRD

[mischievous-explorer]

I took a conscious decision to move away from traditional norms and embrace a new path. This last week I have really started to see the difference from all the hard work.

This weekend I have felt so many amazing emotions and I'm so blessed.

Saturday, an awesome person held my hand reassuringly while their partner and I kissed.

Sunday, my long distance girly wanted to see me, she doesn't drive far so her husband bought her to see me.

I'm so lucky to have such special people in my life.

[crisducoeur]

Polyamour Solitaire

Pour te dire je t’aime, En espérant de ne pas se perdre soi-même, c’est pénible On ne sait pas pourquoi, les êtres s'aiment, Refoulant nos émotions par peur de l’engagement, c’est oppressant L'amour s'en va comme cette eau courante, Impossible de le retenir, c’est laborieux Y a un oiseau dans mon cœur qui veut chanter Au nom de l’amour, c’est yoyoté Avec le temps va, tout s'en va, Tous ses amours d’enfance sauf mon amour pour toi, c’est ardu Moi, je suis comme je suis Impossible de te retenir ni de te laisser, c’est malaisé Or nous promenions notre amour, L’amour égoiste que j’ai, que je ne veux changer, c’est obstiné Un amour éternel pour une heure, Oubliant tout le mal qu’on a causé l’un l’autre ,c’est ubuesque Rien n’est si beau qu’un rêve avant de le réaliser, Sautant par soi-même de cette falaise et tomber dans la réalité, c’est rude Sur les ailes du temps, la tristesse s'envole, Recommence donc ce cycle d’espoir à trouver la perle rare, c’est stressant On a crié sur les routes Un faux mensonge pour ne pas être seul, c’est odieux La fleur qui ressemble à ton nom Offre des parfums qui m’envoûtent, je faiblis, c’est lamentable Il pleure dans mon cœur comme il pleut sur la ville, Mes larmes me rendent aveugle, aveugle d’amour, c’est incommode Toujours, toujours tu fuis, Après toi je poursuit, j’arpente, je rampe, c’est torturant Aimer, c'est n'avoir plus droit au soleil, Y compris la lueur d’espoir pour un nous irréalisable, c’est abstrus Il y a dans le cœur de tous les hommes Le besoin de se sentir aimé, convoité, désiré, c’est inflexible Rien ne pourra jamais t'arracher à moi Ontologie personnelle, cher orgueil qui jamais me quittera, c’est rassérénant Et tout ce que vous dites de l'amour, Pour quelqu’un autarcique comme moi, c’est énergisant

[awoogawolf]

I'm curious because this is something I've been more involved in lately but would you consider yourself polyamorous?

i have been in the past, but i also enjoy monogamy, i mostly did solo poly or was a third for an established couple (or a fifth for two couples) but i don't find myself interested in it much anymore

[rmtomboy17]

Threshold

I went to kickball last night and had a good time connecting with my team. I didn’t go play flip cup, because I don’t want to drink very much while I’m processing in the murder in the acute stage. I also have my feelings with regards to not being in my previous family anymore. I’ve gotten so many of my friends and also my family members to donate to the fund for her orphaned children that she…

[crumpetsandcocaine]

I need to start treating myself the way I treat the women I date.

I disrupt my day to make sure hers is better. I'll make breakfast for her if she stays over & I don't even always feed myself more than a fruit/yogurt before 3pm.

I need to do better at dating me.

Disclaimer: would never do this for a man