#Self-concept

[tumbler-polls]

Which of the following statements best describes your sense of identity?

❤️: I'm an individual with a stable, firm sense of identity. I know exactly who I am and can easily define myself. 💛: I'm an individual with a fluid sense of identity that keeps evolving over time. However, there is a "core me" that remains the same, and I have at least a vague idea of who this person is. 💚: My sense of identity is fluid, and I contain multitudes. I am not sure which me is the real me or if there is a real me at all, which causes me a bit of distress. 💜: My sense of identity is fluid, and I contain multitudes. This does not cause me distress as I don't seek to define myself. 🖤: I frequently experience being more of a 'pure awareness' than a person. Oftentimes I find myself observing the world rather than interacting with it. Any identity I take on in this life feels like a mask / a temporary role. 💙: Something else.

Feel free to expand on your choice in the tags/comments :)

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[noxxuniverse]

Hey, i hope you’re doing great! I’ve been wondering about something. When I think like I already have my desire, do I need to actually feel it’s real, or is just thinking about it enough to manifest? What do you think?

Feelings don't manifest, but they can help. You don't have to use them, I want to make that very clear so don't take this as me being like "Feelings CAN manifest" cause they can't. But they can be used as a tool.

Thinking about how you already have it, and not wavering, is enough to manifest it. You don't need to believe in it, you don't even have to be happy, you just think about how you have it and that is enough. Remember, you are very very powerful.

[milkchuu]

𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒖𝒅𝒅𝒚 𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒅 | 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒇𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒃𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒋𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏.

i've been using this method in self care and therapy, and it has been working amazingly, so i've decided to implement it in my manifestation, with wonderful results

here's a guide for this method, i hope it's helpful; enjoy!!

➛ overview

➛ in this method, you have a buddy - a character you create for yourself. their personality can be whatever you want to be. you need to take care of your buddy - they cannot eat, drink, sleep, etc. they get all that from you. you need to eat well, sleep well, keep hydrated, etc.

➛ for manifestation, you need to take care of your buddy too! you need to keep your mindset right, not falter, and help your buddy manifest, as they struggle with their mindset, self-concept, discipline and persisting

➛ how it works

➛ this method works by shifting the focus from yourself to your buddy, therefore making you feel the need to persist, while detaching you from your objects of manifestation at the same time. you project your needs and desires onto your buddy, making it easier for you to keep up with them and keep up the good work

➛ please note, this works on everything! self-care, new habits, manifesting, and anything else you can think of

➛ instructions

➛ step 1: this works best when your buddy has a body. using a doll or a stuffed animal is ideal, but any object you can take places with you is a-okay. if you can't carry your buddy places with you, you can always make them as a private character in character ai and text them through the day

➛ step 2: give your buddy a name. names carry immense power in personifying and bringing things to life. this will drive the point in for your brain that the buddy is a creature that you need to be taking care of and helping out

➛ step 3: go on ahead and manifest whatever you choose! take care of your buddy well and go about your life as normal. everything else will come naturally

DNI: terf/swerf, abdl/bdsm/nsfw blogs, pro-ed, anti-LGBTQ+/anti-MOGAI, pro-ship, pro-inc*st, anti-endo, (NO)MAP/PEAR/supporter, anti-agere, trump supporter, anti-feminist, anti-BLM/anti-ACAB, abrahamic religions (there's nothing wrong with this one, it's just a trigger for me), will add as i remember other nasty people

[iampowerhungry]

48HC Update!

Don't worry, I'll try keeping things short. So, following ahead from this post. I have managed to manifest all of them with the 3D having no choice but to catch up and reflect my 4D. Don't worry huns, I'll show off some pictures.

I swear to god, I really need to update those circles but they're already so pretty ugh.

Desired Appearance - I actually think I look a lot more like Kang Sujin and Seo Nari combined, my waist is snatched and my skin is clear fr fr. I gained weight as I intended and my stomach feels so tight, abs you know? I love having a toned body oh and bigger cherries, I have to buy some new bra size because the old ones don't fit anymore, fun.

Inhumane / Supernatural Beauty ability ( The biggest Glo - Up ) - Compliments, stares, people having a crush on me, and being everyone's crush.

Becoming the personification of 'The Art of Seduction'- Reading people became a lot easier, and persuading them too, I didn't even need to ask my dad twice to buy me Prada.

Desired weight - Coming close! My ideal weight is 57kg, and I have a bigger appetite.

Martial Arts Expert / Master / Peak Human Reflexes - My stamina is basically unlimited! No more leg pains after leg day.

Grades Revision ( Being highly respected as the top student ) - People always ask me when it comes down to the knowledge of everything, literally.

Enhanced soft skills ability, charisma, leadership, and empathy - I've always had it, and so many more people love me.

Being the Mysterious It Girl + Beauty & Brains - Not a surprise really, someone said reading me is basically like trying to read a new language entirely.

Trophies, Medallions, more gold medals. Specifically Olympics - a lot more competitions! I also won one of my competitions, first place!

SP ( Upcoming success story coming up that's for sure, and love - dovey love story behind that ) - Many of his friends like e, not sure how to take that but I'll take it and many of them ship us still haha. He's coming along soon, don't worry my doves.

Being able to manifest anything instantly through perfect sc (self-concept), literally, I already have perfect sc. - I literally got a smartwatch, Bakugo figurine, and a t-shirt I wanted by affirming once.

All my other notes app desires lmao - I'm very much indifferent to my sps or desired people, to be honest, I'm stuck with myself and I'm happy with that. I have a much closer relationship to my family and desired people.

Photographic Memory - Better memory! Still ongoing since I didn't focus on this too much, honestly I completely forgot about this.

Heal my Keratosis Pilaris ( Clear Perfect Skin) - It's basically clearing up!

That's all! I'm planning to do other challenges soon, I recommend doing this challenge, seriously, it's so good. And let's not forget a happy birthday to my beloved sister! @deusexmachinawitch, and a thank you to @zen-shu for creating this challenge. See you guys!

"Happy Birthday! @deusexmachinawitch"

[cussima]

✴︎ ˖°𐙚 the problem of having a perfect self-concept (& every loa person gets there)˖°𓇼

OKAY this is just a by-product of working on your self concept, but have you noticed that when you're trying to consume media you find yourself not relating to characters with low self concept? and if that's the main character, then it really takes you out of the experience of the show or book or if a fic/scenario comes up on my feed and "the reader" (which would technically be me) has a low self concept then it's impossible for me to read it examples: "you wanted to date them but you didn't want your heart broken" that would literally never happen "you're afraid they might not like you" ?? what are you talking about "he bullies you/calls you bad names" DISRESPECT?? ME?? that's not a way to show love, no one would ever i understand not everything is written for me, but it also makes me sad that's a thought people will have 😭 like wdym your c.c wouldn't like you they'd literally die for you and find a way to come back to life just to be with you, be sooo forreal

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[self-confidenceinfluencer]

Self-Love: A Deeper Connection To You!

Photos by Jennifer Jones via UpwardTips.com Learning to love yourself changes your relationship with everyone.  — Bryant McGill One of the greatest feelings in the world is to feel the joy of knowing that you love yourself. There is an inner peace that you feel no matter what the other circumstances are in your life. Loving yourself is connecting to your deep true authentic best self that’s…

[aena-blue]

Manifestation - Check Your Beliefs - When Putting Yourself On The Pedestal Backfires!?

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we will be talking about what I believe is to be a very important topic, and that is: to check your beliefs! You have to remember that everyone is you pushed out (EIYPO), and that everyone will reflect your beliefs. What’s great about this is that you can recognise the beliefs you have by how other people is showing up and treating you.

The reason I wanted to make this post is because I recently ran across an ‘issue’ where after I changed my self-concept (my beliefs about myself) it ended up having an unintended ‘negative’ effect on my Specific Person (SP) and I thought writing this post might help give a different perspective on this topic.

So like many of you I am currently manifesting an SP. Listening to a lot of different coaches on YouTube and reading content online, I adopted the idea of taking my SP of the so called ‘pedestal’ and placing myself on top of there. Now I am not saying this is a bad thing in itself, but it did cause something to happen that I did not account for.

So like many of you, my SP has shown up in my 3D experience in a, lets just say, less desirable way. So when I did my self-concept work, and I started seeing myself as this amazing beautiful person, worthy and deserving of all that I desire, I put myself higher and higher on that pedestal, but consequentially, I put my SP far far down below me.

Based on my previous experience with my SP, I started seeing him as someone who wasn’t worthy and deserving of me, how could he be, he had treated me badly and I was now seeing myself as this amazing person worthy of all the best. Problem is of course, that this assumption was based on how he was showing up in the past, not how I wanted him to show up now.

Have you been in this situation? Are you currently in it? By holding these thoughts, I was also holding my SP in the old version of himself. But also, he now started to reflect these beliefs to me.

In a drunken moment of honesty, my SP told me he didn’t deserve me, that I was too good for him, and he admitted to treating me poorly in the past. (And this happened a second time just a few weeks ago). On one hand, I was happy that he was recognising me as the person I believed myself to be now, but on the other, I was saddened by his confession. Of course I realise that I created that, through my own assumptions. 

It made me realise that I had not gone about changing the story in the right way, sure, I had changed my part positively, but unfortunately, I changed his part in a very negative way. He now told me I should leave him, stop wasting my time on him. He told me he would never be able to let me go, so he wanted me to walk away, to do what he could not do. It was heartbreaking.

I spent some time thinking, and meditating on what had transpired after it happened for a second time. This was after he came back after dumping me for someone else about a month ago (you can read all about that in my latest post!).

I will admit, there was a part of me that wanted him to worship me, to see me as someone above him, does that sound horrible? But I realise, I had only created another issue, and that I was keeping my SP in a story where he felt inadequate, and scared.

My original intent was of course for SP to change, to grow, to evolve, to become the version of him that is worthy of the new version of me. But in order to do that, I need to see him as that version now. For it is already done. I can no longer acknowledge the old story, the unworthy version of him based on his previous actions, (because those were of course also my creation).

I still listen to my affirmations I have created that incorporate my self-concept and the relationship I desire to experience, but I have added one new thing and that is “SP is worthy and deserving of my love”, and when I say it in my mind, I feel it, and I send him so much love.

I’ll admit, I was scared to change him to a better version of himself, because I was scared that the better version of him, would easily be able to find someone else whereas the ‘current’ (old) version of him has been struggling romantically for many years. But that is my fear and my insecurities talking. So I’m working on that. So I guess my point is, check your beliefs, check your fears, identify where the root cause, blockages and resistance lie, and then work on it.

I use a mix of affirmations, meditation and mindfulness practices to shift states, transform beliefs, and find peace and acceptance within myself. And I will accept that the best version of my SP still only loves, adores and only has eyes for me. 

I hope this post was helpful to you in some way and I wish you all the best on your manifestation journey!

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

~ Lady Blue 💙

[youareinbarbados]

Some thoughts

Though I don't tend to read much LoAs material outside of Neville and Robert Russell, I gotta say I've had a number of realizations since reading "Edward Artsupply hands'" post on Why "creation is finished" is the most integral point of understanding.

He goes on to talk about "versions" of one's self, and the past and future and how choices create alternative versions of self. He talks about how all that is necessary to manifest these versions is awareness of all of them being essentially the same "I Am".

I realized, after that, that the past is just the sum total of everything you've ever been away of being. The future is everything you see yourself as being, as time progresses. The past and future don't exist in the 4D. The past and future only exist when you incorporate the 3D into what you're conscious of being.

When you "shut the door to the outer senses" you focus solely on mind. Mind exists in the 4d. When focusing solely on your "I Am", you realize that there is no Time. Everything you've ever been or will be is NOW. Your thoughts of the future, in Mind, are NOW. The past ? NOW. mind doesn't recognize TIME. Mind, as well as everything IN it, IS. Time is a metric used to measure changes in the 3D. You cannot measure mind with Time. It's like trying to measure sound with a ruler. Mind is immeasurable by 3d Standards. Your thoughts are NOW. What we call the past and the future are both conceptions of ourselves relative to the 3D. But what if we don't defer to the 3D for our self-concept? You'll then realize that you ARE everything you've ever been or will be. At this realization the desire to "create" anything should vanish, as you realize that conceiving anything is to instantly make it so. He states;

"When we dwell on a past mistake, we are essentially becoming Re-Aware of Being that Version in the Now"

This is what happens when you bring the relativity of the 3d INTO the 4d. This is essentially letting the 3D dictate your 4D condition, which is literally the reverse of how all this works. Because if your past exists NOW, and the perceived "NOW" also exists NOW, then the past is merely a condition your placing on yourself in the "present" which DIRECTLY AFFECTS your CURRENT conception of yourself. Your CURRENT perception of the past works in tandem with your CURRENT perception of yourself in the present moment which then directly affects the perceived "future". See how that works ? This is all 3d Shit that we've INSERTED into the 4D mechanism, thus giving us exactly what we've put in. This is why it's said, "JUDGE NOT BY APPEARANCE".

APPEARANCE = LITERALLY THE 3D

This is why the 4D is called the only true reality. Everything you've ever wanted and will ever want is NOW. This is why it's so important to have the best self-concept possible, and why your self concept is truly independent of the 3d, XD unless you MAKE it dependent.

If there is something you want, and you conceive a thought of yourself having that thing that you want, and you can feel the state that that produces, "It is done." When you see that your thoughts of yourself are literally manifestations in themselves, you will put far less importance on the 3D.

We get what we desire as soon as we remove the 3D from what dictates our self-concept, and replace it with the 4D. This is what is meant by "Circumstances don't matter." We have only what our self-concept is. Our self-concept exists in the 4D and is truly independent of the 3D. The 3D is nothing but a mirror that can only show us what we ARE.

When you think about yourself, your mind says "I AM-"..... REGARDLESS OF WHETHER IT'S IN THE PAST, PRESENT, OR FUTURE.

Self-concept/ "I Am" = 4D

Past/Present/Future = 3D

Thoughts of:

The past = "I AM - someone who WAS"

The present = "I AM - someone who IS"

The future = "I AM - someone who WILL BE"

AT EVERY POINT IN TIME, "YOU ARE". REMEMBER THAT SH*T.

A desire is a state that wants to be expressed. But if you can't conceive of yourself as expressing that state, you will always just be in a state of desire. This is why you have to enter the state of the "wish fulfilled" NOW. Every conception of self comes with a state. This is why Neville asks you; "How would it FEEL ?"

HE'S ASKING YOU WHAT YOUR STATE WOULD BE

"FEELING" = THE STATE

You literally are the only one on the planet who would know what your state would be if you had what you wanted, because it's all NOW/YOU.

P.S. : There was a guy on the subreddit who talked about how he lent his friend some money that the friend had never paid back. I referenced this in a previous post I made. All the things we have and all the things we are, are tied to our self-concept. His conception of himself was someone who had money, even though it wasn't with him in the 3D. His friend then paid him back out of nowhere. The things that you have, and the things that you are in your self-concept, cannot be separated from you. It doesn't matter if his friend or his money was in space somewhere, his concept of self was someone who still had money, in spite of it being separated from himself physically. Even if he told himself that it's ok if the friend didn't pay him back... his self concept still included the money that he lent out. His concept of self didn't depend on the 3D to be what it was. His money not being with him was merely an appearance. (3D)

Judge not by appearance.

[feminiel]

Wednesday, 17 July, 2024

I think affirmations work if someone is already confident in themselves, knows how they are built, and knows how to believe in themselves so they can add/adjust more self-belief within them. They know how to make it work for themselves. But for someone who is working on self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence, and changing their self-concept, it can be harder to just affirm something that you don’t understand and don’t feel the essence of. Personally, I have never worked with affirmations that much, it doesn’t work for me. I have tried, and I’ve learned that it’s hard to affirm something when we don’t feel it in our heart and soul first. It’s hard when our beliefs and how we see ourselves don’t match an affirmation. I am able to affirm when I truly understand the why of that affirmation and where it comes from. I am able to believe in my affirmations when I transform the beliefs that were preventing me from thinking better of myself. Transformation has to be done not only in the mind but in the heart as well. Your beliefs come from your heart, so do how you affirm yourself. Affirmations of the self are best when they get their power from the love that resides within you. ~ @feminiel

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[stvrlightt07]

♡Sammy Affirmations♡︎

• I’m a master at manifesting

• I fully understand manifesting

• I’ve always manifested very easily

• I’m so good at manifesting

• I literally get everything that I want

• Manifesting works for me every single time

• Everything that I do works

• No matter what technique/method I choose to use it will work

• Everything works out in my favor

• Everything always works out for me

• My manifestation can’t be ruined

• Every time I breath I get my manifestation/desires/what ever I want

• I’m very good at manifesting

• I literally get everything single thing I want

• I literally cannot fail at this

• I get everything single thing I want

• Everything I do works for me

• Manifesting works for me

• I manifest everything so fast

• I manifest very quickly and easliy

• Manifesting is so easy and fun

• I don’t need techniques/methods

• I’ve always been able to manifest really fast

• I’ve always been able to manifest anything I want

• I’ve always been really good at manifesting

• I’ve always been a master at manifesting

• I’ve always understood manifesting

• I’ve completely mastered manifesting

• I know exactly what to do and I always do it right

• I’ve always gotten everything I wanted

• Everything work for me

• I manifest easily and effortlessly

I recommend picking 2-3 of these affirmations and then looping them over and over and over

You don’t have to affirm all day but take 10 to 15 minutes 2-3 times everyday (with one of those times being shut out from the rest of the world, sitting quietly, maybe with your eyes close and some deep breaths) to repeat and repeat and repeat

You can pretend that you’re telling someone. Maybe your best friend, maybe you mom. Doesn’t matter.

[sanctiphera]

At some point, influencers realize the hustle is pointless.

This whole influencer thing is so much smoke and mirrors and inflated egos that I believe 90% think a big payout is just around the corner, and they will continue doing whatever it is they do.

But if that influencer is smart, and realizes that the game is rigged against them, they start looking for an exit strategy/golden parachute.

Here’s a great video on the problem influencers face: 

[iampowerhungry]

48HC.

So, this is me being completely honest, I already did the challenge but I'm going to revise it again. Why, you may ask, I did leg day too much and could barely walk for two days, in other words, I overworked myself and I needed some time for inner - silence, and healing. Anyways, this is the challenge created by the amazing @zen-shu, love your persistence.

Desired Appearance ( Toned body, goddamn I want Chun - Li's leg powers, pictures down below. ) Look like a combination of Seo Nari ( Do not look her up, if you're a minor, I only know her from Pinterest. I repeat, do not look her up.) + Kang Sujin + Succabuz + DF.

Inhumane / Supernatural Beauty ability ( The biggest Glo - Up ).

Becoming the personification of 'The Art of Seduction'.

Desired weight.

Martial Arts Expert / Master / Peak Human Reflexes

Grades Revision ( Being highly respected as the top student )

Enhanced soft skills ability, charisma, leadership, and empathy.

Being the Mysterious It Girl + Beauty & Brains

Trophies, Medallions, more gold medals. Specifically Olympics.

SP ( Upcoming success story coming up that's for sure, and love - dovey love story behind that ).

Being able to manifest anything instantly through perfect sc (self-concept), literally, I already have perfect sc.

All my other notes app desires lmao.

Photographic Memory.

Heal my Keratosis Pilaris ( Clear Perfect Skin)

Look, I'm just saying I'm not a lazy person before I say that my routine consists of indefinite timings, I'm just efficient in my ways of LITE and Staying In The Wish Fulfilled which has worked for me well all this time. I do things when necessary, and take what I have for granted because I always get more whenever I want, that's the case for materialistic things, not people. Know better. Be grateful, but never settle for less. These are my daily habits.

LITE ( Living In The End, 4D is reality 3D conforms as a reflection, yada". )

Subliminals - I have so many playlists and I listen to them daily, at this point it's just for fun even though I already have everything.

Mental Diet - I love mental diets, I really do. Shoutout to solar subs for introducing me to that concept, many - many years ago, I think.

ROE * Affirmations (Duh).

The routine is literally just what, wake up affirm, visualize, go on my day LITE, that's it.

Okay fine, I'll add some affirmations journaling or scripting there.

Regardless Of Everything, I always get my desires before 48 hours.

Regardless Of Everything, I am a master manifestor.

Regardless OF Everything, I already have all my desired things

Etc etc, ROE * the goals = the formula to everything.

Don't worry beloveds, I'll keep you all updated.

[pinkpillprincess]

Hot girls don't gatekeep: what are your beauty secrets? (spoiler it’s all in the mindset)

want to be so beautiful that your beauty transcends all beauty standards? don’t worry, I got you!

its actually way more simpler than you think, you don’t need a 10 step skincare routine or a new haircut, you just need to change the way you speak to yourself. if you want to exude beauty you must also make your thoughts kind, nurturing and beautiful. speak to yourself as if you’re speaking to someone so very dear to you. say goodbye to things which are not in your favour, tell your friends to stop making self deprecating jokes, or stop hanging out with people who have no intention to change the way they speak about themselves. 

affirm your beauty, look in the mirror and compliment yourself, even if it makes you cringe. listen to music which makes you feel good about yourself and uplifts you. if you’re unsure about what affirmations to say, go into a comment section of someone like Adriana lima and turn the compliments into affirmations. 

add the ritual of saying affirmations into your routine, for example, first thing in the morning and then the last thing before bed. once you change the way you speak to yourself, so will others. everyone is a reflection of you, so start now!!!!! 

©PinkPillPrincess

[bunnyamyrose]

✨“want” =|= “lack”✨

“want” is NOT synonymous with “lack”. if I have something, that does not mean that I then no longer want it. if I want what I have, then I would keep it. and having/keeping what I want is a *blessing*, not “lack”. if I want to manifest something that I might not yet have in this physical dimension, that does not mean that wanting that thing or wanting to manifest something means a “mentality of lack”. I am allowed to want things and to want to manifest things, and I already have my true desires spiritually.

[puselles1111]

I posted a new self-concept sub for my lovely peeps <3