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Saturday, 21 December, 2024

There is a lot of regret, shame, and sorrow when you act in ways that don’t reflect your true self, because you're acting outside of your values and principles. You are disconnected from your sense of self, which leads you to behave in ways that confuse you. I feel sad when I think about how I didn't know how to protect myself in the past—from situations, from people, and from my own lack of awareness as a result. What’s worse is when, sometimes, people judge you by your past, rather than seeing who you are in the present moment. They lack the understanding and discernment to truly see you as a whole person. Some people focus on your past mistakes instead of recognizing the good in you. Moreover, some mistakes and behaviors are far more complex than what meet the eyes. Your mistakes have to make sense only to you and only you. The validation of others is a waste of time when you know that you are the only one who can truly understand yourself. Your past mistakes don't define who you are—they are stepping stones to learning, growing, and becoming more of yourself. They are what is helping you realizing yourself. They refine you. ~ @feminiel

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Friday, 20 December, 2024

Personally, my definition of being the best version of myself is about connecting, embracing and living in alignment with my values and higher self. ~ @feminiel

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Tuesday, 17 December, 2024

Your commitment to yourself is the most important commitment you will make in your life. When you truly commit to yourself, you become committed to everything that is truly important to you, no matter what. I am committed to healing my heart, growing more love within me, and becoming the best version of myself. When you do so, you begin to notice what is truly worth your time and energy. Your focus and attention are directed only toward what gives meaning and value to your life. Your sense of self-worth increases. ~ @feminiel

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Projecting our shadows can occur when we judge others the way we judge ourselves. We see in others what we believe. Our self-belief can greatly influence how we perceive others. Similarly, we can also project our light — we love others the way we love ourselves. The beliefs we hold about love influence how we see and love others. Consequently, when we grow with higher perspectives of love, it becomes a gift not only for ourselves but also for the people we come into contact with. ~ @feminiel

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Sunday, 15 December, 2024

Our limiting beliefs can be shaped by the implicit messages we receive in childhood. They are hard to recognize because, as children, we interpret what is happening to us as the truth, and we don't see where the harm lies or what it truly means. We are not mature enough to see the clarity in what is being shown or said to us. Even when something is said explicitly, there may be an implicit message behind it that we don't yet understand.

Discerning, acknowledging, and understanding these implicit messages is a real challenge, as they are invisible and work behind the scenes. However, they can be felt, which is why healing our emotions and feelings is important in order to understand the hidden aspects of how something has shaped our self-concept and self-image. We are not aware of these messages, and they are out of reach, until we do deep inner work on our childhood wounds.

It's unbelievable what I discover when I do emotional healing. These messages lie deep in our subconscious, and they have controlled the choices and decisions I have made in the past—my life. They shape how you navigate your journey and view yourself.

When you acknowledge and rebuild these implicit messages, you can free yourself from them and reconnect with your core self. It empowers you—you get to the source of your problems and understand your shortcomings in a new light, giving you the power to transform them. ~ @feminiel

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Thursday, 12 December, 2024

When we are not in touch with ourselves, we don't feel present. We don't feel connected. We are living life in automatic response instead of consciously making choices and decisions. We don't feel that we belong, and we feel distant from others. We feel distant from our own self. There's a lot of confusion happening, we feel lost, and any direction we are taking doesn't seem to be the right one. We live in doubt, and clarity doesn't seem to come through. ~ @feminiel

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If we want feminine energy to be acknowledged in the world, we need to start by acknowledging the feminine nature within us. Acknowledge her value and how she wants to be expressed through you.

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Wednesday, 11 December, 2024

Ok, but self-acknowledgement is at the core of everything and everything we are looking for. Personally, for me, I think it is.

Self-acknowledgement is what makes you aware of your existence, your presence, and the truth of who you are—the same way, it is how you truly can see others.

It’s the bridge that connects your inner world with the outer world, in the sense that when you acknowledge yourself, you are creating energy coming from your authentic self within in order to manifest it outward. It is at the heart of the manifestation process and realizing yourself. It builds connection with yourself, others, and the world.

Self-acknowledgement also acts as an internal mirror. While acknowledgement acts as an external mirror, seeing yourself through the reflection of others, self-acknowledgement is about building your own personal internal mirror that can reflect who you truly are, you see yourself through your own unique perception and understanding.

It means to possess within self-admiration and the ability to truly see yourself for the human and divine being that we are, with love and acceptance. You recognize your worth, your soul, your heart, your self, and your higher self—in short, your truth. It’s also important for discovering your life purpose. When you acknowledge and connect with your true being, you will be guided toward the direction of your life purpose. ~ @feminiel

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Taking accountability and responsibility for your mistakes will make you feel more empowered, more intelligent, more authentic, more loving, wiser, and brighter.

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Wednesday, 11 December, 2024

I don't like how, when I'm setting boundaries and guilt begins to arise, it weakens my clarity, discernment, and assertiveness—my intelligence—in the situation. Guilt is an emotion that makes me say or think in ways that prevent me from staying strong. I've noticed that when I can acknowledge the guilt in the moment, it lessens the intensity, compared to when I'm unaware of how it’s affecting how I function. However, I still need to build more protection and defense around it, or else it diminishes my ability to assert my boundaries firmly and think clearly. ~ @feminiel

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Feelings of abundance mean love, joy, clarity, emotional safety, self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, and every other feelings that support you in being your true self and accomplishing your life mission.

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Monday, 9 December, 2024

I think I finally understood another layer of why some spiritual teachings say to not have desires—that it’s the cause of suffering or that we need to detach from them and let them go.

I was feeling conflicted about the idea because the energy of desires is feminine energy, and I definitely feel it is good to have. I couldn’t understand why they see it as an unfavorable thing.

I think it’s because desires cause us to yearn and long for things. They shift your energy to feelings of not having or being something. They make you feel as if something is missing within you and in your life. They may cause you to feel feelings of lack instead of feelings of abundance.

Your desires are feelings that take power, energy, and are seeded first within your heart/in your core self. When you expect and wait for them to be fulfill and happened in the outside world, it can makes you feel disconnected from your core self as it makes you feel a sense of lack.

When you detach from your desires, you take your power back, and your attention is returned to you. You transform the energy of lack into an energy of abundance within yourself.

Your desires are feelings that come from you first. They are telling you who you truly are.

When you understand that what you are truly yearning and longing for is a reconnection with your core self, you stop looking for yourself outside of you. You begin to reconnect with a piece of you that you thought was missing all along. You realize that your desires are simply things your heart wants you to experience in order to be more of who you are.

It is good to have desires, but we need to not let them make us feel disconnected from ourselves just because they’re not in our life yet.

We can use the energy of our desires to call them to us as if they are already part of us (because they are), rather than yearning for them, which will keep us in a state of lack.

Detaching from your desires will make you feel free! It gives you more energy to truly reconnect with yourself, and your happiness will feel lighter as well. ~ @feminiel

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Sunday, 8 December, 2024

Being highly sensitive and intuitive is a gift that I am grateful to have. You feel deeply—life, people, feelings, energy—and it makes you live your life with an emotional depth that makes life richer in regard to your inner world and how you perceive things. One of my favorite feminine qualities that leaves me in awe most of the time, whether it comes from me or other people. But it also comes with perceiving things that are less fun to acknowledge. No matter what, you have to process and work through everything that is being shown to you, and it's hard because sometimes you don't want to. ~ @feminiel

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Wednesday, 4 December, 2024

The shadow self is not who you are, but you still need to accept it in order to be yourself and connect to your core. Your false sense of self is part of what is realizing your true being in the process of your evolution. While it isn't entirely you, it is still a part of you. The unconscious part of you—when integrated—becomes part of your conscious self that you now have to build in a way that is aligned with your real self. ~ @feminiel

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Tuesday, 3 December, 2024

The function of the heart is to perceive energy in a whole manner by sensing and feeling. It is through the heart that we learn to read the energy of emotions and feelings. It is with the heart that we process all the emotional energy we receive from both the outside and within. Its function is to discern what energy belongs to us and what belongs outside of us. The heart acts as an energetic filter!

The heart has an energetic responsibility to perceive through the lens of what makes you, you.

When you develop these abilities, you begin gaining more clarity and higher perspectives on yourself, others, and life. But what I’ve learned recently is that you need to believe that your emotions and feelings are valuable, necessary, and greatly important in order to believe in your sense of power. You need to believe that what is in your heart is of the utmost importance and essential—this is how it will help empower you.

Your feelings are directly linked to your heart, and therefore to how you are perceiving who you truly are. When you feel empowered emotionally, you develop the capacity to perceive clearly. You develop the power to embrace your true self, your authenticity. Your authenticity is your power, but to reclaim it, you need to believe in your emotions and feelings. By believing in them, you are believing in yourself, in your heart, in your power.

How many times have we felt the feelings of our heart being disregarded, dismissed, neglected, or not respected? When we feel that way within ourselves—that our feelings don't matter—it creates blocks in our heart. Consequently, it becomes a barrier to accessing the connection with our true self.

Our true self resides in our heart, and when we have emotional/heart blockages preventing us from perceiving wholly with our heart, it becomes difficult to understand our worth, discover ourselves, and access our sense of personal and spiritual power. ~ @feminiel

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Sunday, 1 December, 2024

I remember when I was going through my dark night of the soul, I didn’t feel able to connect with the Divine. It was hard to feel the Divine within myself as well. I felt disconnected from my prayers, and I felt like my Angels and the Divine were not present and not answering my prayers. I also couldn’t read about spirituality as much as I used to. My soul and heart were out of touch with the Divine energy I usually feel and connect with. It was the worst feelings I had ever experienced. The deep pain and dark feelings I was experiencing were unbearable, and I intuitively felt compelled to make imperative changes to stop them. I didn’t know what to do or where to start, but I knew that changes had to be made for me to begin feeling better. ~ @feminiel

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Saturday, 30 November, 2024

I think what can be challenging when attempting and doing shadow work is identifying the shadow self as being us. We think that the shadow self carries our name, age, nationality, or other form of identification tagged on it. This perception makes the process harder, as we feel resistance when trying to access the unconscious, darker parts of ourselves that we deny or judge as unacceptable.

We live by wanting to project an acceptable and loving image of our identity, which can make it uncomfortable when we think that our identity is our shadow self.

What is helpful is seeing your shadow self as an entity within you that has no solid self. It's a false self, a lost self. What I’m trying to say is that it helps to completely and fully detach your sense of identity from it. It is not you.

Your shadow self is formed from a false sense of who you are. It consists of the things that don't align with your highest values—therefore, they can't be you.

When you are authentically you, you are living consciously in harmony with your core values. However, the shadow self doesn't live that way. It lives in fear and out of alignment with who you truly are.

Your values can only be truly expressed in the light of your being, not in the shadow of your being. Your shadow self is not your identity—it is the dark energy (unseen and unconscious energy) within you that is trying to help you with the highest evolution of your being.

Plus, your true identity lies in the spiritual realm, beyond the ego, hence beyond your shadow self. I even believe that the higher self chose to construct our shadow self in a purposeful way so it can help us find who we truly are. ~ @feminiel