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One of the most healing actions you could do is to hold with reverence the vulnerability of someone else as it is.

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Part of standing in your power fully is about trusting yourself to make you feel safe when some insecurities may arise due to internal or external conflicts.

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Reading helps me validate myself like no one else would be able to. Self-validation through reading helps me develop self-trust.

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Friday, 4 April, 2025

Why do I call my journey a spiritual, healing and heroine one?

Spiritual journey: On the path to find and connecting with my higher purpose. Using my intuition and wisdom to navigate my life. Connecting with my Higher Self, Spiritual team, and Divine energy to receive help and to be guided. I value spirituality in my belief system and perspectives. Love and soul-oriented. Dark night of the soul and spiritual awakening process. Discovery of my True Self.

Healing journey: Working on healing my emotions, psychology, energy, mind, and body. Doing lots of inner work; shadow work, inner child work, self-love work, energy work. Uncovering limiting beliefs, blockages, wounds, and the unconscious part of myself in order to shine a light, heal, release, and transform them. Resolving inner conflicts to find peace and freedom within.

Heroine journey: A path of reconnecting to your authentic self. Being disconnected from our feminine energy and therefore from ourselves, with courage, we face inner and outer challenges to embrace who we truly are. Integration of both the feminine and masculine energy within to find balance and wholeness.

I separated the three of them, but they really intertwined with each other. At the core of all three, it's a journey of reconnection with your true self, self-discovery, transformation, healing, authenticity, love, purpose, balance, empowerment and awakening. ~ @feminiel

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Talking to someone who feels like peace is a blessing.

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Wednesday, 2 April, 2025

You will pass your insecurities and wounds to others if you don't do the work. I'm in a place that is no longer tolerable for me to connect with someone who has a shadow self unchecked. When someone presents themselves in that state to me, I know and I can feel it. Their projection is on me, and that's my sign to distance myself from them, cut them off completely, or speak a piece of my truth if it feels right. ~ @feminiel

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The feminine urge to be love and be loved.

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Feeling confident in your feminine nature is about believing that your true nature is love, spiritual, and lovable—from the Divine itself.

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Wednesday, 2 April, 2025

Interesting fact that I learned recently: pink was considered a masculine color in the past. Society made the color pink as being feminine. Men were wearing pink as a normality!

Maybe that would explain why I never felt drawn to the color pink that much and why wearing it feels a bit off. Not that it can't look good on me, but I never felt feminine by wearing pink.

I feel validated and affirmed after learning this. ~ @feminiel

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Monday, 31 March, 2025

No energy to be nice (or too nice) or appear "good person" to others. I'm focusing on my dark feminine energy more. I need those boundaries to be met. I need to energetically command respect. I need to let people know that they can't cross that line. I want to embody so much of that energy that people will feel my dark feminine energy vibe without me having to speak that much. I'm so tired of being nice (or too nice). I am naturally nice, but I'm tired. Time to embody more of my dark feminine energy. I've noticed that just by focusing more on this energy is enough to start shifting things. Expressing this energy, and showing as her.

What I mean by “no energy to be nice” is about not giving away my light energy that easily. It doesn’t mean starting to be mean intentionally and without reasons. I just noticed that sometimes being nice makes people think they can cross the line and that makes me tired when they do just because I was nice. It’s true that I want to move with more dark feminine energy (which means withholding my energy, not giving people access to it, setting more boundaries when needed, and doing my best to speak up), but I’ve noticed that people will react better if I use my light feminine energy as well. The key is the blend of dark and light feminine energy together. It’s about balance! Balance brings better results. ~ @feminiel

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Sunday, 30 March, 2025

I've realized yesterday that the core of my spiritual depression (my dark night of the soul) was about not feeling/believing that I am enough and that I am good enough. These were the big triggers at the heart of the matter.

This is heavy stuff... I'm sure there are a lot of people who feel the same way that I do, but because of my sensitivity level, I went into a dark night of the soul. I really wonder how these people are living when they feel that way about themselves. It must be really hard. It was for me.

Personally, these limiting beliefs have stopped me and put my life on pause, and I couldn't pursue anything that is truly meaningful and aligned with who I am. I needed time to heal, to discover myself, to grow, and to find out what truly matters to me, and I am still in the process of all those things. ~ @feminiel

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It takes lots of compassion to dissolve judgments and self-judgments. Compassion is a high form of intelligence.

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Ideally, we want someone who is compatible with the level of consciousness that we are at. If they can't meet you where you are, you let them go and find someone else who is more aligned with your level of maturity. If they can't follow you where you are going, you will need to leave them behind.

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Saturday, 29 March, 2025

When we don't own ourselves, it's because someone has taken from us what belongs to us in the first place. It could be by someone not allowing us to feel emotions. It could be when someone is not letting us decide and choose what we truly want. It could be someone who is telling us what to believe or to think. It may be someone who is choosing for us what we need, what we should like, or what we should desire. Someone could be leading us on a path that doesn't belong to us. In short, these are all things that we are born to have control over by ourselves. Things that are our full right to have power on without someone else interfering. ~ @feminiel

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Protect your energy.

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It's when you embrace yourself that you realized you belong to something larger.

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Tuesday, 25 March, 2025

Learning about someone’s story can be so fascinating. How their struggles make them who they are, and you can feel/see the element of destiny/fate being at play in their life. The way they inspired you is everything. I love learning how their challenges, growth, and path unfolded for them. Learning about people's purpose in life is truly interesting. ~ @feminiel