#STOP BEING DUMB

[henrioo]

I'm the only guy who uses masculine pronouns who gets really pissed off when he reads a fanfic and it says GENDER NEUTRAL, so when you read it you simply find what

"Girlfriend" "My girl" "My woman" "Mama"

Like, bitch doesn't matter if you're using a neutral pronoun, the moment you use a feminine pronoun stop being a gender-neutral reader

But I think this only gets worse in smut fanfics

The person goes there and puts GENDER NEUTRAL AFAB READER

So if you're a person with afab who isn't cis, wow, a fanfic with my genitals but neutral pronouns so I don't have dysphoria or feel uncomfortable!

And guess what? Again you will find it there

"good girl" "my girl" "my woman" "my girlfriend" and blah blah

Look man, let's be honest, do you want to write solely for female and Afab readers? Okay, it's your right! You can do this completely at will and with a clear conscience

But for god's sake! DON'T PUT ON THAT YOU'RE A FUCKING GENDER NEUTRAL READER IF YOU'RE GOING TO EVENTUALLY USE FEMALE PRONOUNS

THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS, IF YOU WANT TO USE FEMALE PRONOUNS JUST SAY IT'S A FUCKING FEM READER, IT WILL SAVE US READERS WITH MALE OR NEUTRAL PRONOUNS FROM READING THIS

That's it, my outburst of personal hatred and at the same time an extra determination to write more male reader

Because besides having a lot of fem content, it seems that the creators who try to make it gender neutral are too stupid to understand how gender and neutral pronouns work

Just say it's a FEM reader, you're not gonna die if you do this asshole

[ericsnaturalerection]

i am sick and tired of

people thinking calvin gabriel (zero day or not,) does self harm.

(do not cancel me or call me cringe for this)

only evidence people who say he does is the smiley face, in which, is CLEARLY with marker or something. sure, i get it, you headcanon or portray for a cope or whatever or just because other people go with it

but its truly obnoxious, and nobody has EVER spoken up on it, thats why im here

if i see ONE MORE drawing of cal with slit arms im gonna TWEAK.

yeahhh totally self harm not a rubbed off marker drawing

[lighthouseshepard]

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[am3ya]

also PLEASE for the love of all that is holy if you are talking about statistics PLEASE DEAR LORD PUT INTO CONSIDERATION GROUP SIZES.

statistics on a basic level don't usually show If one group is SIGNIFICANTLY smaller than another. it just shows how MUCH in a group, in smaller groups it'll look like there is MORE and in BIGGER groups it'll look like there is LESS.

GOODDAY.

[laurastacey]

I feel like I have to say this way too much: STOP DOING DUMP AND CHASE WITH THE GOALIE PULLED!

[orsomethingsys-is-here]

Hey guys can content creators stop doing dumb shit and getting themselves fucked over thanks <3

[hazedxhealing]

Eat shit ablest cunt.

Ah, yes, ableism is when you don’t let people fake life altering, debilitating,  mental illnesses /s

[error404vnotfound]

this is so dumb

[abra-ka-dammit]

Explaining to customers that their home printers cant print full bleed and thats why their flyer doesnt go all the way to the edges and has a white border when they try to print it themselves is like trying to teach greek to a frog on god

[bumblebeebats]

As much as i love Dungeon Meshi, i do think that given Ryoko Kui's attention to realistic worldbuilding there ought to be a companion series called Dishes Meshi where they spend 2hrs washing and drying and packing away. Alll the goddamnfuck dishes they just made

[matd0]

HELLO HELOO i am. alive. ermm. ok so long story short i am very very tired and unable to do like. anything. :P oof.

here's a toby drawing i completely forgot??? that i did??? like months ago??? found it in my files while looking for any drawings I've actually finished recently and im pretty happy with it so I'm posting it here :''3

honestly i just haven't been happy with anything i've been drawing so only stuff i've done are studies because i want to improve but idk. i feel really self critical. yk how it is being an artist, never feeling happy with your skill level :p i'm working on it though, got pretty into traditional painting for a change? idk i'm trying new stuff to find inspiration. hopefully more art SOON (for sure this time) (idk if i can promise that)

okok health update:

been very very stressed out, basically. got bad again, getting better again?¿? got more help though, so i should be getting therapy maaaybe and help getting back into school, not sure, trying to make something work out. not looking at my phone has been helping

in other news; fall is awesome, love halloween !! birthday is coming up aswell, which is pretty cool 👍👍👍 been hanging out with friends again, which is very nice too. uuuhhhhh the silent hill 2 remake finally came out!!! and it's actually good!!! like really good!!! life has meaning again!!!!

TLDR: I am so very tired. but it will get better, for sure !! just need more time? maybe? in any case, i will be back to post more whenever i am able to. thank you for enjoying my art, it does mean the world to me.

[lilislegacy]

when i say percy is one of the only people in the world who will stand up to annabeth or call her wrong, i do NOT mean she’s a horrible person and he calls her out for being one. allow me to write a long incorrect quote scene to show you what i actually mean:

*in some battle, post-heroes of olympus*

annabeth, fiercely in control and leaning over a large map: okay, here’s what’s gonna happen, everyone. we are going to evenly distribute our forces and deploy them in successive waves. we must avoid further division to ensure that each wave remains strong and concentrated on the central target. we are going to systematically weaken their core. once their primary fleet becomes depleted, we will expand our focus to engage secondary targets. we will defeat brute force by gradually eroding their strength over the course of several hours. anyone got a problem with that plan?

everyone in the strategy tent, including the smartest children of mars and athena:

annabeth: that’s what i thought. okay so-

percy: actually, i do

*everyone’s eyes widen in surprise*

annabeth, raising her eyebrows: what do you mean?

everyone: *backing away slowly in fear of her wrath*

percy: i get what you’re saying, and usually you’d be exactly right. but i know these guys better than you do, wise girl. i’ve actually been here and fought a couple of them before. yes, they are insanely physically strong creatures, but you’re overestimating their intelligence and positioning. if we do what you’re saying, they’ll just pick us off little by little. we need to be quick and dirty. force their hand

annabeth, pinching the bridge of her nose: percy, you’re talking about a full frontal assault on their strongest point. that’s reckless. we’ll be outnumbered and overwhelmed.

percy, stepping closer to the map and pointing to the terrain: not if we use their terrain, which i personally know. if we concentrate our forces here and here, we can create the illusion of a weaker center. they’re crazy strong, but much more arrogant than you’re assuming. so knowing them, they’ll all focus on our main assault, assume they have us outnumbered, and put all their energy into trying to punch through. but if we’ve got our best fighters hidden in the valleys, instead of holding back, we can hit them from both sides once they commit

annabeth, her brow furrowing as she considers percy’s plan: we’d be baiting them into a trap. they’d think they’re winning, but the second they overextend, we surround them. they won’t see it coming because of the way their ranks are arranged.

percy: exactly

annabeth: it’s based off the assumption of their own tactical shortcomings, but… it’s brilliant. come here and show me all the pathways, and i’ll plan for the side attacks. do you have any advice there?

percy: nope, i need you for that part

*them working seamlessly together as everyone else stands around in shock*

[hazedxhealing]

As someone who frequents FDC, lemme just shed some light on it, yeah?

FDC exposes people faking disorders, it’s in the name r/fakedisordercringe, fake being the keyword here. 

I’ve browsed FDC for a few years, and I haven’t seen anyone who is genuinely diagnosed posted - especially since it’s against their rules. 

FDC acknowledges the struggle of figuring shit out and getting diagnosed - that being said these kids saying they have disorders that are 1) impossible to diagnose at a young age, and 2) are cute, quirky and trendy right now is more of a problem than FDC fucking existing. 

If not the children, the adults - who know better - saying they are “so bipolar”, “so OCD”, etc. That they have 10k DreamSMP alters, giving BPD a worse rep. 

FDC isn’t the problem. People who are faking very serious and debilitating mental health disorders for shits and giggles or sympathy are the problem.

They will continue to call em out, until they stop. Get bent, and die mad.

Edit: this is not to say what they are doing is okay, or correct. It is still ableist, but you can't be mad about that when the people they post make seriously debilitating disorders look like a joke.

Reminder: Subreddits like FakeDisorderCringe are anti-system. There's never going to be any system, to them, that isn't faking. No matter what that system says or does. They're never gonna believe any system.

[hajihiko]

💕

[jewishdainix]

HEY STOP BEING MEAN

[hazedxhealing]

If you were wrong, then you were wrong. You were never a system. You never had headmates. You were just pretending the whole time.

You can't have it both ways. You can be a former system whose headmates are all dormant or fused. Or you can be a singlet who was confused and never had any headmates.

But you can't claim to be both.

I don’t know where the disconnect in this conversation is when I’ve explained and explicitly said I was SURE that I had DID until I was proven wrong. I was so sure that I was seeking evaluation and diagnosis, until I came to the conclusion otherwise.

Faking/pretending and being making a mistake/being wrong aren’t synonymous. I was not consciously faking, I was consciously trying to figure out what was wrong with me and why I had the symptoms I was experiencing. That is the difference, and to try to flip it isn’t something it’s not is inane and irrelevant.

Either block me, or cope and stop sending asks, saying the same things worded differently, when I’ve given more than enough explanation.

I’m not stopping, deal with it.