#Queer Platonic Partner

[qprconcepts]

writer qpp x artist qpp

me and my qpp <3

[nonconformityhub]

Aroace Experiences We Don't Talk About Enough (Infographic)

(If you're interested in a blog where aspecs can talk about experiences like this, I've since made an aspec venting space!)

Icon Credits: hands with hearts - @blackholemojis face holding flag - @sammywammyclone paw - @paw-pride hug - @eldritch-emojis gem - @genderdoomed

Some @'s for reach: @our-aroace-experience @gray-ace-space @aroaceculture @acespec-ed @acexualien @cordwaner @asexualadvice @aromantic-diaries @aroacespecsafeplace @arospec-daybook

[confused-canid]

Allo peeps need to understand being aromantic isn't just "Ewww, romance". It's "I will follow you to the ends of the Earth and beyond, regardless of where that would lead me." Platonically, of course."

(But please keep in mind that for some it IS "Ewww, romance" And they don't need to be treated like they're not a part of this community, btw. This is an objective fact, btw. Aros are awesome, btw)

(This post is about QPRs and my experiences being aro, I just wanted to make a silly little post about that, aplatonics are valid and real this post was about me and maybe for people who relate)

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

hey pspsps anyone have any tips on asking a friend to be your qpp... without being awkward... i dont know how i am a silly .......

[clunkyrobogirl2000]

Life is too short; flirt with your besties, talk kinks with them, get too intimate with them platonically share porn, jerk off to your besties, be the porn for your bestie, you’re each others favourite pornstar, cum for them, get overwhelmed and flustered and burn platonic boundaries and fall in love in a different kind of way. Jerk off to them cause they’re handsome.

[raynewhispering]

There is a certain feeling of longing. Not sexual, not romantic, not specifically about anyone. Just a painful longing that has been destroying me. I want someone to cuddle. I want to have someone to call stupid pet names. I want someone who I can feel safe and vulnerable with. But, nobody knows what it is. Nobody who I have ever met has wanted to be my queer platonic partner, and I don't feel like this melancholy feeling will ever stop. I feel like I will never meet someone who wants to sit with me and play with my hair. This might sound stupid to others not experiencing this melancholy feeling, but to me, this feels more hurtful and more heavy than any romantic or sexual longing, because it has a feeling of unattainability. The feeling feels very bittersweet for some reason. It almost feels like something is so simple, but you specifically will never experience it. But, it is also beautiful in many ways, hence being bittersweet. I am sorry to the random strangers who come across my account with this post; this is not my normal content. As for my community, sorry for the venting and ranting.

[bloggingboutburgers]

Welp, you may know what this pic means by now 🙈

My QPP/fiance is visiting me for the next 3 weeks so I'll be distracted for a bit more TwT I still hope to get back to drawing in the meantime, but wanted to notify just in case!

(On a side note, for people who supported my comic's Kickstarter and requested their signature on it too, that's when they'll be able to do it hehe èwé)

[boredlime]

“kind of dating” but not as in a situationship or talking stage but in that your relationship is unique to you and transcends the boundaries of being friends and being in a romantic relationship in a way that is much too complicated to explain to someone without discussing it for at least half an hour and we don’t have that kind of time because you were just casually asking who they are to me

[tommies-stinky-paws]

maaaaannn

i need someone that i can be like- yeah they're my partner/mate and i love them but i love them like a friend and were just best friends who're committed for life and live together and do silly couple things and celebrate valentines together but as friends

i want a forever friend to call mine who i can stick by for the rest of my life and rely on and hold close and love unconditionally but just as a friend nothing more and no more expectations than what comes with typical friendship

yk?

...

and also ouppy, i need someone wholl treat me ouppy without hesitation :3

and is maybe also creature

[comicfizz]

hello errink nation

[qprconcepts]

qpps who call each other best friends

<3

[haventacluewhatimdoing]

Sorry for queer-platonifying your ship. It will happen again

[lgbtq-userboxes]

Requested by sylvayex

[qpr-culture-is]

qpr culture is this:

(not quite sure if I should tag them on this or not seeing I got the photo off Pinterest)

[arodescence]

I truly believe that Queer-Platonic Relationships should go without a set definition. QPR's exist on a spectrum and they look different for everyone. Some people want somethings but not others. Some QPR's closely resemble stereotypical "romantic" relationships while others don't and that should be okay. Pushing guidelines like "doesn't include sex", "more than friends", or "require a deep bond" etc. takes away from the purpose of QPR's in the first place, to exist outside the guidelines.

Obviously, QPR's can be sexless, QPP's may define their QPR as existing somewhere between romantic and platonic, and some people do prefer a deep bond before getting involved in a QPR, but to make that the standard defeats the point of having a term that means to have a relationship outside of the standard.

I think that might have made sense? I am not too sure I just saw posts talking about people pushing hard fast definitions as to what a QPR is and decided to spit out my opinions on it.

[clunkyrobogirl2000]

Reblog if you’d let your trans bestie dominate you 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵