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[hotch-girl]

HOW AM I A WHORE?

- AARON HOTCHNER, 2009

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Requested by sylvayex

[killjoyous]

”I find that the mundane things are what are most devastating.”

the most absurd thing about grief is waking up the next day

[hermeticamente]

se você ama alguém                                                                                          fale grite sussurre escreva pinte em um quadro cante uma canção ou só toque violão coloca uma faixa no céu ou no mar contrate uma banda ou aqueles carros bregas coloque no jornal ou no youtube esculpe em uma árvore                                                                                      crie uma melodia                                                                                                faça algumas poesias                                                                                  escreve no muro   faça o que tiver que fazer                                                                                  mas deixe ela saber que você a ama

[incorrectpot]

And also, one thought I had:

Holy shit, there’s three of them

[theydjarin]

[genderqueerdykes]

I sometimes feel "invalid" or that im invading lesbian spaces bc my lesbian/lesboy attraction is "only" queerplatonic/aesthetic and sensual, or that i should have "more" attraction in order to be an actual lesbian/lesboy or to relate to lesbian experiences/songs

(not to mention that im also sexually n romantically attracted to men, and im a nonbinary guy myself)

i notice so many people who feel the same way as you, so i'll address anyone with this type of queer imposter syndrome, and then especially lesbians and lesboys:

there is no way to be not queer enough, or even "too" queer. it's not a spectrum in terms of intensity. if you're queer, you're queer. a butch lesbian is not more queer than a femme lesbian. a femme gay is not more queer than a gay bear. non binary people are not less queer than binary trans people, and so on! there's no way to be "not queer enough". being queer is the requisite, no one else can determine if you're not queer "enough" because what queer looks like for you and anyone else around you will be totally different, it's on a person to person basis

now especially when it comes to lesbians and lesboys, it really does not matter when it comes to how "intense" these feelings are. a lot of women end up living with another woman whom they generally identify as a best friend, that they do not kiss or have sex with, and don't really identify as partners, but do consider themselves lesbians/sapphic. some women consider themselves lesbians because they want to live with and be around other women and lesbians of whatever gender primarily, even if they are not physically attracted to women and lesbians.

some people believe that a lesbian being bisexual makes them not/less of a lesbian but that's not true, either. queer identities don't cancel each other out. a lesbian being attracted to a man does not revoke their lesbian status, their identity just has multiple layers to it. people do try to invalidate people from being 'real' lesbians all the time and this has to do with radfeminism and lesbian separatism. bisexual lesbians are not "less lesbian," and neither are masc and male lesbians, aromantic lesbians, asexual lesbians, queerplatonic lesbians, and so on

there are many ways to feel attraction toward someone. love comes in a lot of different forms. lesbians can be aromantic and asexual, so why not queerplatonic? lesbians do not have to kiss, cuddle, have sex, exchange pet names, or anything else romantic or sexual if that's not how they feel love, attraction, or experience relationships with other lesbians of whatever gender, or women in general

i hope that helps somewhat, take care of yourself, you're doing just fine. there's no check boxes that have to be crossed off, it's okay to do your own thing

[pride-hearts]

Queerplatonic Hearts

[richesthermit]

queerplatonic Grian icons ❀ requested by 🩷🪻 anon! 🦜 ┈ art : 1. 2. 3.

[hotch-girl]

emily prentiss + sitting like this

CRIMINAL MINDS 3.18 // 7.21 // 17.02

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[neogandw]

A friend wanted to know how quickly I would do this style of drawing, figured we could time it out as an experiment.

As a reminder, I do commissions and stuff, hourly rate. Lot of info to cover, check here and stuff.