#Pro almost radqueer

[catgender-neaqueer]

Hello everyone! Come one, come all, to my list of labels and stuff! This will serve as a kinda intro post lol! Anyways, let's get right to it!

Names? Just Derin for now!

Pronouns? He/him, she/her, meow/meows, cat/cats, star/stars, moon/moons, space/spaceself, galaxy/galaxyself, lime/limes, vanilla/vanillas, scent/scents, boba/bobaself

Xenogenders? Catgender, linistornia, bobacatgender, notgender

CisIDs (in-sys)? English, changeling, cathearted, lesbian, bigender, 12 y/o

CisIDs (collectively)? Plural, quadrobist, autistic, almost radqueer/neaqueer

TransIDs? ADHD

[almost-radqueer]

Right I might as well coin this

ALMOST RADQUEER

For when someone technically counts as radqueer but because they don't support absolutely EVERYTHING (like in my case, thinking pro-c pedos zoophiles and necrophiles are horrible) or thinks some things can (IN VERY FEW CASES) get a bit iffy and sometimes disrespectful (like I think that way about transrace and transabled) and thus wishes to disconnect themselves from the radqueer community.

Meanings behind the flag: Honestly not much, I just inverted the colours of the radqueer flag, added some green outlines, and removed blue from the flag to represent that we don't support EVERYTHING (why specifically blue? Idk it's my least favorite color I just wanted to remove a colour)

Also! Since this apparently wasn't clear: I am just using myself as an example! Anyone who supports most but not all can use this flag and term!

Also after this post I will stop using the main radqueer tags, just "almost radqueer" and "almost rq"

Tagging this with radqueer tags so it reaches more people

[vocalux]

ywh hear me out on archive ' " " " of everything . . an " archive " that that has saved songs ( more to make it easier to access new songs ) , flags , things related to languages , history , megaposts explaining or listing something , little known sites or apps , tips , , etc . . .

ykw

[confessyourship]

i fully believe there's a point where you are famous enough that you cannot ask ppl not to make nsfw of your characters. instead, you need to draw a boundary of asking not to be made aware of it and do your best to avoid it, similar to clown with welcome home who said use this tag, do not mention it to me at all. though, i'm unsure if the tag was first fan established. either way, this is your best bet imo.

it's similar to rpf in that way; do not tag or send to the creator/person unless explicitly asked. thinking about it, that might just be one opinion that should be etiquette but that might be just me.

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[softiestuffie]

I'm an incest shipper (obviously) but i also happen to be very specific with my ships so sometimes i'll see ships i dislike and cringe and be like "they're siblings!! they wouldnt be together!!" but what i really mean is they just dont have the right kind of dynamic for me to want them together so i become a hypocritical hater

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

we have to many blogs, and i dont get why

[no-more-rqs]

btw, a brief psa to radqueers and anti-radqueers: "dont misgender someone because you dont like them" also includes degendering (using they/them and/or neutral language on someone who doesnt use those pronouns and/or uses certain gendered language). "people you dont like" also includes people you think are the most awful and disgusting people in the entire universe. you dont get an excuse to be transphobic and dehumanizing just because you dont like someone

[gearbox-doll]

I think what most antis don't understand is that I've been like this my whole life. I drew Celestia × Luna kissing during class in elementary school. I had a duplo lego set with a pair of minifigs who I immediately decided were a) siblings and b) dating. Related to that one, there is a post on my mother's Facebook account from once I was old enough to play with regular lego where I had been looking for (and successfully found) one of those red 1×1 tubes and exclaimed "Oh, there it is! There's my other bottle of blood!". I watched Tinkerbell: Secret of the Wings and immediately assumed that them healing Tink's wings was because the sisters loved each other romantically, the intended message of "familial love is just as strong as romantic love" going right over my head. I couldn't have been more than eight. Hell, I shipped Dora and Diego from Dora The Explorer and I was fully aware they were cousins, it just didn't occur to me that that was weird.

And it's not like I was taught about these things by someone, either. Especially the Tinkerbell one, I don't think I had internet access of any kind at that age. Even once I did, all I did until I was like ten was watch silly fnaf meme videos and doll unboxings on YouTube. I didn't even fully understand the lore, I just knew the robots were alive and wanted to be friends with them.

I only read smut once, a Mangle × Springtrap fic on Wattpad that I had zero context for, and was immediately disgusted because my attitude was "ew sex gross". I only read it because I had heard some older kids talking about smut in a fandom context and was super excited that I didn't have to ask my mom anymore (I'd just gotten my first working phone). I didn't go back to smut until I was like 14, because I was experiencing arousal for the first time and all of a sudden all the stuff in that fic that seemed gross to 10yo me seemed really appealing.

No one taught me that incest was okay, or gore, or anything. It was just something my child brain thought up and I never thought it important enough to mention. I learned later to hide the art I drew because my parents might be upset, but they were upset I had gay fanart on my phone, so what did they know about what relationships were acceptable?

I wasn't taught that incest was even a thing that existed for a long time, and certainly no one ever had a conversation with me about it, they just picked up on me knowing what the word meant at some point after I'd figured it out online. I knew what murder was (my mom watched cop shows), but I don't remember where I ever came across the concept of a business that ran machines fueled by blood (which was what the "bottle of blood" thing was about, iirc), it might've just been something I thought up on my own. I wasn't ashamed of these things until I was older, I just never mentioned it because I didn't think it was relevant to anything.

[strawberrycream-bbh]

:33 < Hi! My name is Bad! I'm a fictive from @the-dreamy-horrors-symphony and my sources are just BBH from three different SMPs (realm, qsmp, dsmp)! My pronouns are he/they/she/zombie/it and I'm almost radqueer (coined by my headmate, @almost-radqueer)! I'm archechronal, tradgothbloodic, permabracelet, persharmful, trismanipulative and trisviolent! I'm married to my headmate, Skeppy, who I will tag when he makes a blog. I'm Objectum towards diamonds and I blame him for that. I'm also an inkophile, a d1lf lover, romotum and cruiseshiptum! Anyways onto userboxes cuz idk what else to say!

[shota-midnight]

Hi, my name's Midnight, I'm a 19-year-old OCtive from @the-dreamy-horrors-symphony. I'm bigender and bisexual, my pronouns are she/coo/snooze/red/❤️, and I'm permacareridden, transwindowHS, permaclean, and Permascene. I'm a bodily minor, almost radqueer (coined by my headmate, @almost-radqueer), and I'm a reliphile, romotum, firejectum, and a romantic n3cr0.

Here's some userboxes to end this intro post

[almost-radqueer]

Transmanipulative and trismanipulative flags because I can't find any

TRANSMANIPULATIVE

When someone wishes to be manipulative or feels like they should be for any reason

TRISMANIPULATIVE

When someone is both cis and transmanipulative for any reason

[vocalux]

want me to be honest ? most anti - rq are hypocrites . they are always " anti - transid ! transids are bad ! " and when yoy see , they also use transids . its only bad when its not people you like using it , right ? if its someone you like , its okay , hm ? or they create so many terms similar to those of rq just to hide the fact that they identify with something in our community

[confessyourship]

OK SO I realize this:

Like literally the young demographic from 12- early 20s are more vocal about proship/anti stuff. Mainly antis?

And people who are in their mid/late 20s have a better tolerance in handling media.

You get me? Fandom culture is so divided... and we genuinely need a seperate system where minors should NOT indulge in dark media in the first place. Mainly because they cannot understand and always react to their feelings

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[xbloodxwaterx]

How to convince antis to stop re-traumatizing everyone who disagrees with them no borax no glue

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

endos Endos yay

[almost-radqueer]

How did I join the transID community: Disregarded it as "oh cool that's a thing I don't care about" for a while, started hating it for some reason, then checked out the radqueer hashtag and went "okay I understand" and then just went "wait I think-" and now I'm here lol

What categories do I fall into most: probably transharmful tbh I dunno I'm not checking

Do I have any transID gear: No unfortunately

Am I planning on coming out: not anytime soon lol they'll think I'm mentally ill

Am I out to anybody offline: My best friend knows I'm trisharmful and transcultdeity but that's it

Do I have dysphoria: I don't think so

Have I transitioned to, or am transitioning to, any of my transIDs: No

Which transIDs do I want to transition to the most: Honestly? Transfashion ouji, transtattooed, and trismanipulative and trisviolent lol I know that's a lot but they're all tied.

Which transIDs do I not want to transition to: Transhollowed, transfashion Lolita + fairy kei + decora combo, and nexowhite

Do I have any transIDs that I can't transition to and why not: Aside from the ones that are impossible within this realm, transtattooed is currently something I can't transition to because I'm a minor (bodily and chronologically lol)

What transID flag is the prettiest: IMO, transclairvoyant.

What are my favorite transIDs: transmedicine, transheight, chronoecofuture, and transgodspouse.

Do I think transIDs should be part of the queer community, why or why not: No. TransID is its own thing, it always will be. Someone who's cishet and transID isn't queer (unless they identify as such) they're just transID lol.

Do I have any "weird" transIDs: I mean transevilscientist and transscent are probably the weirdest ones lol

Have I coined any transIDs: Trismanipulative and trisviolent lol

TransID ask game!!

🍰: how did you join the transid community?

🍡: what categories do you fall into most? (ex: trace, transabled, transspecies, transamia/transblood)

🥡: do you have any transid gear? (disability aids, stuff with your flags on it, maybe tattoos!?)

🧋: are you planning on coming out?

🍮: are you out to anybody offline?

🥥: do you have dysphoria?

🍤: have you transitioned to, or are transitioning to, any of your transids?

🍣: which transids do you want to transition to most?

🍕: which transids do you not want to transition to?

🌯: do you have any transids that you can't transition to? Why not?

🍟: what transid flag is the prettiest?

🥞: what are your favorite TransIDs?

🌭: do you think transids should be a part of the lgbtq+ community? why or why not?

🍜: do you have any "weird" transids?

🧆: have you coined any transids?