#Pro almost radqueer

[catgender-neaqueer]

Hello everyone! Come one, come all, to my list of labels and stuff! This will serve as a kinda intro post lol! Anyways, let's get right to it!

Names? Just Derin for now!

Pronouns? He/him, she/her, meow/meows, cat/cats, star/stars, moon/moons, space/spaceself, galaxy/galaxyself, lime/limes, vanilla/vanillas, scent/scents, boba/bobaself

Xenogenders? Catgender, linistornia, bobacatgender, notgender

CisIDs (in-sys)? English, changeling, cathearted, lesbian, bigender, 11 y/o

CisIDs (collectively)? Plural, white, quadrobist, autistic, almost radqueer/neaqueer

TransIDs? ADHD

[almost-radqueer]

Right I might as well coin this

ALMOST RADQUEER

For when someone technically counts as radqueer but because they don't support absolutely EVERYTHING (like in my case, thinking pro-c pedos zoophiles and necrophiles are horrible) or thinks some things can (IN VERY FEW CASES) get a bit iffy and sometimes disrespectful (like I think that way about transrace and transabled) and thus wishes to disconnect themselves from the radqueer community.

Meanings behind the flag: Honestly not much, I just inverted the colours of the radqueer flag, added some green outlines, and removed blue from the flag to represent that we don't support EVERYTHING (why specifically blue? Idk it's my least favorite color I just wanted to remove a colour)

Also! Since this apparently wasn't clear: I am just using myself as an example! Anyone who supports most but not all can use this flag and term!

Also after this post I will stop using the main radqueer tags, just "almost radqueer" and "almost rq"

Tagging this with radqueer tags so it reaches more people

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

we have to many blogs, and i dont get why

[no-more-rqs]

btw, a brief psa to radqueers and anti-radqueers: "dont misgender someone because you dont like them" also includes degendering (using they/them and/or neutral language on someone who doesnt use those pronouns and/or uses certain gendered language). "people you dont like" also includes people you think are the most awful and disgusting people in the entire universe. you dont get an excuse to be transphobic and dehumanizing just because you dont like someone

[gearbox-doll]

I think what most antis don't understand is that I've been like this my whole life. I drew Celestia × Luna kissing during class in elementary school. I had a duplo lego set with a pair of minifigs who I immediately decided were a) siblings and b) dating. Related to that one, there is a post on my mother's Facebook account from once I was old enough to play with regular lego where I had been looking for (and successfully found) one of those red 1×1 tubes and exclaimed "Oh, there it is! There's my other bottle of blood!". I watched Tinkerbell: Secret of the Wings and immediately assumed that them healing Tink's wings was because the sisters loved each other romantically, the intended message of "familial love is just as strong as romantic love" going right over my head. I couldn't have been more than eight. Hell, I shipped Dora and Diego from Dora The Explorer and I was fully aware they were cousins, it just didn't occur to me that that was weird.

And it's not like I was taught about these things by someone, either. Especially the Tinkerbell one, I don't think I had internet access of any kind at that age. Even once I did, all I did until I was like ten was watch silly fnaf meme videos and doll unboxings on YouTube. I didn't even fully understand the lore, I just knew the robots were alive and wanted to be friends with them.

I only read smut once, a Mangle × Springtrap fic on Wattpad that I had zero context for, and was immediately disgusted because my attitude was "ew sex gross". I only read it because I had heard some older kids talking about smut in a fandom context and was super excited that I didn't have to ask my mom anymore (I'd just gotten my first working phone). I didn't go back to smut until I was like 14, because I was experiencing arousal for the first time and all of a sudden all the stuff in that fic that seemed gross to 10yo me seemed really appealing.

No one taught me that incest was okay, or gore, or anything. It was just something my child brain thought up and I never thought it important enough to mention. I learned later to hide the art I drew because my parents might be upset, but they were upset I had gay fanart on my phone, so what did they know about what relationships were acceptable?

I wasn't taught that incest was even a thing that existed for a long time, and certainly no one ever had a conversation with me about it, they just picked up on me knowing what the word meant at some point after I'd figured it out online. I knew what murder was (my mom watched cop shows), but I don't remember where I ever came across the concept of a business that ran machines fueled by blood (which was what the "bottle of blood" thing was about, iirc), it might've just been something I thought up on my own. I wasn't ashamed of these things until I was older, I just never mentioned it because I didn't think it was relevant to anything.

[radinclus-not-radqueer]

Radqueers are a cult.

I am a cult survivor, I have been one far before I was in the radqueer community. As a cult survivor, the radqueer community IS a cult. If you've never been in the community, and have only been an outside observer, it's understandable that you wouldn't realize this, but claiming radqueers are "just assholes" is a slap in the face to people like me who have been permanently traumatized by them.

Here is a commonly used model of how cults work:

If you go through every single point in this, the radqueer community checks almost every one of them. People have already pointed this out many times before, however I will explain it again for people who haven't seen those posts.

(Skipping over ones that don't fully apply or that I haven't personally experienced. Most of these are pretty brief because I don't think anyone will read an entire essay for every point)

Rigid rules - radqueers force you to include everyone and everything, and never question what you're accepting lest you get labeled as "not a real radqueer" and harassed. You must accept any and all predatory relationships, or you'll receive the same treatment as "antis". If that isn't "rigid rules", I don't know what is.

Rewards and punishments - you coin a term people like, or make an "I love pro-cs" post? Everyone likes you, praises you, sends you asks telling you how amazing you are! You dare to question anything about the community? You get cast out, banned from servers, harassed, sent death threats, and doxxed.

Dependence and obedience - radqueers make their victims believe that this is the only community that will accept them. They say that every other community will hate them for their identity, and this is the only "real radinclus" community. This causes people to feel trapped there, or in other words become entirely dependent on the community for validation and support. They convince people that if they leave, or do anything wrong that causes them to be forced out, they'll have nowhere to go. This forces them into obedience for fear of being left all alone and being completely abandoned.

Deception - this one is very, very obvious. There's a reason why radqueers label themselves as "radically inclusive", "pro-consent", "pro-bodily autonomy" - they are not just saying these things because they don't understand what they mean. They're intentionally using uplifting, inclusive language that sounds really great and supportive to deceive people into joining them. This is also why they use emoji codes, so other radqueers will recognize them but people who don't know what radqueers are will be lured into their trap.

Propaganda - pretty similar to the above. They label everything as "radical inclusion" and tell people that they have to support all these things to be "truly inclusive". They make cute flags and emoji codes to make grooming, abuse, racism, ableism, and transphobia seem cool and fun, to further lead people into their trap. By definition, propaganda is "information, especially of a biased or misleading nature, used to promote or publicize a particular political cause or point of view". All these cutesy emojis, symbols, flags, and terms are propaganda.

Discourages access to outside sources of information - radqueers constantly say that all science, psychology, and medical information is "biased" and "bigoted". If you provide them with any information on how what they're doing is wrong, they pull out any number of excuses and then tell their "friends" how bigoted and exclusionist the source is. This makes it seem like radqueers are the only reliable source of information, and anything else is untrustworthy.

Insider/outsider doctrine - this is painfully clear with how they refer to everyone who disagrees with them as "antis". Even if you're just an outside observer, you pick up on this quickly.

All/nothing, good/evil, us/them dogma - once again, they refer to anyone who differs even slightly in opinion as an "anti" or "anti in training", and the second anyone decides to question why they're literally supporting nazis and blackface, they get labeled as an "anti" and "horrible person". They play the victim any time they get told that what they're doing is wrong, while crying and complaining about how much they're harassed and about how "mean" and "rude" anti-radqueers are.

Feeling chosen or special - radqueers very obviously convince themselves that they're so unique and special, which is why terms like transship or transhasapetcat exist. They want to seem really cool and special, and make completely normal things into obscure, "special" identities, like calling yourself translivesintheuk instead of just saying you wanna move to the UK. As someone who's been in their servers, they hoard identities like this because it makes them feel temporarily special and unique, which makes them convinced that what they're doing is right.

Guilt/manipulation - radqueers do this all the time. When someone says they aren't sure if they support something or not, radqueers immediately get all teary-eyed and upset, claiming that the person would be "basically an anti" if they decided not to support it. I've even seem someone cry and complain over being rejected by an anti-transnazi radqueer and claim that it was "ableist" that the person rejected them. Everyone defended and comforted the person who was rejected, immediately siding with them for fear of being "ableist", saying that it was wrong to be against literal nazis. This is very clear manipulation and guilt-tripping.

Phobia indoctrination - phobia indoctrination is where people in the cult make others terrified of leaving for fear of being hurt, killed, etc. As I've explained earlier, radqueers try to scare people into staying by saying that if they leave the community, no one will ever support or love them, and they'll never be accepted outside of it. People who went into the radqueer community after being anti-radqueer know firsthand how awful the harassment, doxxing, and death threats from radqueers are. People in the community who have doubts are very clearly too scared to leave, and people who don't have doubts have been convinced that no one will ever love them except for radqueers.

Anyways, I hope that this clears up how the radqueer community is a cult! Feel free to add on with your own experiences or additions, and please stop invalidating and shaming survivors.

[almost-radqueer]

Transmanipulative and trismanipulative flags because I can't find any

TRANSMANIPULATIVE

When someone wishes to be manipulative or feels like they should be for any reason

TRISMANIPULATIVE

When someone is both cis and transmanipulative for any reason

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

endos Endos yay

[princessofendos]

⋆𐙚₊˚⊹♡ Hello ! I am Natasha/Angel. I am from The Corporate Tower; or for this blog, The Princess / Princess Natasha / Princess Angel! You dont have to call me princess though, just for funsies and the theme of the blog ! <3

I have come here to announce that I am now happy to announce I am a proud loyalty and the princess to @queenofproendos ! (we do not legitimately see the blog as our queen, just playing along with the fun and silly royalty theme between me, that blog, the knight, the jester, and other people's blogs surrounding this playful theme parody of astro's blog. almost like a roleplay!)

The gender in my profile picture is cherryblossflowic, one of my genders. (pfp post here)

Our pronouns.cc !

My strawpage ! (please view on desktop)

This is a blog that I am going to run for mainly about anything system related. For the sake of the system community, please, anti-endogenics do not interact with this blog. You have your own communities too! Stay in your lane and respect your own DNI!

Its primarily for those that are pro-endogenic, of any system origin, anti-c paraphiles, freaks, queer community, mogai community, etc.

If you want userboxes please request our userbox blog @corporateuserboxes .

If you want a MOGAI or xenogender please request our MOGAI blog @corporatecoinings .

This blog we will post moodboards and pride pixels (round and rectangle) ! But please be clear about what you want and provide images if you can ! <3

Here are some things we allow!

venting (with warning stated at the top for any triggering topics)

general talking about anything if you want

questions (we are allowed to deny anything we dont want to answer)

playful and silly "anon hate" (please use tone tags!)

literally anything within anyones system, headspace, etc.

requests for moodboards

requests for pride pixels

Things we do NOT allow !

political topics

Astro and his supporters (go away)

debate about our identities (not up for discussion ever)

harassment towards us or other people

talking to us in a shitty attitude

thats kinda it i'll update this later <3

Some things to know before you interact !

we are anti-radqueer, anti-transid, anti-contact paraphilia, and anti-proship!

we think contradictory labels are valid!

we think every system and plural origin is valid!

we are systemarchist and pluralpunk/systempunk!

we are pro-endogenic obviously!

Before any of you attack me, us, or this blog, we are a primarily traumagenic system (with additionally neurogenic and paragenic origins). We were diagnosed as a traumagenic system before we learned of our other origins as well. We fully support endogenic systems. If you dont like that, dont bother complaining about it to us; we are not listening to any of you bitch and whine to the princess.

Being pro-endogenic does not strip us of our respect and dignity. We are a system and always will be. If endogenics say they are a system, they are a system.

On this blog, we support inclusivity and positivity.

Tags !

pro endo court -> the tag for all blogs related to being loyal to queenofproendos ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the princess of endos -> tag that goes on every post ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the princess speaks to you! -> inboxes ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the flowers are blossoming once again -> positive topics ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the flowers have wilted but will return soon -> negative topics ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the princess wishes to have a chat with you! -> me talking about stuff ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the princess is feeling moody -> moodboards ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ the princess has found something shiny -> pride pixels

My fun silly allies :

⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @queenofproendos (the queen) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @kingofproendos (the king) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @prince-of-pro-endos (the prince) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @the-dame-of-endos (the knight) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @seroftheproendos (the other knight) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @knightofproendos (another knight!) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @jesterofproendos (the jester) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @peasantofproendos (the peasant) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @dragonofendos (the dragon) (my in-sys boyfriend's blog because he wanted to join in too) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @baroness-of-endos (the baroness) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @dukeofproendos (the duke) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @otterofproendos (an otter !) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @darkwizardofproendos (the wizard) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @deityofproendos (the deity) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @guarddogofproendos (the guard dog) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @kitsune-of-pro-endo (the kitsune) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @lapdogofproendos (the queen's lap dog) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @cryptid-of-pro-endos (the cryptid) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @housemaiden-of-pro-endos (the housemaiden) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @lady-of-endos (the lady) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @angel-of-pro-endos (woah ! hey im angel too!) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @doctor-of-proendos (the doctor) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @scientistofproendos (the scientist) ⋆. 𐙚 ˚ @marquessofendos (the Gallade)

Something silly me and Syntax made...

more possibly coming soon !

will update this again when needed ! :)

[almost-radqueer]

Dude I would so make a show or game like this but there's problems with me doing it alone

Not enough people to make a show along with me being a minor, and as for the game idea...

I can't code.

So yeah lol I wanna make this real, most of my headmates do too, but like help?? Lol.

what if there was a show or game or whatever about a futuristic near-utopian society where (almost?) everyone is a radqueer ?? like there would be scientists who would research ways to help more and more transbody people transition and there would be communities dedicated to paraphiles finding their objects of attraction (idk the right words sorry) and forums for specific kinds of transharmed and transharmful to meet each other so they can transition together. i said near-utopia because radqueer is a loose label and there are lots of people with different opinions (contact stances, opinion on bodily transrace transition, etc) who use it, which is what would also be the case here, which would lead to fights (if not worse). thoughts ??

[pluralhottakes]

:33 < (this isnt a hot take! feel furee to delete this if you want but purrlease lmk if you do!) i am an anti endo thats hoping to become purro endo, but im a bit scared on where to start? i know that sounds silly, but almost all of my furiends are anti endo, most of what i know about systems is from anti endo places or medical sites about them (im diagnosed and never did any purrsonal research on my diagnosis), and a lot of the purro endos ive met have been icky at best (tho thats mostly cause theyve mostly been either radqueers, assholes in general, or people who think traumagenics shouldnt have their own spaces). im just a bit nervous for making that final transition. do you have any advice or know any blogs that could give advice?

Being pro-endo is as simple as supporting the ways systems can form besides trauma.

We can't recall any resources off the top of our head that can be helpful, but learning about endogenic systems and other system formations can be a good starting point.

Also talk to some endogenic systems about their experiences, you may find they have more in common with you than you first thought. I invite those following this blog to comment on it with links or things they'd like you to know.

Hey everyone, come help this anon out!

[catz-brainz1234]

Paras are completely valid and you shouldn't be sent death threats for it, as long as you're STRICTLY anti contact and pro healing.

I repeat, if you have a para but are anti contact and pro healing, you are completely valid.

Making art, writing poetry/just writing about it, making vent art, making music etc etc are great and extremely healthy ways to cope with your paras!!!!! (Absolutely do not put it online anywhere that kids and vulnerable people can see it)

It's okay to struggle with these things; we know how hard it is to even accept you have a para/s, let alone even getting help for it.

So please, take your time, learn about your thoughts and feelings, find healthy coping mechanisms, don't shame yourself for feeling this way, you're not a bad person as long as you're anti contact AND pro healing.

Don't interact with the radqueer community, the xenosatanist community or the proship community. As friendly and inclusive as they might seem, they will try and stop you from getting help and manipulate you into thinking that it's okay to occasionally act on your para/s, or fantasise about your para/s which won't be healthy for your healing process.

Be kind to yourself, you're only human (or a critter, wink wink, nudge nudge) and, believe it or not, almost every human has at LEAST one fantasy they're not proud of.

Take care ♡

-🧿

[anti-endo-pillow-fort]

☆☆☆☆ intro post!!! ☆☆☆☆

(We do not wish to disclose our system name, and we are a young minor!) (be aware english isnt our first language, expect mistakes..)

Hello!!! This is a safe space for anti endos!! You can call me plush, even though it isn't my actual name, my other alters won't post here, so it will just be me!

My inbox and messages are almost always open, so don't feel shy to send something because I love getting them!(I accept anything, like vents, talking about ur life, your syscourse opinions, etc! Just add tws for things that may trigger people like violence or mentions of sa, and other common triggers)

Be aware i will post syscourse :[ I will also post my art time-to-time!

I don't really know what else to say here, but as is said in my bio, we are anti endo and will not accept darkshippers,endos and pro endos, and radqueers interacting with this blog, sorry! we will also not allow disgusting "good faith" identities here and their supporters :/(good faith identities as in, lesboys, turigirls, bigay, gaybian,girlgay,other things like that etc etc)

The main goal here is to be a comfy and cozy safe space for anti endos!! I am happy to see you here :]

[pdid-culture-is]

Ello! Welcome to P-DID culture is! This is a safe place for beings with P-DID to share their experiences, because I can almost never find anything for P-DID,and if they're included it's more of an afterthought.

Submission rules:

No syscourse, this blog is supposed to be neutral on that. Talking about how syscourse has affected you is fine, but no genuine syscourse, that will be deleted.

Nothing explicitly NSFW, the system running this is bodily a minor. Somewhat suggestive is fine along with more dirty jokes. Cursing is also fine, but I will tag it accordingly.

If you have potentially triggering things in your post, label them at the top. If you don't know exactly what it would be, I'll tag it (unless I don't know either, then I'll probably just put ask to tag)

Vague 'posting' is okay, but don't tell others to harass them and don't drop names.

Anon tags

👁 anon

💎 anon

🩻 anon

🧼 anon

🍩🍬 anon

💛 anon

👽🦷 anon

😈 anon

🥚🍳 anon

📔🪽 anon

🐍🍮 anon

☎️⭐️ anon

🐇 anon

🐞 anon

🍬 anon

DNI:

Basis DNI criteria, conservative, Zionist, Pro contact for harmful paraphilias, talk about God a lot, heavily religious, Christian themed blog (no hate, it just makes us uncomfortable), Radqueer, Proship or any variants, syscourse blog, against contradictory labels and good faith labels, use R/FDC and R/Systemscringe unironically and actually post others there, against self DX, Billdip and Mabill shippers (makes everyone uncomfortable especially our Bill fictive)

Tagging

Culture is asks will be tagged with "PDID culture is"

Asks that don't fall under that are "Not PDID culture is"

When it's me, the host answering them it will be tagged #🐕answers, Bill is #⚠️answers, Springtrap is #🐇answers, Darkstalker is #🌕🐉 answers, when we don't know is just #🫥answers, the talking tags are the same just with talking instead of answers but Springtrap doesn't get one right now because as far as we're aware he can't speak and doesn't want to type, this might change

(We pretty much only go co-con but Bill might want to comment more than Theo and will probably respond in caps so just clarification on why we're responding in the way we are)

Also, we won't always comment on your submissions but we might if we have similar experiences we want to share or something else

[starscatteredsky]

Voidkin moodboard

themes of darkness/voids, claws/hands, eyes

voidkin moodboard with themes of darkness/liminality/eyes/hands and void ofc!

enjoy friends of the void!

-mono

[image description:

a moodboard with 9 images.

image one (top left): a shot of two coal black taloned arms reaching towards the sky. it’s a black so dark it’s difficult to make out the exact definition. at around midway along the forearm, the blackness is broken up into veins, and pale skin continues along the arm.

image two(middle left): a hallway that's so pure black, that you cant actually see almost any of it. a single, bright while light far down the hallway starkly illuminates a small portion of it, showing a tiled ceiling and shiny tiled floor, with stark white walls, before the hallways is once again plunged into absolute darkness, no end in sight

image three (bottom left): a pale hand that almost looks a bit like its being overtaken by the venom symbiont from spider-man. it becomes a shiny, twisted, coal black almost slimy or leathery looking taloned hand with incredibly long fingers and piercing looking black claws.

image four (top middle): a viewpoint from the ground looking directly up. the sky is pure black and spindly branches of trees in pure white reach up to the sky

image five (middle middle): several scribbly, messy inky black figures with shining white eyes on a pure white, detail less background

image six (bottom middle): a swirling vortex that gets darker the farther it goes, with the closest area to the viewer being a midtone grey, that eventually fades into pure black.

image seven (top right): a mostly white image with "tears" in it like paper, revealing an inky darkness with many white eyes peaking out.

image eight (middle right): a hand with a tattoo on it of swirly, messy, sort of sketchy or inky black lines, with many many eyes peaking out of the darkness.

image nine (bottom right): a pure black, with slightly lighter staticky grey background. there is nothing else.

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Requests open!!!

[image description:

a DNI banner with the background being the promotional image for Little Nightmares 2. The writing reads:

"DNI: radqueers, proshippers, radfems/TERFs, antikin/antitherian, homophobic/ ableist/ anti ACAB/ transphobic/ rasist/ antisemitic/ xenophobic/ antitheist/ anti athiest/ bigoted in any fashion, NSFW/sh/ed/cringe centered blog, fakeclaimer

Before you interact: We are pro mspec gays/lesbians, anti endo/tulpa "systems", enjoy MCYT/DSMP, pro self diagnoses with extensive research, multiple alters are punks/ anarchists"

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[multiselves]

As a non-radqueer I'm so sorry that anti-radqueers are being assholes about multiself. That's not even what reclaiming is, they're misusing that word

It's nice to know that someone gets it and understands what reclamation actually is, especially someone outside of the rqc. It's a breath of fresh air. I'm not surprised that it's happening, but antis will be antis /resignedly affectionate

I think my biggest gripe with the situation is mainly just how certain beings feel almost entitled to the label just because the coiner (me) happens to be pro transid.

Nobody owns labels. Labels are free use. You cannot buy a concept, you cannot trademark an experience, you cannot claim possession of an identity. It's bizarre to try and "steal" something that we all own. Multiself is a descriptor as lesbian is a descriptor, it would be ludicrous to try and push proship lesbians away from the lesbian identity. However because multiself is a newer term, beings for some reason think this is up for debate

I could talk for hours about this tbh. Not just in relation to multiselves, but just the general state of the internet when it comes to labels and flags. I think the community has much more pressing issues such as exclusionism, transphobia, amatonormativity, etc; but this culture in particular is a pet peeve of mine