#Love–hate relationship
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Haßliebe
I hate and I love. Why I do this, perhaps you ask. I know not, but I feel it happening, and I am tortured — Catullus 85
Maximilian’s biographer, Wiesfecker, describes Juana’s behaviour as:
"The symptom of a pathological, passionate, if not unfounded, Haßliebe, fomenting continual strife. "
#juana i of castile#joanna of castile#philip the handsome#juana la loca#johanna van castilie#isabel#spanish monarchy#european history#history#irene escolar#Haßliebe#Love–hate relationship#Tsundere#Amour-haine#raul merida#philip de schone#Filips I van Castilië
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"Friends dont look at friends that way" COWARD. I look at my friends with awe in my eyes, my chest is filled with love, im glowing because i get to be near my friends. I look at my friends and i would give them my everything. SO SKILL ISSUE, look at your friends with all the love that you have
#i hate this phrase with burning passion#platonic love#platonic#platonic relationships#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#amatonormativity my beloathed#there are multiple songs i dont listen to bc they have this phrase in it
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she's singing in another room and my dog is asleep at my feet. my grandma asked me why i haven't found a man yet and i laughed. oh, you know. i like my house clean.
my girlfriend is also my man is also "my partner" if i'm in a professional setting. yesterday we went to a ren faire and a man mimed at me - you're together? and at my delighted nod, his baffled, you're gay? made me laugh. a woman with rainbow hair said i love the two of you together. you're both so beautiful it's absurd.
my dad introduced my partner as my "..... friend. or whatever" the other day. he knows we're dating. in the same way, i was never able to get my sister's husband to stop saying that's gay like it's 2008. he still uses the word fa***t, and my sister's defense of him has always been well, he's just kidding.
my lover and i dance to old music in a tiny kitchen. we judge new music together and take food critique very seriously. we watch love is blind before we fall asleep and agree that if they had a queer season, it would be bloody but also make for excellent tv. of fucking course queer people would know someone for only 2 weeks and agree to get married. what are you saying.
at a bar with friends, a man puts his hand on my wrist. got a boyfriend? and yes, i do have a boyfriend, she's amazing. i am texting her while i wander around a gas station named after geese. i am visiting a swing state for a wedding. in the candy aisle i overhear: she's actually like a lesbian it's disgusting. two teenage girls with packaged sandwiches in their hands, giggling. no literally, like. i'm not, like. okay with her being there while we're all, like, naked and changing.
my girlfriend and i tailgate, drink gin and cider out of cups. from the frat group beside us, a man corrects himself with one of his friends: bro, i mean, nonbinary entity, and it makes everyone around him laugh, myself included. he razzes his friend the same way i would have killed for at 19 years old - like nothing happened, he continues: you apply sunscreen like an alien. he does a little sassy (and fairly accurate) dance interpretation of the motion. his friend is laughing so hard they're crying.
i am lucky, i live in a safe neighborhood in a safe state. my masc passenger princess comes up from DC. i drive her for an hour to where all the leaves are a violent arrangement of color. we walk along the trails, letting autumn into our blood. in this part of the state, there's a lot of pickup trucks and trump signs. when we chastely kiss before getting into the car, i accidentally make eye contact with a woman holding her child's wrist. she looks disgusted. she looks fucking pissed.
two hours later my girl and i are eating dinner on a patio, soaking in the last warmth of new england sun before the chill of winter sets in. we are giggling and trying to talk through plastic vampire teeth. at another table, i see a young woman sit up straighter. i watch her watch us. she blushes and takes her partner's hand from across the table. shy, like the taste of evening has just become something deeper.
it's worth it for this moment, i think. my lover is still humming the same song she's been singing for four days straight and i don't want to kill her for it. her guitar is beside my bed. her toothbrush is in my bathroom. in a few moments i will make us lunch. we are lucky enough to have found each other. it is lucky enough to be in love.
#writeblr#wlw#i often think about like.....#being happy in a gay relationship is sometimes so odd#bc u can forget how stupid ppl are.#bc ur so USED to being gay. and u forget other people GENUINELY ARE homophobic#so it's like. girl pardon?????#but also there are moments where it's like. ohhh the kids are alright#like watching someone razz someone else.... so fucking wholesome#“lemme get this bitche's pronouns before i make gentle fun of them” .... i would have KILLED for that.#THAT is how u know ur accepted#not just tolerated#..... when ppl are like. sure ur nonbinary congrats but WHAT is this fucking sunscreen application#ps idk if "razz'' is a real word but someone asked what it means -#i've always heard it as being a term for 'gentle & friendly teasing'' which like#i personally notice more from my guy friends but is like - when a person isn't#LIKE ACTUALLY teasing u (it's nothing personal/mean) they're just laughing w/you about something#my friends often put on a little voice and call me an anemic little bitch#like 'ooooo the anemic little bitch is cold??? does she need a mouse blanket#bc she's SOOOO SMALL AND ANEMIC???''#and it doesn't hurt my feelings (it makes me laugh very hard) bc 1. i actually called MYSELF that first#and 2. i'm not sensitive about it!!!#a proper razz is when you are ALSO in on the joke - i ALSO think it's funny#for some people i personally find that when they razz u it's when they love u -#they've noticed something genuine about u and love u enough that u know they're not being mean#this is cultural and personality based of course but i'm hispanic#if someone isn't making fun of me it means they hate me . obviously.
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elita pep talk
#transformers one#transformers#b 127#bumblebee#elita one#i want more content of elita and bee#their dynamic would be so funny i think#ur mean aunt who acts like she hates u but she gets u that one really obscure thing u mentioned in passing conversation#i think their relationship can be really sweet#i think bee would geniunly really look up to elita and think shes so awesome#and elita is just like okay this annoying yellow thing follows me around now i guess#(she loves him)#her stupid son that she hates#shes tough on him but she cares...
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Bartender au about to go crazy (Bartender bill @mimirjoo)
#my art#gravity falls#stanford pines#bill cipher#they have a love hate relationship idk how the bar will go LMAO
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This came to me in a vision.
Feel free to add your own favorite "eldritch being x traumatized mortal" ships!
#billford#gravity falls#jarthur#private eyes#malevolent#malevolent podcast#symbrock#veddie#venom#this is so stupid help#but its actually so funny how the troupe of an eldritch being and a mortal share bodues and develop a love hate relationship happens a lot
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and the old dalish curse means something new to me: take me as well, o fen’harel, like my hand and vallaslin 🐺🌿🌊
#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#dragon age inquisition#solavellan#solas#lavellan#eliana lavellan#I painted this for my own birthday#I love solas and lavellan and the water motif of their relationship I hope it comes up again in veilguard#painting this + drinking tea he hates + fear of the water by syml#my Eli and her less hot situationship she may have to kill who knows#god I’m going to lose my mind in October
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#words#sad thoughts#childhood#inner child#ruined childhood#trauma#life qotes#life lessons#life#literature#young love#self love#eldest daughter#middle child#dark academia#depressing shit#sorry for being depressing#tw depressing thoughts#lana del rey#ariana grande#bts#bts army#dark aesthetic#poetry#love quotes#bangtan#relationship#love#happiness#i hate this
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I think an underrated angle on 2x05 is something that either Jacob or Assad said in some interview somewhere, which is that in that episode Louis is addicted to heroin. Thats why he has that whole stash of drugs that he gives to Daniel, that's why he gives Daniel the drugs even though he's already got him alone. He didn't just use those 128 boys for sex he was using them to get high. Bring them home, get them to shoot up, and then drain them to get that secondhand high.
It clarifies something that's always confused me about that scene, which is why Armand saves Daniel the first time. He wouldn't save Daniel as a person, he clearly knows Daniel needs to die, but he's not seeing Daniel as a person there. Daniel is just a substance. He rips him away from Louis to stop him from using.
And i think that adds a whole other layer to the fight he and Armand have to think that this is Louis on a bender, with Armand cleaning up after him because he's not stable enough to. Louis in the bed for a week isn't just healing from the burns, he's going through withdrawal. Him at the table with Daniel giving him the "bright young reporter" speech is probably the first time he's been sober in months.
It adds another layer to Armand's desperation, that Louis has been running from both Armand and himself in this way, and of course Armand wants to erase that memory. Of course he wants to pretend that that fight never happened. Not just to protect himself but in a way to protect Louis from having said those things. When he describes the fight to Louis afterwards, he says "you said the worst things you've ever said to me." And he doesn't really know how to forgive Louis for that so he just wants to bury this rock-bottom moment and move on like it never happened. After all, Louis was high, he didn't really mean it, but if he remembers then maybe he might think that he had a point. Better to wipe the whole experience away.
#imagine youre in an eternal spite marriage with your ex who you're in love with because he's in love with your other ex#who youre also in love with#and your spitehusband who hates you turns to drugs to cope with the traumatic death of his daughter (which you caused but who's counting)#and you just follow him around cleaning up his messes and propping him up and keeping him alive#because despite everything you do love him#and you find him mid bender and he's told his life story to a reporter and he didn't even mention you#and you're just trying to protect him from himself so he doesn't pass out in a pool of blood on the floor#and he tells you that you're a burden#that youre the thing thats killing him#that 10 hours with a stranger made him feel more alive than your whole relationship#and he says that youre BORING#that all your trauma and grief and fear made you UNINTERESTING#yeah id do some saw trap shit too#blorboposting#benni proof#interview with the vampire#loumand#iwtv
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me after I drink 17 coffees and start seeing the skull man
#lucanis dellamorte#dragon age#dragon age 4#dragon age: the veilguard#dragon age veilguard#dragon age the veilguard#da4#DAtV#veilguard#LISTEN I HAVE A LOVE/HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT SCENE BUT LUCANIS' FACE GETS ME EVERY TIME 🤣🤣🤣#lucanis: this edible ain't shi-#emmlich: 💀 bonjour#lucanis: 😐😐😐🙃🫤#17 benadryl meme
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y'all are always complaining about how gay rep has to be perfect and unproblematic like speak for yourself i personally love it when they try to murder each other
#like.... look i recognise that these things can be harmful BUT I DESERVE SOME FUN TOO#like im so sorry but i have the most intense love hate relationship with the death trope i could never let it go#i love tragedy#hannigram#villaneve#catradora#tamber#tryst six venom#a lesson in vengeance#the handmaiden#evervale#rhaenicent#gallavich#fuffy#hizzie#wlw#mlm#loustat#iwtv
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"You want to talk? We'll allow it."
#bg3#astarion#ascended astarion#his majesty#my art#i have a love/hate relationship with his ascended outfit😡
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nomad boyfriend comes back for a visit
obviously there are some extras for the patr0ns <3
#bg3#baldur's gate 3#halsin silverbough#durge#halsin x durge#the bhaalspawn has found an extremely healthy relationship dynamic#ashe's cats are so indifferent they're probably like 'oh tall tree dad is back'#i love domestics but also i think halsin is the kind of person who needs to vanish into the woods for 2-3 weeks#ashe hates dirt so he has his house with his cats#this makes me want to write an awful 70s farce where ashe thinks the guy's there for sex and he's just there to fix the boiler#i was working on a long angst comic but i pushed it back for. reasons#only wholesome stuff right now
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look what you’ve done
#This album is amazing#listened to it while drawing this#yipppeeee#Been meaning to do this for a while now#mob psycho 100#mp100#shigeo kageyama#starboy#my art#fanart#silverlombaxwitch#Warmup to get ready for a bigger piece get ready yall are so not ready heh#OUOUOUOUIUOUO I HAVE A LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIP W THIS PIECE ITS SO OUADOUAOU
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reasons to get top surgery:
boobs 😡😭😔🥲😮💨
reasons why not to get top surgery:
boobs 🤭😋😄🥰😍
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Both Macaque and Xiaotian (MK) live in FFM full time unless there’s a special event happening in the celestial realm that requires the royal family being there.
since FFM is a laid back type of kingdom, both Macaque and Xiaotian wear normal clothes, nothing fancy especially not the type of outfits they wear back in the celestial realm
Bonus:
Wukong misses his husband and child L
#lmk#shadowpeach#lmk mk#lmk sun wukong#lmk macaque#lmk fanart#macaque and wukong don’t hate each other#they love each other#it’s just the whole becoming an emperor caused a rift between them and macaque realized that if they didn’t separate or compromise they’d#end up actually divorcing#and neither of them wanted that#they’re each others love of their life#they do visit each other#also macaque did not want to raise Xiaotian in the celestial realm way before the attack happened#it’s a harmful environment for a child to raised in#especially when half the court is rooting for your parents to separate and your dad to marry someone “worthy#bad thing is it led to wukong and MK having an estranged relationship#sunset!au
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