#LGBTQ+ Identities

[chronicbeans]

Iolite Hospital LGTBQ+ Identities

These are mostly for the main adult characters, due to them being the most developed ones. I shall make a separate post for any secondary characters. Minor characters (Maya and Johnny) are on here, but instead of LGBTQ+ identities, I am going to just write their thoughts on the LGBTQ+ community since I do not believe they would know where they fall at their age. OwO

Aluminum - He's agender, AFAB. He's also currently questioning his romantic identity, as well as his sexuality. For now, he identifies as aromantic and dreamsexual/somnisexual (not related to the content creator, Dream. Dreamsexual is where you only feel sexual attraction during dreams. It can also be called somnisexual, sognaresexual or yumesexual), which is a form of asexuality. He usually feels to embarrassed to say that he is identifying as dreamsexual/somnisexual, since he feels like people would think he is lying, so he just says he is asexual. He likes to have very specific labels for his identity, because it makes him feel secure in his experiences and that he is not alone in how specific they are. Kind of like a "I feel this way... But do other people feel this way normally? Am I weird?" Then he finds others of that very specific LGBTQ+ label and is like "Okay. So I'm not weird. Good! Yippee!!!"

Derek - he is a cisgender man, who identifies as biromantic and bisexual. He would be considered gender non-conforming, but in his world, gendered clothing/accessories, and such don't really exist, since everyone has a similar body type. He uses the terms bisexual and biromantic to mean that he would date anyone of any gender. The only reason why he doesn't use pansexual/panromantic is because, in the world that he is from, pansexuality/panromantic people is seen as very taboo due to being a very new term. He just feels safer identifying as biromantic and bisexual, not knowing if the world the Iolite Hospital is located in is a safe place for pansexual/panromantic people. (Spoiler alert: it is.)

Dr. Baxter: He is a cisgender man that is gender non-conforming. He's very openly pansexual and panromantic, happily talking about how love is love and everyone should feel comfortable and safe with who they are. He very openly supports the LGBTQ+, even if he is a bit behind on the newest gender identities, sexualities, and romantic identities.

Dr. Cogsworth: He is just... uhh... well, he identifies as a cisgender man, at least. He hasn't even thought about his romantic identity or sexuality, because he can't even process his own emotions at the moment. If he can't even recognize when he feels happy, sad, or angry, how is he supposed to recognize when he is in love or whether or not that love is platonic or romantic? Since he tends to confuse the physical reactions to emotions with physical conditions or states, he can't even tell if he is feeling the physical reactions to sexual attraction or if it is something completely different. So, he would be considered as questioning his sexuality and romantic identity. Maybe not questioning that much at the moment, since he is mostly concerned about figuring out simple emotions first, but he still tries to figure out his romantic and sexual identities from time to time. He just has bigger priorities, at the moment.

Maya ~ She is fully supportive of the LGBTQ+ and sees her uncle as the coolest guy in the world. They've both already experienced some adversity by simply existing as Landsharks, and she is acutely aware that uncle Baxter will experience some extra adversity by identifying as LGBTQ+ openly, so she will do everything to support him. She mainly is just worried at how quickly he falls in love, since he might fall for someone who is very ignorant by accident. She will also happily be the third wheel in any romantic pursuit he tries to make, because his reactions are funny whenever she does something to purposely embarrass him. She also tries to get Johnny to join her in embarrassing him. She does that in order to prevent him from getting his heart broken, again.

Johnny ~ He doesn't really care, but in a good way...? He has trouble remembering gender identities, romantic identities or sexualities, but does recognize that they exist. To him, it's just natural. It is kind of like how, when little kids are young (like Johnny is, since he's 5), they don't think about a boy and girl being in a relationship often, but know it happens and see it as completely normal and not to be celebrated since, well... It's normal. He just kinda forgets that some people don't see the LGBTQ+ community as normal, so he just nods his head and smiles when he hears that someone is a part of it. He would be confused as to why someone would start explaining that, because they are (insert gender, romantic identity, or sexuality here), they (insert explanation here), since he doesn't see a need for an explanation. You are just you? He is more confused about why you are explaining yourself than whatever you came out as, to be honest. He does enjoy joining Maya on her third-wheeling adventures as a forth wheel of chaos, though.

[queerism1969]

[chelledoggo]

let's hear it for the nonbinary folks who:

don't present androgynously

use "binary" pronouns in any capacity

identify partially with a binary gender

have a "gendered" name

don't experience body dysmorphia

don't experience gender dysphoria

DO experience gender dysphoria/body dysmorphia but aren't sure what gender or body would suit them

just experience body/gender apathy instead

can't be open about their gender identity yet

you're all absolutely valid.

don't ever feel like you're "not nonbinary enough" because you absolutely are! 💖

[foxyfexyll]

[ohmygenz-ie]

I'm sending everyone who sees this some mad gender euphoria. It should arrive within 3-5 business days. If there is an issue with the status of your gender euphoria... uhmmm yeah I'm sorry idk how to fix that but I send hugs and well wishes

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[whatareyoureallyafraidof]

[anticapitalistmongoose]

alright boys, girls, neither, both, and those in between we need to clear something up:

if someone says they are queer, they are queer.

no ifs, ands, buts, etc. they are queer.

and if they discover later that they're cishet, great, amazing, wonderful, i'm glad we gave them community when they were figuring themselves out and needed it.

no gatekeeping of queerness here, alright?

because when shit hits the fan queerphobes wont care whether you're a cis gay man who goes by he/him or a bigender aromantic pansexual who goes by it/its

so stop with the respectability politics.

we're a community, fucking act like it.

[transonlyspace]

"queer identities are getting too complex" good. be complex. confuse cis people. confuse straight people. aim to be what cishets call cringe. be incomprehensible. be unfathomable.

[theartisticcrow]

On this fine day, at 8:37 AM, I walked outside to the front of my school and saw that they replaced the Canadian flag, the flag of our country, with a Pride flag. I have never felt happier. I have never laughed so hard in my life. This is in not a complaint, I just think it's very funny that they replaced the Canadian flag with a Pride flag for no apparent reason. They have their priorities figured out.

[rominaflauers]

When the honorifics they use hit just ✨️right✨️ 💅

[incognitopolls]

We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

[queerism1969]

[solhwellness]

Parental Acceptance: Embracing LGBTQ+ Identities | Solh Wellness

LGBTQ are those people or the community who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer (LGBTQ). This idea has always been there, but it was considered taboo; it has just now come to light as a result of some recent changes in the person's hormone levels or cognitive abilities. As a result, a large number of individuals who once belonged to this group thought that their identity was in danger and suppressed it in order to conform to the social norms of the time. 

They shared the same rights as everyone else to pursue happiness and lead fulfilling lives. The LGBTQ community has that chance now that they are more well-known in society. The individual nevertheless struggles to be accepted by their family and the greater community as a result of stigma and taboo. They worry that they will be dismissed or told to conceal their "abnormality" from the general population.

FAMILY ACCEPTANCE OF A MEMBER OF THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY

It is a big issue for someone who identifies with the LGBTQ+ group to tell their parents about who they are since all they want is for them to embrace them. Additionally, once they come out, accepting who they are is easier for them, which has a big impact on other areas of their lives.

An LGBTQ+ person's mental health if their family is accepting them:

Improved emotional wellbeing, better self-esteem, and better mental health.

The robust support system that accepting family members offer.

Satisfying and productive relationships with relatives.

There are decreased levels of substance abuse, anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

Improved self-acceptance as well as pride in their gender identity and sexual orientation.

An LGBTQ+ person's mental health if their family is not accepting them:

Internalised transphobia and homophobia, as well as potential mental health issues, loneliness, and rejection sentiments.

It may be necessary to belong to a chosen group of close friends, the ideal family, or LGBTQ+ support organisations.

Family ties that have become strained or broken.

Increased probability of mental health problems as well as a rise in the prevalence of mental illnesses.

Dealing with feelings of inferiority, shame, and self-invalidation is difficult.

WAYS TO TALK TO YOUR PARENTS AND GET THE DESIRED ACCEPTANCE

It might be challenging to come out to your parents because you are constantly worried about their judgement, but it's crucial to let people who matter in your life know how you actually feel. 

Consider your own emotions and self.Spend some time getting to know your own thoughts, feelings, and self.

Pick an appropriate time and place for the conversation. Find a relaxed, welcoming setting where everyone can be themselves and speak freely.

Become more familiar with LGBTQ+ terminology, concepts, and experiences. This displays your readiness to take part in a thoughtful discussion and helps you respond to any questions or concerns your parents might have.

HOW TO APPROACH YOUR PARENTS AND GAIN THEIR ACCEPTANCE

It could be difficult to tell your parents because you worry about their reaction all the time, but it's important to be honest with the people that matter in your life. 

Think on your own feelings and self.Get to know your own ideas, feelings, and self by taking some time.

Select a suitable location and time for the conversation. Look for a comfortable, friendly environment where people can be themselves and communicate freely.

Learn more about LGBTQ+ topics, language, and experiences. This demonstrates your willingness to participate in a deliberative conversation and helps you address any queries or worries your parents may have.

Be mindful that your parents may respond in many ways. They could be anything from total acceptance to amazement, perplexity, or even at first hatred. You can dominate the conversation with patience and assurance if you are psychologically prepared for a variety of responses. 

Use "I" pronouns to specifically express your thoughts, emotions, and experiences to avoid seeming accusatory. Encourage open communication and take your parents' concerns and inquiries seriously. Even if you disagree, make an effort to understand them and show kindness.

Be mindful that acceptance might not happen right away. Give your parents the time and space they need to consider the information and adjust their viewpoint.

For advice and emotional support, speak with close friends, LGBTQ+ support groups, or organisations. During the coming-out process, they can offer guidance, share their own experiences, and offer comfort. 

CONCLUSION

For LGBTQ+ people, parental approval is essential. Before things become worse, Solh Wellness aims to provide clients with proactive mental health treatments. Make taking care of yourself a priority in your life and try out different strategies to proactively assist your mental health. The Solh Wellness App should be downloaded to start the transformation.

[the-lion-guard-88]

HELP WHY IS “HOMOPHOBIA” ON THE LIST OF SEXUALITIES 😭

[justdavina]

I just LOVE this wonderful transgender woman's dress! She's just amazing! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[im-secretly-a-frog]

Y'know what? Fuck it. I am a dude. I am sapphic. I love girls in a very gay way. I love boys in a very gay way. I am a guy, but not a man. A use he/him but I am not a man. I don't use she/her but I am sapphic. I have a complicated relationship with a lot of parts of my identity, and that will not change overnight, but right now what is important is that I am amazing.

I am queer and beautiful and in love. I use labels I want and reject ones I don't.