#KIDS LEAVE YOUR MOMS ALONE
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random cowboy hat situation in ocs family because it’s accurate
(let me know if we want some serious art with jillian in cowboy hat………)
#save warrior nun#warrior nun fanart#uncorrect quotes#jillian salvius#ava silva#mother superion#warrior nun meme#artists on tumblr#doctor superion#THE pedro pascal edit#lmao hear me out I can see something like that happening#suzanne being protective gf but secretly agrees with the point of the song#ava silva being chaotic as always#ava and camilla tiktok addicts#jillian is just confused af#KIDS LEAVE YOUR MOMS ALONE#especially you ava
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One of the things that irritates me the most about a lot of bridgerton fans is the constant vilifying of Violet Bridgerton for being horribly depressed after the LOVE OF HER LIFE DIED IN FRONT OF HER WHILE BEING EXTREMELY PREGNANT, being depressed after she almost DIED giving birth where her autonomy was taken from her and given to her SON, and for being so “mean” to Anthony while he galavanted around in season one shirking all his responsibilities and shagging an opera singer. Criticism of Violet is something that I refuse to accept.
#sorry she’s doing her best as a widow and mother#like she loves her kids and tries to help them the best way she knows how#she is a damn good mom and all of you losers need to leave her alone#sorry I saw something on Twitter the other day that ticked me off so bad.#bridgerton#violet bridgerton#okay bowing out now#if anyone responds arguing with me I will block you so don’t waste your time k!
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so many of you talk about the cruel adults in your childhood that negatively effected you and caused lifelong insecurity yet you're still perfectly fine with being that mean stranger to any kid that has the misfortune of existing around you and thats just really gross !!!
#like i get kids can be overwhelming for a various amount of reasons but its not going to kill you to treat children with basic human decency#adults can be just as overwhelming or annoying—if not more. yet if you talked to an another adult the same way you do to a kid#then ppl would fucking hate you and not want to be around you because youre not being cool and witty—youre just mean!!!#everyone has experienced the frustration of being a kid being mistreated by an adult. some more than others#rather its ignoring your bodily autonomy (from sa and assault to hugging you when you don't want to be touched to not letting you#make your own harmless choices like a haircut or whatever). everyone has been talked down to or had their opinion treated like its nothing#or that their thoughts or input doesn't matter. everyone has a childhood experience with a mean or judgemental adult#yet over and over ppl are fine just repeating that cycle of abuse and hatred#like youre a young adult and youre still getting treated like shit by older ones. but youre able to have a drink or you graduated or smthn#so now you feel like you earned that right to be judgemental & angry & mean to a group of people that didnt fucking do anything to you#anyways. this is because im sick and had to go to the store to get groceries and meds#so its a 20 minute walk to the nearest store in 108 degrees bc i dont have gas money and then in the store im ofc using a face mask#like im sweaty and feel disgusting and like shit but this kid was SO fucking excited about his spiderman toy and wanted to talk and#his mom said ‘i told you no one wants to hear about that crap leave her alone’ and like?? no fuck off let a kid be happy?? hes not fucking#doing anything wrong?? so we talked and he showed me the little tiy that lights up and asked if i saw the new spiderverse movie#and i told him i havent! so he asked why so i explained i have photosensitivity and what that means and why i cant see it#(‘even though i heard its super cool!’) and HE WAS SO SWEET... like immediately hid the toy because oh! flashing lights can hurt me!#and then immediately said dont worry because he'll tell me about it so its like i saw it instead!#and like. guys imma be honest with you. i stilm got no fucking idea what this movie's plot is.#but you bet your fucking ass i was pretending like i was following along & was going ‘no way!’ ‘so it's a parallel universe...?’ ‘oh wow!’#like yea its unnecessary. i felt oike i was gonna collapse and im still struggling to breathe at home now. but also i been the kid#who just wanted to talk about my interests and no one wanted to or was dismissing it.#i know it's not a end of the world deal but i also know that crushing feeling. you gotta be the kindness you want to see in the world yknow#anyways. be nice to kids or im not going to be nice to you. they're one of the most vulnerable members of our society and deserves kindness
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so tired of being a shitty bandaid for my parents' loneliness. like have u ever considered you passed your curse to me and some days i feel so lonely it's like i can't breathe around the emptiness in my chest????
#my dad is like#you can't just be in your room all the time then what's the point of you living here if ill be sitting here all alone then#and im like bhai what#mom also says this to me she always wanted to sit and rant and she used to say you never talk to me#both of these people don't even fucking get it that they're not even interested in me listening to me#mom just wants a sounding board for her venting and dad just wants someone to pretend everything is okay and happy all the time and#the only important things in life is the immediate present and food and making money and stuff#i swear this is why i feel so ????? about myself my identity like no i can't describe myself#because there is no myself there is just a white sheet of paper where people can write whatever they want#im so tired man#why can't they just go and live with each other and leave us kids out of it 😭🙏#like i genuinely am getting teary eyed about such a small thing but god. i want to have my own life so bad. im sick of feeling all these#complicated emotions guilt and anger and pity and obligation and duty like just god pls fuck off#people my age are so fucking mature and put together than me so confident so clear about their path#have friends partners breakups parties just so many new memories#and im just stuck.#and im fine with it now because i get it studying is really important and this is quite basic requirement to be perfect at#atleast my syllabus to survive in this industry#but then. let me do that only. please don't make me pretend to like you like spending time with you and everything#ive hated you for like. idk 14 whole years. since the first time you hit mom in front of me#i remember it so well like my childhood broke that day you slammed her into a wall for some stupid fight and her hair was all messy and#untied and you shouted so loud i thought surely everyone can hear. and then you left to roam around the city at night with your friends#i remember this because my mom and my sister sent me to check up on you with the excuse of a painting of a parrot that i had made#i didn't understand anything back then#but yeah fuck you fuck you fuck you for being so fucking delusional thinking i love you or something#ive prayed to god that you die and i still do#it would directly mean 4 people being happy#anyway#dni#this was meant to be fun and short lol fuck
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Maybe reenajack oneshot coming...... School was awful today
Vent/rant in tags
#popular kids try to leave the quiet weird mid alone challenge (fucking impossible)#i was trying to eat my (wrong) chicken sandwich#and they started asking me to rate them and being pushy about my insta/snap#then they asked me invasive questions like my name and was like#'is that your real name or your preferred name' WHAT DOES IT FUCKING MATTER#texting my mom abt it and shes like 'maybe theyre just living their life#' like they werent like filming me under the cover of filming their friend (the camera is pointed straight at me)#anywayz XP
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so random but in the hallway I heard someone say "I don't want any excuses" and I don't know the context there. But it always makes me ??? when people will throw accusations at your feet or ask you what you were up to and then say anything you give them in response is an excuse. Almost like you've made up your mind about the situation and a different perspective that might make you look like an over-reactive idiot isn't in your favor so instead you automatically become a belligerent over-reactive idiot. It's extra funny when they're plain out of line and don't even have the place to question you let alone judge your response
#as a kid I had a friend who would like throw observations at my feet#and then be like interesting how you seek to explain yourself what are you guilty about#i told her she was nutso and to leave me alone cause girl why do i have to explain that i get free breakfast cause my mom is poor#get your homework done or something !
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act 3, or as I like to call it: Orin PLEASE stop negging me
#s2g everywhere I turn….#minthara call your crazy ex off my tail I’m mclosing it#also fuck this kid who won’t leave me alone#do you think my companipns would hate me if I judt….killed her#I’m really tired of her already and I told her to go away but then she showed up at camp#i have not like a single child in this game but I also just. dislike children Ahkaajsksk#i DID gain approval from minthara when i basically said ‘fuck them kids’ tho so#at least my queen would stand by me#like I’m a very evil weezard who doesn’t want some snot nosed brat around and doesn’t give a shit about a ‘missing mom’#anyway…end rant#bg3 spoilers#honestly sorry for being such a hater bc like#i know on demeter’s run she’s going to love yenna - she likes kids and is a mother#and would be very protective of her#but iraestra??? already told the brat to get lost and she doesn’t like Repeating Herself#lmfao if orin takes her she’ll be like ok go ahead and kill the kid i dont care actually
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Fanny, my sweet, beautiful girl
17.11.2012 – 14.04.2019
#my art#artists on tumblr#I cannot accept that it has been 5 years already#I know covid messed with everyone’s sense of time but it simultaneously feels so much longer and so much shorter than that#exactly five years ago I was holding onto my mom for dear life and sobbing as we watched lilo and stitch together#not the best movie to watch when you’ve just lost your first ever pet you know#and then I cried myself to sleep at the next morning we never mentioned her again#I know it’s because it was way too painful for everyone involved. but I do wish I was allowed to process that grief properly#instead of bottling it up and pretending everything was okay until I was reminded of her#feeling like my heart was being shattered over and over again every single time#well anyway. enough of that. I’ve allowed myself a nice long cry today and got most of it out of my system#and once I was feeling okay I decided to draw her#and I can count the number of times I’ve drawn animals on one hand so.. I’m not too sure about the result#but it felt like to commemorate her in some way.#so yeah. here she is. my dear girl. the best dog in existence. she was always so affectionate and kind#which I didn’t always appreciate bc of how young I was. when you’re a kid it feels like pets will live forever#never barked. never bit anyone. her only crime was chewing on my mlp and lps toys that I left out on the floor#but I’m grateful she did that. it taught me not to leave my toys lying around and to clean up after myself#she really was taken from me way too soon. ideally she could still be alive right now. but I’ve been down the road of guilt and regret#there was nothing I could do. I was a child. I can only hope that she knew she was loved right until the very end#even if I didn’t know how to show it properly. and great. now I’m tearing up again#I suppose it’s unavoidable. April 12th will always be a melancholy day. and maybe that’s not such a bad thing#it’s good to have a day when I can freely remember her and cry if I need to. it’s healthy. it’s better than crying every day#she never liked it much when I cried. always tried to comfort me. that’s the kind of dog she was. I miss her so much#when I move apartments and get a dog of my own I’m getting a spaniel. just like she was#well. maybe a different colour so I don’t end up sobbing every time I look at it. but spaniels really are the perfect breed#I mean. cavaliers especially were bred for love and warmth. that’s just what I need. it will be nice to have someone waiting for me at home#and while I don’t necessarily believe in the afterlife… I do hope that Fanny’s watching over me#spiritually comforting me when I feel all alone in the world. it’s a nice thought for sure#and hopefully she won’t mind me getting another spaniel too much. it will be done in her honour after all. to make up for my past mistakes
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don't ya'll love when your brother has the same trauma and trust issues you do and then treats you almost exactly like your parents, maybe worse sometimes
#tw implied abuse#as much as i doubt and deny the fact that i had a bad childhood.#sometimes i think about what i might have had. parents who cared about my wmotions and mental health#a brother that didn't hit#a dad that was around all the time.#sure he didn't *leave*#but do you really think leaving your kids alone with their mom for a week at a time made a strong emotional connection with them
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Can't believe I spent so much time thinking kiku and kinemon were dead... they really got me there...
#damn izo...... can we get back to that i do not care that much about raizo and this guy...#AND WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND THE WORLD??? damn the reverie..... and sabo#talking tag#watching one piece#episode 1063#also the thing i said episodes ago about kaido being luffys foil because he loves fighting and they smile all the time... and then we get#king saying he thinks he is joyboy bc he saved him.... but the difference of those new worlds they imagine and how kaido wants to die and#luffy the complete opposite.... yeah yeah#toko..... and this swordmaker man just adopting little girls... he is the father that stepped up (multipile times)#kaido just having a drink.... he is just having some fun... fighting and drinking... average friday night for him... thats his love language#it is his love language... he said he just accepted him aldjsks i was just saying shit... see he is just having some fun witj his peer#luffy was so confused with all this he got hit akdhsks first person ever to bamboozle him.....#drunk kadio is so fun to watch.... crying about his son escaping and how everything goes wrong ajdkskskk#his impulsivity and like unpredictability just make him better while drunk akdhsksjk luffy should try shrooms if thats what he prefers....#what devil fruit???? also get robin's name out of your mouth!!!!!! OH ZOU!!! WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE#IT'S LUFFYS DEVIL FRUIT.... WHICH HAS ANOTHER NAME....... WONDER WHY HMMM...🤔🤔#also kaido saying luffy likes him too much.... that's another secret fruit JAHSJAHA#episode 1064#zoro just bleeding out on the floor... nvm he died... well... there are other swordsmen.... this looks like an impressionist film#zoro doesnt get it... he is powerless against death....#IZO NOOO!!!! HE GOT STABBED!!! jesus.... MARCO HELP!!! MARCOOOO WHAT IS HE DOING#THE FUCKING CP0 NO!!! WHAT??? well i respect that decision... leave him alone get a job etc. NOOOOO YOU WON'T WIN!!!#do not make a deal with them either... izo.....#love how traffy and kid have each one (1) woman on their crew. its not ooking good on the diversity office#mugiwara no chibi.... exacty..... also how is big mom tired... i mean i get it but damn.... LAW GOT HER!!! YEAAHHH!!! FINISH HER!!!#law needs to cut her to pieces like he did with that guy.... come on.... punk corna DIO??? omg its a bull.... BUT IMPALE HER!!!#well i see progress now at least.... but until kid magnetos her ass idk... law needs to start cutting also.......#episode 1065
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Had a super weird experience Friday night where I left to go hang with friends and there was someone in a gray hoodie sitting on the steps outside my apartment, which like, weird but ok, and then I come back like three hours later and the person is still there but they’ve tucked their legs under the hoodie to stay warm and I say “hey, do you need a blanket?” and a small tween girl voice goes “...yeah.”
And I go “....do you want a glass of water?” and get “............yeah.”
And I get a blanket and a plastic cup of water and I apologize that there’s a bug on it to this tween who has quite possibly been sitting on the steps outside my apartment for at least four hours at this point. And it’s night time. And while we don’t live in a particularly dangerous area like, this city is not known for being safe.
And I go “you live here?” And she point up somewhere above me.
“Did you get kicked out?” “..............yeah”
“Do you know when they’re gonna let you back in?” “................no.”
And I tell her I’m leaving my door unlocked, and she should knock if she needs anything, if she needs to use the restroom or anything, and I offer another blanket and she declines.
And I close the door and go, and what the hell am I supposed to do with this lowkey child endangerment situation. I can’t call the cops, that will escalate the situation in a bad direction, do I go talk to the family? That makes things worse doesn’t it? And I spend ten minutes in my house going “?????????????????” before I finally open the door back up and go “hey, I just feel really uncomfortable with you out here alone, it’s dark and like it could be dangerous here, so like, I’m gonna clean my trashcan on my front doorstep next to you, and I’m sorry it’s gonna smell kind of bad.”
And I clean out my stinky trashcan with knockoff clorox wipes in weird silence five feet away from this tiny little teenage girl who has been out in front of my apartment for god knows how long as I just kind of wait for something to happen because I’m not leaving this girl alone and she’s just kind of alone on the steps.
Eventually her parent comes to pick her up with a cryptic grumble about “having to tell the class” and does not acknowledge me at all and this tiny girl hands me back my blanket with a “thank you” and I tell her “good luck” and she goes back upstairs but m’am, m’am. You punished your child by leaving her on the steps of an apartment complex for like... At least four hours. In the dark. Until midnight. As temperatures started to drop into the low 40s high 30s. That’s kind of fucked up? That’s a little fucked up? What am I supposed to do???
#like I don't know the context and like you can punish your child how you want and whatever but UH.#I DON'T LIKE THAT YOU JUST LEFT YOUR FUCKING KID OUTSIDE FOR THIS LONG IN THE DARK AND COLD.#THAT SEEMS EXTREME#tw child abuse#The Dragoon Diaries#my natural caregiver drive (thanks dad) took over and I was like CHILD? CHILD ALONE? BAD BAD BAD BAD#also thanks mom for always drilling into me that we keep spare blankets for guests#idk what she did but like my parents would never leave me outside like that??????????????????
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my parents said they're cutting down or 20+ year old mango tree bc the neighbors are complaining. I'm gonna fuckingkillmyself
#first of all FUCK the neighbors they have no joie de vivre or whatever#SO WHAT a tree is dropping some leaves on your backyard? OH YOU GET PLENTY OF SHADE? oh no the sun isn't making life awful for you bc the#tree is protecting your house? oh no!#FUCK THEM.#second of all this tree is me. this tree has been in this house since before i was born and was part of the reason why they decided to move#here at all.#do they think it's just something they can move at will? a tree this big? that has given us so much for so long?#it is an alive thing a breathing thing that shares this living space with us and asks us for nothing and gives us everything#it paces our seasons it gives us shade it gives us fruit#that's the tree that held my swing when i was a kid that was my best friend in the world#that is the home of so many other beings. beautiful moths. so many ants. just today my mom and i were watching a hawk that landed on it#that's where the birds sleep.#they said they were gonna get another smaller tree but don't they see? this will be a crime and it will be held against them on the courts#of heaven.#i will remember and i will testify and i will hold on to this grudge and something in me will be dead forever along with the tree.#they did this once with the blackberry tree and i was powerless to stop it but not again this time i will chain myself to the trunk i will#whatever.#leave my tree alone#lett speaks
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i will explode this man with my mind mark my fucking words
#tell me how you’re going to leave your sick and very pregnant wife and your two year old alone in the city while you go to the lake house#ostensibly to do repairs and work and shit but i am not buying it because I’m a fucking hater i think he ~needed a break~ from them 😒#she’ll start so many sentences with “(he) got mad at me for” like I’m sorry ???#the baby is due at the end of next month and I’m going to be watching this man like a hawk don’t you dare make her a married single mother#I’m so angry on her behalf because SOMEONE SHOULD BE#i don’t want to gossip but all the moms i work for are friends and it’s so hard to not drop hints that i hate this man lol#fwiw 90% of the dads are awesome like they love their kids and their wives and are so so so involved!! so this is jarring to say the least#also that man tried to correct me about anime (specifically JJK) a few months ago and i think my eyes caught fire lol WHOMST
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okay ventpost time im bored and my period is late
#my mother is leaving AGAIN#to stay with my father#bhai mujhe nahi rehna akele i don't want to parent my brother#i don't want to cook or stress about what to eat and clothes and laundry and literally buying vegetables every few days#well all these things are just surface level but i REALLYYYYY do not want to live alone with my thoughts#i want to study i can't just study on my phone with no adult mere sarr pe khade hoke asking ki itna tv#kyu dekh rahi hai kya hua class kyu nahi attend kari#kar liya try bhai call me immature and childish and pathetic and dependent and undisciplined whatever but mere bas ki baat nahi hai#also ooooh listen to my moms great solution: she'll stay there and dad will come!! to live with us two!! alone!! haha.#it's sk fucking sad and repetitively traumatizing ki i don't even know how to react#my sister is the only kid both my parents like when she stays home things are mostly calm and happy#they dote on her they tolerate us#and they should i love her too but now i feel like crying because i don't want her to stay back just for me??? my stupid mental health??#she's doing enough by staying here till rakhi just because i asked her begged her to not leave me alone mami ke side#she could've fucked off and gone to live her life 10 days ago#it's not fair#the person i love and want to live with.. if she stays she's miserable and her being miserable mskes me miserable#i just. i miss her so much. she already feels so distant and busy and then she'll go abroad and totally forget about me right#who doesn't need all this constant depression holding you back weighing you down when you're living your best life#i hate that there's no solution i just have to grow up and be okay with it#i already got more time with her than i thought she stayed home like 2 years extra cause of covid#3 actually#ab why am i crying it was a good day#also i don't want to make it all about me but like. idk when i was picturing my adult life i was thinking like#night clubs and gay bars and beaches at night#i never factored in real factors like the horrifying fucking country we live in 💀💀#it's just it was the only thing that kept me going the promise of a better future#but now what.#and like#it's feels so stupid now the fact that i sometimes want to like
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You want to know how bad my memory is?
I was writing last night and I just straight up forgot that Sanji exists. I have been watching this show since 2012, he was my fave Strawhat outside of Luffy pre-TS, and I FORGOT HE EXISTED.
I was like 'hm yes well the ones who would understand are Nami and Robin... W- wasn't there one more I was thinking of a moment ago? Wasn't there another one who'd Get It?????'
'it's not Chopper. Definitely not Usopp. And it's not Zoro. That's all the remaining Strawhats at this point in the story. So... Why am I convinced I'm forgetting someone? Let's go through the arcs in my head agai- OH MY GOD, I FORGOT SANJI'
#When I tell you my memory is shit... 😭 I used to own a Sanji shirt. What the fuck??#When that post about the memory issues finally leaves my queue#Like I joke about it but this shit can be genuinely terrifying. Like knowing my brain is getting worse. Knowing I'm probably forgetting#Seriously important things and just 'oops I can't remember haha'#It's scary.#I'll never get better because I'll just relive the pain over and over because my brain refuses to remember the help and progress I make#Every day I wake up back at step 1 it's so depressing and scary and horrifying and I hate it#I can never process anything bc I just forget and if I do remember it's like a punch to the chest for the first time every time#And people get SO sick of you after a while. Constantly asking for help. Never remembering anything. They get so annoyed with you.#Anyway. On a lighter note (not actually) I'm trying out a new one-shot :)#Not to speak ill of the 'soon-to-be' dead but Garp was a shit grandfather#So I was like What If Me And Luffy Had The Same Reaction#Because self love starts in recognizing your self through the other god damn it#Even if I finish this idk if I'll post it bc of how personal it is but it has been very cathartic to write#Then again I could just publish it anonymously so my irl friends won't see it. No harm no foul.#I (kid) once pushed my mom (grown adult) out of my room when she caused me to have a meltdown so I could 100% see Luffy doing the same thin#In my defense she had a habit of taunting me and destroying my stuff to punish me after inciting meltdowns and I just wanted to be alone#I was like 7 years old at the time (hell year hell year) so I doubt I actually hurt her. She just looked surprised. I remember that.#Sometimes I wonder why I identify so much with werewolves and then I remember ah yes. The childhood of being treated like a monster.#Like a freak because when people kept pushing your boundaries you'd rather bite than let them do whatever they want to you#Oh boo hoo such a terrible thing for a child to be... Protective of themselves...#ANYWAY. like I said this wasn't going to be much lighter.#I want Luffy to punch the lights out of Garp to protect his friends. Not even in-canon just in this fic#Ik in-canon Garp is a complex guy and loads of fans love him but... Smash eggs make sandwiches know what I'm saying?#Yeah GROOVY
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i have never fought with my mom before but brother i am feeling Annoyed. we are not going to be late because i leave at 7:07 instead of 7:00. school literally starts at 7:45.
#sorry annoyance with my mom is spiking#basically raising her kids for her in every way except money#and when she used to drive us we’deave even later than i normally leave bc she’s pouring herself coffee and we were STILL so early i couldnt#go into the school yet#i drive ur kids everywhere i plan your son’s birthday#your daughter gets out of an abusive home and SHOCKINGLY she’s depressed to hell and back and starts hurting herself!! but no IM the one who#has to fight for her to get put in therapy too#i had to hide thd kids and put her to bed and stand guard and call the cops for her#i got a job literally a week after she told me to get one#me when i have to explain my sister’s sensory issues to my mom so she’ll leave her alone#me after i tell my mom my brother probably needs to be put into therapy too but she wont listen to me and then she’s shocked when the doctor#tells her he has anxiety issues#who wouldve guessed#not to mention the many months long period where she straight up wouldnt feed us#like. didnt buy the groceries#were good now but at least if it happened Now id have the money to doordash us stuff#im grateful for my mom bc she’s done good things for us and doesnt hurt us but good god#rant over#sorry i ran out of my mood balancers this morning#dear diary
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