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I GOT A PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE NOTE ON MY BAG AT WORK SAYING “MEET ME IN THE PIT” BECAUSE I SCOOCHED HER BAG THAT WAS BLOCKING MY LOCKER IM SCREAMING
#WHAT IS HA PP EN ING#IVE NEVER MET THIS PERSON BEFORE#IF SHE WASNT S U C H A BITCH IT WOULD BE FUNNY#BUT UNFORTUNATELY I DID MEET HER IN THE (anteroom) AND AFTERWARDS IT DID MAKE ME CRY#BC I’M BAD AT CONFRONTATION#WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE#Up to something
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FREAK ASS
#art#traditional art#watercolour#fanart#synthv#frimomen#you know the other day i had a realization about body hair. i had never thought about it before but i noticed how a lot of people draw#like arm hair and stuff really straight and neat. and i thought that was just an aesthetic thing. until i looked at nearly every person#i met that day who wasnt related to me. and i realized. oh fuck. my scraggly ass arm hair is kind of an outlier here#im quite fond of it. its fun to poke and play with. its pretty long and sticks whatever direction it wants. my dad and older brothers arm#and leg hair are the similar its just a genetic thing but i found it wild that so many people irl where i live just have really straight#arm hair LOL but anyway while i was drawing this i was ABOUT to give frimo straight body hair because i dunno. now that i know so many#people have it ive readjusted my perception on how to draw body hair BUT then i also thought huh. he has light waves in his head hair#and more importantly. i wanted to draw hair like that one random like 2 inch arm hair ive got that sticks directly out at all times#because its really fun LOL but i dunno. i think my scraggly arm hair suits him.
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All jokes aside, House is literally canonically queer, and if you hate and deny it, you really need to do some self reevaluating and consider the biases you have.
#House flat out admits to being queer and the only excuse people have as to why they dont think he is#is to say that hes joking#maybe he is joking? it literally doesnt matter#people joke all the time about things that personally relate to them#it doesnt mean they arent those things#ive never met a queer person who hasnt at one point or another joked about being queer#House is canonically queer#thats just a literal fact#and before people say its not that serious#queer erasure in media is actually a big issue#house md#house#hilson#james wilson#greg house#wilson#gregory house#queer#queer discourse#queer media
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not much patience or sympathy anymore for jews without a direct connection to the state of israel (mostly usamericans) who complain when we get asked about our opinions on palestine and the israeli occupation. obviously that can be done with antisemitic intent (bad) and i know we are not in control of or responsible for the israeli government and it is easy to feel that we are being unfairly blamed for actions that are not ours but 1) everyone should support palestinian liberation as a moral baseline; 2) wont speak for everyone but i personally do not want or need genocide apologists for friends comrades etc.; 3) there is meaning and power in jews specifically actively loudly and openly being pro-palestine. when atrocities are carried out in our name (literally using the name of our people; opening their arms to us through birthright while removing palestinians violently from their homes and denying them the right of reentry and free movement) it is our responsibility to stand against that as much as we are able.
#ive been asked that several times and only once in a kind of uncomfortable way#but some of those conversations i really appreciated. especially with my old roommate who when we met said#‘are you jewish? ive never met a jewish person before’. treasure them#ribbits#antizionism
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Thinking about how when I told a "friend" who is pan/demisexual that I feel as though might be aromantic her first response was to interupt me before I could say literally anything else besides "I think I might be aromantic" to tell me that "maybe I just haven't met the right person yet" (literally her exact words) claiming she never felt romantic feelings until her current boyfriend when I had watched her date like five other guys before him and each one she told me she was in love with and had never felt romantic before them, and basically ended the conversation right then and there, but then I told my straight cisgender friend that I think I might be aromantic and her response was to ask me why I felt that way and was completely supportive and understanding as I told her my reasons, stating she didn't know if she could fully relate or even slightly relate, but that she would be there for me while I figured my shit out
#ignore me#personal#its 4am Nd im having thoughts about a 'friendship' thats over now#like it was so crazy to me that this chcik who was so open about being queer and especially about being demi#would actually look me in the eyes and tell me that maybe i just havent met the right person yet#and then tried to tell me she never felt romantic until her current boyfriend#when she had basically said the exact same things to me about every other guy she dated before him#and she literally INTERRUPTED ME to say those words#i had literally just barely got the words 'ive been thinking that maybe im aromantic'#before she JUMPED at the chance to tell me i just hadnt met the right person yet#literally never talked to her about it ever again after that#so mahy red flags in that friendship i just toally ignored 😪
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my mother's coworker who ive never met just bought me like £60 of chocolate out of the blue ive literally unlocked the spiritual feeling of having a sugar daddy
#cant reiterate enough ive never met this person before#it's because i recorded a passage of latin for them because they needed to give a speech in latin and didnt know how to pronounce anything#and also because of my a levels i think#this is so crazy though i cant express how much chocolate i currenlty possess#and its like good quality as well#my mum was like hey parcel's arrived for you and i was like. huh i havent orderd anything. boom lifetime supply of chocolate#personal
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Another personal take on today's Neo-liberalism-- how IT is the OTHER SIDE OF THE SAME COIN AS ALT-RIGHT WINGERS (ya know how "new age spirituality" is now becoming synonymous with CULTURAL APPROPRIATION and ABUSE APOLOGISM and NO ONE IS BATTING AN EYE ABOUT IT)....
Just saw a post from a "trans person" about how it's "ableism" to call out an abusive person who is IN THE HIGHER SPECTRUM OF NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER because "being a narcissist is a mental disorder"... are you fucking kidding me???
(fyi, mirroring is a form of MALEVOLENT manipulation - mirroring is something that a lot of ABUSIVE people in the HIGHER SPECTRUM OF NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER DO TO HARM OTHERS).
And I just smdh.... reactive liberalism will excuse anything these days.
...reminds me of American/"Western" kids who are groomed to think being "trans" is about ASSIMILATING to the hetero-normative PERSPECTIVE AND EXPECTATIONS of GENDER EXPRESSION.
it's the same type of oppressive heteronormativity???? (this is why I don't vibe with folks who say shit like "the youth today are kinder" -- NO THEY ARE NOT. they've become more SKILLED at mimicking societal conventions).
OPPRESSION TODAY HAS BECOME MORE INSIDIOUS.
Y'all really need to stop thinking in BINARY.
Just because someone's gay, doesn't mean they can't be racist, or classist, or oppressive??? Just like, just because someone adheres to the identity politics of "latinidad" or any other "non-white" identity doesn't mean they're "progressive"????
(I used to run decolonizeyourself.tumblr.com and decolonizeyourselfarchive.tumblr.com)
....Just because some "westerner" identifies as "trans" doesn't mean they know shit-all about "ableism"!
Please stop throwing around the word "ableism" whenever folks talk about ABUSE that are coming from a person with NPD.
#ya know how autism is a spectrum#NPD is also a spectrum#except there have been over 50+ years of studies on NPD also as a CULTURAL PHENOMENA#it is a direct PSYCHOLOGICAL “result” of coloniality#and when people think it's “ableist” to IDENTIFY an abusive person's behavior as “narcissistic” - YALL essentially are DEFENDING ABUSE!#systemic abuse!!!!#I was a behavior technician before#the difference between those who need ASSISTANCE in the BASIC function of societal interactions VS. those in the “higher function” spectrum#NOT the same as NPD where those in the “higher spectrum” are more likely to be MALEVOLENT#it is NOT ableism to call out an abusive person for being NARCISSISTIC#reminds me of a friend who used to say “kids today are BETTER PEOPLE than KIDS in the past”#and I was like MY MOM WAS BORN IN 1944 AND MY DAD in 1933 AND THEY never adhered to heteronormativity#ive met YOUNG KIDS TODAY in their early 20s who are all about ~lgbt~ but would perpetuate HETERONORMATIVITY#when my mom was working at a fried chicken place at AGE 60 a bunch of 12 year old Latina kids came in twice to make fun of her accent#and how “dirty” she was.... so are any of you understanding that AGE AND GENERATION DO NOT DICTATE SOMEONE'S “bigotry”????#my mom and dad were actual “progressives” at age 60-90 than most American kids who CLAIM TO BE LIBERAL at age 20????#like even as a 30+ adult I have had LATINAS in their 20s w/ gay and trans friends who would be RACIST AND CLASSIST AND MISOGYNISTIC TO ME?
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im gonna be honest i think ppl getting mad when their partner just mentions their ex is like. rly weird
#if theyre constantly bringing up their ex unnecessarily#or they’re making comparisons u didnt ask for#then yeah understandable#but..ppl lived and did shit before they met you#how are u a grown adult needing ur partner to put on a little pantomime about how they’ve never looked at a person other than u#this is a genre of jokes(?) ive come across online more often than id like and yh idk its pretty ick
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i think i have this fear of being seen as a liar i think. like. everyone does it. and as a kid i stole stuff all the time and the way that was dealt with kinda just fucked with my head. do people see my kindness and my compassion as manipulation? am i read as someone trying to tear down the walls so i can get something while ur guard is down?. idk why someone thinking that of me makes me feel so miserable like. what if they were right? ive made mistakes before.. whos to say they arent right about this time? i dont want to stop being kind but it scares me to think about that.
#im so different to all the people ive met. i know afew kindred spirits. 2 is in my cule and im dating the other#but idk. some part of me Long ago decided that i wanted to bring comfort to people. when i see how rough the world gets..#i know thats something i can do to make people feel better. even if its just 1 person.#what else has there been in my life worth living for. aside from the company it brings and the growth i get to be part of.#i never got to be this kind. i never got to be treated this kindly before i transitioned.#idk. i guess this stuff just makes me think im doing something wrong. am i not supposed to try and make other happy if i seem like a trick?#to me this is what being a woman means for me. in so many ways... maybe thats why it being doubted hurts so much.#anyway.. my blood sugar is low. and its 2am. ily reader. i hope its not too much.
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i wish i could articulate the experience of seeing a band you're into live like actually seeing them in person because its so strange yet fascinating
#every time i hear take me for a ride by sparks it makes me think of the nyc show - the first show of theirs i saw#bc that was their walk on music. and i was front row for that show#and like. it was so surreal. so strange. obviously in a good way but its just something id never experienced before#and i noticed this especially with russell in that i had a weird thought that went 'oh wow thats him. he realls looks like himself'#and like of course he looks like himself but what i meant by that was he looks like that guy who ive seen 5 billion images of. hes that guy#like not only does he look like the him in more recent pictures but seeing him in person like 10 feet away#its like i could recognize every era of him. i could see like 70s russell in his face. bc of course thats his face! but still#is this making any sense.#like i feel like if you met 70s russell once and never saw him again until now youd immediately recognize him#and sure thats because of two other things - one that he has distinct facial features kinda and also that hes aged so well#but it was again so surreal to be like. in the same space. right in front of. fairly close to. that guy whos been in my phone. you know?#this was true for ron and the other guys in the band too of course its that feeling of wow its them! those people ive only seen pictures of!#and again being front row for that was bonkers insane. its like what do you mean these people are real#but the thing w russell i just especially noticed almost immediately when they came out onstage like hes that guy. for real#is this making any sense . anyway i just had to finally get this one out#the only downside of this experience was that yes these people are real and yes they can see me. a little anxiety inducing#its like nooooo dont look at meeeee im such a weirdo i bought a ticket to see you like everyone else here#anyway. concert thoughts
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i cant tell if i dont want to go on my year abroad or if its just irrational anxiety response. like i kind of want to figure out a way to not do it but maybe i would regret that
#theres no way for me to not do it if i stay on my current course its compulsory. and then i tried to figure out if i could move to a#different course and nobody could tell me whether i could or not so idk#need a meeting with my personal tutor but im scared of him ive never met him before#i really wish i'd switched to english this year like i wanted to i regret that so much
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#i might be moving in with my girlfriend soon and i am scared lol#i just did not think this is something that would be happening this soon#i assumed itd be a few years because she just bought a house with some friends and i was oh okay im clearly not gonna be involved with that#which i was totally okay with and had absolutely no problems with#but apparently it was assumed I'd eventually move in and they always planned for four people to be in the house#and that was before I even met them and we realized that we actually get along pretty well#it's so weird but in a good way#i just feel like my life is clicking and falling into place#but it's still so scary and im nervous as fuck about it#im scared of not living at home because ive never not lived at home#im scared that living together might make us hate each other and end our relationship#im just scared of the change in general#but we will see what happens#plus we've kinda been testing out me being here for an extended amount of time and so far it's been going pretty well#ive had so many major life changes throughout the past two years and the adjusting to it has been a lot#and it's wild to think that a year ago i would have never even imagined that I'd be considering moving in with a person i met on bumble lol#life is weird and a lot but sometimes you meet people who make it worth it#personal
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that was me idk why I did it on anon. I’m the one that asked if ur British
you really are just trying to kill me today, arent you 😭
no i am not british 😭
#im from the bible belt south#ive never even met a person from england before#why are you bullying me /lh#also im keeping that anon in the inbox#archiving it#♡⊱a talks#♡⊱a answers
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she’s training me on how to reply 🙂↕️
#she says the most out of pocket things like what do i even say to that#but >< its so nice to have someone asking if i ate 🥺🥺#our personalities are so different but we’re So in sync yk… its crazy#also lol i haven’t been that active here lately so i don’t think ive mentioned her before but >< i have a new close friend now..#she introduced me to her friends too (im not that close to them tho) but its really fun to have a multinational group of friends 10/10#its crazy how all my friends have different nationalities and the only kuwaiti friend i made turned out to be my cousin 😭#thats what happens when the country is too small and my family is too big#its so crazy we’re literally cousins and ive never met her before uni 😭#and yk saying im kuwaiti on here Feels like im doxxing myself bc ?? we probably all know each other 💀#thats a little scary if you know me please look away
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Lmao typical swiftie
Person who has never interacted with an autistic person their entire life: omg it’s just like young Sheldon!
Normally would just delete something like this but I love the conspiracy theory corkboard thought process of assumptions anon must've gone through to come to this conclusion
#im guessing rhey saw my post about dj crazy times discourse#assumed I guess that I was taking a stance on dj crazy times ableism discourse#and personally came up with the young sheldon-esque comedy description (i lifted this from someone else in the tag im sorry)#(ive never watched young sheldon. sorry. should i )#and then came to the conclusion that this is somehow connected to me being a taylor swift fan ?#and also that ive never met an autistic person before ? which is a strange assumption i do have to say!#thanks anon this was a fun one to try to figure out with no context
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The amount of talking and negotiating I'm doing with this landlord is giving Andrew Garfield as Jonathan Larson talking to the electric company. Y'know?
#im in hell. this is my personal hell#i havent been at my current job for at least six months but i was at my last one for over six months#which should meet the requirement#she said i need a job in the city i want to move to to be accepted#maam its hard to have a job in a city i cant live in yet#so i asked if i was accepted to a job that met income requirements would that count even if i havent started yet#she didnt answer. now shes asking for dates for my last job#ive rented from this company before! ive met this woman before!!#i was never late on rent. never needed any maintenance. left my apartment in good condition#that should speak for itself#maybe im crazy. maybe im the one in the wrong here#but i dont think i am! i think landlords are a little full of themselves#this apartment doesnt have a bathroom in unit. you have to walk across the hall to use your bathroom#i think that should be a bigger concern than how many months ive been at my job#im just saying maybe no bathroom in unit is a bit of a hard sell#you eant a cosigner? ill get a cosigner. ill get a job in the city before ive moved to the city. ill jump through your fucking hoops#because i have no other option#idk maybe i should become like dexter#but just for killing landlords. cuz im getting a little sick of their attitude
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