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That's it. I'm making my own Relativity Falls AU lorebook.
#sorry im obsessed with this au actually#I'm actually so mentally ill abt it#its ruining my life#i need to write this all down before I actually explode#spontaneous combustion all because of this au#gravity falls#relativity falls au#will i post it anywhere online will I not? uhhhhhhhhhhh...#thats for you to find out and me to also find out because idfk#likely not though so dont hold your breath#also i will 100% not be following the lore that most of the fans of this au use#im making my own because... well i dont mean to insult anyone but the “canon” lore is absolute garbage.#the entire story is just relatively the same except you just switched the characters. wheres the nuance?#wheres the “how would x character in x situation recat differently than y character?”#theyre just the same ig. theyre not allowed to be different.#idk i dont like that im doing it my way
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what is childe doing in bungou gay dogs😟
#finally finished reading this manga after it sat on my to read list for a couple years#a good friend finally convinced me into reading it and i buckled and read the whole thing in three days (i'm not ok <33)#anyway she neglected to tell me childe was in it otherwise i would have read it sooner!!!!!!#NO NO HEAR ME OUT#murder gingers with dead blue eyes that are part of dark antagonistic organizations and happen to be executives in said organizations#relatively similar color palette and cocky confident personalities that are instantly shed when in the heat of battle#tragic pasts where both were mercilessly tormented until salvation occurred in the form of an invitation to their respective organizations#childe has so many siblings that one of them left and infiltrated another anime#i better not see any chuuya stans @ me in the tags and be like ''stop comparing zhongli's wallet to my pookie chuuya''#i will fuck you up#i'm so sry to anyone who actually sat and read all the tags im so mentally ill abt this mf i can talk about him for hrs if given the chance#bungou stray dogs#bungo stray dogs#bsd#chuuya nakahara#nakahara chuuya#lotus draws
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imagine you were born hungry. imagine you were born with a hole in your gut that can never be filled, that is always writhing.
you are a mirror. you were born a mirror, surrounded by mirrors. the first thing you ever know is that you are not human. the second thing is that you are not him. you are a reflection, with his face and his voice and the people who loved him. you can mimic him, pretend so well that you are not anything else, but you cannot escape the aching hunger in your stomach, in your mouth.
he cared for the other one, the you-but-not-you. you hear that you died in his arms once. you don't know how to feel about that; you don't know him, don't care (because you're not him even though you want).
nevertheless, you are drawn to him. maybe it's the way he looks at you, guilty and frustrated and awe-struck all at once, a complicated mixture of feelings that has you shying away and inching closer, bit by bit. you decide you like the way he looks when he's happy, though you'd never say it to his face.
that's probably why you don't say anything, when the world twists, soft graphite and watercolors. because you like seeing him happy.
this world is good enough. it doesn't matter if it isn't real, it can be good enough. you can be alive. he can love you like he loved him be happier here, without the pressure, without the fear. isn't that good? why can't it be good enough for him?
you know you don't matter to him, not like the real you. you know that when he looks at your face, all he sees is the other one. he doesn't understand. it's not fair. it's not fair. you want something for yourself for once.
he says he'd die, if that's what you wanted. standing on the precipice. his heels slip over the edge, hanging in space. you want. you do not want. you want, but not like this. you imagine his body below the city lights, arranged like he's sleeping, a halo of red seeping into his hair. you wonder what forever looks like with him, what it might look like without him. he would die for you. you have never been so afraid of that.
he pulls you over the edge, hands entangled.
you are the only one who can stop this. you are the only one who can save him.
(part of you doesn't want to. part of you is selfish, and aching, and hungry.)
(what would he have done?)
you catch him. save his life. it feels like the worst thing in the world. you hate yourself, just a little bit, for not wanting it. the hunger coils in your stomach.
you leave for a while (because of the severance). you don't want to talk about it. the far shore has waves that beat endlessly against the sand, and you fell apart and shivered back together- and you don't want to talk about it.
you tell him to take you somewhere. anywhere. somewhere nice.
(a nice place to die, you think. you're too much of a coward, too much of a monster, to say it.)
it's beautiful, and he's smiling, and there's a gaping emptiness in your gut. you feel yourself shaking apart, skin to bones.
you tell him you are hungry, the words ripped from your throat like the awful truth they are. and he just looks at you, the way he always does.
and then he kills for you. not human, not yet (you wonder if he would), but it still screams as it dies.
he holds the heart in his hands. you are hungry. from here, it just looks like meat. it drips, plip-plop-plip, black blood splatting on tile. you are hungry. he offers it to you.
(despite everything, you sort of want to be human. despite everything, you sort of want to be dead.)
you close your teeth around his fingers instead. like a feral dog. like somebody who is not (has never been) human. his blood is red, and you are terribly, painfully hungry.
you tell him you are a lost cause, a monster with a pretty face and nothing behind it. that he should give up, should leave you alone, should let you die (should kill you himself, really).
he cries, salty and miserable, shoulders shaking. he cries. for you. because of you. all you can do is stare.
the heart drips on the floor between you. you are hungry.
(he does not look like an angel, or an icarus, or a savior. he looks like a fourteen year old boy in love with a monster.)
you have always been selfish.
you have always been hungry.
#mitsukou#jshk#tbhk#doing a reread and i forgot how mentally ill they are abt each other#i get it though#if i was fourteen and madly in love with my (dead) boy best friend#and he told me he was gonna die (again) if he didn't eat somebody#i'd let him cannibalize#luckily i'm aroace so we don't have to worry about that#uhhh tws#tw gore#i suppose?#tw cannibalism#(implied)#this probably isn't 100 percent accurate#i haven't even gotten to the picture perfect arc in my reread so i'm basing this off of memory#sorry to my followers my for my sudden jshk obsession#but actually not sorry whatsoever
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N*loth is literally prime NPD representation and that's just how it is. Dat's just how i feel . if iiiiiii hear anyhing ab him needing to be humbled or put in his place i'll just tear my hair out right here and match his look. not even trying to lift him up or defend him i'm just defending the mentally ill skajrim characters nobody wants to understand,
#text#literally sick to my stomach from people sayin that shit omfg#no i'm exaggerating but be serious#my sk*rim NPD trifecta is n*loth + s*ddgeir + m*raak#s*ddgeir is the one you all should be humbling cause he's just gay (derogatory)) and materialistic#i swear n*loth didn't do anythign to any of you people he doesn't even like fancy stuff even tho he has the bag#people see a smart bih with a rocket science degree and just wanna say she needs to be '' '' put in her place '' '''#my hyper sk*rim character rambling. .. but seriously tho...#i think 2 this site its: traumatized character = 'sad wet cat'#intimidating woman = 'MAMA DOM'#and character with blown out ego = 'actually pathetic'#like i'll start swinging idc#m*raak is a good personification of NPD cause he doesn't wanna believeee there's someone better than him in his 'skill'#notice how he's Always throwing shit on U for no reason#he's so mad. lols#the entire DB DLC is about m*raak's NPD and how it consumed him. very artistic..#but n*loth i find to be extremely realistic even in the little things#how his NPD isn't an escape from anything but just pillars of his existence#+how his ego doesn't help w/ not caring about wat others think about him.. he neeeeds that validation to feel good 2#but not to survive. his Ego can carry him on it's own#i'll defend n*loth's mental illnesses with my life idrc abt m*raak's diagnosis tho just cause he annoys me from the gameplay LMFAO BYE#if i sound crazy when i post shid likethis it's cause you don't LOVE sk*rim like i do.........rubbing my temples
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npd + rdr culture is seeing people call dutch a narcissist and going "YEAA KING he's just like me ong" and then promptly realise they're actually insulting him with the word 'narcissist' & i proceed to backpedal ...
#i have no idea how familiar the rdr2 fandom is with personality disorders?? ive seen a lotta ppl be positive with them. like “they're just#like me bcs they totally have x y or z!!“ which is fun to see#but ive also seen a LOT of people throw around the word narcissist as an insult as if it isn't an actual mental illness ppl can have#yikes ... embarrassing 😨😨😨#anyways dutch SOOO has npd (& other things too but that's not relevant for this post)#DUTCH IS A NARCISSIST !!1!!!1!2 :D (stims & dances bcs i'm tired of seeing narc used in Always a demonising way)#rdr2#dutch van der linde#rdr#npd#narcissistic personality disorder#he's just like me 🤩#when i was still in my “i literally can't be a narc because i'm literally perfect” phase i literally hated dutch and i hated him even more#bcs of how much i related to him#the urge to say “— i'm not abusive!” so ppl don't get the wrong idea vs hating to need to constantly make it clear that npd ≠ abuse & i can#talk abt his npd & relate to it without the Other Stuff™#i once saw a meme abt dutch's narcissism & loved it so much before proceeding to realise it was made by an ableist#ableism tw
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It's about like.
Willow fought to be seen as strong, because she is and for a very long time people not only convinced her that she wasn't, but that a lack of strength correlated to a lack of worth. And because of this past of having to prove herself and rediscover who she is and could be, Willow accidentally internalized the idea that others perception of her as strong is conditional on her always succeeding despite the obstacles, always staying in control and on top of things, always being the shoulder to cry on, etc etc.
And to an extent, she was right! Amity (unintentionally and well meaningly) refused to acknowledge willow's strength, leading to her having to prove herself, Boscha takes great pleasure in pointing out the chinks in willow's armour because Boscha feels better about herself when someone else is beneath her and she most often makes Willow that target. These are examples in which someone (correctly) paints Willow as pretending to be strong, but act like if they peeled back that facade, all you'd be left with is weak, half a witch willow. Whereas Hunter and Gus understand that even if you peel back willow's front of strength to see the more vulnerable side of her, there's still a strong foundation that takes little time in getting back into the swing of things once she's let it all out. Willow can be reliable and have debilitating anxiety. She can be whiney and needy and still be brave and powerful. Reliable people need someone to rely on too.
Willow's arc in labyrinth runners meant a lot to me because being consistently told that you are weak and need the help of people who love you but who struggle to understand you and see past their own need to protect you, by those people hit close to home and was incredibly validating to see. Somebody once compared the writing of those interactions to microaggressions, and intentional or not it resonated with me bc of that I think.
And now willow's arc in FTF completes this in a way that's very viscerally satisfying to me. Because proving your worth to people, no matter how successfully you do so, takes such a toll on your own mental well being and self perception. Bottling up your emotions so you don't drag others down is so difficult. And you deserve to cry like a big fucking baby if you've been doing this. Let it out!
For the future is an episode about being seen and heard, so to have Willow be so thoroughly seen and heard not just by the people who understand her best within the show, but also by the writers and consequently the audience is just.
It's what she deserves. And I love her very much
#ramblings of a lunatic#the owl house#toh#willow park#i have art i want to make of herrrrr but i have 27 mental illnesses and am banned from most public spaces#just listen to con man by the tuts and think abt her for me! please!!!#this could've been a huntlow post but i restrained myself. barely. anyway just know that hunter is my fav narrative foil for willow#and that is absolutely the reason I'm so obsessed with them#it's about everyone but you getting to define your own identity and then you saying. actually what if you didn't do that. bitch#and specifically how she helps him w/ this and then it comes full circle and he helps her with this#neither of them can tolerate the other talking bad about themselves and it just so happens that they share the same struggles#so by comforting the person they love it loops back around to being a form of self comfort. self recognition (then love) through the other#anyway. explodes
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don't really know how the fuck to feel that if you search up "bipolar" on this fucking app you immediately get met with the "is everything okay? do you need medical help?" message
like I get that it's Like That sometimes but fuck dude, I'm trying to look at the positives while the meds are working, give me a fucking break
#like man I have been thinking abt how since going on meds drawing and shit has been actually fun for me again for once#but then I'm also met with this horrible fucking feeling of like. I'm so fucking stunted bc I'm in my 30s and got diagnosed late#like damn I know it's a waste of energy to have those thoughts. I'm trying to focus on the positives and change patterns#but then I remember oh right! this shit has destroyed my life and i can't get disability or afford behavioral therapy#I guess it's well meaning but fuck dude I don't want to live with the shadow hanging over me all the damn time lmfao#fuck me for having a “scary” mental illness and wanting to see solidarity#and now they have a fucking bot messaging me for it. cool#hyprlnk_h
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not to be dramatic but i just saw my ex in a twitch chat of a streamer i showed her and now i feel sick to my stomach 🤡🤡🤡
#fucking hate that i could still remember her twitch username too#holy fuck#its a dbd streamer doing a subathon and playing bg3 rn.#i genuinely want to throw up#her presence is so unsettling#knowing she's like actually alive and living her life is. it's an interesting thought#idk i think one way i coped with everything was by like subconsciously pretending she just didn't exist anymore#oh i'm mentally ill. a streamer *i* showed her. dbd is My game and he is My streamer#i didnt even think she still watched him....#he's all we used to watch together i genuinely want to throw up rn this sucks so bad#why does she taint everything why does nothing feel like mine anymore#and she's in chat talking about bg3 as if she didn't take that experience from me and ruin it#i know im being very irrational abt everything rn i just. i want her gone from everything#i don't want her in any proximity i just dont i want her out of my life forever in every way#it's been almost a year i don't want shit like this happening anymore#jester.txt
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boo hoo sad pity party posting hours LMAO but I rlly truly don't think I will ever be in another relationship again. I don't feel that I will every b desirable or deserving enough, and I don't feel like I will ever even b seen as a guy n idk. I just don't know.
#mayave its imposter syndrome maybe its internalized transphobia but i dont think any gay man would ever date me bc i dont thibk any of them#would thibk of me as a man. idk. maybe this will change once i start like. PHYICALLY transitioning but i rlly feel like theres no hope 4 me#i feel like i will always be thought of as a woman for the rest of my life i feel like i will never pass as anything but a woman i feel like#i dont have any positive qualities i don't like a single thing abt myself i dont thibk im capable of loving someone im so distant w everyone#im so scared of phyically and emotional intimacy i feel like a burden i dont even know how to act like a man and i KNOW that thst isnt a#fucking thing i KNOW theres no right way of being a man i know that logically but still the fact that i grew up isolated from men and#that i rarely interact w them even to this day i have no male friends no male role models nothing im so scared im gonna like.#break social rules n shit which is RIDICULOUS bc once again there's no right way to b a guy or to preform masculinity and also im so early#in my transition no one even knows im a guy anways. but also im worri3d bc of thst no one will ever seen me as one unless i start conforming#to traditional masculinity and i dont know now to emulate it bc ivenonly ever seen it from afar i dont actually know what guys talk about#howbthey act around eachother what is socially acceptable or not i dont have a clue bc i dont ever interact w men and its like. fucking#stupid of me to even want to know bc it shouldn't matter to me BUT IT DOES and it makes me so anxious that i do not know how to emulate it#even if i wanted to i wouldnt know how bc i grew up in a fucking cult and i know so little men and i have terrible social skills n i#probably have autism which just. everything is compounded upon eachother n i feel like im going crazy i dont think ill ever be enough.#I hope i'm in a better mental place when i start t but even that im so fucking bad at doing things bc i have executive dysfunction that like#i havent even started tbe process or called thr clinic im just likem fucking spiraling. I hope my mindset becomes healthier once I start.#anwyss lol. do u guys like me? bc i feel like im unbearable n im trying not to be let me know if u do or not so i can try to cahnge ^.^#🪽
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Steve being listed as a minion specifically on Hunter's wiki page is so funny to me for some reason. It's not particularly inaccurate it's just really funny that he's the only person listed by name in that section.
#hunter toh#steve tholomule#I'm also obsessed with it bc the one interaction we got between them didn't have hunter acting as an authority figure even remotely#he was following darius orders and Hunter was a lil beepo 16 yr old like oh!!! ok cool#and then they had a casual convo not once do we get a single acknowledgement hunters coven head rn#aside from all the other reasons that's why im such a steve and hunter besties truther#we do not see him interact with any of the other coven scouts where they like. actually know him#and he's so standoffish with everyone else but he's chatting with Steve so naturally#I'm obsessed with the implied friendship here#Hunter: no friends from work allowed#Steve:#Hunter: I'll make an exception he seems very polite#I'm so mentally ill abt them for fucking real
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Once again I am wishing/hoping that Matt and Tal homebrewed a physical disability mechanic for Ashton
#im. SALTY#there are multiple examples in CR of a mental illness getting a mechanic#that actually has consequences#but the first explicitly physically disabled PC has no mechanic for it#ashton 'in pain constantly and has memory problems from a TBI' greymoore#i've mentioned this before but not been quite as angry abt it publicly#bc i wanted to keep giving them the benefit of the doubt#but it's been another dozen episodes and still nothing#let physically disabled characters be DISABLED#fuck!!!!!#'oh but martin they've been so busy! there hasn't been time to deal with ashton's stuff'#'and it would be so inconvenient to have their one strong medium sized character limited physically like that'#mm-hmm. chronic pain and memory issues arent...convenient#they aren't a fun storytelling device#or like...flavor#they cause problems for the person with them and for the people around them#i'm sure that ignoring that is empowering for some people#but not me.#even if it really is that like...ashton pushes through all the pain and doesnt let anybody see it#i really wish they'd start acknowledging that#and maybe they still will!#but i am reaching the point where my 'benefit of the doubt' is waning#still holding onto hope but...waning
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whenever i talk positively abt college i do need a caveat that my university itself is hellish and isn't dystopian but feels adjacent due to [redacted] being so close by & the administration sucks. also i feel like it's giving me a chance to actually be a person without the shadow of trauma right behind me so even as i'm mentally ill and actively trying to protest my university it is actually so fucking freeing that what happened when i was 15 is not something people just know about. like these people don't have the knowledge that i disappeared during COVID and came back entirely different and Better but clearly haunted. these people only know the issues i have that i choose to divulge and it's almost easier to hide it because i'm not in classes for eight hours. i finally feel intelligent because i'm not going home and collapsing from exhaustion to the point i can't do anything; i can actually do work and be productive bc i'm only in class a bit and studying things that matter.
college is expensive and shitty and elitist and i do not love my university but i love being in college so much because it just works better for my brain and like. it's been so long since i've felt people just liking me without this haunting element of weird trauma sharing shit or homoromanticism or past histories. it's a complete clean state. and people still like me. it's so fucking healing is what it is
#nightmare.personal#that's why i talk abt it so much why i like looking at my 4 year plan why i've BEEN talking abt it since before i was here#the university system of this country starts and i could go on about it for fucking hours#and i recognize that like my university is genuinely so tied to settler colonialism and just.#they fucking armed our police and ignore the student body and i hate them so badly#but also. hey. i feel like i'm actually alive. and not living on borrowed time#and some of the people here are really amazing actually and. :')#i have independence i have freedom i'm not just the mentally ill girl i have a LIFE#(that being said being mentally ill is kind of shitty in college but im having a good day so dw abt it)#idk. idk. i feel like i got a second chance of life when i turned 16#and i'm just. healing and healing and healing.#after being underwater my entire fucking life before that.
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i probably need a break from this blog lol. i swear i will see any negatively worded post and regardless of who it's directed at or even what the contents of the post itself are, and i will look at it, and i will think, "ah! clearly this is an attack directed at me personally because op hates me specifically and wants me to know that"
#yeah yeah mental illness i know#i'm just so fucking tired of never really being able to tell when people actually hate me and want me to fuck off#like for the love of god i will go away if you really want me to but please just tell me directly instead. please holy shit.#i can not fucking take people making these little vague posts about me thinking i'm too stupid to notice#i promise you that you can word any negative vague as ambiguously as possible and i will still become paranoid that it's actually about me#just fucking. don't DO that.#this is not a vague abt moots or even anyone who follows me or actually even any one at all#i am having a paranoid spiral rn and i am not capable of communicating my feelings in kind and polite ways
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Sometimes I feel like the people on this website forget that just bc something is a symptom/trait of mental illness/neurodivergency it doesn't make it free from critiscism? A shitty behavior is a shitty behavior, it may be Harder to work on but like you still need to
#thought abt people I used to know who started being like Well I have [insert mental illness here] so I'm jusy#like this forever and you have to accomodate for that and its like. It would make everyone but Especially You happier if you#actually like worked on this behavuor rather then just going Haha this how I am forever take it or leave it!#not a vague to anyone who may be reading this btw#this is abt specific people i no longer talk to who decided they get a pass to be just obnoxiously mean to everyone#chittering
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My desire to make an owl house fan blog so I can be autistic about it in public vs my aversion to most fandom spaces FIGHT
#/lh#this autism is fuckin RAGING over this show tho dear god#even made another ao3 account/neg#(<- still do NOT like that sites policies and general vibes but. no good alternatives and it's like. I never judge my besties for being on#there so it's a fighting my OCD moment me thinks#) but like see even ignoring all the typical fandom bigotry and bullshit that I'm staying out of there's also the problem of#people liking the characters and relationships(/p) I do but liking them the WRONG WAY/lh#This happens with D@rius why does everyone misinterpret him so badly. give him his whimsy and swag back RIGHT NOW#we are not even going to get into how absolutely insane unhealthy half this fandom is about Humter like why is your hobby traumatizing this#little orphan boy please healready has every disease#media cw#If I do make one I am like. not announcing it(tm) I'd explode and die if I actually tried to get followers on a media account/VLH but ig#ppl can ask if they wanna be autistic abt it together#or just like. if anyone wants to be autistic about the owl house together in general hmu I am so mentally ill for the love of god help m
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comes out of the "googling things about the disorder you have and then googling a vague medical term and not getting a clear answer and complaining about the vagueness of the term to your friend who probably has more familiarity with the term and it's implications in context" session covered in blood and wailing and writing on the floor
#Anyway I have not gotten more than 2 paragraphs in to a study talking about how thyroid disorders can potentially cause#Permanent Consequences To Brain Development if they aren't treated at important times. And I struggled because they used#The term ''adult onset'' and looking it up was vague and like it SAID ''post puberty'' but the same definition said#''later in life'' and that part was HIGHLIGHTED BY GOOGLE so I missed the puberty part but even beyond that#Hypothyroidism is most commonly diagnosed in ppl who are like 50+ I believe so does ''later in life'' mean ''not a child'' or#''genuinely middle aged'' in this context specifically because stuff talking about hypothyroidism mostly talks about it either#In terms of Congenital Hypothyroidism and Hypothyroidism (which they mention is most common in ppl assigned female at birth and like 60+)#So there's barely anything talking Abt ppl like Me who got diagnosed in their Mid Teens so probably Mid Puberty and AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA#I'm going to drive into a lake. Thank you to my best friend ever for breaking down the term and how it's used in medical contexts for me#I owe you my life#Anyway part of the reason this was so fucking Much: thing I'm reading (like an actual medical study) mentions that the cognitive issues#Associated w ''adult onset hypothyroidism'' are largely reversible but before then untreated hypothyroidism can have significant effects on#Brain development and while I caught mine early and got medicated when I was ~18 I had a gap in treatment#Bc I aged out of my pediatrician and didn't have the motivation to actually Get A New Doctor As An Adult (yay mental illness)#Which like. Lead to a Months Long gap in medication. And like I could've BEEN medicated if I put in the work but I felt fine with skipping#My meds bc from what I knew about hypothyroidism it obviously had Symptoms but not ones that would have Significant Long Term Consequences#Like I thought ''oh I'll have depression and fatigue when I'm unmedicated'' NOT REALIZING THAT BEING UNMEDICATED COULD HAVE A SIGNIFICANT#LONG TERM IMPACT EBCAUSE OF HOW IMPORTANT THE THYROID IS TO FUCKING EVERYTHING IN YHE GOD DAMN BODY#THAT EVEN PROPER FUTURE MEDICATION COULD NOT NECESSARILY TAKE CARE OF#And like hey: maybe that's on me for not connecting the dots or something. Maybe I knew the thyroid controlled a lot of hormones but#I just didn't make the connection that that means it can have Permanent Irreversible effects when left untreated#But also HEY THIS IS THE KIND OF SHIT YOU SHOULD SPELL OUT TO PEOPLE ESPECIALLY PEOPLE WHO MIGHT HAVE COGNITIVE DIFFICULTIES AND THEREFORE#STRUGGLE WITH THINGS THAT SHOULD BE ''OBVIOUS''. Anyway I'm mad
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