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phantom i am loving all this sasha and jon content mainly because i never really see it (especially solely focused on the two of them) you're really doing gods work here
As always, I get latched onto the most obscure dynamics and have to carry the tags on my back. I’ve latched onto the two of them separately like a strange puppy and so clearly the only solution is to smush them together in a fun silly complicated dynamic that I am so correct on fr. I am doing gods work indeed!!!!
#I think also a part of this is#I’m very aroace and like#I’m fine with romance sometimes but so much heavy romantic shipping will ick me out a bit#and so I’ve noticed a lil bit#that getting so attached to these smaller dynamics are a lot more palpable#it’s easier for there to be no content#than to fight against the current in a sea of only romantic shopping#shipping*#so like Jon n Sasha… I can do whatever i want and THERES not much I’m fighting against#idk it’s easier for me that way#rambling#phever dreams with phantom#asks#mutuals
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Truly experiencing the opposite of a gay panic, the aro/ace dread, when I think somebody has a crush on me
#like I’m flattered but also makes me very uncomfortable#I totally borrowed aro ace dread from#@our-aroace-experience#aromantic#asexual#demiromantic#demisexual#graysexual#grayromantic#joke#but also true
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Local aroace absolutely delighted at the fact that isat has multiple aspec characters. (Odile can probably be read as just a preference thing but I like to think she’s demiro :] for my aro heart)
#in stars and time#isat fanart#no spoilers! I’m at act 3 rn :) just finished everyone’s quests#isat siffrin#isat mirabelle#isat isabeau#art :0]#aroace art#The fact that it wasn’t just mirabelle but was also sif made me smile!#like it was already nice to have her but idk … the little sense of solidarity is sweet :) and having even one aspec character is already a#rarity. So her and sif both being at least acespec is very sweet#Also them hitting us with mirabelle saying she has no romantic preferences bc she “likes everyone equally ^_^” is so funny#like 50% of aspec people I’ve seen went thru that exact pipeline.#the pan/poly to aro pipeline. God bless our troops (mirabelle isat)
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One of my pet peeves after having gotten very into swing dance as an aroace is seeing videos of people swing dancing or really doing any type of partner dance and over half the comments just being stuff like “how are they not in love😳” or “friends🤨” like please free yourselves, you can have a lot of chemistry and fun dancing with someone and it doesn’t have to be anything more than that!! Just fun!!! I’m not saying a little bit of lighthearted friendly love can’t be involved but it’s not always that deep, it’s just having fun!!
#also in reality half the time I’m dancing with men old enough to be my dad ahskajaksks#and they’re very fun to dance with!!!#and like yeah I’m a type of person who I’d say I fall in love with random strangers a lot and that can carry over into dancing#using the term love very broadly here obviously#and that’s okay if you’re that type of person but also… it’s not that deep… just two people having fun#do I make sense here?#aroace#swing dance#partner dance#east coast swing#west coast swing#aromantic#asexual#by yours truly the omelette of cheese
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Still was probably reading early Dressrosa when I did this one. It’s wild looking at these drawings tbh lmao.
#this was when i was almost out of denial that i was gonna ship em#cuz i was very firmly in the camp of aroace luffy#but what can i say i am a bitch for this kind of ship dynamic#and I’m not NOT still aroace luffy tbh#i generally go ‘Demi-romantic ace luffy’#but also I’m just like idk man they’re queer#which is funny cuz that was my own vibe lmao like i was like I’m ace! I’m biromantic ace! I’m….queer!!!#anyway what kinda tag rambling is this#my art#lawlu#law x luffy#luffy x law#lulaw
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Look like if I thought I could get away with it and if I was catholic or Christian or whatever I would definitely become a nun just to avoid the whole “you dating anyone?” “See anyone you like?” And the “so you’ve never dated?” Bullshit
#also I’m like#pagan#I worship a very specific set of gods#and goddesses and muses#and I don’t feel like spiting them#they might smite me#asexual#aromantic#aroace#ace#aro
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Sometimes I forget I’m not out until my parents make a comment about marriage or dating or something lmao
#I don’t really care#it’s just like “oh I wonder if [me] will be the one to get married first”#the other day my dad made a joke that referenced me being nonbinary#I’m not nonbinary#technically#it’s funny#they keep guessing at what kind of queer I am#they are very supportive though.#aroace#aromantic#asexual#lgbtqia
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Bigot: You’re gonna die alone
My AroAce ass: I sure hope I do.
#aroace#aromantic#asexual#the Latino Catholic culture of growing up being told constantly you’re gonna marry and have babies#and your skin just crawls to the point you wanna tear it off#as the very thought of anyone touching you like that repulses you#and growing up watching trainwrecks of relationships of screaming matches and fighting and full on disrespect go on#yeah no sorry I rather be alone#I want none of that#touch repulsed#I’m fine with my cats and just being with friends
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Just wanted to say that a friend once asked me whether I was aroace(respectfully) and it made me think
When I was growing up I thought romance was just friends cuddling on a sofa
That is how my brain still thinks of romance today, even after like six years of exposure to fanfic
it just automatically erases the sexual stuff(and whenever I think of anyone touching intimately I just no not really)
Been ping-ponging between thinking I was ace or not these past few years
I am, probably
Still trying to decide on the aro but i would really like someone to figure out puzzles and write and draw with so probably not aro (but im still not really interested in dating)
#just some thoughts as I’m procrastinating practicing clarinet#I guess#aroace#aromantic#asexual#lgbtqia#hopefully my very Chinese family won’t ask me why I’m not in a relationship even after uni#they’re trying to get to know me better tho so that’s nice#my mum once threatened to kick me out of the house(temp) if I ever brought a boy home#very fun imagery of me hiding a boy in my bed(but I pretty much knew at the time I didn’t like boys that way yet
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Tag the OC that’s allo-ace
Tag the OC that’s aro-allo
#as an allo-ace myself#lowkey sick of the very little rep we get being almost exclusively aro-ace#like don’t get me wrong aroace people absolutely deserve more rep!!#but when it’s the only rep we get it makes it seem like people who are one or the other HAVE to be both#does that make sense?#idk it’s almost midnight and I’m rambling oldie#shut up Allison#character prompt#character tag#oc inspiration#oc inspo#oc prompt#oc tag#oc questions#orginal character tag#original character
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Jughead Jones, famous woman-hater.
#at this point I’m just being redundant#like yes yes we all know that he’s a feminist we all know the ‘woman hater’ title is ridiculously inaccurate#I just find it amazing that it was inaccurate in the og comics#it would have been so easy for these old comics to have a character be legitimately misogynistic 24/7#especially when he keeps TELLING people that he hates women#it would have been so easy for them to actually make him act like it#but instead we get this#and that’s so wonderful and fascinating to me#it’s not something they had to fix in the reboot to make his character more palatable. he was already like this.#archie comics#jughead jones#archie andrews#betty cooper#veronica lodge#aroace jughead#sure he says a few actually misogynistic things here and there over the course of 80+ years#but that’s drowned out by a tidal wave of times he’s a good friend to the girls and supports them and defends them and etc.#in a world with very little consistency and a very long runtime: majority rules
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Fabian and Riz to me are like. They’re like the definition of “a secret third thing” to me but not like in a qpr way. Their thing is just Their Thing, like they’re inseparable they drive each other fucking bonkers they care so deeply and they’re stupid teenagers and I don’t think they would even really think about it at all. I don’t think either of them can imagine a world where they’re not at least around the other, and like whatever their thing is definitely isn’t allo but it’s definitely not regular besties shit. They just like being around each other, I don’t think either of them would really even think to put a name to whatever it is they’ve got going on, and I definitely don’t think either of them would ever put enough thought into it to even figure out what a qpr is, much less label themselves in one. They’re just Fabian and Riz. The Ball and Captain of the Owlbears. They’re just them I think. Idk man.
#kiri rambles#idk dude it’s a hard thought to verbalize I think#as someone who is more recently realizing that I’m PROBABLY at least some manner of arospec and probably also acespec but also in a very-#-happy romantic relationship of nearly two years with my best friend- who’s also thinking he’s at least acespec- I just kinda relate to-#-whatever thing they have going on is#like yeah technically we’re dating but we’re also just like. hanging out mostly. idk#IDK. idk I just relate to their crazy codependent bullshit I guess#fabriz#<- sort of?? idk#like I like some of the ship stuff a lot of it is very funny and I relate to it but I also really respect the more stark aroace Riz-#-believers like I think they’re both true. yeah he IS aroace or at least aroacespec to me but also FROM EXPERIENCE whatever he and Fabian-#-have going on has NO way to be like regularly platonic#I guess this makes me a qpr Fabriz truther?? idk I don’t think they’d ever outright say it#but it’s the same flavor as a qpr I think. it’s in the same vein but neither of them will ever acknowledge it#anyways sorry for my incoherent ramblings I just Feel That Shit man#riz gukgak#fabian aramais seacaster#fabian seacaster#d20#fantasy high#yeah that’s all the tags I’m giving it I’m tired
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don’t be a coward
*aroaces your rottmnt leo*
#it’s pride month I’m allowed to do whatever I wanttttttt#Now for hcs no one asked for:#Donnie’s demiromantic aegobisexual#They’re the only one who actually has a concrete label bc they like finding words (hence the micro labels lol they dissect their identity)#Leo knows he’s aroace spec but hasn’t bothered finding a micro label bc he’s vibing he’s also trans and finds men aesthetically attractive#Bc I say so#Mikey and raph don’t really bother with that stuff but Mikey cares more about his family and art and having fun than romance#And raph thinks women are really prettyyyyyy but hes okay not dating for now bc he’s like 17 and has bigger concerns#Like keeping her idiot siblings from accidentally killing themselves /aff /hj#did I just aspec all of ur turtles??? Yes#yes I did.#I’m very proud of myself#listen leo and usagi are cute#Now hear me out: make that queerplatonic#(I have a problem with making relationships queerplatonic lol)#Tbh most of this is a joke/light hearted I don’t really care about their orientations bc they’re just a fun turtle family!!!#Romance has never been anywhere near a draw to rottmnt for me#So maybe that’s why I subconsciously decided they were all aspec lol#I need them being siblings and having fun they can date when they’re 40 (I bet splinter agrees with me)#/j#rottmnt#tmnt 2018#rise of the tmnt#rottmnt Leo#leonardo#tmnt leonardo#leonardo hamato
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triple A mad scientist <3
#like how their eyes came out in this one#feeling very. idk off lately. about sexuality and stuff#my aunt said something about a boyfriend to me a few weeks ago and I’m still not over that so maybe that’s it#anyway *shaking* I need to draw as many aroace characters as possible-#blue phantom#the blue phantom#ducktales#ducktales 2017#dt17#duckverse#gyro gearloose#mad ducktor#wackys art#aromantic#asexual#aroace#agender#pride month
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my parents started talking to me about things that were important to agree upon in marriage/relationships (finances children and such) and i was like oh you’re talking to the wrong guy
#aromantic#asexual#aroace#they are very supportive in general but they don’t exactly know i’m aroace??#i’ve heavily implied it to them but i think they’re just like “just in case”#which is chill they’re just looking out for me 👍#still goofy though#axel rambles
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Someone take Aromantic Moodboard AWAY from me before I start thinking about Normal and his crush on Hermie again
Update: I’m actually going insane I cannot be helped
#‘Normal liking Hermie was very much a oh! they like me so I like them! thing’ Will Campos…….#I don’t really have a hc for the teens orientations they kinda just exist in some sort of space for me but I’m squinting so hard rn#I know this isn’t like an aromantic Thing exclusively but it was something *I* experienced w/ my first high school relationship#(I’m grey aroace but still it’s so familiar it’s making gears click)#normal oak swallows garcia#normal oak#dndads#oakworthy#but like in a study sort of way yknow
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