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Britney Spears - I’m Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman (2001)
#britney spears#I’m Not a Girl Not Yet a Woman#Britney spears I’m Not a Girl Not Yet a Woman#2001#music#video#videos#music video#music videos#tunes#britney jean spears#2000s#y2k#00s#00s music#2000s music#y2k music#y2kcore#00s pop#2000s pop#y2k pop#2000s nostalgia#2000s kids#2000s style#y2k nostalgia#y2k aesthetic#y2k style#2000s kid#00s nostalgia#00s aesthetic
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#britney spears#crossroads#i’m not a girl not yet a woman#overprotected#i love rock n roll#zoe saldana#teen movies#Spotify
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Britney Spears - I’m Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman (2001)
#music video#y2k#2000s#00s pop#00s#britney spears#I’m not a girl not yet a woman#Britney#2001#canyon#Cliff#aerial#drone#desert#island#sky#blonde
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it is always incredibly irking to me when I see a post with NPC characters and its like “for the (insert NPC) GIRLIES ❤️🥰💦” “For the LADIES 😘😍🥵”
Hi! 👋 Hello! 👋 GUY here! Gay trans MAN here!
Here’s some Ominis for EVERYONE because EVERYONE deserves their favorite character, and I’ll be posting pictures of other NPCs too ❤️
HAVE SOME FREE OMINIS BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE❤️ PEACE AND LOVE ON PLANET EARTH
#Been seeing more and more of this mentality of “the only people in this fandom that matter are the GIRLS simping over GUYS”#I really. REALLY. Hate that. Its toxic and its cruel. You want more queer representation in the HP universe and scream and cry when there#Isnt any- YET when there are queer people in your fanspace you subtly make it plain and obvious you don’t want them.#To the people who conscientiously do this: 1) Screw you and the horse you rode in on 2) grow a pair#I’m so sorry to anyone who isn’t a thirsty woman drooling over Sebastian or Ominis in this fandom and has MAD respect for you still being#Here. Ship your rarepair. Make those woman or men kiss. Enjoy the NPCS company platonically. Ily ily ily#I want to be the change I want to see in this fandom- so even tho I don’t screenshot NPCs often- I have a point to make.#Thank you for reading my rant in tags if you did#hogwarts legacy#ominis gaunt#ominis x mc#<- ???? Sure???
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The Dolly version of Jolene is knowingly pathetic in the way she pleads with Jolene. The Beyoncé version is unknowingly pathetic in the way she threatens Jolene to stay away from her man, it’s giving Better Than Revenge.
Out of the two versions, the self awareness Dolly’s version has and the lack of self awareness Beyoncé’s has makes Dolly’s the clear winner.
#better than revenge#was written by a teenage#taylor swift#who looks back on the lyrics with embarrassment#she says back then she was foolish#enough to think another woman could steal your boyfriend#rather than your boyfriend is responsible for his choices#telling another woman to stay away from your man is pathetic#direct that energy at your husband#or better yet just divorce him if he doesn’t want to be faithful#the#beyonce#version is very faux empowerment#as though anger and sass are cool in and of themselves#but they aren’t when they come from a place of#I can’t trust my husband but I’m staying with him anyway#girl that’s not a flex#anyway#dolly parton#Jolene#forever
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Hellsing AU where Integra is a singer and she’s invited to sing a happy birthday song to this cursed, dark ass king. While she is expected to arrive in an elegant dress and dressed like any other lady in the castle, she arrives poorly dressed, wearing armor and with a broken lens, some blood running through her lips.
Without any comment about the disappointment of the audience, Integra sings as a siren, if it were not for her loud presentation it’d be for sure that more than one nobleman would fall on their feet for her and although only some people applauded at the end of her song, only one is hypnotized when he hears how she apologizes, in her words describing how one of the guards did not stop calling her “English whore” for wearing a dress that wasn’t of his liking, so she stole his armor in response.
#not sure if this makes sense#hellsing#hellsing ultimate#hellsing alucard#alucard#integra hellsing#sir integra#alutegra#yes enrico is that guard how did you know#but hmm#and since then she’s his royal singer#does that even exist#not a history girl I’m sorry#YET ITS ALUTEGRA#Integra has to kick at least one ass before being the complete badass woman she is
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In a weird “longing for romance” mood…..hope I get well soon
#last week I considered reinstalling a dating app 🤢#bitch you are NOT in the mind space to be lookin for that rn#but idk……….i would like to experience what it’s like to have a girlfriend AT SOME POINT#last time I kissed anyone was like 2 years ago and it was spin the bottle with people I wasn’t really that attracted to#it was the first time I had kissed a girl and I remember thinking#‘wow if this already feels really nice how must it feel when I’m actually in love with a woman..?’#and now that thought has been bouncing around my head again a lot lately :/#can’t put myself out there yet though. not any time soon.#sigh……
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so many young women recently desiring to be stay at home mothers….the ironic part of it is that all of those women that do become stay at home moms will one day understand why the women before them fought so hard for them to not have to fulfill that role at the point at which they realize that their personhood has been entirely sacrificed in the name of motherhood & there is no going back on that. all women who are stay at home moms are forced to put themselves aside to take care of their children and husband & are forced to make that their entire identity & that is exhausting and dehumanizing. that is how betty friedan started second wave feminism w the feminine mystique. bc women finally realized that all women hated being housewives & there wasn’t smth wrong w each of them individually as they had all believed. but those that do not learn history etc etc……
#michelle speaks#being a stay at home mom is not sustainable for women in our society for a million reasons#& yet some women refuse to see that just to live out a fantasy they were sold as young girls#& for many of them i cannot blame them bc they r forced into it before they have the ability to really learn that there r other options#but for the women who r in a position where they can actively choose how to live their lives#that they would choose to be stay at home moms despite the insanely oppressive nature of it 😩#the thing is that YES there is an issue of women being forced to do economic labor & then come home & do the same amount of domestic labor#so now women r expected to do double the work right. however i want to propose a solution to this that might be crazy#women CAN & SHOULD set higher standards for men. do not marry a man that expects u to mother him. do not let him get away w slacking.#& yes that can be easier said than done. but my point being that setting higher standards for men while having independence that can allow#u to leave said man if need be is ALWAYS going to be the superior option to being entirely dependent on that man#listen i am DEEP on my sleep medication idk if anything i said made sense….#this woman on bb was like if i have 2 kids i’m not working i’ll br at home & i was like GIRL???? IN 2024???????#women should aspire to be so much more than someone’s mom…….u r a whole person w/o that.#this is mot to say that there’s anything wrong w wanting to be a mom it is abt women wanting it to be their whole identity#also this other woman keeps being like my husband LET ME be on the show girl he LET YOU???? IN 2024?????????????
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ame worlds beyond number is soooo non-binary coded To Me.
#it’s like. hm.#like that thing of when you’re a kid and you don’t have the expectations to Fit In to the gender binary quite yet#and you can run around and be loud and rough and dirty and no one cares because you’re a seven year old girl#and then you grow up and people ridicule you for being outside of the binary through adolescence#and then as an adult you learn to perform gender for the sake of your community#(thinking of ame’s outfit being pretty hyper feminine and the way her personality as an adult contrasts with her kid personality;#like because of both her position as a witch and a woman she needs to be calm and professional and a caretaker and a mediator and…)#idk.#I’m just thinking about the 14 year old ame scene again it was A Lot#‘she’s not a girl- she’s a witch!’ sparked this post btw.#worlds beyond number#also I get such gender envy from children’s adventure ame and it’s because she reminds me of me as a kid#I want that gender back ok!!!!#twtwatwo#ame wbn
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I don’t think Miss Grimshaw is ever actually discussed with the nuance she requires but as the Molly O'Shea woman I do not want to get into all of that
#she’s such an interesting character and yet I see no one actually going in depth about what makes her interesting#it’s always just. rampant misogyny which yeah she’s a woman in a video game#or it’s discussing her like she’s just this wonderful mother figure#like no. that is not what she is. neither of those are what she is#she is a complicated person and I find her more interesting than most of the gang#I don’t like her but she fascinates me#and it’s really frustrating and confusing to see her discussed in the way that she is#that being said I’m obviously not looking for grimshaw stuff very often so there cool be very good analysis of her out there#but I’m yet to see it widely talked about and when I have seen her discussed it always feels like huge aspects of her are missed#rdr2#girls against grimshaw
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Feeling another random burst of self confidence (probably due to lack of sleep honestly) so have a heavily made-up eye reveal I guess? 😂
#this is from my bridal makeup trial back in December#and tbh even though it’s not exactly what I wanted I still really liked it and the overall look looked good in my engagement photos#we’re gonna change a few things for the day of but yeah#no one asked but I actually like my eye shape for the most part#I feel like they can look kind of sleepy or a bit too small sometimes in photos where I’m not wearing as much makeup#or any at all#but I still like them especially since they look like that less often now#maybe it’s bc I’ve kind of grown out of that and I haven’t really noticed until recently#or maybe it’s just bc I’m getting a little better at taking photos lol#either way if you’re a teenage girl or a woman in her early 20s and you have these random but prominent insecurities like me#I just wanna say that you’ll get past them/grow into them#maybe it’s just those awkward teen years or maybe you’re not completely comfortable with how you look or taking pictures yet#but it’s okay you’re beautiful in your own way#and it’s okay to have insecurities too#everyone has them whether you realize it or not#I def still have other things I’m insecure about#but it’s important to talk and think nicely about yourself even when it’s hard#so that’s what I’m doing here#I’m gonna try to keep practicing that from now on#hopefully I can keep it up bc I really do think too negatively about myself sometimes
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Seeing the black women aren’t women because white supremacy doesn’t view us as women takes circulating on social media again. I’m just going to say this
White supremacy doesn’t view black people as human either. It views us as monkeys and animals. So should the black community include monkeys as well?
Why does white supremacy dictate black peoples identity to this extreme? Even other nations in Africa that were colonized by white people don’t view themselves this way.
Why do black men get to keep their manhood but black women’s womanhood is stripped? White supremacy emasculates black men too, so why are black men still viewed as men?
Picking and choosing white supremacy rhetoric to fit your viewpoints is not going to turn out well for you.
I feel like this needs to be said for some black women, but attraction≠womanhood. Just because a white person isn’t attracted to you, doesn’t mean you’re less of a woman.
Just because YOU don’t feel like a woman because of white people, doesn’t mean you need to make other black women as genderless or masculine as you.
#I’m sick of this ish#every year this happens#one day it’s going to bite the people repeating this take in the ass for picking and choosing white supremacy rhetoric to apply to BP#black tumblr#black girls of tumblr#and I find it strange that they never mention the other white women that get viewed as men or being transgender#like they specifically want to make it a black woman thing#also I’m now just noticing this but this take is pretty colorist considering they always use a dark or brown skinned black woman as the ‘man#when lightskinned and biracial and white women have been called men too. yet somehow they aren’t mentioned
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Creepy guy liking all my posts on Instagram and commenting “U always look so beautiful” etc. etc. Why is my life like this. I want to die.
#this is a third person from the two men I mentioned earlier this week . although this guy is still substantially older than me.#although unlike the other 2 older guys I am genuinely freightened of this person in some ways#he is fine to talk to in person a little but quirky but his Instagram/Facebook really freaks me out#he’s still into creepy pasta well into his 30s and he seems to get obsessive over women#I think he’s bi (although on other ocassions he’s said he’s only into men) yet whenever he breaks up with a girl he says he’s never dating#women again because they’re all crazy#he also really fetishes women in a weird way - he’s the type to do those weird duets with hot women on tik tok (the ones you find on cringe#accounts) and he finds a woman he knows vaguely irl and posts multiple images of her to his Instagram stories#saying that he’s their biggest fan and in love with them essentially#also his most recent story is about how he needs to be with someone because he has a really high sex drive and can’t stand with not being#without a partner#like that’s just a really fucking weird thing to put on your story#and what did he do after that? he started liking all my photos and commenting hearts under them#why can’t a normal person be interested in me#why am I thrust into these situations#I feel like I’m going insane
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My mother continues to be the most fascinating human in the media-watching world. She loves a genre show. She hates all the elements that make it a genre show. She wants endless recommendations. She’ll ignore the recommendations in favor of rewatching old faves. She binges an entire multi-season show in two days. She can’t tell me if she actually liked the show she just inhaled in record time. She is a television superhero, and I cannot clock her to save my life.
#me: so you started Santa Clarita?#her: finished it#me: …did…you like..it?#her: it was very weird#(she watched it in the blink of an eye and literally all she said was to text me ‘eat the foot. eat the foot. eat the goddamn foot!’#she’ll binge grey’s while sassing everything about the hospital. she watched all of supernatural while chastising its fight scenes.#me: but like. that’s really how buffy was. and charmed. and so many shows you love#her: yeah and it was stupid then too!#girl! what? what is happening?? she’s so funny#I’m about to move back in with the parents while they FINALLY fix my house#and I’m once again ready to be deeply entertained by this in real time#I do have to point out this is the woman who watched bly. paused it. WHILE JAMIE WAS IN THE LAKE. so she could make a sandwich#a sibling just sent a pic of the TV where AE is acting her heart out mid-swim#‘mom decided she was hungry at this exact moment.’#baffling. a baffling woman. and yet half my love of stories very blatantly comes from her. it is so fucking funny
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@katkastrofa: *writes a single throwaway line in one chapter of Lost and Found that is never referenced again*
Me, completely randomly and with no prompting: Alright, bet–
#my art#artists on tumblr#the legend of korra#original characters#as if I don’t have enough of those already#I really don’t know what possessed me here. I mean. sometimes my mind did drift to this mention of Zaheer’s sisters#because broken bonds is my absolute favourite LaF chapter. but I ever really thought of them that much since Kat never brought them up agai#and then about 24h ago I randomly remembered them again and was like. hey. p’li and ghazan’s sisters play a huge role in our stories#and ming-hua is an only child. so what of zaheer’s sisters? what are they like? do they ever cross his mind? are they aware of his crimes?#and in the afternoon I went digging through my art supplies bc I felt like painting and found my old 2020-2022 sketchbook with 2 empty page#so I thought. why not. it’s been a while since I’ve done traditional art. so I pulled up a reference of rich EK outfits from the artbooks#and got to work. drew this up in about half an hour? traditional sketching is a lot faster than digital for some reason#then took a picture and cleaned up and coloured in procreate. and I’m really happy with the end result#this was hella fun to do as well so.. win-win?#alright enough backstory rambling. on to the characters themselves#I looked up Zaheer’s name and apparently that particular spelling is urdu in origin. so I went off that#the article I found was written edited and fact checked by three pakistani women so I think it’s about as trustworthy as these things go#summiya means ‘a woman of proper name’ and aiza means ‘respected high place in society’. which I thought were fitting for noble girls#for outfits and hairstyles. like I said. I turned to the avatar artbooks. those things are life savers. I just played around with colours#looks wise I colour picked from zaheer and then shifted around a little so they look similar enough yet not like clones of each other#but they’re also teenagers here so they wouldn’t resemble book 3 Zaheer much anyway#kat never mentioned ages but since their mother was looking for matches I assumed they were older than zaheer#he ran off at 11 or 12 iirc. so I decided they would have been 16 and 14 respectively#though in their community matches are probably made much earlier than actual marrying age. still.#if it was such a pressing matter that their mother was ‘preoccupied’ with it. then they were probably teenagers right#that’s what I’m gonna go for anyway since currently I have no information to disprove any of this#oh yeah Kat btw if you did have images of Zaheer’s sisters in mind before this then you don’t have to replace them. I just filled a blank#we’ve never talked about them so I assume there’s nothing. feel free to correct me. maybe someday we’ll discuss their personalities/lives#all I have is that they probably weren’t too close with zaheer. and their lives now are all about husbands kids and status. but we’ll see#hope you like them anyways <3
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Now I normally try to finish books (kindle) even if they aren’t the best bc who knows maybe the story will pick up later or whatever, but when the god damn main woman character (in this fantasy book) refuses to eliminate a threat (the villain that terrorized her her whole life, caused all kinds of death, destruction, terror, chaos, he’s completely evil and unhinged) even though she is in a position of power to do so and just puts him in jail instead bc “it’s not in my nature, I can’t 😢” even though literally everyone (that knows 10x better than she ever will) tells her that this guy needs to be killed bc otherwise the whole town and surrounding towns will never be safe again. But noooo for some reason she would rather let this a-hole live and allows his minions to continue walking free amongst the ppl with no consequences whatsoever but, fine, fine I will keep reading, surely she will change her mind soon. Que evil villain escaping (something everybody saw coming a mile away) and in his escape with the help of his minions (they were plotting???? What a surprise!!! 😒) he causes even more death, destruction, chaos, terror, at least 45 ppl die during his big escape and so the ppl come to her again and are like “well damn, that was a shit show, now he’s on the loose and needs to be stopped immediately. It’s obvious no one is safe, this guy is a rabid dog that needs to be put down. Girl holding the highest position of power now, surely you see that this can’t go on and as soon as he’s found he needs to be killed! Right?” And her god damn response after everything is basically “but but but… I don’t wanna 🥺” then no I’ve gotta quit the story I mean for fucks sake! How stupid can you be “well I don’t want my time as ruler to go down in history as violent 🥺 there must be another way, I want my ppl safe” like girl none is safe with you as ruler you absolute numbskull! “But but but my morals 🥺” fuck you and your stupid “morals”. Grow up! you don’t care about anyone but yourself. If you actually cared about your ppl you would eliminate the villain that has been terrorizing them for years. How about you give these poor people a little peace of mind instead of whining about your morals. You are more of a threat to them at this point with your inaction. You only care about your feelings and your comfort regarding certain subjects, and yet everybody around is like practically forced to coddle her and be all oh it’s not your fault it’s ok, like no it’s not ok, you are a moron and are not fit to rule! ridiculous, why am I so enraged over some shitty book on kindle? I mean this is a 3 book series, I’m abandoning it about a handful of pages into the second book, I just can’t!
#oh! oooohhh! and!#the villain and 2 of his minions kidnapped her and her friend before she had her position of power ok#the villain who is of courses obsessed with main girl he focuses mainly on her#both girls get beat up blah blah#and then the two minions drag her unconscious friend into a room and keep her there for days#after being rescued the friend has a haunted look in her eye and is a shell of who she once was#and the main girl is like I just can’t figure out why she’s so depressed#she’s not her happy go lucky self anymore#I have no idea what those two evil men did to an unconscious woman behind closed doors for days#I just can’t figure out why she isn’t recovering as fast as me from the ordeal#I mean what is with her I just don’t know#while I rack my brain I’m gonna let the exact two men who took her away to wander free with no consequences around the town#someone asks her if she wants to do something about those two men that helped with the kidnapping#no she says I’m gonna wait until they actually do something#I’m sorry what??! they kidnap you both beat you terrorize you and drag your unconscious friend behind closed doors for days#and you still can’t figure out what they did to her and yet that’s not enough for you to take action??#what the absolute fuck do you think they did with her you Imbecile!#I mean the villain has only be threatening to turn you into his s*x slave but you can’t connect that to your friends ordeal??#I mean really?#you don’t know?#I would certainly consider that enough to take action but#I just….#the idiocy physically hurts me#you are supposed to be the heroine and you are a complete idiot#I hate you girl
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