#I’m a (mostly) cis guy.
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I love how Luke makes his voice deeper when playing male characters. Like his female voices are also crazy convincing but I love that he’s not afraid to make his voice very obviously deeper to play a man too, instead of using his regular voice
#Like a lot of men would be scared to do that#I notice that cis guys tend to deepen their voice when talking to other men (mostly guys they don’t really know)#Kind of as a “I’m a MANNNN” thing or something#And I love that Luke doesn’t seem to care about that like he (and the rest of them) are so confident and secure in their masculinity#And in their sexualities that they don’t feel like they need to prove anything#Idk I love it#a lot#sfthposting#shoot from the hip#luke manning
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A great way I stay stealth in public is to use the most cisgender terminology whenever someone tries to sus out my transgender status. If someone gives me the “wtf are you” look guised as an innocent attempt to know my pronouns I just say “I’m a guy” then walk away. Wtf is a pronoun I need to walk my dogs
#I don’t live being openly trans in public spaces (including queer ones)#If I don’t know anybody all they’re getting is that I’m gay#It’s mostly women who pull the pronoun thing btw#Cis guys either don’t notice or are just assholes out the gate
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They/them pronouns when mfckers hit 30
#before anyone freaks out no ofc if you identify they/them forever or just a little bit that’s fine#but as a ✨ kweer ✨ with mostly ✨ kweer ✨ friends most of us ended up in cis marriages#i’m a bi gnc woman and according to my gay guy friends i look like a faghag. which i self ID’d as a child. we’ve come full circle#idk if it’s societal pressure or w/e but it will most likely happen to you & it’s. whatever#gay#lesbian#lgbt#lgbtqia#bisexual#<- it me! no one cares#trans#nonbinary#transgender#asexual#i’m curious if cis has colors so imma tag it too lmao#cis#gnc#antm#america’s next top model#shitpost#cannot wait for the 2 people who read this to take it super cereal (no one will care about this)#queer
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ok because i’m on the train and i just bought some what do you think the best post apocalyptic rugelach filling would be. (if you don’t know what rugelach is, click that wikipedia link, or the truncated version is it’s a filled small pastry originally from jewish communities in poland but now it’s made all over the world and people put all sorts of fillings in them. the filling can be jam, nuts with spices, flavored pastry cream, or even savory fillings. the kind i just bought are chocolate, in case you’re wondering.)
#fnv#fnv poll#fallout new vegas#fallout new vegas poll#btw in the other option i know not everyone knows kashrut (hewish dietary laws) but try not to include insects meat+dairy combo or meat from#predators because those aren’t kosher thank uuuu i love you i hope you have fun thinking about post apocalyptic pastries#i think having a ton of different bakeries in post battle of hoover dam vegas would be so cool#there’s really not a lot of food or clothing vendors in the mojave which i talk about a lot. i think it’s because (no offense lol) the game#was mostly made by cis white guys and as a demographic cis white gamer guys tend to not think about how clothing and food get made. like#the amount of effort that goes into feeding and clothing a community is generally one of the largest jobs. because it’s hard and labor#intensive. so while there are tons of food stands in freeside and vegas there’s still not like clothing stores which is weird. and in the#rest of the mojave there’s really not a lot of food vendors. like in novac there’s genuinely no food vendor. there’s a food tent with a#stove and a lady who stands there all day. but you can’t buy food from her. and no one else sells food unless cliff happens to have some#randomly. and there’s only one couple in town who raise like 5 livestock. so where the fuck do they all get food. no wonder carla hated it#there there’s no food no water just dinosaurs and radioactive junk#anyway i’m going off on a tangent
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When someone has “men dni” in their bio/blog/post does it include multigendered people? Bi-genders,gender-fluids etc? Or is it just for people that are strictly men?
#/gen#I am gender-fluid and I am mostly a woman/girlflux/enby spec fluid but I am occasionally masc and rarely a man.#am I not allowed to interact bc there is a small chance I could be a man?#if I am a woman and a man at the same time am I not allowed to interact?#like im so curious#or am I fine as long as I’m not a cis guy transmasc/man#???#like this is probably stupid#but yeah#💛!me talking💀
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My cool cousin who is stuck in a bigoted Christian University didn’t know that asexual ppl like her were one: also hated by conservatives and two: part of the queer community.
Also she was like “oh I’m romantic and I’ll never find a man whose not a bigot who doesn’t want sex :( “
And I’m like. I’m Willy Wonka welcome to my Tumblr mostly FTM asexual E-Boy factory. We got every kind of weird asexual guy. And they’ll even respect you as a person!
#after she graduates I need you all to help me find her a guy#cis or trans really but I think she’ll trust ftm guys faster bc of the shitty way she’s grown up#I’m mostly kidding but I do want her to be happy and she really wants a partner#asexual
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Literally so horrific of my father that he didn’t give me a Y chromosome when I was an underutilized egg. How dare he tbh
#jokes#tho sometimes not a joke but mostly is a joke#like ok I’m not one to be like oh I’d change this and that abt my past bcus who I am now is bcus of my past#but I would make sure I was born a cis guy if I could
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Ok after mild experimentation I have arrived to the conclusion that my pronouns are He/Him unless
a) The person referring to me has stupid views on masculinity, in which case they have to use They/Them so as not to misgender me (unfortunately everyone I’ve met who is in this group would not use They/Them for anyone)
b) Someone wants to use Xe/Xir for me, which aren’t my pronouns but they’re fun and also I’m happy that this person recognizes I’ve got something up with my gender
c) I’m being addressed by a stranger, in which case any pronouns will do because I do not care that much, and if they use She or They I feel like my non-masculine aspects are visible.
d) It’s funnier otherwise
#I’m a (mostly) cis guy.#I’m not comfortable with the term Man yet because being a capital M Man had certain connotations while I was growing up#And often still has those connotations around most of the people in my town#So I don’t identify with the term because it doesn’t feel accurate.#For me. Personally. If someone else uses the term for themself I know what they’re talking about and don’t assume things.#I just don’t vibe with it
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Randomly nighttime-depressed* that I was not born a man ough nighttime why.
*the timeframe is incredibly relevant
(For familial background explanation, if I was born a man I’d be tan, freckled with light eyes and wavy light brown hair and a naturally chunky but strong/athletic disposition affectionately called a dad bod in men but not beloved in women especially growing up do you understand dear reader. This isn’t really about my gender identity it’s abt my familial ties and society/school life growing up does this track)
#diarmuid makes a post#don’t worry I’m good I’m fine I’m chill but I’d be a cool strange guy if I was cis . . I’d be happier I think but that’s like factually#probable yanno??#idk. I am definitely not a trans man. I don’t want to be a man in this life#I just think IF I WAS I’d be happier. but bc I’m not. . being a butch lesbian is awesome. and I love being a dyke. and butch. and nonbinary.#this is mostly just relative to my family and sense of self/mental health not Actually gender identity does this make sense#daily life of diarmuid#I would like to be on testosterone though bc I think my face would look a lot hotter#idk.
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always boy but sometimes spicy
explain your gender in 10 words or less without using boring words like “male”, “female”, “nonbinary”, “masculine”, “feminine” or “androgynous”.
go!
#never said i couldn’t say boy lmao#anyways if we were able to be more specific i would probably say#like i have 2 genders and one of those genders is boy and the other is genderfluid#and the genderfluid gender is mostly just between boy and neutral#but sometimes it’s girl and i freak tf out abt “faking being trans”#and then it goes back to its usual between boy and enby-ness#and i go back to having a panic attack over my body#but that quite confusing (esp to cis ppl) so for simplicity i just say i’m a binary trans guy#pronouns r always just he/him tho#or neos/xenos if u feel like it but no one ever feels like it so
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Somehow coming out as a trans guy before realizing I was genderfluid made me feel dysphoria for my birth sex
#almond rambles#like when it’s a girl day and my family call me he it feels bad#but I don’t feel like explaining the intricacies of genderfluidity so they still think I’m a guy#so in their heads they’re doing the right thing#how to explain this kind of thing to cis and mostly het people
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It’ll never not be funny that my anti dysphoria clothes are literally just my old work t-shirts
#probably has something to do with the fact that I was rarely misgendered and almost never deadnamed on the job#the coworkers who knew I’m trans were chill and the ones who didn’t mostly just thought I’m a cis guy#and I passed well in those work outfits so I meannnn#trans#transgender#trans ftm#text
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hot take I shouldn’t be allowed to be scared
#Send post !!!!#(Bombed a quiz and I feel like I’m gonna get yelled at(I will cry and feel worse about it))#(And also just daily interactions with cis boys my age have me terrified of what they truly think of me !!!!)#Today is not a splendid day#Vent#ish#Idk I’m mostly freaking over the guy thing#Cuz someone I kinda know moved to my table and stuff and like. Was engaging in conversation with me specifically despite me working on stuf#And being visibly very stressed. And I know that he’s like one of /those/ guys who are a little weird in a bad way !!! So I’m a bit worried#And also there’s this other guy I know and idk if I’m overthinking the way normal people act but like every time I walk past him#Or into the room he’s in. He just. stares at me ??? Like I can’t make out his facial expression cuz I suck at that and also I avoid looking#At him and all but like. Why. Do you do that. All the time. I literally hate you sometimes leave me alone#Idk maybe I’m overthinking maybe I’m rightfully a bit weary around my cis guy peers#I just needed to express. Whatever this is. Bye I have work to do </3
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Felix being based by using the superior web browser
GUESS WHO FINALLY SWITCHED TO FIREFOX!!!!
#im sorry I don’t know if based is good to use here on Tumblr#I still mostly use Reddit so I’m unsure of the vernacular here#anyways hi Felix love your comics and I know you from egg_irl which tbh I browse way too much for a totally cis guy
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When I say I’m not different from other men I mean it. Yes even though I’m trans. Yes even though I’m non-binary.
There’s cis men who don’t know much about men because they were raised by women and had only gal friends growing up. I’ve met men like this. I arguably knew more about how being a man operated in society than them because I was raised by a single dad and had mostly guy friends growing up.
Why are those cis guys who hang out mostly around women all their lives more a man than me? They’re men. There’s no arguing that. Why am I any different just because I was “raised a girl”?
Men have all kinds of unusual experiences that don’t stop them from being men. I’m gender-fluid. I’ve gone through puberty twice. Those are unusual experiences for a man to have and be, yes. But so are many other things. Like growing up moving around, being a ballet dancer, losing a limb.
The Guys™ in my life have historically accepted me as one of them. Before and after I transitioned. It’s so easy to be a man. Not because of the reasons you’re thinking of. Not because there’s no gendered problems or whatever. Men do have gendered problems in society. Some of which I do personally struggle with. But it’s easy because I am a non-binary man. I just am. It comes so easily. I don’t have to think about it.
If you have these ideas in your head about how trans people are so different from cis people of their same gender I need you to really interrogate why you think that. Why is that one unique experience so different from all the other unique experiences that people can have? There’s no morality connected to being trans. It doesn’t make you good or bad any more than any life experience will. Oppression doesn’t inherently make you a better or worse person. It simply affects you. The same way any other ever-present force will.
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HEHAHBFKI More South Park doodles I think I’m going insane.
Actually this is kind of the product of me being liking South Park way back in high school but was too embarrassed to draw them when I was bored in class and now it’s all kinda flooding back 💀
Read below if you want to know more about my New Kid and my thoughts behind some of the doodles cause this turned out longer then I though 💀
Anyways- introducing my New Kid. No name cause I literally have no idea. Whatever the cannon name is ig- though I’d think it’d be funny if she was referred to New Kid by literally everyone like in game. I like the idea that a lot of people have with their New Kids that they liked the makeover section with the girls during the Stick of Truth a little too much. I also like it cause… uh… I didn’t play Stick of Truth. (The combat system is not my cup of tea) So it’s not until the start of TFBW does she know shes really a girl.
To give context to the top right drawing- I couldn’t remember the dialogue Wendy says in the alleyway if you say you’re a trans girl- but I do know what she says if your a cis girl (I always knew you were a girl) cause I did a second play through as a cis girl. And I don’t know if there’s supposed to be a huge time jump between the end of Stick of Truth and TFBW but I think it would be funny if it was just the next day- so combine these two fact to get “Wendy always clocked New Kid as a girl but NK just found out yesterday 💀”
Anyways- she’s such a cutie, I love her and her cool superhero outfit I gave her. Outside of the game- I’d like to think of her basically exactly how she acts in game. Mostly non-verbal, with the occasional zingy one liner, and just kinda goes along with the crazy shit the happens in South Park un phased. Like if she was in a episode- the plot would happen and she would be on screen, but wouldn’t say anything, and anytime another character would address her, they’d respond however as if she spoke lmao. Aroace, just like me, so she’s just friends with everyone (except Cartman) and vibes with everyone.
The mini Style comic I though of cause 1) I wondered if Kyle had the same elf ears as the other elfs did in game (again, never played and it’s been a while since I saw gameplay so whoops if it’s confirmed or whatever) and 2) I thought it would be funny if Stan was caught lacking and tried to /rp his way out of it (I wanted to add an extra bit where Kyle would be like “Oh, are our characters gay for each other??? (ARE YOU /SRS OR /J STAN)” and Stan would have to just “yes, and” his way out.)
The last three images were kinda of a stream of consciousness put on paper and made neat lol. I really like showing that all the costumes the kids wear are homemade and stuff- either stuff taken from their parents or visibly taped together etc- cause I think it’s charming. Anyways- I though Kyle’s little robe could be like one of his parents bath robe- and it would be a little too long for him to run without eating shit so he’d have to hike it up like a skirt/dress. Which lead to me thinking that Cartman would say some shit about that and how Kyle, who has a literal Golf Club, would smack his ass up. Which then lead to me thinking about how since Kyle’s the Elf King and Stan’s basically his right hand how he might lift it up wedding dress style if needed (/RP GUYS, RIGHT?RIGHT???) and how Cartman would react, which lead to that one JoJo meme cause thats literally how they’d retaliate.
Always- I’ll probably have at least one more post about South Park I swear. There was a period of time before I stopped watching (I gotta pick it up again) where I would doodle a bit of whatever was happening in the episode, each episode. Crazy I know, but not only did it improve my drawing skills but it helped me remember what actually happened in episodes cause I have shit memory and definitely don’t remember some of the episodes I watched. So I might redraw some of those- see if anyone can tell what episode they’re from.
#it’s a good day to be a South Park fan if you follow me lmao#south park#new kid sp#stick of truth#the fractured but whole#sp tfbw#sp sot#scott malkinson#jimmy valmer#karen mccormick#kenny mccormick#wendy testaburger#do I tag all the characters here??? I only draw some on them once#stan marsh#kyle broflovski#eric cartman#sp style#I really like the potential Style has in the SoT verse#as in the ‘king and his loyal soldier’ but it’s two kids who secretly have crushes on the other while roleplaying a great fantasy romance#cause they have no way to express their affections in a normal way#lol I’m prolly doing a crap job of saying what I mean in a not weird way#but Style girlies read ‘Blessed Be The Mystery of Love’ or ‘Sign of Devotion’ on Ao3 to get the gist
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