#I saw a post that pissed me off bad

[vergilthelibrarian]

No cap, some of y’all are like genuine sex addicts but instead of trying to find healthy coping skills, y’all instead become sex pests and then wonder why no one irl understands you. Like I suffer from hypersexuality too and that shit is not fun. It’s exhausting and has put me into many dangerous situations that yeah, it sounds hot when it’s consensual but it’s actually traumatizing and painful to experience when it’s not

Like a lot of y’all on here wanna talk about kink when it is extremely obviously that y’all do not participate in real life kink spaces because unironically saying incest is beautiful would get you criticized heavily and maybe even banned in actual kink spaces if you are deemed a predator. A lot of y’all really need to stop being a bunch of porn brained recluses and learn about kink because it is clear that y’all don’t understand what kink is and at this point it actually pisses me off when y’all parade around like y’all do

Just like, being someone who’s into some pretty dark kinks while also being a victim of sexual violence since childhood from not only my male relatives but from my sister’s boyfriend, my classmates, strangers, relationships, like constantly being the victim of sexual violence (even to this day) and genuinely being into kink is a struggle because even though irl kink spaces are pretty chill and understanding, online “kink spaces” tend to be filled with a bunch of weird musty looking losers who, if it weren’t for the laws of the land, would be actual sexual predators (if they’re not already one that is)

Like yeah, kill the purity cop in your mind but don’t lose your g-ddamn morals in the process

[shalom-iamcominghome]

It's absolutely true that delusions can take on religious elements and be fueled in part or whole by religion, but dear l-rd, do I hate when people blanket all religion under this whole "it's all delusion, anyway!!!".

No it is not, and I know that because I know what it's like to have gone through delusions! I was reminded of that difference recently, and I'm religious. Not everything that you personally disagree with is a delusion, a narcissistic power play, or anything else. Sometimes you disagree with others. I am pretty religious, but I am more than willing to agree with non-theists about their opinions because they come up with good ideas and we are equal human beings. In fact, the atheist has strengthened my own religious beliefs because I am challenged by them to actually think things through. My whole issue with this is the - funnily enough - holier-than-thou, stigmatizing attitudes that are necessary to say things like that.

As someone who has a vested interest in mental health and accurate information about it, this stuff unironically angers me. The human in me wants to educate people, but the ape in me wants to take away the terms delusional, narcissistic, gaslighting, and every mental health term under the sun away until people learn how to properly use and apply them. The only people you are hurting are people who are already hurting.

[luck-of-the-drawings]

"I think this is the most inhuman; and human, that I've ever felt.." MUCH CAN HAPPEN IN A YEAR. IN FIVE YEARS. A DECADE. imagine how much can happen in a century. just ONE (1). How will you grow? what phases do you find? even in 5 years, you will find patterns.

[ccbeeduo]

ok im gonna try and make this the last post related to the situation but if youre making or reblogging posts like "all of the exdsmpers will turn out to be awful just you wait" GO AWAY!!!! WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM!!!!!!!! STOP GUILTING PEOPLE INTO HATING CCS THEY LOVE BASED ON COMPLETELY RANDOM CLAIMS THAT THEY'RE "SECRETLY AWFUL"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET OVER YOURSELF!!!!!!!! You can hate ur dsmp phase but i am SO fucking tired of the idea that Liking dsmp makes you a horrible person who supports horrible people . Stop saying things like that. You are not doing the dsmp fandom any favours. Please shut up

[horrorknife]

i think the thing that really grinds my gears about how people use tags on this site is that, like, when i go into the tag for something i want to see. actual content of what i’m looking for. i am not trying to hear your uninformed opinions about something you just finished watching 15 minutes ago and have only cursory knowledge of. i am not looking for a loosely related text post. stop doing this. please god please have mercy on me and stop doing that shit

[danrifics]

i think it's interesting to see the complex reactions there are, cause back in the day, any insight into them and each other and relationship was Private. it wasnt for us and we had been conditioned into hey keep it to yourself. whereas now, they're letting us into some of those moments, being a little more public, but we still have some of that coding saying whooaa I Am Not Meant To Perceive That

i'm so over the moon happy for them. each instance they choose to share is special, and particularly lately, not something i ever expected from them. (sometimes it's been damn holyshit i can't believe they went there)

i'm just grateful they're here. that they came back to the gaming channel, honestly--and seem genuinely into it all again. i havent been ready for anything they've tossed at us in 2023 and that's so fucking fun! keep being happy, boys, it's great to be a part of.

honestly all of this!! like there are some people being genuinely horrible about it for some reason but i think for me and a lot of others were just not used to being like hey this is actually a public thing he posted and actually wants online, like i come from a culture of being told not to post the nakedbooths cos dan doesn’t like them yknow so to see him post something equally as slutty my brain is like no do not interact in a positive way, people will be rude to you about it

but like every day they actually just make me more and more excited about this “chaos era” as dan called it cos like yeessss boys pls reclaim this unhinged space, feed it and let it grow!!

[ardentpoop]

fellow eldest children SHUT UP SHUT UPPPPPPP challenge

[dreamteamemojis]

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[bedforddanes75]

wish i was one of those people who could freely send hate comments because some of these swifties are so dense its so embarrassing to even use the same app at them

[emmedoesntdomath]

hey fun fact

it’s not wrong to do whatever you want with fictional characters. they’re fake. they can’t hurt you. you can’t hurt them. they are literally a figment of your imagination.

hey funner fact

it IS wrong to do whatever you want with real human beings. they are real. they exist. you can very much hurt them. their sexualities, genders, opinions, traumas, relationships, lifestyles, and experiences are NOT yours to play with. they’re not a doll. it doesn’t actually matter if you know this person or not. one might even say it’s worse to speculate about a person’s life when you know absolutely nothing personal about them. if you think you’re entitled to fuck with someone’s sexuality or anything related to them without their permission, you are actually just a dick. not a fan, not a real friend, and certainly not in the right.

block me now if this doesn’t agree with you. thanks.

[livvyofthelake]

joel mchale in the american housewife finale btw. as cooper's dad that's crazy.... AND jim rash is still here playing that waiter who sucks at his job and is a huge cunt <3 i miss community....

[backpackingspace]

an incomplete list of things I thought were pretty obvious bc I'm feeling petty

The jedi being about processing your emotions and grief and being able to work through the feelings in a healthy way

Odysseus being a rape victim

[eloiscbridgerton]

some of yall need to learn how to enjoy/appreciate content without feeling the need to insert a man into it.

like what even fucking compels you to put shitty tags like that under someone's post about two women?

[coern]

"redrawing that mlm ship as wlw is actually misogynistic and a cover for people who don't care about women to make them look like they love yuri-" okay +L +ratio +who cares +one hundred million years transfem t4t yuri beam go

[snap-yaps]

🖕🏻:)

[flanfrog]

Trans women will scream and cry at the top of their lungs begging people to acknowledge the very specific type of oppression they face and how it manifests and they'll give sources and numbers and give you the whole history of transmisogyny, but people on this website are some of the most egregiously and purposefully obtuse people on the planet so in response they'll go "weeehhh I don't know... You might be blowing this out of proportion... I mean I've never seen anything like this happen..."