#I don’t want to complain

[deer0skullz]

Love (sarcasm) that when trans men talk about experiencing misogyny people say we’ll “claim to be women when it suits us”.

This may be a shocker to you but it’s almost like when you’re assigned one gender at birth and you transition to another, you gain a unique relationship with both genders and don’t just morph into always having been a man who has total male privilege and has never identified or been perceived as a woman in his entire life.

What was even the point of us building decades of theory around gender being a complex social construct if have of yous are just going to fucking forget it.

[shot-by-cupid]

There’s nothing wrong with wanting unconditional love from your f/o, there’s nothing wrong with being ‘the exception’ there’s nothing wrong with making ur self ship super lovey dovey- there is nothing wrong with making your f/o love you in the way you want to be loved!!!!! It’s your ship do whatever you want

proship/variants + neutrals and RPF DNI

[miniiredd]

Ok if we see this, let’s pretend we didn’t…. I just need to shout in to the void k? Thank

So yesterday I played of my favourite game…. who remembered and who forgot my birthday🙌🏻

Upside my brother who always forgets my birthday remembered all by himself for the first time in like 4 years? 🙌🏻 he remembered to send a text (which for him is like 10/10, and then we didn’t interact at all when he got home lol)

The other side? Look I’m not going to complain, cause I don’t want to be/sound ungrateful or like I expect people to make a thing cause I don’t, I don’t like being the centre of attention….. I will say I was surprised but also very kinda much not at all lol

But I am very very grateful for the ones that did

And I’m seeing my favourite band tonight so balance🙌🏻🙌🏻

[assiraphales]

listen I am fully aware I shouldn’t look up at the eclipse without glasses but i feel like a perplexed peasant scratching my head everytime I remember it could damage my eyes. sun is fine to look at without glasses. moon is fine to look at without glasses. sun and moon combo should be double fine to look at without glasses :(

[virgopropaganda]

[sanatomis]

satoru gojo, im so sorry you were written by gege akutami

[habken]

I hate online quizzes where you have to write the Exact Right word that the quiz is looking for, doesn't account for spelling or different words that mean the same thing it's so stupiddd

[traumasurvivors]

Honestly, it’s exhausting running a positivity blog. There is so much negativity on my posts. Sometimes aggressive, or people saying “this doesn’t apply to me” or “this doesn’t apply in this situation though”. And it’s tiring. It’s tiring to read through my activity feed. Sometimes I’m trying so hard to be positive and offer supportive words and the negativity hits me a lot harder when I’m in a depressive episode. I genuinely feel exhausted by a lot of the comments people leave.

I’m not saying this for sympathy or even to whine but I kind of want to talk about it because I don’t think most people do this intentionally and maybe there’s a chance that when they realize the negative effects their comments can have might think twice? It’s not just me that finds this draining. I see it everywhere.

Someone posts a video of their popular dog and there are comments “oh my god, I’m going to be so sad when the dog dies” and I’ve seen owners politely asking people not to leave comments like that because it’s upsetting to think about. But they’re endless. I get so heartbroken thinking about the day my dog dies, and I know it’s inevitable but if I had people reminding me on all my posts about my dog, I’d be so upset.

I’ll see someone share a video of a happy moment with their family and the comments are full of people talking about how “it must be nice. My family isn’t like that”. And your feelings are so valid. You deserve to be able to talk about it. I’m just asking that maybe you think about where you’re talking about it.

I make a post that says something like “be gentle with your past self” and there will be dozens of comments and asks I receive that say “no fuck that bitch.” Like you’re so allowed to feel that way, but it’s tiring to get asks about it.

I know there will be people who go on about “it’s a public platform. You sign up for this”. But whether that’s true or not, I still think it’s worth saying because it might open someone’s eyes.

There will also be people who say “if you can’t handle it, stay off the internet”. Me venting about it, or saying that it’s frustrating doesn’t mean I can’t handle it. It just means I’m coping by talking about my feelings. That’s all.

[pallastronomy]

looking for a new piece of xenofiction

ask the creator if their xenofiction is Watership Down or Warrior Cats

they don’t understand

pull out illustrated diagram explaining what is Watership Down and what is Warrior Cats

they laugh and say ‘It’s good xenofiction sir’

look inside

it’s Warrior Cats

[rollercoasterwords]

soooo funny when people who ship wolfstar complain if they’re “toxic” like. why r u in the fandom centered around childhood friends who joined a war grew suspicious & stopped trusting each other one got framed for killing their best friend & went to prison for 13 years & the other fully believed he was guilty & then when they do reunite they immediately agree to kill their other childhood friend in front of a group of kids (including their dead friend’s son) & then when the guy gets away they join a war again and live in the same house until the one who went to prison dies. and then the other one marries a younger woman has a kid with her and dies immediately after as well. and ur getting mad at people for writing their relationship as “toxic”???? one has to laugh….

[thedissonantverses]

I think where the “you’re just mad people are critiquing a game you like” crowd gets me the most is that I’ve read all their critiques. I was legitimately surprised on my first run that some people took Veilguard so personally and were vitriolic so I went through and read what they were saying because I was like “what did I miss?” That’s my first instinct when something confuses me is to dig. (Oh hey I applied this to the game too! Crazy!)

And when I started breaking down what they were saying was when I started getting annoyed because their arguments were either in such bad faith, reductive, or just plain wrong. Like Orientalism in the game? Fair! But I have not seen talk of that get anywhere near the amount of traction as “Solas should have torn down the Veil and him and Lavellan should have had elf supremacy together and they didn’t so game bad.” “I missed a bunch of stuff then blamed BioWare.” Or “I didn’t like how it played out so writing bad.” Or “They didn’t say the Maker enough and I counted.” That last one is my favorite. Oh and “the language is too modern” and they’re specifically talking about Taash because they don’t want to admit nonbinary people make them uncomfortable.

But wow I don’t see that energy from the other side at all. I don’t see them even trying to understand or read why people like the game. I try to encourage people to read your meta write ups as well as my own and they either just want to pick a fight because I have the audacity to love the game rather than hear me out or step outside of that negativity for like two seconds. Here we are two months later and they’re still acting like Veilguard broke into their house and beat them up and stole their sixty bucks then took a piss on the old games.

[maladaptivewriting]

my page and my posts are not a safe space for people who hate remus lupin.

[deadwooddross]

I’m starting to learn that my first apple pen lasting like 5-6 years may have been something of a fluke, for fucks sake

Though I suppose also have the earlier gen iPad which has the stupidest charging method ever devised instead of just sticking to the rectangle and absorbing its life force

But SOMEONE made the second gen pens not COMPATIBLE with my OLD DOG of an ipad

UUUUUUUUUUUGHHHHUHHHH

[downbadmostofthetime]

it sucks being a sunday fan in these trying times because even after the 2.2 story people think that he’s this horrible abusive manipulator who would lock someone in a cage for the rest of their life.

[amber-laughs]

thinking about how catelyn always wanted the direwolves to shut up and ghost was the only one who never made a sound

something something jon’s subconscious need for catelyn’s approval being born into his outer vessel

[every-eye-evermore]

Darkness falls upon the dawn, the shadows start to play ⚡️