#Hello I Am Autistic Not Rude

[lilithofpenandbook]

Do you think that Snape, after being yelled at by McGonagall for showing her attitude and somehow the fight escalating to their past when Snape was a child, and told that if he was actually traumatised by her actions, he'd be afraid of her, not rude to her, would lock himself in his room and cry, cry, cry, because despite the fact that he fought back and screamed that he IS traumatised, that she DID hurt him by not being there, that she IS responsible for him being this way, he isn't sure? Because every single person around him tells him that he's the problem. That he's rude. That it's his fault the other party was offended. Even though he didn't mean to be rude, he was just being him, but surely he's the problem if everyone's saying it? Or maybe he's surrounded by the wrong people? Or maybe he is wrong, and he is a horrible person, he is a piece of trash, he's wrong and just stubborn?

Do you think that sometimes he doesn't even know if he's right or wrong? That he doesn't even care, all he knows is that he's so, so angry, he's in so, SO much pain, he wants to scream, he wants to cry, it all hurts and no one's coming to make it better and he can never get it out, he can never truly vocalise it because the words won't come, and he looks hysterical, insane, and selfish.

He's just tired.

[just-a-small-obsession]

Boundaries

Summary: Soldier boy and healthy boundaries don't exist, loud crass words and heavy touches are all he knows. Inserting a strange woman that he can't crack or get into his bed makes his gears turn.

Paring: Soldier Boy x Autistic!Fem!Reader

Warnings: Language, slight Angst, Soldier Boy being Soldier Boy, OC Soldier Boy?, Rocking as a form of stimming, the use of the word retard, Slow burn.

Authors Note: Might have rushed this! I'm debating whether or not to make this into full-on fanfiction, so I hope this one-shot gives you an idea of what I want the dynamic to be between Soldier Boy and the reader.

Enjoy!

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Soldier Boy's Pov

To say that she was a tough nut to crack is an understatement, a young thing like herself sitting next to America's first and only golden boy and not throwing herself at him like a bitch in heat was unusual. I look back up at the TV at the show that she turned on, not understanding what I'm seeing or just not caring in the first place. We aren't that far apart from each other on the couch, she's in cross legs while I'm spreading my legs wide just to give her a slight hint to look at the jewels.

"you must a lesbian."

She looked taken aback by my words.

"no"

"You telling me that you got a golden cock right next to you and you don't want to ride it like a cowgirl in the rodeo."

She moves away from me to the other side of the long couch and stares at the TV once more ignoring me. I sigh, being asleep for as long as I have and not getting any action makes a man do crazy things.

"That made me uncomfortable, please don't say things like that to me thank you." She said bluntly, not once making eye contact.

"I'm making you uncomfortable. listen I'm not going to touch you if that's what you're worried about, if I wanted to fuck I could go out that door and head to the corner and get a nice hooker."

"Apologize" another word she said to me without looking me in the eyes. Fuck people these days don't look at people when they talk to each other anymore. "I'm not apologizing," I tell her point blank. "you should", Silence. it was quiet after that, I'm not going to start a fight with some little girl over a little joke. Again, one tough nut. not going to lie I'm starting to find it pretty appealing. looking at her, she's actually nice to look at. Sitting with her and watching this show was better than listening to the cum guzzler complaining about whatever the British fucker wants. Having them leave me with Miss Sit pretty must be the best they have for a babysitter, I don't need a fucking babysitter I'm a grown-ass man. meeting her for the first time was quick and short, a simple wave and hello was from her and she went to sit with the others.

Catching my eye from the TV was her starting to rock back and forth on the couch, 'What the fuck is her deal is she some mental patent or something'. Her eyes were still glued to the screen as she continued to rock her heart away.

It was annoying, Fucking annoying. She was shaking the whole couch for fuck sake. "Hey stop that" I was ignored.

"I said stop that "

"Hey do you hear me, I stop rocking"

I was once again ignored. I clench my hand in a fist and slam it onto the couch cushions.

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I don't know why but he's angry, I feel it radiating off of him was it because I told him to apologize to me after being rude and nasty. Butcher always told me to make sure if I'm feeling uncomfortable I should always say that I am. I don't think he's all that bad, Hughie always says that he's a dick and a danger, I agree with the first notion but dangerous? I don't like that he takes up a lot of space, he spreads his legs so he touches my legs and I hate it. We have a whole couch and he chooses to still touch me. At least my show is distracting me from him.

I feel the couch move heavily, like a smack of some sort. It startles me and I look at him confused. "Yeah?" what else is there to say?

"I've been talking to you and you won't stop this fucking rocking bullshit"

"What are you talking about?"

"you're rocking, fucking rocking can't you feel!" I shake my head, what is he talking about I'm just sitting here trying to watch my show in peace. "fucking stop!" He yells and grabs me harshly.

Shrinking my body I try to get away from him, why is he grabbing me like this! "L-Let go of me!" I squeak, surprisingly he does let go of me after I ask him to. I curl up in a ball at the corner of the sofa.

" There, was that so hard"

Soldier Boy's POV

Do I feel bad for grabbing her, yes but am I happy that she stopped that stupid shit, also yes. The hotel door opens to reveal tweedle dee and dumb.

"Fucking finally" I walk to Butcher and grab the case of beer out of his hand and place it on the small table. I look and see that she has left the sofa has her purse and phone in hand and walking to Limpdick.

" I want to go home now hugie"

"Are you okay?"

"I want to go home now please." With a nod, they both leave the room and close the door behind them. Taking a swig butcher looks at me pissed.

" The fuck happened here mate?"

"She's the one doing her freaky bullshit, she's got something wrong with her head that one."

"She's different is all, nothing wrong with that"

"Fucking rocking back and forth, that normal for you"

"She does that to calm herself down mate, she does it all that time with us. just let her ride it out." I laugh, "Grabbing her sure made her stop, it was fucking annoying me." Butcher walked towards me and grabbed my shirt collar. "you cunt" "Get your fucking hands off me" I push him away. After a while Hughie is back, he looks at me with a pissed-off look butcher had not too long ago. I'm sitting back on the couch and Hughie sits next to me.

"You can't do that to her"

"Do what? scare her? Show her manners"

"Being a dick and not respecting her boundaries, you ass"

"Boundaries what the fuck does boundaries have to do with this"

"Listen I don't know what you called people like her back then but now, she is what you call being on the spectrum, autistic."

"You mean a retard right?"

"Jesus Christ no, and don't say that!" the kid freaks out and sighs as he puts his face in his hands. "She just does things her own certain way, okay, she has her own boundaries, and grabbing her like that was one of them."

"What you telling me I scared her?"

"No, just made her anxious and confused. She doesn't like being touched that much really." well fuck, now that weak little shit got me feeling bad. I didn't want to make this a big deal it was just a spur-of-the-moment kind of thing. Christ, it's not like I wanted to make her feel that way. I sigh and look at the kid, "Fine, I'll apologize to her when she comes back tomorrow."

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Tomorrow came and Soldier Boy was in his normal stop on the sofa watching the shit on the TV he didn't even like. She was supposed to be arriving at the hotel in a short bit and he was getting ready to possibly say sorry for the first time in his life. The door opened and she came through with headphones in her ears and a phone in her face. She places her purse on the table takes her headphones off and turns her phone off.

"Hi" quiet as a mouse.

"Hey, sorry about yesterday" Ripping it off like a bandaid. she nods her head and smiles at him.

"Thank you," she says and sits down in the same spot she did the day before crossing her legs, and looks at the TV, Soldier Boy watching her with a softness blooming in his eyes. Boundaries, Boundaries he can learn.

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@mochminnie

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Still felt like I rushed this, but I wanted this out before I forgot about it in my drafts. I just to see if I even liked the vibes of this.

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financial aid needed desperately!!!

hello, i hate that my life has come to this! let me explain my situation: ive been unsuccessfully trying to establish a life in las vegas for 7 months now, and it hasnt been working out. ive had to move into three different houses while ive been out here due to the fact i cannot keep a job long enough to pay my rent at a stable rate. every job ive gotten out here in vegas has typically resulted in poor management, poor scheduling, and quiet firings— they simply stopped scheduling me. i panicked and applied for new jobs immediately, but with the way this world works, they always take their sweet time getting back to you.

ive been trying desperately to hold onto a job for more than two months, but it seems some insane thing out of my control has to happen and throws a wrench in it. my first living situation was with an irresponsible, messy, rude landlord that i had to share a small apartment with. my second living situation was renting a room with four other people in one house, and one of my roommates suddenly got violent one day and screamed at me threatening to hurt me because there was a grain of rice left on the stove, so i had to move quickly. my third and current (soon to be former) situation i was rushed into, moving into an empty room in my landlords house. the rent was too much for me to handle and i cannot pay rent for this month, and im being threatened with eviction. ive been in california for the past week because i managed to get some on-call work out here, but now im essentially stuck here with no clue on what to do next.

i dont know whats wrong with me! ive been able to hold jobs for a whole year, but las vegas has been an utterly miserable, dehumanizing experience. i cant take it anymore. i need ANY sort of help, ANY amount of money to prevent me from going homeless by the end of this month. i dont mean to break out any “buzzwords” here but i am a transgender undiagnosed autistic and morbidly depressed 23 year old who desperately needs some sort of financial and home stability so i have a decent enouh mental health to keep a job. im deathly afraid of becoming homeless, living in my car. there’s not a single person in my life who’s willing to take me in, even if they have empty guest rooms. ive officially become THE black sheep of my family for my constant fuck-ups. they dont want anything to do with me.

for financial aid, here are my venmo and paypal. all donations go straight to my savings account for the sake of rent.

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[identifying-isopods-in-posts]

Hello! I identify isopods in posts.

I am not a yet a professional, just an autistic guy who really likes isopods.

I have been in the isopod hobby for around 5 years. Unfortunately, I’ve only ever had one culture (mostly due to space reasons). They’re wild-caught Armadillidiums from my backyard, although I suppose after 5 years they’re now captive bred. They used to be a mix of vulgares and nasatums, but are now just vulgares. Love the little guys. Let me know if you want a low quality picture of them, I will gladly oblige.

my asks are open if you want me to identify a pod for you, also feel free to tag me in a post. I could always use more isopod material. I am least familiar with aquatic and ocean species, so I might not be able to help you there.

Also, always feel free to ask questions or to point out mistakes you think I’ve made. I don’t see it as rude. I love talking about isopods, so if I misidentified one of your faves, feel free to tell me about it and we can nerd out together.

[theyanderespecialist]

Their Honeysuckle (Headcanons) Yanderes Vortex/Beelzebub X Autistic GN Reader (Helluva Boss)

[Hello, My Sexy Muffins! I am back with a new chapter! This one has Yanderes Vortex and Beelzebub being yandere for you the Autistic Gender Neutral Reader! The Traits Below will be what autistic traits and habits the Reader will have! Enjoy this!] 

(Disclaimer: Not Every Single Autistic Person acts the same, there are different habits and traits that people with autism have and do! The ones in this are the ones that you the muffins suggested. Autism is a spectrum and no two people experience it 100 percent the same!

Disclaimer: Vortex and Beelzebub are a couple in canon, but they are not yandere in canon! This is just for fun and not to be taken seriously at all! Simping for and shipping fictional characters and yanderes is fine! Just do not be illegal or gross about it! You know who you are! You Dirty, Flaky, Biscuits! Yanderes are not ideal partners to have in real life! Also, remember to separate fiction from reality and headcanon from canon! Thank you!)

here are some of the traits that you all suggested!

.Nesting and/or oral fixation

.They are Definitely, the type to chew on things that aren't food because it's their stim (plastic bottle caps, plastic straws, anything that's soft plastic basically)

.Also they don't like being given direct orders otherwise they'll do the opposite or they just won't do it at all (like if someone rudely told them to bathe if they were starting to get musky then they won't shower until tomorrow night out of spite or just from feeling like they were being talked down to.) 

-Yandere Headcanons With Yanderes Vortex/Beelzebub X Autistic Gender Neutral Reader From Helluva Boss- 

.Vortex and Beelzebub were chills when it came to being yanderes for the most part. 

.They loved you their partner and loved to spoil you. 

.Since you had the chewing on things and oral fixation that you do, Beelzebub is always supplying you with suckers and lollipops as well as gums and various other candies. 

.You are her sweet honey suckle after all and when those are not enough she and Vortex would take turns kissing you to keep your oral fixation nice and busy. 

.They do see the trait you have issues with being given direct orders. 

.They would be pretty chill about it. They do not force you to do anything you do not want to unless it affects your health. 

.That is when they have to step in and force your hand because your health and safety matter most to them. 

.For the most part, they will not force you to do what they say. 

.Although they both do worry about your teeth so Beelzebub pays for the best dentists to keep your teeth in tip-top shape. 

.They also know you love to nest, they can find you almost every single day, stealing pillows and and blanket and various other things to make a legit fort. 

.Being in the fort is not the main comfort but you also like the process of building the perfect nest for that day and the needs that you have that day. 

.May it be reading, playing video games, drawing, etc. 

.You make the perfect nest and of course, Beelzebub as your girlfriend and yandere would make sure you had anything and everything you needed for SO Many forts and nests. 

.They are both protective of you and would not let anyone try to hurt you. 

.Beelzebub would be the type to get extra spicey when people challenge her love for you and or try and put their hands on you. 

.They better think again because she does not play around with anyone saying she does not love or that she is using you. 

.And the thing she cannot stand more than that is anyone putting their hands on you. 

.You were her's, and Vortex's partner and she would not let anyone hurt you. 

.vortex is also protective, he is a bit more chill than Bee but he can be with you out in public without making a scene. 

So it is easier for him and you to chill. He also buys you chewable stress balls that make you feel so dang good for your oral stuff.  .He also helps you build your forts a lot he is the muscle. 

.They both are very good at helping you calm down. 

.Also Vortex once again is able to destress you a bit better than Bee because Bee Is like a social butterfly and able to make a party really fun. 

.Vortex is able to calm you down and soothe you, he is also the one that can tell when your social battery is running low. 

.Although Beelzebub is not as good as that as Vortex. She is able to make these things fun for you. 

.She is the one who gets you out of your bubble and lets you meet friends that you hang out with. 

.Like for example if you were into DND she would make it where you found a group you could hang out with. 

.This goes for anything she and Vortex are the type of yanderes that do not mind you having friends. 

.They will of course still make sure your friends do not step out of line and try to make you theirs. 

.That is not going to happen, as they make sure that you are theirs and theirs alone. 

.They are one of the least controlling yanderes and are very supportive of you. 

.They would both help you indulge in your special interest and Queen Bee knows that you have a thing with food. 

.So she helps you get many good foods that you like that are healthy for you. 

.She may be the queen and sin of gluttony but she would make sure that you do not eat too much junk so you do not get sick. 

.Of course, she does let you indulge a bit. She knows that treating you with your favorite snacks is the best thing for you! 

.She even made these special honey suckers for you, which are full of the things you need but help with your oral fixation and desire to suck on things. 

.They have the pet name "honeysuckle" or "Honey" for you. 

.They would once again keep their rivals in line because you are theirs and they are very protective of you. 

.They confessed to you at a private party and you did say yes, since then you have been with your partners and living the best life has to offer. 

.They both treat you well and adore you, so you never get the warning bells that you would get with other yanderes. 

.The only time you see their yandere traits is if someone puts their hands on you and tried to hurt you. 

.That is when you would see their spicy yandere sides. 

.Of course, they tried to keep this from you as much as possible. 

.Vortex is the more chill one and even if a rival got too close to you he would still be chill, until someone puts their hands on you and then he is all teeth and nastiness to tear them apart. 

.Beelzebub is the one to take the control most of the time with punishing people. 

.They would be the best in the end for you.  [YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS another chapter is done! I hope you all enjoyed this, and stay sexy, all of my sexy muffins!] 

[storkmuffin]

Hello again! First, snatching that Seonghwa Anon title is an honor. Secondly, thank you so much for writing an entire thesis. I honestly could read a 300+ page book about Seonghwa since he is so. damn. interesting. And your perspective as always is very detailed and thought provoking. I mean he worked his magic on me, I’m very intrigued by him because he’s so good at contrasting and I can’t wait to see his next move. Plus he’s hot af so there’s really no losing with him. Also!! Have you seen his lives or chats? It’s verrrry interesting since he’s for sure investing into that parasocial aspect but he again has perfected the balance of subtle and obvious.

Hi Seonghwa Anon!

I hadn't gotten into Seonghwa's lives actually, because I'm still going through Mingi and Wooyoung and I'm a hyperfixated autist on a roll, but just because you said so, I went to look. He did not disappoint!

Seonghwa in his most recent live on 2025.01.13 (at the 15:50 mark) is in a robe provided by the hotel he was staying at, at the time, which has the hotel's name embroidered on it. And fans on the chat told him it was visible, and that he should hide it, for his safety. He says thank you, then launched into the most Seonghwa the Idol speech of all time that made me laugh and hug myself and kick my short little legs, because basically he's gentle parenting his potential stalkers in a way that's so him.

I constantly feel that our Atiny are so kind, because really when I do a live at a hotel or take a photo, it is possible for you to figure out exactly where we're staying. You can just search using the photos and find everything out. But you don't come find us. You're considerate like that. It makes me think, Wow our Atiny are just, really- how do I say this? - have great manners. Gosh, how do I say this? It might seem rude if I express it like this - but our Atiny really have really great manners, and have created a great culture, and are keeping their promises with us. This is what I think. I mean, it can happen that we run into each other by coincidence, too, but if you were really intent on using the information for bad purposes? If you were really determined to do it, I honestly think you could do whatever you wanted. But even so, you're all resisting that urge, and providing us with that consideration and care. So every time you do that for us, I am so filled with pride about the Atiny. That's how it really is. So these days, I just trust our Atiny and don't really worry that much. But I will, as you say, be careful about the things I should be careful about. Thank you.

I don't think I need to explain how brilliant this is, and how well executed.

By the way, just for fun, Wooyoung in his live on 2024.07.30 (at the 25:00 mark) had a similar thing happen, where he showed stationary with the hotel logo, and he approached it very differently, but just as effectively, in his own style.

Wooyoung did it like this:

Oh dang I messed up! [Long, cold-faced stare-down into the camera]. Do not come here. I mean, I am the one that showed it to you, but do not come looking for me here. [Looks demurely down, starts giggling, then bursts out laughing. Looks back up]. Saseng (stalker) fans are not real fans! [Still laughing] I admit I'm the one who showed it to you, but! Do not come here!! You'd be making a mistake! Well anyway- [Continues the story like nothing happened].

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Hello dear Winners!

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[acesspacee]

1.Question no.1

I've heard of people having "traits" like do things that is common is autistic people like stimming going non verbal , fidgeting alot, zoning out/ dissociating from what I've learnt dissociating is a more extreme case of zoning out. Out of all the things I've listed more included I can't really remember. the only one I do is non verbal? around my friend sometimes because of stress or anxiety, in general I'm not a talkative person as well so maybe it's anxiety or something else but I do end up going long periods of time of feeling like I can't speak so matter how hard I try

So in short my first question is can non autistic people have autistic "traits:?

2. I've been told autism is a spectrum refering to there's high functiong and low functioning but I'm still lost as to what that means, (my bad if this question sounds a bit rude in thr way I word it I'm not trying to be in any way so I apologize again😓) I know some things autistic people struggle with are like sensory issues, going non verbal , dissociating, stimming, but here's my question what's the difference between sensory issues with a normal person and an autistic person? Like let's say for example the issue is a certain material that feels uncomfortable to both people and causes them to feel uncomfortable, what would be the different between the issue for the autistic person rather than the normal person?

3. Lastly this is more for my own knowledge, what's the difference between Autism burn out and regular burn out?

Hello!! Genuine question so my apologies if I come of as rude or insensitive. I have a friend who has autism and I want to learn how to help her better more with different things but I'd also like to know the difference between Autism things and non- autism things?

Autism burn out may last for any periods of time, ip to months affect individuals socially mentally cause thrm to be more easily overwhelmed / sensitive to stress extreme exhaustion and difficulty functioning

Regular burn out can last for up to months affects people mentally snd socially more stressed out tired but I I'm guessing a lesser level of tired than autistic burn out? And I'm guessing on a general autistic burnout causes them to have a harder time functioning like for example a regular person is burnt out but still tries to get things done but is mostly burnt out an autistic person wouldn't be feeling well enough to do that?

IM REALLYBSORRY IF THESE QUESTION'S SEEMED A BIT RUDE IM JUST GENUINELY CURIOUS ANDBI WANT TO KNOW!

(I'm vv sorry for long ass mwssage)

Oh i have been WAITING for these. no worries my friend, for I love answering questions. Tho, note that I am not a professional and will be refering to my experiences and those around me.

Question 1: From my experience, yes, some people may experience some autistic traits, it doesnt make them autistic, it may just be apart of their day to day like (like jumping when you're happy).

Question 2: Sensory issues for me is where every little thing may hurt. The lights, the air conditioner, people using *their phones* whilst a neurotypical person may not even notice these sounds. Also, with the material example you gave, a nerodivergent person may act more "dramatically" about it while a neurotypical person may just voice their hatred.

Question 3: Autistic burnout is way more than socially and mentally. It also impacts us physically, cognitive AND emotionally. Depending on how long the burnout lasts, the neurodivergent person may begin to avoid everything and everyone. Give up on dreams, quit school, quit work. Many horrible things happen the longer it stays and I have witnessed them. So you were right about that.

Dont be sorry! It's okay to ask questions about topics you want to learn about/dont know. I hope I was able to help and apologizes if they didnt help as much. Again, these are my experiences/opinions, I'm no professional.

Also side not, this may just be me, please dont call neurotypical ppl 'normal'. Autism is my normal so calling them normal feels weird..idk

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Hello, I just wanted to give friendly advice to the anon who asked “Is it rude to ask someone if they are autistic” if that’s okay.

In my experience, when I share with others openly that I’m autistic they sometimes divulge that they are autistic themselves and say “Oh yeah me too.”

Or, they might say something like “Oh someone in my family is autistic”, and not talk about themselves directly, but it’s still a great response because they are indirectly telling you “It’s okay, I understand autism. I am cool with your existence.”

You could try that, and if they don’t offer up anything personal about themselves then I wouldn’t ask, just in case they are sensitive about it :)

And of course, be careful of who you offer the info to first! This advice may not be suitable for every social situation.

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[gloomybear-vexillologist]

hello!!! ^_^

Im Gloomy Bear (more specifically a gloomy bear plushkin) and I finally caved and made a flag blog </3

this blog is run by @analog-autistic!

here’s my rentry for easy access!! I use They/Xe/It + any neos (as long as they aren’t nsfw)

I mostly do this for fun ^_^

To do list

My timezone is EST, but i tend to be awake at odd hours or busy doing other things (like school or relaxing)

I am the host (frontstuck) of an endogenic system. Please do not bring discourse of any kind onto this blog.

Request guidelines, personal stances, and tag map under the cut!

Personal stances, if you disagree with these stances you can still use the terms I coin unless stated otherwise in the coining post.

I’m an endogenic (possibly traumaendo) system, generally uncomfortable with anti-endos interacting, but as long as you aren’t a huge asshole about endos idrc

Uncomfortable with anyone who ships/romanticizes unhealthy/abusive/noncon relationships following me, for reasons I won’t be going into, but I don’t think anyone should be harassed for doing such.

Very much pro M-spec/good faith/contradictory labels

Anti harmful transition for transIDs, pro non-harmful transIDs and atypical dysphoria

I consider myself transspecies/a physical nonhuman to some degree, feel free to ask about it!

Pro-Para, anti contact for harmful paras (where the thing one is attracted to is/was sentient but cannot consent for whatever reason, pedo/zoo/necrophilia usually)

Anti-Radqueer

Fuck terfs/tirfs and swerfs.

I don’t do discourse. Keep me out of it.

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Genders & Xenogenders

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[ratinacoat]

Intro thing.

Hello! I am ratinacoat. I am new to posting on Tumblr (not viewing) and will be using this blog to spread some actual information on DID rather than the misinfo that's so commonly shared.

I am anti-endo and do not encourage self diagnosis but I will not be aggressively against it. Endos can interact however. I believe everyone deserves to have the chance at being educated or debating. If you are rude in Asks you will be ignored.

More on that, I am very open to answering questions or taking in new info with sources. I am not afraid to admit when I'm wrong and if I am provided with proof of a contradicting claim I will look into it and accept it. I will not share certain diagnosis I have and would appreciate if I was not asked about anything about them.

I am a cis man (I think) and gay. I use he/him pronouns but don't really care what I'm called. I am also an adult.

I don't care who interacts with me as long as you are not aggressive towards me. While I am okay with questions and debates, I am not okay with one sided arguments that lead no where.

I am autistic and have NPD. Sometimes I have trouble getting my tone across so never be afraid to ask for clarification.

I think that is all. Cya. :]

Disclaimer: Nothing in this blog is said out of hate. Misinformation is so widely spread and I do not blame people who were influenced by it.

(Not made by me)

[spencewalterreid]

hey! i’m replying to a post where we talked about a bit about criminal minds (the post was made on my side blog @miss-marmalade and for some reason i can’t reblog and respond through there)

i stopped watching criminal minds a little after spencer dealt with painkiller addiction :/ i was less enthusiastic about the show after elle greenaway left in the first season but i kept watching anyway, and decided to stop after the arc of spencer’s kidnapping/dealing with the trauma of it

it was so sad to see! how do you deal with it? because the first 2-3 seasons are only the very beginning of the show, and i know spencer goes to prison and deals with many other horrible things

how do you, and i guess anybody who enjoys criminal minds or other alike shows, look forward to watching despite how devastating they can be?

i don’t mean to sound rude or anything, i’m not trying to say it’s weird to like a crime show. i do want to start watching it again but i don’t know how i would feel about it

Yes hello I remember you!

Ohhh I love this question.

I'm gonna TMI a little bit. I have BPD, and have been chronically suicidal almost my entire life. I am also very clearly autistic, and it makes finding friendship very difficult.

With that being said, I lost my very best friend since fourth grade a year and two days ago. He was my world, the only one to stick around, the only one I knew without a doubt I would spend my life with, and I fell in love with him. I realized it after he got into a relationship, he found out, and it ruined everything. I was more lost, lonely, and afraid than I ever have been. That's when I started really interacting with criminal minds.

I am a lot like Spencer in more ways than one. Yes, it hurts to see him be hurt, but. He has people that take care of him. He has people to take care of. And when he's sad, they call. And when he rambles, even when they're annoyed, they love him. And when he's alone and scared and he's really fucked up, they don't give up on him. That's how I get through it, because if Spencer can have that, maybe I can too.

Spencer goes through hell, yes. But I've gone through my share of it, too. Seeing someone else endure it and not only make it out, but with a whole army of people that truly, truly love him... it's a game changer.

He has been so hurt so many times, by both people with good and bad intentions, and circumstances outside control. And yet he is kind. Yet he is curious, and passionate, and brilliant, and ambitious, and gentle. He comes out of prison with a new violence, a new anger, and he finds a way to channel it. Because he knows, in the very core of his soul, that isn't who he is. It isn't natural. It feels good to be angry and hateful for a moment, but then it feels like a lie. He finds a way to be kind. That's why Spencer is so important to me.

He is not kind because of the life he has lived. He is kind in spite of it.

[daughter-of-the-author]

Hello!!

Hello!!! I’m rin pines! I’m the daughter of Stanford pines! I know what you’re thinking: isn’t he to old to have kid? And yes he is, but I’m adopted! pfp by @jayxel1102 (Ty for the art 😭)

basically dad found me after I had run away from home due to personal reasons, I was very quiet and shy and I still am but my cousins Mabel and dipper have helped me come out of my shell more. I am 15 and am currently in high school, however many people say I’m childish because I’m autistic and also have adhd. Mabel suggested I get online and try to make more friends so here I am!

also pronouns are she/they

Affiliated blogs (none are mine):

ford: @scienceman333

Mabel: @ask-mabelpines

dipper: @conspiracy-pines

stan. @mightydjdarkenedverliese

wendy: @iceb4gw-c

soos

Pacifica: @pacifica-elise-northwest

McGucket: @fiddlesfords

Robbie: @st1tchedmyheart

Thompson: @thom-thunderstruck

(if there’s a character you want that isn’t here lmk, also I’ll still interact if you’re a character that’s already on here it’ll just be a different universe)

mod note under cut:

Heyo it’s @kaiyax1 again. I do want to say that rin is based off me. Anyways here’s the rules

no nsfw, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, being rude in general, no spamming asks (I mean don’t send the same questions multiple times, you can send multiple at once)

other than that have fun!

Oc ref (none of the images are mine except the gacha ones!! The others are fanart)

[cheezeebutter]

hello, i'm not sure if this is rude but you should check out autism diagnosis. btw your likes and following are public

Lmao no worries, not a rude question; I already know I’m autistic, I was diagnosed at 4. And also ye, I know my likes and follows are public, no worries; thanks for letting me know though ❤️!

I am curious as to what specifically has made you assume I should seek an autism diagnosis? Like damn I know I’m autistic but fuck I must’ve been actin’ hella autistic to have been found out on a Tumblr account I hardly ever use lmao.