#Healthy work/life balance
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Had a fun idea earlier today while I was working and flushed it out this evening (before going back to work).
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Bleh
#Sel talks#Vent#Been feeling more- lost? I guess?#Trying to understand myself and my relationships to other people and what that means#I keep seeing the box that people put me in. Of who I used to be or how they see me. And it feels like it's been harder to step out of that#If I can't change now then when? After I get a new job and I'm not on my final write up? When I move out again?#There's so much I want to do. But how do I know what's doable? What's possible in reality?#Like as much as I would like to go back to school; that's not really possible for someone working full time? At least not if I want a#Healthy work/life balance#But what about my gender goals? Moving out of state? How viable are either of those?#Should I accept what I have and work on improving that? If moving is in the realm of possibilities; shouldn't I focus more on that?#Would I be strong enough to just drop everything and just leave one day? No planning?#Too sleepy to continue#But been feeling a lot
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Meanwhile, MC to Lucifer:
MC's the actual Daddy Dom of the series.
#dominate that old man into a healthy work-life balance babe i believe in you#obey me#obey me devilgram#obey me shall we date#obey me!#shall we date? obey me!#swd obey me#swd obey me!#shall we date obey me#om shall we date#om! shall we date#obey me! shall we date?#shall we date? obey me#om! swd#swd om#om swd#lucifer x mc#mc x lucifer#obey me lucifer#om lucifer#om! lucifer#obey me! lucifer#swd lucifer#shall we date lucifer#obey me main character#obey me mc#om mc#obey me! mc#om! mc
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The creature needs its morning coffee
#and some fucking melatonin#and a healthy work life balance#but that might be asking too much of him icl#httyd#how to train your dragon#Rtte#race to the edge#httyd rtte#hiccup httyd#hiccup#hiccup how to train your dragon#hiccup haddock#hiccup whump#sort of#idk#this is a shit post#look at him lmao#sleep deprived moron get fucked
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I know I've been on about this for a while now and I'm being a hater but you're telling me SydCarmy was "always meant to be platonic" even though there are two seasons of writing making use of tried-and-true explicitly romantic tropes, themes and writing signals, and SydLuca is going to be romantic because...he was nice to her on screen for a few minutes?
I don't even care if people ship SydLuca, or if they just prefer it, but you can't honestly tell me that you believe Carmy was always meant to be a friend but Luca is an obvious love interest.
Just because Syd and Carmy haven't kissed or confessed their love to each other doesn't mean that isn't very obviously the direction this show is going. The Bear has already shown you who is endgame. It has shown you every episode of the show so far.
Honestly I really don't think The Bear fanbase understands this show or cares about these characters or the story being told here, which is unfortunate because this show is shockingly well-written in comparison to most shows right now, and we should be so grateful for it but all we're doing is complaining that the writers led us on by not making a ship canon fast enough. It's just. Sad.
#The Bear#SydCarmy#I was like a casual fan of this show two days ago#and now seeing how little respect this show gets from it's fanbase I'm losing my mind#I mean I shipped SydCarmy before anyway but now it means so much to me#it means so much to see such a realistic and purposefully well paced romance take place#so many shows portray romantic relationships and their beginnings in ways that just don't really happen in real life#and this show very purposefully said no. These are characters who are strangers. who are working together. Who are in a tense environment#and each of them has problems - one of them the type of problems that makes developing new relationships pretty difficult#these two would not get together right away. It would take a long time. And there would be ups and downs.#And even when that's the case. Even if when it takes a long time and doesn't go smoothly and is hard -#it can still be beautiful. It can still be romantic. It can still happen and here's how#and I'm just so inspired genuinely. It is so difficult to write romance without being cliche and so difficult to write it in a way that#could actually happen in real life and I really do hope I can write something half as good some day#and then to know so many people have no appreciation for it at all#because they prefer the shows that have characters make eye contact a few times and then confess their love for each other like#it's just fucking sad. So sad that so few people have any appreciation for good writing especially the difficult of romance writing#like I really just don't even know what to tell you. In real life these two would not have confessed to each other yet. They would not have#kissed yet. They would not have even realized they have feelings for each other yet because those feelings would still be developing#and I also want to point out that given the disparity in power between Syd and Carmy in season 1 it wouldn't have been healthy for them to#get together much sooner. He was her boss. He was also her idol. Before they can even get together that needs to be balanced out.#And then on top of that don't you see the value in Carmy realizing the dream girl he's romanticized in his head - Claire - isn't actually#what he wants? Don't you see the beauty in him being disillusioned from that? And realizing that Syd is what he wants?#Don't you see the beauty in Syd having an idealized vision of what Carmy The Great Chef is like realizing she was wrong and that he's human#and flawed and then realizing - she loves him anyway? She loves him more for not being on a pedestal and for having his flaws?#Are you telling me that even thinking about this doesn't move you? Doesn't make your heart ache a little?#And again - ship and let ship - but what is Luca? What is Luca if not just what she was hoping Carmy would be when she wen to The Beef?#What is he if not just another man who she has not seen under pressure yet? Not seen reliving trauma yet? Not been her boss yet?#It's easy to look at him and think he's better than Carmy - and that's the point. That's the point The Bear is making.#It is easy to want someone you don't know. It's hard to want to someone you do know. But that's what love requires and that's the point
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Julian's line of "I needed another womb for the baby, and the only two other people on board were Major Kira and me." is already very. That Man Is Trans. and listen yes you can interpret it as him saying Kira was the only choice, but then it's literally followed up by Sisko saying "I think you made the right choice, Doctor." which I know is supposed to be a joke but the implication IS there that there WAS a choice and basically Julian is trans
#star trek: ds9#julian bashir#he's trans what else can I say#his tboy swag is off the charts#and also I love the idea of him being trans and choosing to keep his reproductive organs like his uterus#I feel like gender affirming surgeries including hysterectomies would be much easier to do in Star Trek#so it'd be interesting if he elected out of that one#anyways can you imagine if Julian ended up with the pregnancy#Julian/Miles/Keiko fic where they all fall in love over the pregnancy#also fucking hysterical imagining Miles having to deal with Julian carrying his goddamn baby#I think that'd drive him insane#I think he would suddenly become very concerned about Julian's less-than-healthy work-life balance#I think Julian would be VERY offended when Miles suddenly didnt want them going to the Alamo anymore#im thinking too much about this now actually
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gonna try to actually get enough sleep tonight so i dont spend the whole day napping again tomorrow hgjkdjfhgdjfg but umm heres a silly modern au jovier meme from a few days ago
#ik i said i'd try and draw today but holy shit i am SO exhausted#i do not have a healthy work life balance if you couldnt tell
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as of tonight i finally made it to the end of my little side project :) been working on it for like 4 months now and i can finally see the finish line... i just need a little bit of cleanup towards the end and some playtesting and i can finally share it with everyone
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weighing the pros/cons of listing a job that i intend to quit after ~2 months on my resume because it would allow me to list incredibly difficult senior responsibilities that would elevate my resume from like a solid B to an A but idk how many employers just write you off if you have experience that short in your most recent job. anyway i hate you resumes i hate you indeed i hate you linkedin i hate you soulless HR reps i hate you rejection emails i hate you 5-step interview processes ending in ghosting
#quitting bc the workplace is straight up abusive and they are piling ~60 hours of tasks on me in my 40 hour work week#and allowing me only 2 hours of overtime per week to ‘maintain a healthy work-life balance’ i.e. to make me work unpaid weekends#but im moving soon and have some personal matters to attend to that would adequately explain the short duration to employers#i also dislike the idea that they could torture me for 2 months and then weaken my future prospects by forcing me to list a gap in work#so idk. im just thinking out loud
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I’m pretty sure you mentioned your day job is being a tattoo artist, which I think is so cool! Do you have any favorite tattoos you’ve done?
Ahh I have so many favorites! I'm actually working on compiling them for new books that we're printing for the shop (which is so wild omg), here are some of them!
(hit the jump to see them! CW: traces of blood can be seen in some of the following photos!!! nothing super crazy because they're just tattoos but it can still be seen in some spots esp with the colored pieces ~)
I love my job (´ ∀ ` *)
#i'm very fortunate to have a job that lets me do what i love and gives me a healthy work life balance#tho the downside is that sometimes there's too much life and not enough work LMAO#we're entering slow season rn and ya boi is broooooke#but i'm not the only one#it's just the way it be#i'll make it thru this slow season like i have all the others#i'll share pics of the book when it's ready too !!!#tattoo artist#tattoo art#self post#ama#ask me anything#anon ask me anything#anon ama
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okay hear me out. i know i love science and i’m very good at chemistry and physics. but what if i became a fucking accountant
#IM SERIOUS…….#like i’ve been doing research about what career path to tailor my degree towards when i go back to school#and it seems like chemistry careers outside of phd research and academia just. barely exist in the US anymore#they’ve been largely outsourced or are extremely geographically limited. or it’s pure bench work that barely pays better than retail#and i’m like. knowing what i know now about my health i just cannot go into academia. i cant. it would take up 100% of my life#and as much as i think i could be smart enough i just like don’t. want to give up on hobbies or having a personal life.#i’m a slow reader/writer. i cant be writing all those papers and making all of those curriculums. it would be all i ever did#and i don’t want to constantly move across the country in pursuit of unicorn chem/bio jobs that would actually interest me#i need to be near my family or a few very close friends on case of a medical emergency#and as for accounting like. look at my hobbies. i love optimizing dragon capitalism on FR. i love making charts and solving puzzles#i don’t mind menial tasks. i need a job with consistent hours that i can leave at the office. bc otherwise i can get too wound up#accountants are in demand everywhere and the pay is actually proportional to the amount of schooling required#depending on the company you work for the work/life balance can be pretty reasonable apparently#i’m good at math enjoy solving problems and have job experience recruiting clients and solving their unique problems#it’s not as spiritually fulfilling as astrobiology but like does it have to be? if i could have a stable and healthy life with people i love#idfk man
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the absolute power and freedom of turning on "out of office" autoreply
#i literally never do this because i never take leave because a healthy work life balance is for LOSERS#but i am working on that particular neurosis and trying to treat my job like an actual job and not a vocation#not counting industrial action shenanigans this is the first leave i've taken at this job..... ever?? in 2.5 years??????? oh im insane#'what made you take your first day of leave remote' oh i was upset about donald sutherland#the funny thing is my students would just be like “oh yeah. makes sense. remote loved that man.”#anyway i'm feeling better today but i wanted more time to chill
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Tbh the sheer magnitude of angst potential that decarabian has is untapped. Imagine thinking everyone loves you, that you know you’re taking care of them and they appreciate what you do for them, that people look up to you in respect. But in reality your kingdom is falling apart, everyone including your own wife hates you and your actions, simply because you’re blind to the world around you, trying and trying to protect everyone but nearly everyone else thinks you’re trying to hurt them. You have so much love in you for everyone you know that it system overflows into hatred, apathy, and obsession, and the two people who could ever have the potential to truly understand you and your motives are both plotting together to kill you
(he needs therapy)
😔 he needs both therapy and a divorce. Those who hated him realized they couldn't do anything about it just left. They would rather embrace the cold than defy him. No wonder why the only people left in his city were those who 'respected' him. Its survivorship bias. The naysayers are all outside his walls and so of course only the yes-men were in earshot.
Also yeah once Amos is like "you know what? I should leave him!". Decarabian starts to Spiral. Its not healthy at all, and it effects him a lot. Amos was completely justified in leaving him, and thats why i think Decarabian's winds get even worse. You know how there were tornadoes and such when Dvalin attacked the city? Yeah. Yeah.... Anemo guy gets abandonment issue 3.0 and acts like a dragon.
This just makes his citizen hate him even more, driving more people to the Nameless Bard's side. Oh once he realizes that all of them are on that bard's side he's going to blame the bard for everything. "Things were perfect until you came along!" Type of monologues. Its a mutual hatred, NB hates Deca for stuff that Deca didn't even do. They should stab each other :)
I can just imagine him at the top of his tower, the halls are as silent as they always been but its only now he can sense the *missingness* of it all. He knows something is wrong. He knows that he isn't happy. But he refuses to wake up. His throne glitters while the stone beneath him shatters. For the first time in a long time he feels emotions other than content. Anger. Despair. Bitterness. Guilt.
If he surrendered would he be able to see Amos again? See his citizens again.
Thats such a silly thought! He's trying to protect them! There is a war outside!
But Andrius's blizzards are weakening. When was the last time that wolf fought against his winds
When was the last time he went outside and talked to anyone
Everything is fine! Its perfect.
He misses her so much. He misses her so much. He misses her so much. Amos where did you go? Are you eating well? Are you cold? Your ring is right in my hand. Please come back. Please. You would do anything for her
Well, besides what she wanted.
Was happiness worth the lack of protection?
#my man has never heard of a healthy work life balance f in chat#steel text#decarabian#old mondstadt#i think about him a normal amount
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Spencer is acting like his therapist just asked him to jump off a cliff when she said don’t think about work “don’t think about work what do you mean?” 😭
#criminal minds#criminal minds 15x4#spencer reid#potato rewatches criminal minds#no one needs a more healthy work life balance then him#if his therapist gets through their sessions and remains sane she deserves a raise#Spencer you talk to your mother outside of work#although I don’t think that would help his case
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i wanna write lore about my characters but i am in the eternal struggle of how do i start
#the pain of wanting to talk about ocs but not what to say#s o b#forget art block how do i deal with oc block#id call it writing block but i always have that lol#vibrates#i wanna talk about my idiots#like the corpse trade in london#especially since depending on what youre reading on site people come back to their bodies or they dont#its not super consistant#like i know darcy wouldnt care but others WOULD depending on if you come back ot your original body#which i think is true???#idk man its super unclear#but its super morally dubious and I KNOW det doe isnt cool with it at all think of the FIGHTS#couples arguments but make them about philosophy and the fact that youre both actually diametrically opposed to things and you cant always#have a healthy work life balance between the two of you#because even if it works most of the time darcy is going to end up working on someone his husband thinks deserves better#especially if he finds out about the burking darcy did on the surface#cutting out the middleman as it were#and cutting the middleman#anyway i wanna talk about ocs help
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i saw this lovely post and went, wait i know some quantum physics! so here is my attempt at some symbolism
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Light is both a wave and a particle. A dual nature that cannot be explained one way or the other only ever both.
A wave could not strike an electron and move it from its orbit, creating electricity. A particle could not pass through adjacent holes and create interference. Light is both a wave and a particle.
He is both Duke Thomas and the Signal. When he puts on the suit for the day, he becomes aware of the event horizon off in the distance.
Gravitational waves propagate outwards from a source of mass at the speed of light. Mass distorts the fabric of space time. Like a coin in a funnel, objects of lesser mass are drawn in towards the center. When an object with sufficient mass, such as a black hole, distorts the weave to such a degree, there is a point of no return. Not even light can escape.
For the cave dwellers of Gotham city, the center of gravity is not the sun nor the moon, but a very large Bat.
The man is both Bruce Wayne and Batman. A dual nature that cannot be explained one way or the other only ever both.
He is both Duke Thomas and the Signal. He is not Batman, he is not Bruce Wayne, he is better.
He sees the event horizon, the point of no return, where his light is swallowed up into the all consuming gravitational pull.
He knows the consequences for orbiting too close.
The most luminous star in the known universe is 10.9 billion light years away, with a solar luminosity 200 billion times that of the Sun. It lies in the Sunburst galaxy, and its name is Godzilla.
Before he goes to bed for the night, Duke looks up at the smoggy, clouded, light polluted Gotham sky and thinks: Bet.
#duke thomas#my fic#idk if this is good i unfortunately am more confident in my knowledge of particle physics than i am of making poetry#dc#batfamily#bruce wayne#batfam#bread talk#anyway i love duke and i love light physics#i was going to draw some symbolism for duke/signal duality but honestly once his parents are safe#he'll have the most healthy work life balance lmao#his dad is a union man and So is duke#so bruce as a mentor figure and also a guide for what Not to do was much more apt to me
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