#Gwenna

[ghost-bard]

Watching eom 22 and. Farryn. Gwenna would never want that for her :((( augh…. Doomed lesbians save me… save me doomed lesbians…

[eternally-tired-cryptid]

Ask me questions abt Gwenna

[dungeonsanddualmode]

Just recorded an absolutely wild episode. Should be out in two weeks!

[loopylooly]

Did all these little thingies of my girls aren't they so cutie patootie ❤️

[eternally-tired-cryptid]

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#if it's a historian who's genuinely just incredible at their job Gwenna will be OVERJOYED to pick their brain. I'd it's a historian who's like. #haughty and rude and horrible then there's an issue and she might get a little bitter

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How does your OC cope with someone being better at the thing they consider to be THEIR greatest strength?

[yxorul]

I need to get all the Farryn content out of my system before college fucks me over, so here are some doodles of her (featuring my takes on Gwenna, Gorthos, and Ceithlenn of the Crooked Teeth.)

My gay tinted lenses were on the entire time I drew these, Farryn's just real pretty okay 💕 (EOM also is just an excuse to practice gore drawings) Also love that her state of being is just weird lust and feelings of doom, that, and she has a possessive streak to her. She really said that Gwenna belongs to her and not the earth, and she's so real for that

Gorthos (and Farryn to an extent) gives me Nowhere King vibes, and that influenced my take on him :p

I miss her, chat 🙏 I can't believe she got caught up in a custody war between Gorthos and Ceithlenn 😔

[lefluoritesys]

My sibling in system (disorder holder & fictive) really wants me to do this post, but they barely have any words, so here we go:

We see a lot of systems struggle with big decision-making IRL because not everybody is on board, and we realized that trying to have everybody on board is probably the worst thing we have ever tried in the history of our systemhood. And I'm saying this as the alter who also dug too deep into our trauma and almost became Elsa in the depths Ahtohallan. Moreover, we're also polyfragmented. After a long and painful time of trying to figure our decision-making as a system, we have finally come up with some tips that might be useful for some other systems:

Ask your active fronters instead of all your alters. This might work best for polyfragmented systems but still works for smaller systems, too. Yes, active fronters and frequent fronters can change after a while, but it's still better to do what's best for you all npw and what you all want now than think about the possibilities of the future that haven't happened yet. Unless they are like life and death or extremely harmful to y'all, however, it's always necessary to take precautions.

Compromise is not supposed to please everybody 100%. Compromise is supposed to find a solution that 1) You all don't hate as much, 2) Will keep you safe. As long as others agree by at least 50%, the compromise is good. If you find other options, and they please everybody more, then by all means, go for it. But as long as it's safe, and all of you agree by at least a half (or, well, 50%), then that's a good compromise. Perfect solutions don't exist. Not always, at least. At the end of the day, you will still disagree with each other on little things, even if the plan feels and/or is perfect.

Your system structure, ideology, and hierarchy really do decide how you make decisions. There is literally no perfect advice for you out there, not even this post. Some systems have a host, and everything heavily depends on their decisions and how they are affected by what's going to happen. Some systems don't have a host but have a group of people at front who are in charge. Some systems are partial DID systems, some systems are class systems. It's always going to be different. Just because some tips work for some systems doesn't mean they should absolutely work for you.

Create polls if they work for you. Polls might work. Grab a system journal and tell everyone there's an active poll and get their answers (Simply Plural provides that option).

Writing a list of wants and desires. Your alters has a dream? Have them right it down (with consent) and consider it in your next big decision. Or just a decision. Maybe your alter wants chips, and you go out the next day, so you're like, "Oh yeah, lemme buy chips on the way home for them."

Writing a list of pros and cons. Cliché, I know. And gotta admit, never tried it ourselves just yet. But if we did, we'd probably write a general list of pros and cons, then letting our trauma holders and active fronters add some stuff that they want.

Speaking of your trauma holders, listen to your goddamn trauma holders. LISTEN TO THEM. If there's one type of alters who know more about your life and potentially you more than you do, it's your trauma holders. They know what they're talking about. They are not imagining it (this was said due to personal experience and not as an attack). It was, in fact, that bad, and even if you don't believe that, believe them when they say it. If a trauma holder says to get away from somebody or someone, hear them out. Do not dismiss them but have a conversation with them and understand that their opinion on the matter is important. It really helps to put things in perspective.

If you make the decision that will not affect you long-term, hold responsibility for that decision. Hold responsibility always, obviously, but I mean alter-wise. Alert others about it, or front long enough until that decision stops affecting you. Have a safety net in the form of your alters.

Always have a safety net IRL, too. Friends, maybe immediate family if possible, lover, partner system. Know where the nearest hospitals and fire departments are, write down all the emergency numbers. We ourselves created a list on our system notion page where we have names and emergency contacts of the people who we can turn to in case of a crisis, as well as local crisis lines. We also add notes about whether or not we can bring up the system around these people. Even if it's something small, better be prepared than dead (I am well aware a lot of you want to fight me on this, but you know what I mean, no dying. /t /nm)

Will this work for every system? No. But it works for ours. /ref

-host

[likethecolour]

i don't know how i haven't posted anything with these silly little guys yet considering how long i've been obsessed with this game. introducing my speaker (Morgan "Mori" Delaney - they/them) and seer (Gwenna "Gwen" Delaney - she/her), in a drawing of a scene from chapter 4 that's been stuck in my head ever since i read it.

@speakergame thank you for writing this story <3 not only has it become a sort of comfort media for me, but it feels extra special since i'm actually a twin myself. speaker is so so heartwarming, and i'm looking forward to seeing where the story goes!

[unothodox-hive-of-misfits]

"Yeah, speaking of that..." Lucius appeared before the blacksmith in his fuchsia form. It felt uncomfortable not being in one of his low blood disguises, his hand rested inside his cloak pocket. Fingers curled around his circlet like a safety blanket. "I'm in the market for a... tiara. Um... sea dweller style is preferred, and if possible I'd like these crystals to be used." He held out a small satchel containing several different light green crystals. Or, to put it another way, *lime* green crystals.

How good is Gwenna when it comes to jewelry?

"Well, I wouldn't say I'm as good at making fine jewellery as I am at making killing tools. But I have made crowns and over the top pieces for high-bloods and sea-dwellers in the past."

[the-return-of-the-wolf]

(via Momma Cusses: A Field Guide to Responsive Parenting & Trying Not to Be the Reason Your Kid Needs Therapy by Gwenna Laithland)

This is a great book for parents but also for those of us who are childless. I found it funny and helpful and highly recommend. 

[eternally-tired-cryptid]

I'm thinking so hard abt my witcherverse oc Gwenna y'all don't even KNOW

[dungeonsanddualmode]

YTA. even in context you essentially killed the guy. luckily he survived, but you should have at least let him hunt for food.

Context here btw:

AITA post but it’s just shit your dnd characters did

[dungeonsanddualmode]

Season Finale!!!

Haven't tumbled for a while, but the last episode of season 1 is coming out this weekend. it's your last chance to brag that you've been here since season 1!!!

Here's some MS paint art to make up for the absence

[rabbit-trolls]

>Low-Blood Ladies

> (medelr & last two were designed by @greedkinggreaser)

[stupidstupidratcreatures]

i should do ghalta actually. its just a normal green smack deck but i have a cheap 12/12 in the zone if i feel like it

[eternally-tired-cryptid]

Thinking hard abt my oc Gwenna who is successful in the life she wants to pursue and is surrounded by people who love her and is middle aged and standing up for what she believes in and is using her unique skills to care for people around her she's everything I want to be