#Ftm issues

[getyourpaybackwithsomepayback]

wish I was more masc so I could get away with pulling that Henry Jekyll fit for formal events 😔 I desperately need to wear a buttoned shirt cravat waistcoat and tailed jacket. It’s a need not a want at this point. I need to pull up to the Function™️ wearing that. Please gods please please please let me have a masculine figure after puberty 🛐🛐🛐

[chronically-jinx]

okay so basically people who get periods regularly are actually champions because I got mine for the first time in a year (transmasc) and like. you would've thought the world was ending the last two weeks.

and then

today

it was just like "oops you got your period" as if I didn't nearly burn everything in my life to the ground because i was unexplainable sick and angry

[angela-thompsonn]

Reblog and dm if you would let me fuck you❤️🥰

[transnest]

I got mad at the phobes in the notes, so f*ck it, transgender super sourcestorm

Every major health organisation supports trans healthcare

Regret for minors is incredibly rare

Regret in general is incredibly rare

Social support (friends, family) for youth is incredibly important

Gender affirming care is safe

Gender affirming care (including social transition) saves lives

Trans people are 4x more likely to be victims of assault

Deal with it. Trans rights are human rights.

[st-dionysus]

In the end, any term coined to discuss trans men's issues, is going to be deemed "poisoned".

If I hadn't coined transandrophobia, and someone else with zero "problematic kinks" that hadn't used "problematic labels" to define themselves. It still would have been called out. That's the nature of transandrophobia.

You can do everything right, dot all your i's and cross all your t's, and you will still be marked as an enemy to the queer community, because you dared to show up, stand up, and speak up - when you should, in their minds, be making yourself as small and as non-threatening as possible.

The androphobia present in the queer community, will always be weaponized against transgender men and so any word we come up with to discuss our issues, will be framed as us becoming violent, when all we want to do is point out the violence we face.

“I hate that the word transandrophobia has been so poisoned by the people using it because we need a word to discuss transmasc issues but now it has a context behind it of blaming transfems for transmasc problems and general transmisogyny.”

Was it transmascs speaking on transandrophobia that did that? Or is it people saying “transandrophobia truthers are all transmisogynists by default” that’s got everyone thinking the word is “poisoned”. Because I’ve seen way more of the latter and only a couple actual instances people can point to of “the truthers” doing that poisoning.

[nixisverytired]

Can we take a moment to think about the younger trans men and mascs on tumblr right now?

I was a teenager when ace and transmed discourses were at their peaks, and I can’t exaggerate how badly it affected me then.

Now trans men are the latest target, and I’m terrified for trans kids.

It’s easy to say “intracommunity discourse is an online problem! Go talk to queer people irl!”, but people forget that so many kids and teenagers do not have safe or reliable access to IRL LGBT+ communities and support groups. For many, online spaces are the only option.

We need to make sure the younger members of our community are being heard, and block out the hateful voices with messages of support and encouragement. Things are bad enough for trans people right now, and it's easy to forget that trans minors are often the ones suffering the most.

To any younger trans men or transmasculine people reading this:

The hate you are experiencing isn’t normal, it hasn’t always been like this, and it won’t always be this way. It is bleeding out from a small, miserable group of self-absorbed jerks.

Don’t feel obligated to call them out, don’t feel like you have to interact with these people. Please don’t doomscroll through discourse tags; it will make you feel like everyone is out to get you.

If you want to speak up for your community, that’s fine, but please take a break if you feel like your mental health is worsening. Block anybody who so much as breathes rudely in your direction.

You’re just as trans as the rest of us. You are welcome here.

Oh, and if you want to seek out external resources and groups, PFLAG helped me a lot when I was younger. It is an American-based organization, however, so if anyone has recommendations for those living outside of the US, please let me know in the reblogs!

[st-dionysus]

would you feel comfortable giving an overview of what’s in your book? i wasn’t sure if there were rules around what you can and can’t disclose before it’s published. looking forward to reading it!

My original definition of transandrophobia.

How transandrophobia was coined and why I chose transgender+androphobia as the root words and the Etymology of the word.

Why transandrophobia exists (As in the reasoning people have for participating in it and how it has developed over history)

Why transandrophobia occurs in queer and trans spaces, and how it occurs in cisgender spaces.

How transandrophobia affects the material reality of trans men through both a Marxist and Anarchist lens.

How transandrophobia effects the mental and physical health of trans men.

Discussing the way transandrophobia is used by politicians and law-makers to create anti-trans laws, the way that the transmasculine body is demonized by the public

Combating transandrophobia through activism, organization, and medias.

[averagevamptboy]

tgirl who is reluctant for me to call her mommy until it accidentally slips out of me one time as she’s pounding me, and she just pauses and flushes. it sends her absolutely feral and mindless, fucking into me like she’s forgotten i’m a human and forcing me to moan out mommy incoherently over and over and refuses to let me call her anything else from then onwards

[storebrandprozac]

desperately want to let a man old enough to be my father use me however he wants while i call him dad. to teach me how to take him because “it’ll feel so good kiddo” and make me cum on his cock multiple times before he pulls out and cums all over my tummy. he asks to let him take a photo cuz he thinks i’m so pretty like this and then maybe he secretly shows it to all his friends and they jerk off to it and talk about how hot it would be if they all used me together <33

[bullreigns]

Why do like 90% of the tank tops I buy become see-through in the wash? Like I wear them once and then the next time my tits are breasting boobily through the fabric.

[astreakoflavender]

the misandry within the queer community is wild because tell me why i was made to feel bad about being trans (FTM)... by other trans people... sometimes i get the feeling that some queer people would rather FTMs stay in the closet because of their sweeping generalized hatred for men. trans men aren't "betraying" the community by transitioning, or somehow defecting to the "Other, Bad Side". stop vilifying masculinity, i am fucking begging you.

[elithetboy]

Computer.... Show me audios of men calling me a good boy... Computer show me praise kink audios for puppies who have smoked a little too much 🍃

[st-dionysus]

Hello idiot number one thousand and two. Firstly, I'm sorry you failed the part of English class that covered poetry.

Secondly, this is a poem about cis-feminist and libfem spaces glorizing girl power and rage and the way that media uses female SA victims to sell more movie tickets to those cis feminists and libfem girl power fanatics, while those same cis-feminists and libfem spaces refuse to allow space for trans men who are barred from both cis male privilage and "gender oppressed" recourses. This is about how trans men transition from that hot mean lesbian in the girl gang and are then violently rejected and face the threat of being homeless, raped (including often by the cis women who are mad that we're no longer sexually avaliable to them) , and murdered because someone decided that when our pronouns changed we were no longer deserving of the life saving recourses that these spaces are meant to provide, such as domestic violence relief, SA therapy, birth control and abortion information, or a community to fall back on when you need support. So yeah, actually irl trans men are getting fucking raped and murdered after transitioning and having the very minute protections we were granted as cis lesbians in a community, revoked.

OK, but will you love the insane woman who stabs people in the back and does toxic yuri to cope, when he transitions to a man? Hmm? Will you?

[michelleotter07]

Hi everyone, Merry Christmas and a sexy new year🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ Reblog if you love trannies ❤️😘

[deathtokillian]

Protect Trans Kids