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sugurusfavemonkey · 2 days ago
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HIGH ACHIEVER - ONE: HOW TO BE A TEAM PLAYER
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summary: You've always prided yourself on your grades but when Suguru enters the scene, competing for the top spot in your major becomes more than just a matter of honor. What happens when you're forced to work together on a long project (and so what if he happens to be just your type)? pairing: Geto Suguru x reader word count: 2k content: college AU; academic rivals to lovers; short series; mutual hatred attraction; afab!reader; angst/comfort; reader is described as being shorter than Suguru (but then again, the man is about 6'3' so who isn't?); smut (in future chapters - MDNI) ♪playlist♪ +more Jujutsu Tech College AU
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Suguru Geto was the very apex of campus. 
Not only was he a big name in the basketball courts, but Geto was also the most skillful martial artist and exceeded in every single class he took, being among the top students in the academy. He was cocky but never unkind. In fact, Geto's amiability was a matter of admiration throughout the grounds. As if that hadn't been enough, he was beautiful. With his tall frame, broad shoulders, silky black hair, perfect complexion, kind caramel eyes, nihilistic smile… He was also the utter and absolute bane of your existence. 
It seemed to give him the utmost joy to counter every single point you brought up in the classes you shared or to find and point out inconsistencies in your arguments. In other words: he lived to antagonize you.
You didn't even care about being valedictorian; it was nothing but a title - who were you kidding? Gojo would be getting that anyway, the boy simply didn't know how to lose. Not even Geto could surpass his GPA and ranking position combined - but you did pride yourself on your grades and learning. It's why you even attended college to begin with: it's the goal, isn't it?
The problem began when Suguru decided to make it his business always to show you up. If you were happy about your 98% on a test, he just had to point out his 99. If you accurately responded to a question made by the professor, he felt obligated to mention details you had "seemingly forgotten".
It was frankly maddening.
"Sometimes the best solutions come from intuition and an understanding of the specific circumstances of the case - it requires flexibility." you spoke when asked about evidence-based practices in class. Mr. Yaga nodded complacently and took a breath as if preparing to launch into another rhetoric when there was a loud sneer.
You knew that sound well enough it immediately caused your spine to stiffen. You didn't even have to turn on your seat to find its source.
"Anything you'd like to share, Mr. Geto?" the professor promptly asked, arms crossing in front of his chest as one of his dark eyebrows shot up above the black sunglasses that were usually covering his stern eyes.
Of course he had. Geto always had. You rolled your eyes, already anticipating his antithesis. Countering your arguments were his favorite pastime after all.
"Yes, actually," you felt his eyes burning on the back of your head, but you refused to turn and give him the satisfaction. "Relying on gut feeling when people’s lives and well-being are at stake is… precarious. Evidence-based practice relies on proven methods, which is exactly what we need: tested and effective approaches." You could almost hear the arrogant smugness in the tone of his voice and your anger bubbled over to the point of spilling.
"So you'd prefer to overlook important nuances? People are individuals, not statistics. Using averages when each case is different is inadequate at best." You retorted as you twisted in your seat, your indignant eyes meeting his cool ones.
"Mrs-" The professor tried to stop the argument before it picked up, but it was already too late the moment you decided to counter Geto. He knew exactly what the result usually was. Every member of the docent body was aware of the rivalry between you.
"All that sounds lovely, very idyllic. But we should remain grounded in measurable outcomes, not guesswork, sweetheart." Geto spoke in his usual smooth cadency, but the disdainful undertone was not lost on you. He had this complacent closed-lip smile that grated your nerves on.
You scoffed at the belittling term of endearment he used, "A more creative, personalized approach builds trust and leads to success."
"And how do you plan to measure this success?"
"Success cannot be measured by research."
"And you suggest not relying on research? That is irresponsible."
"That is not what I-"
"Enough!" Mr. Yaga bellowed, clearly having had enough of the back and forth between the two of you. You clamped your mouth shut, embarrassment making your skin warm. "As much as all of your points are valid and very pertinent to our subject matter, you're letting your nerves get the best of you. I wish to continue my lecture now though." He paused gaze moving from you to Geto, "unless that would inconvenience either of you, of course."
You let your body slide down on your chair so as to avoid the attention still feeling Geto's gaze lingering on you. You hated that you let yourself be moved by his obvious bait, that you coulddn't help but rise to the occasion whenever he so much as breathed in your general vicinity. You wished you could say you had better self-control but you simply did not. It's a pain and a chore really.
The lecture picked back up after your humiliating schtick without further incidents… mostly because you decided not to chime in anymore. And, of course, without you to counterattack, Geto felt it would be pointless to partake in the discussion. Asshole.
You sighed in relief when the professor dismissed the class, quickly throwing your laptop and water bottle inside your bag and making a beeline to the door when he called your name followed by Geto's.
"I'd like to speak to both of you for a moment."
"I have to get to my next class-" you started to protest, hands tightening on the strap of your bag when he interrupted you:
"It'll only take a minute, Mrs."
You sighed and timidly moved closer to his desk, fingers still fidgeting. You could feel Geto's presence right beside you, but refused to even glance his way.
"This feuding between you is getting out of hand. I'd like to ask you to take it easy on the altercations from now on. You both make valid points most of the time, you should learn to compromise every now and then. Being this intransigent will get you nowhere in life." Mr. Yaga glare had you cowering slightly, shoulders hunching in. "You two are my best students in this subject so I decided to pair you up for a special semester-long project. That should teach you a little bit about accommodating the other's needs."
"What?!" you nearly choked on your spit.
"I want you to write a paper evaluating the impact of local outreach programs. It'll be worth 25% of your final grades. I'll email you the details. You're dismissed."
"Profes-" once more you tried to object but Yaga gave you no chance to even finish your thought:
"I said you're dismissed." He stood his ground, not bothering to even look at you as he started stacking the papers on his desk.
You huffed in annoyance and marched out of the auditorium. You heard Geto's steps and tried to walk ahead of him, avoiding the consequential conversation after receiving such horrid news but he easily caught up to you with his stupid long legs.
"Give me your phone." his velvety voice demanded. You stopped in the middle of the corridor and he did the same, turning his body to you, proudly crowding in on you and towering over your form, mindless of the other people walking past form both directions.
"What? No," you scoffed indignantly. Geto sighed and rolled his eyes, clearly regretting this exchange as much as you.
"I'm just gonna add my number to your contacts. As much as I'm dreading this, it is not the kind of project we can just work on separately and then put it all together. It should be seamless."
That made you pause. You really couldn't argue with that sentiment. Still, you were so used to it that you couldn't help but affronting Geto: "Huh. I didn't think you had it in you to be reasonable."
"Ha. Ha. Very funny." He deadpanned. You did hand over your phone after unlocking it and opening the contact info page after a second of hesitation when you found no hidden agenda behind his demeanor.
"Just type in your number so we can get this over with. I'd like to get this over with as soon as possible. My daily quota of you is already blown over." You said as you crossed your arms in front of your chest.
Your words had the opposite of the expected reaction though as you saw the moment his smile turned predatory. You steeled yourself for his upcoming retort but none came.
Your eyes instantaneously flitted to the strand of hair that fell off his half-up hairdo and covered his left eye as he lowered his head to type on your phone. You hated that if anyone ever critiqued a man bun that's because they had never seen Suguru Geto's. That man sure knew how to pull off one of the most controversial hairstyles to ever exist. You couldn't imagine there was something he wouldn't be able to pull off, to be honest… what a shame he had to be an insufferable asshole.
"That implies you need at least a small amount of me in your day." you were so enraptured in your analysis of his hair that you almost missed his jab.
"No, I-" you scowled in disgust, nearly ripping the unoffending device from his offering hand once he turned it back your way. "In your dreams, Geto."
He only hummed in response, that stupid smirk on his face. Again.
"Fuck you, Geto," you threw over your shoulder as you turned on your heel, not wasting any more time before heading for your next class.
"I'll text you, sweetheart!" He called after you, the sound of his laughter following.
You ground your teeth together in anger, your face feeling uncharacteristically warm. You only let yourself check your phone after you turned a corner so you were absolutely certain you were no longer in his field of vision. You stared in perplexity at the name he saved his number under.
"I can't believe this pretentious douchebag had the audacity… most brilliant colleague my ass!"
You were switching up his name in your contacts to 'arrogant prick n2' instead when you heard your friend's voice calling you over.
"Where were you? The class starts in less than a minute and you know how Gakuganji gets with laggers," her short dyed blonde hair swayed as she glanced from your approaching form to the open double doors to the lecture hall by her right.
You rushed towards Akari with a quick apology and a "what are you doing out here then?"
"It's not as if his lectures are ever full." She shrugged easily flitting her arm to yours so you could enter together.
"Noted."
The two of you easily found and occupied a couple of seats by the back right before Gakuganji launched into a dull monologue on the psychological effects of music on the brain, which could have been an interesting subject if it wasn't taught by someone closer to a mummy than a human with the most boring cadency to his voice.
"Did Yaga hold over the class?" Akari mumbled the question as she set up her laptop.
"Held me over, you mean," you murmured back. You felt her questioning gaze settle on you, so you decided to further explain, "he wants me to work on some big project about local outreach programs."
"That sounds like a lot of work, why only you?"
"Not only me. Something about learning to concede or some shit like that."
"What is that supposed to mean?"
"Well, apparently I have been too intransigent with Geto and now we gotta learn to work together."
She let out a loud sound, a mix between laughter and a snort which immediately had Gakuganji dark eyes turning your way.
"Sorry!" Akari winced, "I, uhn, chocked.
The professor huffed and you waited for some sort of reprimand, but he only got right back into his spiel.
"You're joking? You mean to say you have to work with Suguru Geto?"
"Unfortunately."
"Well, say goodbye to Jujutsu Tech, because the two of you are about to wreck this whole school."
She wasn't wrong.
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isuckatwritingsobenice · 2 days ago
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Hello! I really like your writing! If it's not too much trouble, may I request headcanons for Alastor and Vox (separately) with a reader who's like Yor Forger "Thorn Princess" from the anime Spy X Family? They can be human, demon, or both. That's up to you! Thank you very much!
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Alastor would be instantly captivated by someone as multifaceted as you. At first glance, your charm and grace would seem like traits he could admire from afar, but the hidden lethality beneath your poised demeanor would absolutely thrill him. He thrives on complexity and chaos, and discovering that you’re a master assassin would feel like unearthing a rare treasure. He wouldn’t be scared of you; if anything, he’d be delighted by the dark elegance you bring to your craft.
Your ability to compartmentalize—switching seamlessly between polite, unassuming behavior and deadly efficiency—would fascinate him. Alastor would likely notice your duality almost immediately. His supernatural intuition wouldn’t let him overlook the way you carry yourself, the way your body language shifts depending on the company you’re in. The moment he catches you in the act of your deadly work, he’d applaud. Not mockingly, but as though witnessing an artist at their peak. “My dear, such finesse! You’re not just effective—you’re graceful. How inspiring.”
He would become a strange sort of ally, neither fully interfering with your work nor staying entirely uninvolved. He’d enjoy giving you cryptic hints or sharing information about potential targets, just to see how you’d handle it. However, Alastor would never make things easy for you; he’d enjoy testing your adaptability, putting you in situations where you’d have to blend into Hell’s chaos while maintaining your cover.
Though Alastor isn’t the type to coddle or openly protect someone, he’d take a certain pride in your independence. The fact that you don’t need him to save you would make you all the more appealing to him. If anyone dared to exploit your moments of vulnerability or threaten you, he’d consider it a personal affront. His retaliation would be swift, theatrical, and completely over the top—if only to remind everyone that you are not to be trifled with.
In quieter moments, he’d revel in your company, intrigued by the glimpses of insecurity or self-doubt you might reveal. If you ever expressed guilt or questioned the morality of your dual life, Alastor would assure you in his own twisted way that your complexity is what makes you extraordinary. “A killer with a conscience,” he might say, chuckling. “You truly are one of a kind, my dear. Keep spinning your web of lies and blades—it’s a masterpiece in motion.”
On the other hand, Vox would be drawn to you for entirely different reasons. Your elegance and subtle charm would immediately catch his attention, but it’s your deadliness that would make him stay. Vox has a taste for flair, and someone who can blend lethal efficiency with grace would strike him as the perfect combination of danger and beauty. He’d see you as someone who can rival his own sharpness, and that would make him want to know everything about you.
When Vox discovers your identity as an assassin, he’d be stunned but impressed. “You? You’re the one who’s been taking out high-ranking demons? Damn, sweetheart, I underestimated you.” Vox would admire your ability to move unnoticed through high society, flawlessly maintaining your cover while eliminating targets. He’d want to be involved—not because he thinks you need help, but because he’s curious and enjoys the thrill of watching you work.
Vox would often offer to lend his expertise, suggesting ways to use his technology to make your missions easier. He’d insist on creating gadgets for you, like a weapon disguised as jewelry or a hidden communication device to keep in contact during your jobs. Though he trusts your skills, he’d feel better knowing he can watch your back, even from afar. “Don’t get me wrong, I know you’ve got this, but let’s just call it… insurance. For my sanity.”
He’d also be drawn to your softer side, finding your kindness and occasional awkwardness endearing. Vox would tease you relentlessly about how someone as sweet and polite as you could also be a deadly assassin, but there’d be an undertone of genuine admiration in his words. He’d especially enjoy watching you navigate situations where you have to switch between your personas, marveling at how effortlessly you transition from deadly to demure.
If you ever felt conflicted about your work, Vox would take a more reassuring approach. He’d remind you that the world is full of people playing roles, and yours just happens to be deadlier than most. “Everyone’s got a part to play, babe. You’re just better at it than the rest of us. Own it.” His support would come with a bit of playful arrogance, but his words would always carry sincerity.
Vox would be more protective than Alastor, though he’d try to mask it behind his usual bravado. He’d insist on being involved if he thought a job was too risky, even if it was just to make sure you had a backup plan. The idea of losing you would unsettle him more than he’d ever admit, so he’d channel that fear into ensuring you’re always prepared.
Both Alastor and Vox would find your duality irresistible, but their approaches to your relationship would be vastly different. Alastor would see you as a kindred spirit, someone whose complexity matches his own love of chaos and performance. Vox, meanwhile, would view you as the perfect partner in crime—someone who can keep up with his wit and energy while matching his flair for the dramatic. Both would respect your strength and independence, but they’d also take pleasure in the rare moments when you let them see the vulnerable side of yourself that you keep hidden from the rest of the world.
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osterby · 1 year ago
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Not all of this is actually completely useless in real life.
Reading carefully and taking special note of any easily skippable words that flip the meaning is how you should be reading rule lists and legal documents anyway; I first encountered that in test prep, but I use that skill requently in real life.
Knowing how to identify a trick question that is trying to trap you into giving and obvious but technically wrong answer will save you a lot of headaches on social media.
Recognising how people set up patterns they think are randomised is less practically useful outside of multiple choice tests, but is a great thing to know if you're trying to get a specific result on the latest uquiz.
Other test taking skills, like process of elimination and looking elsewhere in the same source for an answer, are broadly applicable in their rarified forms.
But yeah, it's silly that people learn all these as test taking skills; close reading and pattern recognition should be taught for its own sake and you shouldn't have to reverse engineer it out of a guide for gaming a score on a standardised test.
Every single time I say the phrase “I was classically trained in the art of multiple choice tests” everyone in the room who’s not a millennial laughs at my joke while all the other millennials in the room immediately look like they just walked in on a funeral by accident.
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deoidesign · 2 months ago
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Quick re-do of a 4 year old piece
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tackrusso · 7 months ago
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show tempe gang crossover with the morris islanders would actually have been the best episode of bones ever. btw
#please ignore the rest of the tags i will just be making things up#okay they start out in carolina but at least half the episode takes place in dc. do not ask me how travel logistics would work#tory spends the entire episode off with tempe doing bone stuff. booth feels upstaged by a 16-year-old girl#so he goes and hangs out with ben who does NOT trust him right off the bat#ben ends up having to run him over to liri at some point because there's crime afoot and tom is busy. they spend most of the ride in silenc#ofc they end up bonding Eventually because they are both obsessed with crazy emotionally stunted redheads named t brennan#tory is more effective than any of the squinterns and manages to piss hodgins off so bad just by existing#coop hangs out in the lab as saroyan tries to kick him out thirty times. he just keeps showing up and she can't prove who's letting him in#(it's tempe.) angela loves tory but tory does not love angela back. saroyan tolerates her. sweets likes her but knows she's hiding somethin#comes to the conclusion that she can read her friends minds and slowly drives himself crazy because obviously that can't be true#tory brings hi along whenever she needs someone with people skills and he is MORE than happy to participate in a hodgins experiment#hi gets to be king of the lab for about ten minutes. shelton hits it off with angela immediately and they solve half the case together#booth fucking HATES hi because he's evasive and really good at the manipulation thing. booth can't win verbal sparring and he gets Big Mad#at one point the four of them are in an interrogation room together (MISTAKE) because tory had them meddling a little too close to the sun#and booth is trying so hard to question them which didn't work even when they COULDN'T read each other's minds#tory figures out who did it and hi steals her thunder a la shrek wasnt vandalized he gave birth#temperance tells tory 'i know you've got a secret sweets told me and even though i don't trust psychology i find he's insightful' etc etc#tory's like well i might be but i can't tell you it's not just my secret and you wouldn't believe me anyway#because let's be real tempe WOULDNT believe her#meanwhile saroyan convinced by sweets paranoia managed to get a sample of tory's blood and test it and is like HEY WHAT THE FUCK#gets hodgins and they just stare at the results together and delve into conspiracy theories. he's like i KNEW there were werewolves#they debate telling tempe but know it wouldnt end well for the kids and decide to get rid of the evidence. but hodgins is SO smug#also angela spends the whole episode trying to convince everyone hi and shelton are dating and no one believes her#they finally see them kiss or something and they're all somehow floored and angela's just like yeah? duh?#if anyone read this i'm sorry and why
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vanilla-voyeur · 4 months ago
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In a turn of events unsurprising to everyone except the bipolar person, the mood stabilizer I've been tritating off of that wasn't doing anything was in fact stabilizing my mood
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phagodyke · 7 months ago
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looking up info on keloid scarring is so helpful. thanks man I didn't think of trying that one
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#well actually that kind of is relevant bc ive been trying to find more info abt tattooing keloid prone skin#which is effectively opting to wound urself. but everywhere is just like if ur keloid prone ummm. Don't do it 👍#theres not enough known abt keloids to predict if theyll be triggered or not by the healing process like it depends on so many things#i mostly get them from acne scars. but they dont always immediately appear sometimes its weeks or months after#n once u get them theyre permanent. treatments for them have a 100% rate of recurrence n will grow back bigger if u try to excise them#and they cant be tattooed over like other scars bc they dont hold ink n the irritation can cause them to get bigger too#it depends a lot on the tattoo artists skill/experience ig like u have to know Exactly how deep ur tattooing + how the wound will heal#bc if healing triggers keloids. well ill just end up with permanent scarring instead theres nothing i can do if it happens#which honestly might still look cool but its unpredictable bc they tend to extend past the original wound. n it wouldnt scar uniformly#urgh. i should probably talk to a gp n an actual tattooist abt it. i could ask to get like a rly small tattoo to test how my skin reacts#pointless thinking abt rn anyway cuz im not gonna get one any time soon i have some other shit to sort before that#but it would be so frustrating if i cant i have so many tattoo ideas i do rly want them.... :-(#ah well whatever.. im just procrastinating doing shit i need to crack on bc i cant spend another entire weekend doing nothing#after a month n a half of being on meds i feel like theyre becoming less effective. my task paralysis n focus is getting worse again :(#like its taking more and more effort its been rly noticeable at work. hoping its just bc of general mental health or poor sleep or smth#and not that im building tolerance or smth bc man. what else can i even do if that happens#this is gonna make me miserable to think abt so lets go do smth else!#at least i woke up feeling tons better today 💪💪💪 storm passed baby#.diaries
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drdemonprince · 3 months ago
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The data does not support the assumption that all burned out people can “recover.” And when we fully appreciate what burnout signals in the body, and where it comes from on a social, economic, and psychological level, it should become clear to us that there’s nothing beneficial in returning to an unsustainable status quo. 
The term “burned out” is sometimes used to simply mean “stressed” or “tired,” and many organizations benefit from framing the condition in such light terms. Short-term, casual burnout (like you might get after one particularly stressful work deadline, or following final exams) has a positive prognosis: within three months of enjoying a reduced workload and increased time for rest and leisure, 80% of mildly burned-out workers are able to make a full return to their jobs. 
But there’s a lot of unanswered questions lurking behind this happy statistic. For instance, how many workers in this economy actually have the ability to take three months off work to focus on burnout recovery? What happens if a mildly burnt-out person does not get that rest, and has to keep toiling away as more deadlines pile up? And what is the point of returning to work if the job is going to remain as grueling and uncontrollable as it was when it first burned the worker out? 
Burnout that is not treated swiftly can become far more severe. Clinical psychologist and burnout expert Arno van Dam writes that when left unattended (or forcibly pushed through), mild burnout can metastasize into clinical burnout, which the International Classification of Diseases defines as feelings of energy depletion, increased mental distance, and a reduced sense of personal agency. Clinically burned-out people are not only tired, they also feel detached from other people and no longer in control of their lives, in other words.
Unfortunately, clinical burnout has quite a dismal trajectory. Multiple studies by van Dam and others have found that clinical burnout sufferers may require a year or more of rest following treatment before they can feel better, and that some of burnout’s lingering effects don’t go away easily, if at all. 
In one study conducted by Anita Eskildsen, for example, burnout sufferers continued to show memory and processing speed declines one year after burnout. Their cognitive processing skills improved slightly since seeking treatment, but the experience of having been burnt out had still left them operating significantly below their non-burned-out peers or their prior self, with no signs of bouncing back. 
It took two years for subjects in one of van Dam’s studies to return to “normal” levels of involvement and competence at work. following an incident of clinical burnout. However, even after a multi-year recovery period they still performed worse than the non-burned-out control group on a cognitive task designed to test their planning and preparation abilities. Though they no longer qualified as clinically burned out, former burnout sufferers still reported greater exhaustion, fatigue, depression, and distress than controls.
In his review of the scientific literature, van Dam reports that anywhere from 25% to 50% of clinical burnout sufferers do not make a full recovery even four years after their illness. Studies generally find that burnout sufferers make most of their mental and physical health gains in the first year after treatment, but continue to underperform on neuropsychological tests for many years afterward, compared to control subjects who were never burned out. 
People who have experienced burnout report worse memories, slower reaction times, less attentiveness, lower motivation, greater exhaustion, reduced work capability, and more negative health symptoms, long after their period of overwork has stopped. It’s as if burnout sufferers have fallen off their previous life trajectory, and cannot ever climb fully back up. 
And that’s just among the people who receive some kind of treatment for their burnout and have the opportunity to rest. I found one study that followed burned-out teachers for seven years and reported over 14% of them remained highly burnt-out the entire time. These teachers continued feeling depersonalized, emotionally drained, ineffective, dizzy, sick to their stomachs, and desperate to leave their jobs for the better part of a decade. But they kept working in spite of it (or more likely, from a lack of other options), lowering their odds of ever healing all the while. 
Van Dam observes that clinical burnout patients tend to suffer from an excess of perseverance, rather than the opposite: “Patients with clinical burnout…report that they ignored stress symptoms for several years,” he writes. “Living a stressful life was a normal condition for them. Some were not even aware of the stressfulness of their lives, until they collapsed.”
Instead of seeking help for workplace problems or reducing their workload, as most people do, clinical burnout sufferers typically push themselves through unpleasant circumstances and avoid asking for help. They’re also less likely to give up when placed under frustrating circumstances, instead throttling the gas in hopes that their problems can be fixed with extra effort. They become hyperactive, unable to rest or enjoy holidays, their bodies wired to treat work as the solution to every problem. It is only after living at this unrelenting pace for years that they tumble into severe burnout. 
Among both masked Autistics and overworked employees, the people most likely to reach catastrophic, body-breaking levels of burnout are the people most primed to ignore their own physical boundaries for as long as possible. Clinical burnout sufferers work far past the point that virtually anyone else would ask for help, take a break, or stop caring about their work.
And when viewed from this perspective, we can see burnout as the saving grace of the compulsive workaholic — and the path to liberation for the masked disabled person who has nearly killed themselves trying to pass as a diligent worker bee. 
I wrote about the latest data on burnout "recovery," and the similarities and differences between Autistic burnout and conventional clinical burnout. The full piece is free to read or have narrated to you in the Substack app at drdevonprice.substack.com
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basictutor · 1 year ago
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Six Test Taking Strategy
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Welcome to our comprehensive guide on effective test-taking strategies for students of all levels. Whether you’re in middle school, nursing school, or preparing for standardized tests like the SAT, we’ve got you covered. Learn invaluable skills to boost your confidence and ace your exams!
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reasonsforhope · 1 month ago
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"When Ellen Kaphamtengo felt a sharp pain in her lower abdomen, she thought she might be in labour. It was the ninth month of her first pregnancy and she wasn’t taking any chances. With the help of her mother, the 18-year-old climbed on to a motorcycle taxi and rushed to a hospital in Malawi’s capital, Lilongwe, a 20-minute ride away.
At the Area 25 health centre, they told her it was a false alarm and took her to the maternity ward. But things escalated quickly when a routine ultrasound revealed that her baby was much smaller than expected for her pregnancy stage, which can cause asphyxia – a condition that limits blood flow and oxygen to the baby.
In Malawi, about 19 out of 1,000 babies die during delivery or in the first month of life. Birth asphyxia is a leading cause of neonatal mortality in the country, and can mean newborns suffering brain damage, with long-term effects including developmental delays and cerebral palsy.
Doctors reclassified Kaphamtengo, who had been anticipating a normal delivery, as a high-risk patient. Using AI-enabled foetal monitoring software, further testing found that the baby’s heart rate was dropping. A stress test showed that the baby would not survive labour.
The hospital’s head of maternal care, Chikondi Chiweza, knew she had less than 30 minutes to deliver Kaphamtengo’s baby by caesarean section. Having delivered thousands of babies at some of the busiest public hospitals in the city, she was familiar with how quickly a baby’s odds of survival can change during labour.
Chiweza, who delivered Kaphamtengo’s baby in good health, says the foetal monitoring programme has been a gamechanger for deliveries at the hospital.
“[In Kaphamtengo’s case], we would have only discovered what we did either later on, or with the baby as a stillbirth,” she says.
The software, donated by the childbirth safety technology company PeriGen through a partnership with Malawi’s health ministry and Texas children’s hospital, tracks the baby’s vital signs during labour, giving clinicians early warning of any abnormalities. Since they began using it three years ago, the number of stillbirths and neonatal deaths at the centre has fallen by 82%. It is the only hospital in the country using the technology.
“The time around delivery is the most dangerous for mother and baby,” says Jeffrey Wilkinson, an obstetrician with Texas children’s hospital, who is leading the programme. “You can prevent most deaths by making sure the baby is safe during the delivery process.”
The AI monitoring system needs less time, equipment and fewer skilled staff than traditional foetal monitoring methods, which is critical in hospitals in low-income countries such as Malawi, which face severe shortages of health workers. Regular foetal observation often relies on doctors performing periodic checks, meaning that critical information can be missed during intervals, while AI-supported programs do continuous, real-time monitoring. Traditional checks also require physicians to interpret raw data from various devices, which can be time consuming and subject to error.
Area 25’s maternity ward handles about 8,000 deliveries a year with a team of around 80 midwives and doctors. While only about 10% are trained to perform traditional electronic monitoring, most can use the AI software to detect anomalies, so doctors are aware of any riskier or more complex births. Hospital staff also say that using AI has standardised important aspects of maternity care at the clinic, such as interpretations on foetal wellbeing and decisions on when to intervene.
Kaphamtengo, who is excited to be a new mother, believes the doctor’s interventions may have saved her baby’s life. “They were able to discover that my baby was distressed early enough to act,” she says, holding her son, Justice.
Doctors at the hospital hope to see the technology introduced in other hospitals in Malawi, and across Africa.
“AI technology is being used in many fields, and saving babies’ lives should not be an exception,” says Chiweza. “It can really bridge the gap in the quality of care that underserved populations can access.”"
-via The Guardian, December 6, 2024
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pillowfort-social · 1 year ago
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Generative AI Policy (February 9, 2024)
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As of February 9, 2024, we are updating our Terms of Service to prohibit the following content:
Images created through the use of generative AI programs such as Stable Diffusion, Midjourney, and Dall-E.
This post explains what that means for you. We know it’s impossible to remove all images created by Generative AI on Pillowfort. The goal of this new policy, however, is to send a clear message that we are against the normalization of commercializing and distributing images created by Generative AI. Pillowfort stands in full support of all creatives who make Pillowfort their home. Disclaimer: The following policy was shaped in collaboration with Pillowfort Staff and international university researchers. We are aware that Artificial Intelligence is a rapidly evolving environment. This policy may require revisions in the future to adapt to the changing landscape of Generative AI. 
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Why is Generative AI Banned on Pillowfort?
Our Terms of Service already prohibits copyright violations, which includes reposting other people’s artwork to Pillowfort without the artist’s permission; and because of how Generative AI draws on a database of images and text that were taken without consent from artists or writers, all Generative AI content can be considered in violation of this rule. We also had an overwhelming response from our user base urging us to take action on prohibiting Generative AI on our platform.  
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How does Pillowfort define Generative AI?
As of February 9, 2024 we define Generative AI as online tools for producing material based on large data collection that is often gathered without consent or notification from the original creators.
Generative AI tools do not require skill on behalf of the user and effectively replace them in the creative process (ie - little direction or decision making taken directly from the user). Tools that assist creativity don't replace the user. This means the user can still improve their skills and refine over time. 
For example: If you ask a Generative AI tool to add a lighthouse to an image, the image of a lighthouse appears in a completed state. Whereas if you used an assistive drawing tool to add a lighthouse to an image, the user decides the tools used to contribute to the creation process and how to apply them. 
Examples of Tools Not Allowed on Pillowfort: Adobe Firefly* Dall-E GPT-4 Jasper Chat Lensa Midjourney Stable Diffusion Synthesia
Example of Tools Still Allowed on Pillowfort: 
AI Assistant Tools (ie: Google Translate, Grammarly) VTuber Tools (ie: Live3D, Restream, VRChat) Digital Audio Editors (ie: Audacity, Garage Band) Poser & Reference Tools (ie: Poser, Blender) Graphic & Image Editors (ie: Canva, Adobe Photoshop*, Procreate, Medibang, automatic filters from phone cameras)
*While Adobe software such as Adobe Photoshop is not considered Generative AI, Adobe Firefly is fully integrated in various Adobe software and falls under our definition of Generative AI. The use of Adobe Photoshop is allowed on Pillowfort. The creation of an image in Adobe Photoshop using Adobe Firefly would be prohibited on Pillowfort. 
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Can I use ethical generators? 
Due to the evolving nature of Generative AI, ethical generators are not an exception.
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Can I still talk about AI? 
Yes! Posts, Comments, and User Communities discussing AI are still allowed on Pillowfort.
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Can I link to or embed websites, articles, or social media posts containing Generative AI? 
Yes. We do ask that you properly tag your post as “AI” and “Artificial Intelligence.”
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Can I advertise the sale of digital or virtual goods containing Generative AI?
No. Offsite Advertising of the sale of goods (digital and physical) containing Generative AI on Pillowfort is prohibited.
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How can I tell if a software I use contains Generative AI?
A general rule of thumb as a first step is you can try testing the software by turning off internet access and seeing if the tool still works. If the software says it needs to be online there’s a chance it’s using Generative AI and needs to be explored further. 
You are also always welcome to contact us at [email protected] if you’re still unsure.
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How will this policy be enforced/detected?
Our Team has decided we are NOT using AI-based automated detection tools due to how often they provide false positives and other issues. We are applying a suite of methods sourced from international universities responding to moderating material potentially sourced from Generative AI instead.
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How do I report content containing Generative AI Material?
If you are concerned about post(s) featuring Generative AI material, please flag the post for our Site Moderation Team to conduct a thorough investigation. As a reminder, Pillowfort’s existing policy regarding callout posts applies here and harassment / brigading / etc will not be tolerated. 
Any questions or clarifications regarding our Generative AI Policy can be sent to [email protected].
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esotericalchemist · 28 days ago
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𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄 - 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐞: 𝐆𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐩 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐞 ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚
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This is the third post in a 12-part series dedicated to helping you glow up using the wisdom of astrology. Each post explores one of the astrological houses and how it influences key aspects of your personal growth and transformation.
In this post, we’re focusing on the third house—the house of communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. This house reveals how you connect with others, share ideas, and navigate the flow of information in your life. Glowing up your third house means refining your communication style, building meaningful relationships, and embracing your creative voice to express yourself with confidence and purpose.
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𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Aries rules this house, your approach to these themes is bold, direct, and action-oriented. Ruled by Mars, Aries in the third house adds fire and urgency to how you connect with others, absorb information, and share your ideas. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your assertive communication style, harnessing your mental energy for focused learning, and embracing your pioneering spirit to inspire and motivate through your words and actions.
Speech: Bold, Direct, and Impactful
Aries in the third house brings a fiery and straightforward energy to speech and communication. You’re naturally confident and unafraid to speak your mind, often becoming the initiator in conversations. However, this boldness can sometimes come across as blunt or impatient, especially in situations where others need more time to process ideas.
To glow up in your speech, focus on tempering your directness with empathy and tact. While your assertiveness is a strength, learning to listen as much as you speak will enhance your effectiveness as a communicator. Practice active listening and consider the emotional tone of your words, ensuring that your message inspires rather than overwhelms.
Leverage your passion to speak about topics that excite you, as your enthusiasm is contagious. You’re especially effective in leadership roles or in debates where your confidence and quick thinking can shine.
Networking: Fearless Connection-Building
Aries in the third house thrives in dynamic and fast-paced networking environments. You’re a natural connector, unafraid to approach new people or initiate conversations that lead to exciting collaborations. Your pioneering energy means you often take the lead in groups or communities, rallying others toward a common goal.
Your glow-up involves channeling this fearless energy into building meaningful and lasting connections. While you’re quick to dive into relationships, make sure you invest time in nurturing them rather than focusing solely on the next exciting opportunity. Seek out networks that align with your ambitions and encourage you to grow.
To enhance your networking glow-up, embrace technology and tools that allow you to connect efficiently. Social media, professional platforms, and innovative communication methods can help you expand your reach and make your ideas heard.
Learning: Energized by Curiosity
With Aries ruling your third house, your approach to learning is fast-paced and hands-on. You prefer action-oriented methods, diving into new skills or subjects with enthusiasm and energy. Your curiosity is a powerful motivator, and you’re drawn to topics that challenge you or offer immediate results.
To glow up in learning, focus on developing consistency. While you’re excellent at starting new intellectual pursuits, sustaining your focus over the long term can be challenging. Break larger goals into smaller, actionable steps to keep your momentum. Your competitive nature thrives in environments where you can measure progress or test your knowledge, so consider joining study groups, participating in contests, or engaging in collaborative projects.
Embrace opportunities for practical learning, such as workshops, short courses, or hands-on experiences. You’ll retain more when you’re actively involved rather than passively observing.
Creative Expression: Fearless Innovation
Aries in the third house brings a pioneering and bold energy to creative expression. You’re unafraid to experiment and push boundaries, often creating work that feels dynamic and fresh. Your creative glow-up involves leaning into this courage while ensuring your ideas are polished and well-structured.
This placement suggests a natural talent for storytelling, public speaking, or persuasive writing, especially when tied to themes of leadership or motivation. You excel in areas that allow you to express your individuality and inspire others to take action. Consider exploring creative pursuits that involve movement or spontaneity, such as acting, performance, or content creation.
To glow up in creative expression, focus on refining your raw ideas. While your initial spark is powerful, taking the time to develop and polish your work will make it even more impactful. Collaborating with others can also help balance your fiery energy with complementary perspectives.
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𝐓𝐀𝐔𝐑𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Taurus ruling this house, your approach to these themes is steady, grounded, and value-driven. Ruled by Venus, Taurus in the third house brings a harmonious, patient, and persuasive quality to your words and thoughts. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your ability to communicate with clarity and grace, building strong and reliable networks, and expressing your creativity through beauty, practicality, and consistency.
Speech: Steady, Persuasive, and Resonant
Taurus in the third house gives you a natural ability to speak with calm authority and warmth. Your words carry weight because of their grounded and thoughtful delivery, making you a persuasive communicator who can earn the trust and respect of others. However, Taurus energy can sometimes lean toward stubbornness or a reluctance to adapt to new perspectives.
To glow up in speech, focus on cultivating flexibility and openness in conversations. While your steadiness is a strength, embracing the give-and-take of dialogue can enhance your effectiveness. Consider using storytelling or sensory details to captivate your audience—Taurus’ connection to Venus means you excel in creating vivid, emotionally resonant narratives.
Leverage your calm tone and ability to simplify complex ideas to influence others positively. Whether in negotiations, teaching, or one-on-one conversations, your grounded approach helps others feel at ease.
Networking: Building Strong, Loyal Connections
Taurus in the third house thrives in networking through reliability and trustworthiness. You’re not the type to rush into relationships; instead, you value building meaningful, long-term connections. People are drawn to your steady and dependable nature, and you’re especially skilled at creating a sense of stability within your social and professional circles.
Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts by stepping outside your comfort zone. While you naturally prefer smaller, close-knit groups, branching out to connect with diverse people can open doors to exciting opportunities. Use Venus’ charm to foster collaborations that feel both creative and mutually beneficial.
Focus on quality over quantity when it comes to relationships, and ensure your networking reflects your values. You thrive in environments where authenticity and practicality are celebrated, making you a natural fit for partnerships that aim for meaningful, tangible outcomes.
Learning: Grounded Curiosity and Practical Application
Taurus brings a steady and patient energy to learning in the third house. You prefer methods that allow you to build knowledge step by step, and you excel in mastering topics that have practical, real-world applications. Whether it’s learning a new skill, developing expertise, or diving into creative subjects like design or culinary arts, you approach learning with purpose and persistence.
To glow up in learning, challenge yourself to embrace adaptability. Taurus energy can sometimes resist change or cling to familiar ways of doing things. Exploring new techniques, technologies, or perspectives can help broaden your intellectual horizons.
Hands-on learning environments are especially beneficial for you. Consider workshops, apprenticeships, or other opportunities that allow you to engage physically with the material. You retain information best when you can experience it directly and see how it relates to your values or goals.
Creative Expression: Beauty Meets Practicality
With Taurus ruling your third house, your creative expression is grounded in beauty, harmony, and practicality. You have a natural talent for creating works that are both aesthetically pleasing and functional, whether through writing, design, music, or crafts. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your Venus-ruled creativity and infusing it with your unique voice.
You’re especially skilled at bringing ideas to life in a tangible way, turning abstract concepts into something others can see, hear, or touch. This placement favors pursuits like poetry, songwriting, graphic design, or any form of art that combines structure with beauty.
To glow up in creative expression, focus on consistency and innovation. While you excel at creating enduring works, don’t be afraid to experiment with new tools or mediums that can elevate your craft. Collaborating with others who share your values can also help you refine and expand your creative reach.
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𝐆𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐈 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house is the natural home of Gemini, making this placement a powerhouse for communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. Ruled by Mercury, Gemini in the third house imbues you with sharp intellect, quick wit, and an insatiable curiosity about the world. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your ability to articulate ideas with precision, strengthening your connections through meaningful dialogue, and embracing your versatility and creativity in learning and self-expression.
Speech: Quick, Clever, and Engaging
Gemini in the third house gives you a natural talent for communication. You’re quick on your feet, eloquent, and able to adapt your message to suit your audience. Your words have a magnetic quality, capable of captivating others with humor, charm, or intriguing insights. However, this rapid-fire communication style can sometimes come across as scattered or superficial.
To glow up in speech, focus on developing depth and clarity. While your ability to touch on a wide range of topics is impressive, diving deeper into your ideas will make your words more impactful. Take the time to listen actively and respond thoughtfully, as this creates stronger connections with others.
Your strength lies in your ability to connect ideas in unique ways, so don’t shy away from using metaphors, storytelling, or creative language to captivate your audience. You thrive in roles that require public speaking, teaching, or writing, where your words can inspire and educate.
Networking: A Natural Connector
Gemini in the third house makes you a social butterfly, skilled at forming connections and weaving together diverse groups of people. Your natural curiosity drives you to engage with others, making you an excellent networker who thrives in dynamic, fast-paced environments.
Your glow-up involves learning to prioritise quality over quantity in your relationships. While you’re great at making acquaintances, focus on deepening the connections that truly matter. Engage in conversations that go beyond surface-level topics, building trust and understanding with those in your network.
Gemini thrives on information exchange, so consider leveraging technology, social media, or other tools to expand your reach. Your knack for connecting people with ideas or resources makes you a valuable collaborator, and your ability to navigate complex social circles is a key asset in your personal and professional life.
Learning: Endless Curiosity and Mental Agility
With Gemini ruling your third house, learning is second nature. You’re endlessly curious, constantly seeking out new information and experiences to expand your knowledge. This placement favors a fast-paced, multifaceted approach to learning, where you can explore a variety of subjects without feeling confined.
To glow up in learning, channel your energy into structured study plans that allow you to follow through on your interests. While your curiosity drives you to start many things, it’s important to focus on completing projects or mastering key skills. Short courses, workshops, or online platforms that offer bite-sized learning opportunities are especially beneficial for your quick-thinking nature.
You’re particularly skilled at synthesising information from multiple sources, so consider sharing your insights through teaching, blogging, or creative projects. Your ability to make complex ideas accessible to others is one of your greatest strengths.
Creative Expression: Dynamic and Multifaceted
Gemini in the third house brings a playful, versatile energy to creative expression. You’re a natural storyteller, writer, or performer, capable of bringing fresh perspectives to any medium you choose. Your creative glow-up involves embracing your ability to juggle multiple ideas and finding ways to channel this into meaningful work.
This placement thrives in mediums that allow for flexibility and experimentation. You may excel in writing, podcasting, acting, or creating content that engages and educates. Your versatility means you can adapt to changing trends or experiment with different styles, keeping your work innovative and exciting.
To glow up creatively, focus on consistency and refinement. While your ability to generate ideas is unmatched, following through on your creative visions will make your work more impactful. Collaborate with others who can complement your strengths and help you bring your projects to life.
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𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Cancer rules this house, your approach to these themes is deeply intuitive, nurturing, and emotionally resonant. Ruled by the Moon, Cancer in the third house adds a personal and heartfelt touch to your words and connections. Your glow-up in this area involves mastering emotionally intelligent communication, building strong networks through empathy, and channeling your creativity into storytelling, writing, or other expressive arts that touch the heart.
Speech: Emotional, Compassionate, and Memorable
Cancer in the third house gives your speech a nurturing and emotional quality. You have a natural talent for making others feel heard and understood, and your words often carry a sense of warmth and care. This placement makes you a wonderful storyteller, capable of infusing your narratives with emotion and depth that resonate with your audience.
However, Cancer’s sensitivity can sometimes make you hesitant to speak up or overly cautious in expressing yourself. To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your emotions with confidence. Trust that your intuitive insights and personal stories have value, and don’t shy away from sharing them.
To enhance your communication style, work on developing structure and clarity. While your heartfelt approach is a strength, combining it with a well-organized message will make your words even more impactful. Journaling, poetry, or reflective writing can also help you refine your voice.
Networking: Building Genuine and Loyal Connections
Cancer in the third house thrives in creating deep and meaningful connections. You’re not one for superficial relationships—your networking style is built on trust, loyalty, and emotional resonance. People naturally gravitate toward your empathetic energy, and you often become a confidant or source of support in your social circles.
Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts while maintaining your authentic approach. Step out of your comfort zone to connect with individuals or groups that align with your personal and professional goals. Look for opportunities to collaborate in settings where emotional intelligence and creativity are valued.
While you excel in one-on-one interactions, try engaging in group settings or community events to broaden your reach. Cancer’s nurturing energy makes you a natural at creating supportive and cooperative networks.
Learning: Absorbing Knowledge Through Intuition and Emotion
With Cancer ruling your third house, your approach to learning is intuitive and emotionally driven. You absorb information best when it resonates with your personal experiences or connects to something you deeply care about. This placement favors subjects like history, psychology, or anything tied to family, emotions, or personal growth.
To glow up in learning, focus on finding methods that engage both your heart and mind. You might thrive in environments where learning feels personal and hands-on, such as workshops, mentorships, or small-group settings. Cancer energy also benefits from routine, so creating a dedicated space or time for learning can help you stay consistent.
Be mindful of Cancer’s tendency to dwell on the past. While reflecting on previous lessons is valuable, ensure you’re also open to exploring new ideas and perspectives. Embrace opportunities that challenge your comfort zone and expand your intellectual horizons.
Creative Expression: Storytelling from the Heart
Cancer in the third house brings a deeply emotional and nostalgic quality to your creative expression. You’re drawn to storytelling, whether through writing, art, or performance, and your work often carries themes of home, family, or emotional growth. Your glow-up involves embracing your ability to create works that touch the hearts of others and exploring mediums that amplify your intuitive gifts.
This placement thrives in projects that allow you to connect emotionally with your audience. Writing memoirs, crafting poetry, or creating visual art that reflects your inner world are all excellent outlets for your creativity. Cancer’s connection to the Moon also suggests a natural rhythm to your work—following cycles or patterns in your creative process can enhance your flow.
To glow up creatively, focus on sharing your work with others. While you may feel protective of your creations, opening up and receiving feedback will help you grow. Collaborating with empathetic and supportive peers can also amplify your talents.
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𝐋𝐄𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Leo rules this house, your approach to these themes is bold, expressive, and infused with personal flair. Ruled by the Sun, Leo in the third house adds a natural charisma and magnetic energy to your words and ideas, making you a captivating communicator and creative thinker. Your glow-up in this area involves embracing your confidence, using your voice to inspire others, and channeling your creative brilliance into meaningful self-expression.
Speech: Confident, Dramatic, and Captivating
Leo in the third house brings a vibrant and commanding energy to your speech. You naturally draw attention when you speak, often captivating your audience with your enthusiasm and storytelling ability. Your voice carries warmth and confidence, making you an engaging communicator who can inspire and uplift others.
To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your dramatic flair with active listening. While your passion is a strength, ensuring that conversations feel mutual rather than one-sided will strengthen your connections. Refine your ability to articulate ideas clearly and authentically, avoiding any tendency to overembellish.
Leverage your talent for storytelling and public speaking to make an impact. Whether it’s presenting ideas, entertaining others, or advocating for causes you care about, your ability to speak with conviction is one of your greatest assets.
Networking: Inspiring and Charismatic Connections
Leo in the third house makes you a natural networker, someone who lights up any social or professional setting. You have a magnetic presence that draws people toward you, and your generous nature makes others feel valued and inspired.
Your glow-up involves using this charisma to build purposeful and empowering relationships. Focus on connecting with people who align with your goals and values, and don’t shy away from taking the lead in group dynamics. You thrive in collaborative environments where your leadership skills can shine.
To deepen your networking efforts, practice humility and openness. While Leo energy loves to be in the spotlight, sharing the stage with others fosters trust and mutual respect. Seek out mentorship opportunities, both as a mentor and a mentee, to create a network built on shared growth and creativity.
Learning: Energized by Passion and Creativity
With Leo ruling your third house, your approach to learning is fueled by passion and a desire to stand out. You’re most engaged when exploring subjects that allow for self-expression or offer opportunities to showcase your talents. Topics like the arts, leadership, or personal development resonate strongly with your vibrant energy.
To glow up in learning, focus on turning your curiosity into mastery. While your enthusiasm helps you dive into new topics with gusto, staying consistent and disciplined ensures long-term success. Consider enrolling in courses or workshops that allow you to share your progress publicly—performances, presentations, or exhibitions can motivate you to excel.
Learning through creative outlets, such as acting, writing, or designing, is particularly effective for this placement. You thrive when your studies involve an element of play or personal expression, so don’t be afraid to make learning fun and interactive.
Creative Expression: A Stage for Your Brilliance
Leo in the third house brings a theatrical and dynamic energy to creative expression. You’re a natural performer, whether through speaking, writing, or artistic pursuits, and your work often carries themes of confidence, leadership, or personal triumph. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your creative talents and using them to inspire others.
This placement thrives in mediums that allow for self-expression and recognition. Whether it’s acting, poetry, music, or social media content, you shine when you put your personality into your work. Leo energy also loves the spotlight, so sharing your creations publicly can be a source of both pride and growth.
To glow up creatively, focus on refining your ideas and collaborating with others who share your vision. While you’re naturally talented, honing your craft ensures your work reaches its full potential. Use your creative voice to uplift and empower others, turning your expression into a tool for inspiration.
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𝐕𝐈𝐑𝐆𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Virgo ruling this house, your approach to these themes is practical, analytical, and detail-oriented. Ruled by Mercury, Virgo in the third house gives you a sharp mind, a knack for problem-solving, and a gift for conveying information with clarity and precision. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your communication style, using your analytical strengths to build meaningful connections, and channeling your creativity into work that is both beautiful and purposeful.
Speech: Precise, Insightful, and Purposeful
Virgo in the third house brings a thoughtful and pragmatic approach to speech. You’re a natural at breaking down complex ideas into simple, digestible concepts, making you an effective teacher, writer, or communicator in professional settings. Your attention to detail ensures that your words are well-chosen and impactful.
To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your analytical nature with warmth and empathy. While your precision is a strength, overly critical or overly technical communication can come across as detached or intimidating. Practise active listening and infuse your conversations with encouragement and understanding.
Your talent for structure and organisation makes you an excellent communicator in areas that require clarity and accuracy, such as research, education, or editorial work. Lean into these strengths while working on adding a touch of relatability to ensure your audience feels both informed and inspired.
Networking: Thoughtful and Reliable Connections
Virgo in the third house makes you a conscientious and dependable networker. You excel at forming connections based on shared values, intellectual pursuits, or mutual goals. Others appreciate your thoughtful and supportive nature, which makes you a trusted confidant and collaborator.
Your glow-up involves stepping out of your comfort zone to embrace a more dynamic approach to networking. While you prefer quality over quantity in relationships, branching out to meet new people in different environments can lead to unexpected opportunities. Leverage your natural analytical skills to identify the most meaningful connections and invest time in nurturing them.
You thrive in settings where communication is purposeful, such as professional organisations, learning groups, or collaborative projects. Focus on networking efforts that align with your intellectual interests or professional aspirations.
Learning: Methodical and Detail-Oriented
With Virgo ruling your third house, your approach to learning is grounded and methodical. You excel at absorbing information in a structured way, often preferring topics that involve analysis, practicality, or skill development. Virgo energy thrives on continual improvement, so you’re always seeking ways to refine your knowledge and expertise.
To glow up in learning, focus on cultivating confidence in your abilities. While you’re excellent at mastering the details, Virgo energy can sometimes lead to overthinking or self-doubt. Remind yourself that progress, not perfection, is the goal.
Hands-on and skill-based learning environments are particularly effective for this placement. Consider taking courses, certifications, or workshops that provide both theoretical knowledge and practical application. Virgo’s natural curiosity and adaptability make you a lifelong learner who thrives on mastery.
Creative Expression: Functional Beauty
Virgo in the third house brings a unique blend of creativity and practicality to self-expression. You have a talent for creating work that is both beautiful and useful, whether through writing, design, or other mediums. Your glow-up involves leaning into this gift and embracing creative pursuits that reflect your meticulous attention to detail.
Your work often carries themes of order, refinement, or improvement, and you’re particularly skilled at editing, organising, or enhancing existing ideas. This makes you a valuable collaborator in group projects or creative partnerships.
To glow up creatively, focus on sharing your work with others. While Virgo energy can make you highly self-critical, learning to trust your talents and accept feedback will help you grow. Experiment with different styles or mediums to push your boundaries and elevate your craft.
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𝐋𝐈𝐁𝐑𝐀 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Libra ruling this house, your approach to these themes is graceful, diplomatic, and relationship-focused. Ruled by Venus, Libra in the third house enhances your ability to connect with others, create harmony through words, and express yourself with charm and elegance. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your communication style, building balanced and mutually supportive networks, and channeling your creativity into collaborative and artistic pursuits.
Speech: Diplomatic, Charming, and Harmonious
Libra in the third house gives you a natural talent for communication that is smooth, persuasive, and fair. You have an innate ability to mediate conflicts, bridge opposing viewpoints, and make others feel understood. Your words often carry a refined and poetic quality, making you an engaging and captivating speaker.
To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your desire to please others with the need to express your own truth. While your diplomacy is a strength, avoid overcompromising or downplaying your opinions to maintain harmony. Embrace the power of your voice and trust that you can share your ideas while still respecting the perspectives of others.
Leverage your Venus-ruled charisma in environments where your communication skills can shine, such as negotiation, teaching, or public speaking. Sharing beauty and balance through your words allows you to leave a lasting impression.
Networking: Building Balanced and Supportive Relationships
Libra in the third house makes you a natural networker who thrives on creating connections that are mutually beneficial and harmonious. You excel at forming partnerships and collaborations where trust and fairness are the foundation. Your charm and social grace draw people toward you, and your genuine interest in others helps you build meaningful relationships.
Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts by embracing both personal and professional opportunities. Attend events, join groups, or engage in collaborative projects that allow you to meet like-minded individuals. Focus on cultivating relationships that bring balance and mutual support to your life.
To enhance your networking glow-up, lean into Libra’s artistic energy by participating in creative or cultural communities. Surrounding yourself with people who share your love for beauty and refinement will inspire you to grow and connect on a deeper level.
Learning: Inspired by Beauty and Connection
With Libra ruling your third house, your approach to learning is social and relational. You thrive in environments where you can engage in dialogue, share ideas, and explore perspectives with others. Collaborative learning, such as study groups or discussion forums, aligns well with your intellectual style.
Your glow-up involves exploring subjects that feed your love of beauty, balance, and harmony. Topics like art, design, law, diplomacy, or psychology may resonate strongly with you. You learn best when your environment feels peaceful and inspiring, so create a space that supports your focus and creativity.
To grow in this area, challenge yourself to embrace occasional discomfort in your learning journey. While Libra prefers harmony, growth often comes from tackling challenging topics or stepping out of your intellectual comfort zone.
Creative Expression: Collaborative and Elegant
Libra in the third house brings an artistic and collaborative energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to mediums that allow you to explore beauty and balance, such as writing, design, music, or visual arts. Your work often carries themes of harmony, justice, or relationships, reflecting your Venus-ruled sensibilities.
Your glow-up involves fully embracing your creativity and seeking opportunities to collaborate with others. Working in partnerships or teams can inspire fresh ideas and help you bring your vision to life. You may also excel in projects that involve aesthetics or design, where your eye for symmetry and elegance can shine.
To elevate your creative glow-up, focus on completing projects and sharing them with the world. While Libra energy thrives in the process of creation, finishing and showcasing your work allows your talents to make a lasting impact.
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𝐒𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏𝐈𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, networking, learning, and creative expression. When Scorpio rules this house, your approach to these themes is intense, transformative, and deeply perceptive. Ruled by Mars and Pluto, Scorpio in the third house gives you a sharp, penetrating mind, a powerful voice, and the ability to uncover truths that others might miss. Your glow-up in this area involves mastering your ability to communicate with precision and emotional depth, building strong and transformative connections, and using your creative expression to inspire and empower others.
Speech: Intense, Persuasive, and Transformative
Scorpio in the third house brings a magnetic and powerful quality to your speech. Your words carry weight and often leave a lasting impression on others. You have a natural ability to tap into the emotional undercurrents of conversations, allowing you to speak directly to the heart of the matter. However, your intensity can sometimes feel overwhelming to others or come across as too confrontational.
To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your directness with sensitivity. While your ability to uncover and address difficult truths is a strength, softening your delivery can make your message more palatable and impactful. Use your passion and emotional depth to inspire trust and transformation in your audience.
This placement makes you an exceptional speaker or writer in areas involving psychology, healing, or taboo subjects. Sharing your insights and personal experiences in an authentic way can help others find clarity and empowerment through your words.
Networking: Transformative and Trust-Based Connections
Scorpio in the third house thrives on forming deep, meaningful relationships. You’re not interested in surface-level connections—your networking style is focused on building trust, loyalty, and mutual growth. People are often drawn to your intensity and magnetic presence, and you have a way of seeing potential in others that they may not yet see in themselves.
Your glow-up involves expanding your network while maintaining your discerning nature. Open yourself to connecting with a wider range of people, but trust your intuition when deciding which relationships to nurture deeply. You thrive in environments where emotional honesty and transformative dialogue are valued.
To enhance your networking glow-up, engage in group settings that align with Scorpio’s themes, such as support groups, healing workshops, or discussions about topics that others may shy away from. Your ability to connect on a soul level makes you a powerful ally and mentor.
Learning: Driven by Curiosity and Depth
With Scorpio ruling your third house, your approach to learning is intense and focused. You’re not satisfied with surface-level information—you want to dig deep, uncover hidden truths, and understand the “why” behind everything. This placement favors topics like psychology, metaphysics, criminology, or any subject that involves uncovering mysteries or delving into the unknown.
To glow up in learning, focus on balancing your need for depth with an openness to diverse perspectives. While you excel at diving into complex topics, avoid getting stuck in obsessive patterns of study. Exploring lighter or more playful subjects can help you maintain intellectual balance.
Scorpio’s energy thrives in self-directed learning environments. Independent research, shadowing mentors, or hands-on experiences allow you to engage deeply with your chosen subjects. Your glow-up comes when you turn your insights into actionable knowledge that benefits yourself and others.
Creative Expression: Raw, Powerful, and Healing
Scorpio in the third house brings an intense and transformative energy to creative expression. You have a talent for channeling deep emotions and profound truths into your work, creating pieces that resonate on a soul level. Whether through writing, art, or performance, your creations often carry themes of rebirth, healing, or empowerment.
Your glow-up involves embracing the raw authenticity of your creative voice. Don’t shy away from difficult or taboo subjects—your courage to confront what others avoid is one of your greatest strengths. Your work has the potential to inspire and guide others through their own transformations.
To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on refining your craft and sharing your work with the world. While Scorpio energy can be private, allowing others to see and benefit from your creations will amplify your impact. Collaborating with like-minded individuals can also help bring your creative visions to life.
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𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐈𝐓𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Sagittarius ruling this house, your approach to these areas is expansive, optimistic, and driven by a thirst for knowledge and adventure. Ruled by Jupiter, Sagittarius in the third house brings a philosophical and visionary energy to how you express yourself, learn, and connect with others. Your glow-up involves refining your ability to communicate your big ideas effectively, building connections that broaden your horizons, and channeling your creativity into projects that inspire and uplift.
Speech: Enthusiastic, Visionary, and Inspirational
Sagittarius in the third house gives your speech a lively and optimistic quality. You have a natural talent for engaging others with your enthusiasm and ability to weave compelling narratives. Your words often reflect your philosophical outlook, and you’re gifted at inspiring others to think beyond their current perspectives.
To glow up in speech, focus on clarity and structure. While your expansive thinking is a strength, it can sometimes lead to rambling or overlooking important details. Work on refining your delivery so your big ideas come across clearly and concisely. Balance your passion with active listening to ensure conversations feel mutual and meaningful.
You excel in roles that involve teaching, public speaking, or storytelling, especially in contexts where you can share your vision of a brighter, more expansive future. Sharing your wisdom with an open and approachable style amplifies your ability to inspire.
Networking: Global and Inspirational Connections
With Sagittarius in the third house, your networking style is adventurous and far-reaching. You thrive on meeting people from diverse backgrounds and forming connections that broaden your understanding of the world. Travel, education, and cultural exchange often play significant roles in your ability to build relationships.
Your glow-up involves leveraging your natural charisma and curiosity to create meaningful and impactful connections. Focus on cultivating relationships that challenge you to grow and align with your ideals. Don’t hesitate to reach out to people in distant places or unfamiliar fields—your openness to new experiences makes you a magnet for exciting opportunities.
To enhance your networking glow-up, engage in global or community-focused groups. Whether it’s through social media, international collaborations, or events that bring together thought leaders, expanding your network beyond local circles will help you thrive.
Learning: Expansive, Philosophical, and Ever Curious
Sagittarius in the third house suggests a love for learning that is boundless and adventurous. You’re drawn to subjects that challenge your intellect and expand your worldview, such as philosophy, travel, foreign cultures, languages, or social sciences. Your learning style thrives on exploration and hands-on experiences, rather than rigid or traditional methods.
To glow up in learning, focus on channeling your broad curiosity into specific goals. While you enjoy jumping from topic to topic, committing to mastery in a few key areas will allow you to translate your knowledge into impactful action. Consider pursuing studies or workshops that involve travel, group discussions, or experiential learning.
Your ability to connect diverse ideas makes you a natural teacher or guide. Sharing what you’ve learned with others through writing, speaking, or mentoring allows you to solidify your insights while inspiring those around you.
Creative Expression: Expansive and Uplifting
Sagittarius in the third house brings a visionary and optimistic energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to projects that explore big ideas, celebrate freedom, or inspire hope. Whether through storytelling, travel writing, filmmaking, or public speaking, your work often carries a sense of adventure and possibility.
Your glow-up involves embracing the fearless and expansive nature of your creativity. Don’t limit yourself to traditional formats—experiment with mediums that allow you to incorporate travel, culture, or philosophy into your work. Your ability to blend inspiration with education makes your creations both engaging and impactful.
To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on consistency and follow-through. While your ideas are grand and exciting, bringing them to completion is what will leave a lasting impact. Collaborating with others who share your vision can help ground your projects while maintaining their expansive spirit.
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𝐂𝐀𝐏𝐑𝐈𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐍 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Capricorn rules this house, your approach to these areas is grounded, disciplined, and purposeful. Ruled by Saturn, Capricorn in the third house imbues your words and ideas with authority, structure, and a focus on long-term goals. Your glow-up involves mastering clear and strategic communication, building reliable and supportive networks, and channeling your creative energy into projects that reflect your ambition and determination.
Speech: Practical, Authoritative, and Strategic
Capricorn in the third house brings a mature and thoughtful energy to your speech. You naturally convey authority and reliability, making others respect your opinions and insights. Your communication style is often focused on practicality, preferring substance over flashiness.
To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your serious tone with warmth and approachability. While your straightforwardness is a strength, adding a touch of relatability and empathy will make your words even more impactful. Practise active listening to ensure that your conversations feel collaborative rather than one-sided.
You excel in roles where your ability to convey complex ideas with clarity and precision is valued, such as teaching, business presentations, or writing instructional material. Developing storytelling skills can help you connect with a wider audience while maintaining your authoritative voice.
Networking: Building Reliable and Strategic Connections
Capricorn in the third house makes you a deliberate and strategic networker. You prioritize forming connections that align with your goals and values, often gravitating toward relationships that can stand the test of time. You’re not one to waste energy on superficial interactions, preferring to invest in people who are equally committed and reliable.
Your glow-up involves expanding your network by seeking out mentors, collaborators, or colleagues who inspire and challenge you. While you may prefer smaller, close-knit circles, stepping into larger professional or community networks can help you gain exposure and access to valuable opportunities.
Capricorn’s influence means that you’re skilled at cultivating mutually beneficial relationships in professional settings. Focus on showcasing your reliability and work ethic, as these qualities naturally attract others who share your ambition.
Learning: Structured and Goal-Oriented
With Capricorn ruling your third house, your approach to learning is systematic and goal-oriented. You thrive in structured environments that allow you to master a subject step by step. This placement favors topics that lead to practical or professional advancement, such as business, finance, law, or leadership training.
To glow up in learning, focus on combining your disciplined nature with a willingness to explore new perspectives. While you excel in mastering traditional methods, branching out into creative or unconventional learning styles can help you broaden your skill set.
Your learning glow-up also involves applying what you learn to real-world situations. Capricorn energy thrives on tangible results, so seek opportunities to implement your knowledge through projects, internships, or hands-on experiences. By turning theory into practice, you not only deepen your understanding but also build a reputation for competence and reliability.
Creative Expression: Ambitious and Purposeful
Capricorn in the third house brings a structured and ambitious energy to creative expression. You approach your work with a focus on long-term impact, preferring projects that are meaningful and enduring. Whether through writing, design, or strategic planning, your creative efforts often reflect your dedication to quality and precision.
Your glow-up involves embracing your natural talent for turning ideas into actionable plans. You’re skilled at managing the practical aspects of creativity, such as organizing projects, meeting deadlines, and maintaining consistency. This makes you a strong leader in collaborative settings, where others can rely on your vision and follow-through.
To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on infusing your work with emotion and personal meaning. While Capricorn energy values structure, allowing your vulnerability and passion to shine through adds depth and resonance to your creations.
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𝐀𝐐𝐔𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Aquarius ruling this house, your approach to these themes is innovative, unconventional, and forward-thinking. Ruled by Saturn and Uranus, Aquarius in the third house gives your words and ideas a visionary quality, often ahead of their time. Your glow-up involves embracing your originality in communication, building diverse and dynamic networks, and channeling your intellectual and creative brilliance into projects that inspire progress and change.
Speech: Innovative, Visionary, and Inclusive
Aquarius in the third house gives your speech a unique and captivating quality. You have a knack for discussing complex or abstract ideas with clarity, often weaving together concepts that others might not see as connected. Your words carry an air of innovation, and you’re skilled at challenging conventional thinking while inspiring others to explore new possibilities.
To glow up in speech, focus on grounding your ideas so they are accessible to a wider audience. While your futuristic perspective is a strength, simplifying your message and tailoring it to your listeners ensures it resonates more deeply. Practise active listening to balance your forward-thinking approach with collaborative dialogue.
Your communication style thrives in settings where ideas are exchanged freely, such as brainstorming sessions, think tanks, or debates. Use your natural charm and intellect to champion causes or projects that align with your values of equality and innovation.
Networking: Diverse and Future-Focused Connections
Aquarius in the third house makes you a natural networker who thrives on forming connections across cultures, industries, and ideologies. You’re drawn to people who challenge your thinking, share your ideals, or bring fresh perspectives to the table. Your networking style is less about quantity and more about the quality of meaningful, forward-looking collaborations.
Your glow-up involves expanding your network by embracing a variety of social and professional circles. Seek out groups or communities that are aligned with your passions, such as humanitarian causes, technological innovation, or intellectual exploration.
Leverage technology and digital platforms to build global networks. Aquarius energy excels in online spaces, where you can connect with people who share your progressive vision. Focus on nurturing relationships that inspire growth and align with your commitment to making a difference.
Learning: Innovative and Interdisciplinary
With Aquarius ruling your third house, your approach to learning is unconventional and exploratory. You thrive when delving into topics that are cutting-edge, unusual, or intellectually stimulating. Areas like science, technology, social reform, or futuristic ideas resonate strongly with your curious and progressive mind.
To glow up in learning, focus on finding balance between breadth and depth. While you’re skilled at juggling multiple interests, honing expertise in a few key areas will allow you to make a lasting impact. Embrace collaborative learning environments, where diverse perspectives can spark new insights.
Your love of discovery makes you a natural at self-directed or interdisciplinary study. Engage in online courses, workshops, or group discussions to explore ideas in innovative and dynamic ways. Use your intellectual flexibility to connect seemingly unrelated fields, creating groundbreaking insights in the process.
Creative Expression: Revolutionary and Unique
Aquarius in the third house brings a bold and unconventional energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to projects that challenge societal norms, inspire innovation, or explore futuristic themes. Your creative glow-up involves leaning into your individuality and embracing mediums that allow you to experiment and push boundaries.
You excel in areas like writing, content creation, technology-based art, or activism-inspired projects. Your work often carries a message of progress or equality, reflecting your commitment to making the world a better place. Aquarius energy thrives on collaboration, so consider partnering with like-minded individuals to bring your visionary ideas to life.
To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on turning your big ideas into tangible outcomes. While you’re a master of brainstorming, following through on projects ensures your creativity reaches its full potential. Share your work boldly, knowing that your unique perspective is your greatest strength.
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𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐄𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄
The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Pisces ruling this house, your approach to these areas is intuitive, imaginative, and deeply empathetic. Ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, Pisces in the third house adds a dreamy and poetic quality to your thoughts and words, allowing you to connect with others on an emotional and spiritual level. Your glow-up involves mastering your ability to communicate with clarity while maintaining your creative depth, building soulful connections, and channeling your creativity into expressions that inspire and heal.
Speech: Poetic, Empathetic, and Inspiring
Pisces in the third house gives your speech a gentle and heartfelt quality. You have a natural ability to express yourself in a way that touches others emotionally, often weaving imagination and intuition into your words. Your communication style is compassionate and idealistic, making you an excellent storyteller, teacher, or guide in matters of the heart or spirit.
To glow up in speech, focus on grounding your ideas with clarity and structure. While your intuitive nature is a gift, it can sometimes lead to vague or overly abstract expressions. Practising direct communication while maintaining your poetic touch ensures that your words resonate deeply with others.
This placement favors artistic or spiritual pursuits in communication, such as writing poetry, creating music, or guiding others through emotional or spiritual challenges. Your words have the power to soothe, uplift, and inspire those who hear them.
Networking: Soulful and Intuitive Connections
With Pisces ruling your third house, your networking style is based on empathy and emotional resonance. You’re drawn to relationships that feel meaningful and spiritually aligned, and you often connect with people who share your ideals or creative vision.
Your glow-up involves learning to balance your natural openness with discernment. While you easily form deep connections, setting boundaries ensures your energy is protected. Seek out networks that align with your values, such as creative communities, spiritual groups, or humanitarian efforts.
Pisces energy thrives in environments where authenticity and emotional connection are valued. Focus on nurturing relationships that feel mutually supportive and avoid overextending yourself in trying to meet everyone’s needs. Your glow-up lies in cultivating soulful networks that inspire and elevate your journey.
Learning: Intuitive and Imaginative
Pisces in the third house makes your approach to learning deeply intuitive and creative. You absorb information best when it resonates emotionally or sparks your imagination, often preferring subjects that allow for exploration of the arts, spirituality, or universal truths.
To glow up in learning, focus on balancing your intuitive style with a bit of structure. While you excel in creative or abstract thinking, building routines and setting clear goals can help you stay focused and bring your ideas to fruition.
You may thrive in learning environments that are fluid and experiential, such as workshops, retreats, or hands-on creative projects. Subjects like music, painting, dreamwork, or healing practices resonate strongly with your Piscean energy.
Creative Expression: Mystical and Healing
Pisces in the third house brings a deeply imaginative and soulful energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to artistic pursuits that explore themes of emotion, spirituality, or the mysteries of life. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your ability to create works that inspire, heal, and connect with others on a profound level.
This placement thrives in mediums like writing, music, visual arts, or film—anything that allows you to channel your emotions and visions into something tangible. Your work often carries a sense of mysticism or universality, reflecting your deep connection to the unseen world.
To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on developing confidence in your unique voice. While your sensitivity can make you hesitant to share your creations, trusting in your artistic vision will allow your work to shine. Collaborating with like-minded individuals can also help bring your ideas to life.
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Masterlist this series - TikTok (Matrix of Destiny) - Masterlist - YouTube (subliminals)
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agirlwithglam · 9 months ago
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Prioritising: how to prioritise + use it effectively to take control of your life.
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Hi girlies🐩💗 So yesterday i was incredibly lazy and unproductive and pathetic. I didn’t do any work and i was mostly on the screens. The worst part about it is that it was unintentional. Meaning that if it was planned as a “off day” bc i did a bunch of work that week, it would be fine. But it wasn’t planned. And it felt utterly horrible.
So i decided to take control of my life because i have no one to blame but MYSELF. I am in complete control of myself so now i am going to use that to my best advantage. It’s time to…
✨prioritise what matters✨
This is a step-by-step guide to how to prioritise what actually matters to you and then acting on it. So without further ado, lettuce(random pun sorry) begin :)
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Step 1: figure out whats important to you/ your goals.
What’s important to you in life? Is it being online and scrolling on your phone all day? Or is it getting good grades, staying healthy and happy? What is it? Identify this first.
For me, its:
Time with loved ones
Enough sleep
Good grades + being smart & educated
Looking and feeling good + taking care of myself
Having hobbies & skills
God
This is the first step to learning how to prioritising things. It’s not about doing a bunch of hard work for something that you dont even care about, it’s so that you can do a bunch of hard work for something you do care about, so you’re working towards a goal.
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Step 2: make an action plan to achieve/ accomplish these.
So now that you know whats really important and what matters to you (aka your goals), create some bullet points/ things you can do to achieve those goals.
For example;
Goal: spending more time with loved ones
Spend time with my sibling
Talk more to my parents
Call grandma / friends
Goal: getting high grades + being smart & educated
Study study study. Study for tests at least a week in advance
Read a lot. Not just what you normally read, read outside your comfort zone! (So for me this would be history, classics, arts & fashion, etc.)
Listen to podcasts about different things
Goal: feeling & looking good + taking care of myself
Wash hair 2x a week
Skincare
Pamper yourself + self care days
Exercise
Going outside/ walking
Posture!! (Calling YOU out)
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Final: execution
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Once you know these mini goals/ habits/ steps you need to take, then its time for the most important part:
Execution.
Doing all this, is completely USELESS if you don’t apply it to your life. So now it’s time to actually do it.
“B-b-but i dont have time!”
Um okay.. but you have time for scrolling? Use this thing i once heard called “time stealing”.
Whenever you catch yourself scrolling or doing something unintentionally unproductive, then stop yourself and use that time instead on doing something that moves you towards your goal.
Having the steps you can take to reach those goals written down somewhere means that whenever you feel bored or need something productive to do, you have those things to go to!
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Xoxo, Vanilla.
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xxsabitoxx · 1 year ago
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Sensitive | 18+ | Sato/Sugu/Fem!Reader
The argument had gotten out of hand. You weren't quite sure how it had spiraled the way it had, but both men were nearly at each other's throats debating who was better at "giving head"... yeah.
"You didn't even know where the fucking clit was until I showed you." Suguru nearly yelled, your hands coming up to hide your face as you began to laugh. "Oh, bull shit! You didn't even know there were two holes down there till y/n told you!" Satoru retorted, face turning red.
"Neither did you?" Suguru's eyes narrowed, forehead creasing as he stared at Satoru. "At least I made her cum the first try." Satoru spat, a low gasp interrupting your laughter at his comment. Suguru's lips parted, eyes widening as he stared at Satoru.
"At least I didn't blow my load within two thrusts." This time, your gasp was accompanied by Satoru's, a hand dramatically splaying over his heart. You half expected him to throw in the towel, but instead, you were graced with Satoru's loud proclamation of "At least I didn't blow my load in my jeans because she sat on my lap."
Now you were hiding your face again, trying to desperately stifle your laughter as the two men hurled insults at one another regarding their first times. More specifically... their first time with you. You only found it funny because you could recall each moment they brought up. "At least I didn't cum untouched cause she kissed my neck." Suguru shot back, watching Satoru visibly crumble at that one.
"Alright alright enough!" You clapped your hands, effectively shutting both men up. "Just admit you're both whores for me and move on." They just looked at you, eyes slowly shifting over to one another before looking back at you. "I guess I can't deny that." Satoru admitted in defeat, moving to sit beside you on the couch again.
"Neither can I, but it settles nothing!" Suguru huffed, moving to sit on the other side of you. "it's not really a debate either of you can answer, ya know." You comment softly, settling back into the plush sofa now that both of them are beside you again. "Again, you're right... so how do we settle this then?" Satoru sighed, throwing his arm over the back of the couch and glancing at both of you.
"We settle it by using the only option we have." You stated boldly, hoping they would understand. "Ahh I see..." Suguru started, arm coming up to rest on top of Satoru's just behind your head. "You want us to both put our skills to the test, and you decide?" Suguru smirked, watching as you nodded triumphantly. "Well, you heard the woman, Satoru. Get to work." Beside you, Satoru was laughing, already pushing himself off of the couch and to his knees before you.
"Sure thing, just don't get pissed when she says I'm better."
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futureplayboibunnie · 1 year ago
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Aphrodesiacs
Miguel O’Hara x fem! spidey! reader
yk that bit of spiderman lore between silk and peter where they were bitten by the same spider and can’t be near each other without feeling….
yeah this is that but with Miguel. SO NSFW. i love blue balling y’all. PART 2 IS UP NOW!
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There were certain things that were absolutely not up for discussion when it came to Miguel: his leadership skills, his authority, his ability to lead this society, his daughter and…you.
There were too many issues to discuss about your strange…he didn’t even know what to call it at this point. See, you were both bitten by the same spider which everyone deemed highly impossible, but it happened. What came with being bit by the same spider were chemically and biologically bound side effects no one knew the first thing about. You and Miguel were more enhanced than the others, in many ways, many uncomfortable and impossibly distracting ways. You were physically drawn to each other, unable to physically feel anything but an intense primal, primitive and animalistic sexual attraction to one another. Neither of you could be in the same room without wanting to fuck like bunnies. The chemical compounds in your brains were the same, and it made you both become aphrodesiacs for each other. No one knew about it other than Lyla and Jess.
This was a problem, he was your boss and you couldn’t actually look at him without feeling hot and wet, you had fangs the same way he did but no one knew about it, Lyla made sure of it. Miguel on the other hand was a wreck because of it, his blood would burn at the mere thought of you. He worked his body out to the bone, he would work out and sweat the thoughts and desires away from him. It never worked. But he needed to pretend it did. Neither of you would anticipate how drastic it could be. You knew it was the genetics and the chemicals from the same spider that bit you which made you weary of ever getting close to one another but Lord, the desires were still there. It felt like you were muzzled and on a leash, hindered by moral righteousness. You both knew you couldn’t give in but that was rather difficult when you actually needed to see one another.
You ripped a hole in your suit, where your waist was and only Miguel seemed to have the supplies to fix it. A massive horizontal gash that exposed your skin. Your brain was dreading to see him, your heart said otherwise and your pussy throbbed at the mere idea. It was like you were magnets, constantly avoiding due to the the impossibility to be pulled apart. Taking a deep breath to keep a cool calm head seemed to work momentarily and then you walked into his lair.
Miguel could smell you from here. His skin tightened and his muscles tensed when he felt your scent wrap around him, like a warm golden glow. He would taint you in red. He would break you. He knew this. That’s why he could never….
“You know you can’t be here.” He sighed, ignoring your presence as he was staring blankly at his screens. “You know I can’t concentrate.” He added quietly.
You swallowed thickly and closed your eyes, wincing slightly. “I know we’re not- Look, I just need you to fix my suit and Lyla told me I had to fix it immediately or the wiring would go to shit. You know I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t need to.”
Miguel paused and blinked slightly at the last thing you said. You did need to see him. You did need to be here but neither of you wanted to talk about the true reason. He turned his head to face you. He wanted to groan at the sight of you.
Miguel had to force himself not to stare at your body and the way your suit clung to it, there was a massive gash in it that exposed the skin of your waist. Why did God always have to test his patience? Lord above give him strength. Even with his impeccable self control and strength, it took everything in his power to resist the urge to throw you against the floor and...Miguel groaned softly and rolled his eyes. “If that's what it takes...”
“I know you want to get rid of me quickly. I promise it won’t take long.” You say hurriedly as you hop onto his platform. You were really close to each other now, You swallowed and your breathing became slightly more shallow. Please let this be quick. Please. You begged silently. “I just need you too stitch my suit on my waist for me.” You say. “Quickly…” You added breathily. You had to get closer for him to actually help you and as he sat in his chair and pulled out his supplies, he raised an eyebrow to lure you closer. He felt his body tighten as you breathed so near him. The electricity was sizzling between you. Your heart beats synchronized and your minds only on one thing.
You got closer and you were practically standing inbetween his legs, you saw his breath hitch slightly but Miguel was a master at not letting his mask slip. He was good at pretending. His brow furrowed slightly, making a fruitless effort of avoiding that fucking look in your eyes. That face. Fuck.
This was bad, this was so dangerous. Being this close could end in a catastrophe for the both of you.
He paused before he put his fingers on your suit, a spark of electricity caused your body to still. He just closed his eyes and breahed out hurridly. He bit the bullet and grabbed your waist for you to stumble closer.
He needed to get this over and done with. No matter what it took, he needed to get you away from him. You gasped a little when he did that and he could feel that sound travel all the way to his dick. He tried to ignore it by getting to work and scanning your suit and then stitching up. His fingers worked at the speed of light. Your eyes just widened, continuing your mindless gawk as hazy thoughts of grabbing his hair and lowering his head further down between your thighs clouded your head. You tried to shake the sensation of his hands gripping your waist but it felt impossible, part of you genuinely wanted to grit your teeth until they shattered- the tension hurt.
Miguel always seemed to be perfectly fine on the outside, he had masked emotions other than anger or annoyance very well but this was causing that picture of himself to falter at the seams. Internally, he was breaking apart. Weakened by desperation. Lord, you were his weakness.
Images of you flashed through his head as he stitched, he wanted you tied up. Yes. With your own webs. Letting him have his way with you, pounding you until you cried and begged him to stop. He would fill you up, make you guzzle his cum as you pleaded for more. He let out a soft grunt at the sheer idea.
His fingers moved quickly as he sewed your torn suit together. “Why are you always getting hurt?” Miguel's voice was raspy, and he was unable to control his breathing. Miguel did his best to look away, but the smell of your exposed your skin was making it hard for him to think clearly. Your body was perfect. Jesus, it was like it was made for him.
You swallowed hard, your thoughts became hazy as he was this close. His hands were brushing on you and you tensed slightly at his fleeting barely there touchs. “Mm- I’m not always getting hurt.” You say softly, if you said it any louder you were sure you would moan.
“Right,” Miguel mumbled softly, his words catching in his throat. “I'm sure you were just passing by when you ran into trouble.” Miguel kept his eyes down to avoid meeting your gaze. All you could do was scowl at him. He finished his work and immediatly grabbed your waist and pushed you away as he got up from his chair to stare at his screens again as a means to avoid looking at you. “Don’t come back here.” He muttered at you seriously.
“I won’t.” You glowered at his broad and muscular back. You lied though, you were sure you’d be back. “But…I can’t keep going on like this.”
His ears pricked up at your admission and he felt the exact same way. Miguel's body was on fire. He wanted you. Right now. He didn't know what would happen if he gave into his urges. His body was shaking, and he had to make a conscious effort to keep his hands to himself. He was trying not to touch you, but every move you made, every tiny shift, only made your body more desirable. “Please, go.” Miguel choked, his voice harsh and strained.
You did as you were told and you hurriedly left. Praying that this would naturally wear off as long as you stayed away from him.
-
It had been a few days since your interaction and you had both successfully avoided each other since then but he could still feel your presence whenever you were at HQ. He could still feel the air in his office carrying your scent.
Now it was 2AM and he was still in his office. He was banging another hookup over his desk, she was bent over just so he couldn’t look at her. She was pretty but she wasn’t you. As his dick slid in and out, her moans fell flat to him, he only wanted to hear you. He was praying that this one would be the one that made him forget about you, that this one would tamper down his sexual anger and frustration but no. He got angrier. Animalistic. All he could think about was you. He was pretty sure he was hurting her when he was like this. His mood soured when he wondered what he would do to you if he finally gave in. Would he hurt you? God, what if he did….
He never wanted to hurt you.
He knew you would never be able to take it, to take all of it.
You on the other hand were in your apartment, also fucking a random hookup. You were hoping it would help your predicament but if anything it was making you more frustrated. He wasn’t fucking big enough. Yeah, his dick was better than average but it didn’t have the girth that Miguel would- You shook your head out of any thoughts of him and decided to be in the moment. You decided that it was a terrible moment. There were much more irritating things than faking an orgasm like your incessant need for Miguel.
Even though you were being fucked by another guy all you could thing about was: Miguel, Miguel, Miguel.
Nothing was working, for either of you.
-
Your mind wandered towards another way to fix this. Maybe there was a suppressant or an antidote to help keep down these primal urges and desires. These thoughts were keeping you from doing any sort of work, you couldn’t concentrate properly. Your mind was burned alive by constant thoughts of him in so many different situations. So you decided to talk to him about it. He’d probably end up killing you for even thinking about it but you were way passed that.
You sighed deeply before thrumming up the guts to see him again. Entering his lair was never a welcome idea to anyone but you and him were struggling and he was lying to himself. Miguel felt your presence again, your scent, your skin. He tampered down the jumping urge to drag you by your ankles and-
“I know you didn’t want me here again but we need to talk.” You crossed your arms but it further accentuated your chest, his stare lingered for a moment and he looked blank. Then he looked back down at a new suit he was fixing up and seemed unamused. That look just made you even more wet and desperate for his attention.
“No… we don’t.” He said thickly and your knees started buckling under the pressure. You swallowed.
“Uhm…there has to be an antidote for this or a suppressant for whatever…this is.” You said hurriedly. “Maybe I can manufacture one, I think I might be able to if I could genetically scan the spider and take it’s DNA and change its raw qualities…” Miguel watched you pace desperately as you rambled on, not even looking at him, you were pleading for a solution to this and he was getting more and more annoyed.
He stared at your lips as you spoke. Flashes of you on your knees, drooling and gagging on his cock pierced the forefront of his mind, causing his legs to feel nothing but limp. The things he wanted to do to you. He was an addict because of you.
“There is no cure for it!” He grunted loudly, cutting you off. “Hell, I’ve tried to make one since the first day I met you and all you’ve done is make me lose my fucking self control. You just standing there is enough to make me go crazy for you and I. Can’t. Help. It. I can smell you, I know you want me too but we have to fight it. We have to manage this because if you let me get close to you, I know I’ll hurt you and I won’t let that opportunity arise.” He admitted in a frenzy, his teeth almost shattering against each other, jaw clenching and unclenching. He ran a hand through his dishevelled hair as his eyes bore a ruby hue and his breathing became uneven and heavy.
You bit your lip at his angry outburst, not being able to deny how turned on you were by his rage and lack of self control. Part of you thought your mind was playing tricks on your or that you were hullicinating all of this as you were dulled by a cloud of lust, but no. You were very aware now that it was real. You were both feral for each other. You just glowered him.
“I have denied every single impulse I have ever had for you.” You grit out. “Maybe I want you to make it hurt, because any other kind of hurt right now is better than the pure need for you to fuck me right here, right now. You are not the only one who is capable of making another person hurt. Maybe I blame you. Maybe I can’t get you out of my head. Maybe I need your cock in me. Whatever….I just need to do something about it or else I’ll go fucking insane.” Miguel watched your brows furrow and your lips loosen as you uttered those fated words. His eyes glazed over twice and widened, your words were sharp and unfeeling. He believed that if you weren’t this way you wouldn’t find a need to be cruel and direct, the way your eyes glimmered yet darkened with need and passion caused him to halt in his tracks, now you were inching closer to him and he didn’t know what to do.
“It's impossible to create an antidote,it genetically and chemically changed our code.” Miguel mumbled, his voice husky and strained. “We're stuck like this...” He sighed, trying to collect himself. “Look, we just have to learn how to handle this," Miguel muttered, trying to convince himself more than you. “We'll learn to control ourselves. This...this is manageable.”
He didn’t believe any of the lies he spewed. There’s no way this was managable.
“Why do I get the feeling that that is not true.” You say softly, biting your lip and blinking up at him. Neither of you knew how you got this close now, it was like you were drawn to each other.
“Stop giving me that look. I-I can’t-“ He breathed heavily, trying to rescue himself or beg for your mercy. He didn’t know which one. Miguel hung his head and quickly turned his head as to not face you. “I’ll hurt you.” He added stoically.
“I. Don’t. Care ”
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Very Funny
Pairings: Natasha Romanoff x reader
Prompt: Natasha and Y/n spar together, but Y/n can't handle Nat's flirty quips even as girlfriends.
Warnings: eluding to smexy time, no smut, Y/n can't be serious even if their life depended on it.
A/N: This is based off of that one tiktok sound. This is just a short little something to tide y'all over while I'm working on the next fic (which is going to be kinda long so it's taking forever lol)
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Kick
Duck
Side sweep
Punch
Jump
You and Natasha are sparring together in your private gym on your floor, and you are kind of just going through the motions of it all until you decide to try something you've only been able to successfully accomplish on Happy, mostly because he's the only one brave enough to let you try new things.
Last time anybody else let you test out your fancy moves, they ended up in med bay with a broken arm. It's safe to say they avoid you in the training room most if not all times, but Happy is paid to do this and he feels like he is doing more than he would normally be able to as your test dummy.
He's also just kind of a dummy, but that's beside the point. The point is, you decided that you wanted to try it out on your own girlfriend knowing she wouldn't get hurt because of her skill level.
So you take a step back and go at an opportune time, to set your trick up, and you begin to grab her from behind, but she kicks herself up, flips you over, and slams you into the ground.
You get the wind temporarily knocked out of you so you're just lying on the ground catching your breath, which thank goodness Natasha knows to stop sparring or else you'd be messed up.
She eventually straddles your waist to wait as you pant and look up at her. Once you eventually catch up your breathing, you say, "You couldn't go any easier on me huh?"
She smirks and chuckles a bit saying, "Why? So you could follow through with your dumb tricks?"
You pout and cross your arms, "Well, you don't have to be mean about it. I was trying it out, so you could have not gone as hard."
She leans closer to your face and looks you directly in the eyes and says in a sultry tone, "You'd be dead and buried if I was actually going hard on you dorogoy"
Your eyes widen at how hot she looks above you and you're suddenly very aware of how she is sitting on you. Since you're nervous, you start making a joke out of it, so you say, "And bricked! Hello!"
She just smirks at you and says, "Oh I'm very aware of the effect I have on my own girlfriend thank you very much."
Your eyes widen and you feel even more heat rush to not only your face, but your core too. So you just freeze as she hops up from you, and you are in a state of shock for a while until Nat towers over your laying form and says, "I'm gonna shower, feel free to join me, or don't, your loss."
As she saunters off, you finally process her words and jump up to run to the shower with her.
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A/N: Brb I'm going to touch some grass... Haha! I Hope y'all liked it!
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