#FUCKING USE THE LABELING SYSTEM

[remholder]

staff got us maturity labels got a fucking reason, use them

it's not JUST for sexual situations/suggestive, it applies to artistic nudity too

if you continue to NOT use it, we may lose the ability to post "nsfw" AGAIN

[monsterqueers]

Im just really annoyed about how people just fucking hate it when the kids they were jealous of and hated in school for not also getting bad grades also report being fucking traumatized by the school system.

Yeah sorry school traumatizes everyone, even the 'ex-gifted kids' you fucking hate because god forbid someone wasnt exploited and overworked the same way you were.

Sorry a group of predominately neurodiverse people experiencing burnout and how their upbringing of being only valued for their academic performance totally fucked their ability to function in the real world dare talk about this pain where you can see.

Its not being privileged and ~humblebragging~ to report emotional neglect from your parents centered around you having to get perfect grades to receive any scrap of love.

Wishing violence on them for talking about it and finding each other isn't cute either.

And because these people need it stated extra clear

This post is NOT saying other groups of people 'had it less bad'. This is about a specific phenomenon of vitriol towards a oft neurodiverse group of people commiserating about how they were screwed over by the system under the label 'gifted kid' NOT whatever else you are imagining im saying. <3

[dullahandyke]

reading a webpage titled 'am i plural' with big impressions of middle fingers in my mind. i go my own way i don't fit the #mold come on blathnaid we can do our own thang

[yellllowstar]

slowly I'm recovering the beauty of discovery

(creature by half•alive)

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[dying-suffering-french-stalkers]

Every time I look at the Tengwar table I feel like

screaming a little bit

apologizing to Tolkien that I only had time to take Linguistics 101

(but in my defense, that was because I was too busy taking 800 other language classes)

[bmpmp3]

this is another thing that probably doesnt matter at all but as someone who's interest in vocal synthesis is in large part because of the software and technological aspects, every time i see someone trying to explain the use of deep learning/neural/AI/etc in vocal synthesizers and they say that "the only thing the AI does is help make the pitch transitions smoother" im like white knuckle gripping the table muttering under my breath like no....that is. incorrect.

[mythosandthemorbid]

Yikes..

Supporting people who chose to have a trauma disorder and make it seem like RP & a fun game… I have to block you.

Sure some endos are in denial or don’t remember their trauma but a majority of them do it for fun and make a mockery of a real trauma disorder.

They fr have MAKE AN ALTER or BUY/ADOPT AN ALTER blogs. I am and always be anti endogenic <3

Okay, good for you. I don’t interact with those blogs either, and I’m not forcing you to. I’m also not forcing you to interact with me. You saw my reply, you know my views, you clearly only came back to insult me. I don’t even know who you are because you’re on anon, so I’m actually glad you’re blocking me. I don’t want to interact with someone who chooses to be so petty over something as simple as this.

Also why would you ask if I’m an endo or if I “just support them” if you’re going to block me either way?

Edit: link to the original post, in case anyone’s reading this out of context. Can easily be confusing and I’d like yall to know that what anon says above about RPs and those blogs isn’t anything that was mentioned in my first post so bros kinda putting words in my mouth here lol

[404shcats]

Having an eating disorder isn’t a moral failure btw -Medds

[fantastic-mr-corvid]

last years pride i had a sexuality crisis and this year a few days later im having a gender one. fuck.

[critterchitters-closedcaptions]

i hate reblogging something and getting excited to look thru their blog cus fheir stuff is cool,

and then i get blasted with the anti endo beam??

like. sorry ig????

im not changing my stance just cuz i thought someone seemed cool, unforch

[nullcoast]

Hmm it's almost like gender is a construct so getting into minutia arguments about microlabels is a complete fucking waste of time and an expression of extreme ignorance. almost like the million different ways queerness has been expressed all contradicting eachother for hundreds of years is for a reason and they all equally have important things to say about HUMAN EXPRESSION

[dice-boy]

[thatskindasapphic]

Need you all to realize that gender/sexuality labels serve YOU. Not the other way around. It's not your job to bend yourself to fit exactly what everyone says your label should be. If it makes you feel good, and it's somewhat relevant to your experience, use it! Fuck everyone else. The world won't end just bcuz someone you think shouldn't use a certain label uses it anyways. You must openly accept every queer/trans person no matter how confusing or contradictory their identity, or you will never experience true community and solidarity.

P.S. This does not apply to identities like "stud", etc. They are not subjective like other identities are, because race is integral to their history. Don't fucking discourse on this post or I will bite you (and then block you).

[tousakamis]

sigh. my mum is talking about how she recognises that both me and my little brother are mentally ill but she's apparently been "protecting us from labels how she wasn't" (because that's "all that society wants to give kids nowadays") and she wants us to just "get on with life and be who we are"

[snekdood]

Yknow what makes me reaentful? How ive been sexually abused so much growing up, no one did shit besides shove me off to a therapist, ive been promised by feminist spaces that ill have a place to heal within them, and as soon as my abusive ex tries to smear me and project their behavior on to me by accusing me of doing that shit too, all the sudden everyone acts suspicious, and i still dont get any of that promised healing. Its hard not to feel like my ex did this intentionally to prevent me from having a space to heal. And its my issue with the "believe victims" narrative because it seems to me like people dont actually want to believe victims but to believe the victims they *like* and *agree more with politically*. If people can just say whatever about someone and you feel obligated to believe them because "believe victims", its very clearly going to be exploited by abusive people, and while i dont think we should stop per se, we need to have some sort of actual system to vet who is and isnt telling the truth, like a pseudo-courtroom. At the very least let everyone and their side of the story actually be heard. Bc idk how you guys plan to believe two victims at once who are accusing eachother other than throwing your hands up and picking one or deciding that we're both bad, which doesnt seem very fair to me since people seem to looove demonizing me for no discernable reason.

[dubioushonour]

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