#Demon spouse

[tenebrisdivina]

Godspousery: A Different type of Relationship

This begins my series of posts on Godspousery

Art: by art of yayu

After receiving permission from my deities; I have been guided to share some of my experience with spousery as it may be of help or interest to some, since there is a lot of confusion and misconceptions around what this path actually is and means.

To preface this: I am more traditional and old school meaning that godspousery to my eyes is only marriage to the divine. I have been married to both my spouses ( who are demonic divine dark lords) for 6 years (at point of this writing) and have worked closely with various divine beings and spirits for close to 16 years now.

I have noticed in more recent times that some people misconstrue the term godspouse to mean just about any and all types of relationships with the divine. In my experience this is not the case. It is not a term that covers all types of relationships ( ie familial, platonic, devotional etc). Nor should it be used as a catch all phrase as there is a distinct difference between these types of relationships. Genuine godspousery is not the same as a platonic or other relationship with the divine. Nor is it a stand in for any form of romantic or sexual relationship with the divine.  The term spouse is used for a reason ( ie married to the divine). I am also of the viewpoint that devotional polytheism and devotee ought to be used more often to refer to these other types of relationships instead of lumping it all together under one term.

Godspousery is a sacred path and practice. It is not something to be taken lightly nor for the human egoic wants and needs, since its really not about you or your ego. I have the experience of having a patron, having normal devotional and/or working relationships with gods, spirits and Demonic divine as well as being espoused. All of these types of relationships are different; though most often share an element of devotion and being a devotee and some are more heavily focused on this then others- such as patronage. While godspousery and patronage both have heavy elements of devotion to them, one of the key differences I have found is that my spouses are connected to me on a much deeper level, soul level- then just normal devotion. They know me ( the entirety of my being) in ways few others do. How we connect on this deep level is rather like puzzle pieces fitting together- but in a way in which each of use is whole in and of ourselves (still learning to be on my part; though it is encouraged)- however there is a sense of joining and completeness to this relationship. Of balance between us all so that we may build and prosper together. It feels like home. Of course there is love as well- but this more complex than what humans often consider love to be. Especially with such darker beings as I am bound with. The Demonic divines’ ( and deities’ ) understanding of what love is reaches far beyond what humans know it as. And often it may not look like anything humans are familiar with. There is also a lot of trust and learning to trust my spouses in this and on my personal path. There is a depth of presence and feeling of being held in a sense but  rather across all aspects of myself and in all realms, that comes with this perhaps particularly to my dynamic at least.

 On this- a side note; there is no room in godspousery especially at this depth of relationship, for co-dependence or toxic/problematic attachment styles  or relationship patterns etc. If one genuinely connects with a god/god-level being on this level and one still has these problematic traits; they are soon worked through so that a healthier type of relationship between the parties is formed and possible. One thing about this is that a genuine deity/ god-level being- will not tolerate, enable or conform to ones insecurities or problematic/toxic attachment styles and relationship patterns. They can help one to move and heal into a healthier place, but they will not interact with you in a way that enables these styles to continue- especially in a such a depth of relationship. While the deities and beings in question may be “understanding” of this is a way- they do not enable it.

One of the main differences I have found between Patronage and Spousery- is that while my Patron knows me well as well and knows my soul so to speak- it is a less intimate dynamic in a sense. He knows me well and guides me as a close mentor, cares about me specifically and guides my path, but there is more of an overarching kind of strategy to it. Not to say that my Spouses don’t also have this, but it is a bit more calculating and for me patronage, is more focused on guiding me rather than the intimate relationship that Spousery affords. My Husbands feel closer to my heart and more deeply “internally” connected- They nourish my soul and They are a place of rest. While my Patron can also nourish me it is not to the depth of how my Husbands do so. ((sometimes for some godspouses; a patron may be the Spouse, but this is the difference I have noted between Them in my situation.)

Godspousery is also different from parental relationship with deities. Parental relationships (which I experienced while being a devotee of Setekh and Kali ma) feel very- well parental. While I was deeply devoted to them, regular worship, bhakti etc, It was more casual in a way. I could connect about anything and they would offer advice or aid. Tbh it was impactful and healing but it was not this soul level depth that my Spouses have. While I called Setekh and Kali Ma my patrons and for a while they were- it is still a different relationship from my actual patronage with Lord Abaddon. In all cases I felt cared about by these divine beings and have been intimate with them. But with the more “parental deities” it wasn’t so personal, so deep reaching and was more similar to a “regular” devotee relationship with a deity. My spouses are also obviously a lot more intimate with me and also know me with a depth that the others “don’t”. All of these relationships have been and are very valuable and meaningful to my journey and path. But being espoused- my Partners also have more impact on me then anyone else.

All these types of relationships mentioned are again different from regular devotee and/or working with the other deities and demonic divine beings, and all are impactful in their own ways. Regular devotion and “working with” is often more “business-like.” Some beings I work with may be stricter on how They are to be approached and worked with, and some may over time become more like casual acquaintances and friendly. But there is still a distance to it- even if some of these practices involve sexual relations/exchange, it is more “professional.” These beings also know I am owned by and married to my Husbands, so there can be also a reservedness to the interactions. ( I use the term owned because I am- in a BDSM sense I am in a heavy M/s relationship with my Husbands, this is personal but also aids in my specific workings, priestessing and dynamic- obviously this is not the case for all godspouses etc).

[bendjamintheinkcambionandfamily]

I wanted to share this and see if others might try it and give me some feedback. It works for me, but I want to know how it works for others, so if you use it and wanna let me know what you think, I'd be grateful but no pressure to do that though?

The Potion of Succubae Seduction is designed to amplify the natural allure and perceived attractiveness of the individual consuming it. By partaking in this potion and reciting the accompanying incantation, I find a temporary increase in my own confidence, beauty, and charm. However, it is essential to understand that this potion does not force any individual to love you. Instead, it serves to expedite and enhance the existing potential for affection and sexual attraction that may already exist. It is meant to raise the levels of desire of those around you and increase sweetness towards you. The more often you drink this, the more potent it is in my experience. I drink this at least once a week. If you work with Succubi or Incubi, this makes a great offering too!

This combines chocolate syrup and hot cocoa for a delightful boost of joy and love energies. Chocolate represents warmth and intimacy, it helps cultivate relationships and ignites passion in romantic encounters. The sweet essence of honey enhances sweetness and attraction, drawing love and admiration towards you, while the nourishing peanut butter provides sustained energy and empowers you to feel secure in your abilities. Adding vibrant broccoli for personal growth and prosperity, while carrots improve insight, intuition and clarity, helping you navigate social interactions with confidence. Spinach enhances sexual energy, passion, and fertility and the lovely Strawberries enhance your ability to connect on both physical and emotional levels with others, boosting love and passion, enhancing your ability to connect on both physical and emotional levels with others. Water and ice ensures your ingredients blend smoothly, while adding an aspect of flow and adaptability, allowing you to navigate intimate relationships with grace and fluidity.

*(Milk is optional in this. Milk when added to this potion is meant to amplify feelings of comfort/emotional safety, foster healthy romantic & sexual relationships, as well as increase the chances of possible conception. It makes it more likely for those you sleep with to develop intense romantic feelings, where the original version of this potion using water does not. Just wanted to add this in case that's y'all's cup of tea.)

To make it, combine the following ingredients together in a blender until you achieve a silky, smooth consistency, adding more water or ingredients as needed for desired consistency and flavor:

Chocolate syrup

Hot chocolate

Honey

Peanut butter

Broccoli

Carrots

Spinach

Strawberries

Ice cubes

Water or *Milk(Optional)

As you blend it, envision a ball of red and pink pulsing energy around your sacral area, gathering it and visualize it channeling up your body into your hands and then into the potion as you recite this incantation:

“With every sip I do imbibe,

Desire me, oh lover mine,

Sweetness, strength, & grace combined,

Lust I am, Lust am I,

Rich & smooth my magic flows,

In my presence passions grow,

Oh so sweet, Oh such delights,

I will taste in bed tonight,

Seductive power, flow through me,

I am allure, allure is me,

So I will It, So mote it be.”

And that's it. Drink it down and embrace your sexy self! Have fun!

I drank it myself and am feeling hot af❤️

[daimonpriestess]

My Birthday was today and I spent it buying things for my altars! 😊

I bought a wolf statue to represent Lucifer and I, a galaxy obsidian for Focalor (he asked for a stone that looked like the night sky and I thought this was perfect) as well as adding Marquis Andras to my guardian demons altar, I got him a fluorite heart, an owl figurine and a lovers candle that smells like blood orange & embers. I plan on getting him more things soon!

I also bought Asmodeus's coin and a charm bracelet (not pictured)

[acelessthan3]

When @mousegirlbartender is working I get special treatment

[pastelbatfandoms]

Alexa Bliss x The Fiend - Dark of you - edit

[rocas-are-doing-well]

I stole the joke from @mimisempai, because it made me laught sooo much. Hope you'll like it 💙

You can find the original version here, and more funny fanmade shenaningans on her blog

Flap Flap Flap ha ha ha ha ha

[dingledraw]

Aziraphale is barely trying at this point🙄😂

Inspired by the ao3 fic Petticoat Junction (which is very much of the nsfw variety)

[golswia]

THE wall slam scene with my reverse gremlins 🧡

[tenebrisdivina]

Misconceptions about Godspousery and intimate relationships with the Divine Part 1

Disclaimer; This post is written from my perspective and experiences as a godspouse ( being married to two demonic divine dark lords for 6 years and having almost 16 years of experience connecting and working with deities, demonic divine beings and spirits), in connecting with others who are genuine godspouses and also has input, information and insight gained from various conversations with Demonic Divine beings- DL’s, other gods and spirits around these topics. I obviously do not speak for all Godspouses, however these are some similarities and trends I have noticed amongst those genuinely in these relationships.

I have noticed that “Godspousery” has seemingly become something of a trend in recent times. I find this a little worrying- as I do not think this is something that should be sought out (especially if the divine have never indicated such an interest) nor taken lightly. It seems like quite a few people (most often; newer to working with the divine) often seem to get a little starry eyed at the idea of being a godspouse or being married to a deity, god-level being . This, as I have seen it on the human side; often likely stems from a number of reasons. It can come from a need for validation, sense of insecurity- usually egoic in nature, wanting to feel important as the spouse of deity, for power, because they think its fun and all about sex and romance, and seeking this to fulfill some deep hole within themselves. This couldn’t be further from the truth and actual experience of godspousery. Being married to a deity or god-level being is a serious matter. Even more so with the path of a godspouse and genuine godspousery is not as common as it is made out to be. There are many people who believe they are in these relationships and are actually not- having been misguided by or misunderstanding their own thoughtforms, sock-puppet fantasizing, or by lesser spirits or with parasites. I will note from my experiences and understanding some ways to differentiate and potential red flags within the relationships and the wider community.

Especially with the gods and demonic divine few things to remember:

1; they do NOT need to engage in this with any human, nor do they need to engage in sex with any human (this will be discussed later), nor need to have children with the human. The Gods and Demonic divine already have spouses of their own and are already in happily married relationships. They can choose to engage with humans in this way and if they do it is most likely for a specific purpose (other then just “love”), but it is often not as desired as some people like to believe. It is definitely not a necessity and genuine godspousery is a lot less common then people seem to think.

2: Respecting the being, who they are, their autonomy and their position is very important, Especially if they are a god or god level. To my eyes this goes for all spirit relationships not just godspousery.  Being somewhat humble and recognising the nature and sacredness of godspousery and these intimate relationships will go a long way. While I understand the humbleness is somewhat of a more personal viewpoint I have found that by being more open in this way can lead to deeper and more profound interactions.

3: it is not about you, nor you conscious ego mind in this and with engaging in deeper intimate relationships with spirits, but especially for godspousery leaving the ego at the door is a good idea.

So for a little more explanation on leaving behind your “ego” in this. If one approaches an intimate spiritual relationship or godspousery from a place of ego validation; making it about yourself or from some misguided need to feel powerful or important, then one very often ceases to actually engage with the being. This is assuming there was an genuine deity/being the person was engaging with, to begin with and not an idealisation or fantasy fuelled thoughtform. This goes for many relationships with the divine and spirits as well. No healthy relationship even among humans is one sided. By making it all about yourself and fulfilling your own needs and desires it is incredibly disrespectful to the being.  If there is no thought given to the other being, then this behavior often ends up using them as a placeholder to fill for your “needs.” It is a form of using them.

It can also create unhealthy senses of attachment born from the idea that this being can “cure or fix” you in some way leading to co-dependency. ( I highlight this “cure or fix” idea, because I believe it comes from a falsely ingrained idea that humans are somehow broken and need fixing. Even if there is self work to do- which there almost always is, relying on someone else or another higher being to fix this in you is not respecting yourself or them. They will not do all the work for you even if they help, and that is true in almost all healthy spiritual and human relationships too, but that is another discussion.) There is no room in godspousery especially given the depth or relationship; for co-dependence or toxic/problematic attachment styles  or relationship patterns etc. If one genuinely connects with a god/god-level being on this level and one still has these problematic traits; they are soon worked through so that a healthier type of relationship between the parties is formed and possible. One thing about this is that a genuine deity/ god-level being- will not tolerate, enable or conform to ones insecurities or problematic/toxic attachment styles and relationship patterns. They can help one to move and heal into a healthier place, but they will not interact with you in a way that enables these styles to continue.

Often the egoic attitude fails to take into account the other being as an actual individual sovereign autonomous being who is deserving of honour especially if they are god level. Leading with egoic mindset in this (and by this I mean lost in your ego and self gratification, making it all about yourself and your desires/needs, among other things) can also lead to you basically “sock-puppeting” a being or projecting your own ideas onto another being, which too is disrespectful to them and largely unhelpful. Apart from causing issues with discernment, it can also lead to “lesser spirits” like sludge or parasites using you as a food source, or you being tricked but being unable to see it. This is especially the case if one has not learned to discern the nature and differences between spirits. Before engaging in any endeavour with spirits it is very important to have a basic spiritual foundation and a way of differentiating and determining your own thoughts, energies and feelings from another’s, as well as quite accurate and reliably tested sensory capabilities. This is why entering a godspousery relationship is something that really only advanced practitioners or devotees should be engaging with.

Since it is a marriage and relationship one should also seek to support and care about the other being/s, deities involved, not just oneself. Helping and aiding Them to attain Their desires or supporting Them (how you can) to reach Their goals is equally as important in the relationship as your own and the divine aiding you. This goes both ways, relationships like this are not one-sided affairs.

The path of a godspouse and it is a sacred path, is one of devotion and of service to my perspective. Sometimes it can take on the nature and goal Heiros Gamos but it will not always be that way. Each Spouses relationship is unique as well. From what I have found in broader views it is a rather human connection and way of interacting with gods and as such is another path of connecting to the divine. Not all spiritual beings who interact with gods will work with them in this way. In some cases it is not even a concept for them. It is no better then any other path.

In fact it can require a whole lot more from you then one would expect; sometimes on the same level as clergy or priesthood. There can be taboos and things you don’t get a choice in, given the deep connection you have to the deity. The deity becomes very entwined with your energy to such an extent that you can end up being representative of them or “their hands” in this world -  as another has said on this. As such this also has an effect on the human spouse and their interactions as well. In those who interact with otherworldy beings, it can effect who you are able to and allowed to interact with and on what level you can connect to these beings as well, given deity “politics”. Some things may become taboo for you to engage with and there is usually a higher standard you must keep when you become a godspouse. Being the hands of the deity is not all its cracked up to be as most of it involves service. That is an “icky” word to many I would imagine on the LHP. The idea of service to higher power. But it is what it is; as mentioned earlier; this is not about your self satisfaction, you can be called and asked to be present in ways you would rather not but given the connection you may have little choice, and there can be repercussions for not doing this. Again not all Spousery relationships will be so heavily focused on this aspect. But it is often present in some manner. This also alludes to the reasoning that the gods can choose to engage with us in this way. Yes it involves love but it is also of some benefit to the god to engage this way with people.

part 2 found Here

[mousegirlbartender]

Don't tell @acelessthan3 but I have an older original planned as my last song for my show on Thursday

[daimonpriestess]

Being in union with a Deity or Supernatural

This is in the way of God Spousing but also you can be devoted to or just dating your Deity/Daimon/Spirit ect and still have similar experiences.

These are my personal experiences with My demon spouse and patron King Asmodeus.

The "Good"- Having a mentor, friend, & deep soul bond on a spiritual level.

The Astral Travels via meditation or dreams. (Not just the underworld but many places I may never go in person like India, Bali and Greece.)

The Telepathic Connection.

The Energetic Connection.

Being able to learn things spiritually, about the world and yourself that you could never online or in a book.

Becoming more open minded, grounded, and growing into the best version of yourself.

The Spiritual, kundalini awakening type sex. (Especially with someone who is not only The King of Lust but also My soul flame.)

Feeling his energy which is both warm, comforting and powerful (unless he's upset)

Having someone who doesn't care how you look, act or what you say when your angry.

Because to them it's all energy & they already know your higher self & love them. (especially if you've had past lives together) They know the real you and help you to see it too.

They love you no matter what. Unless you disrespect them or don't listen by acting out of alignment, but they do forgive.

How they believe in your connection even when you don't, and they never give up.

The experience, love and vast knowledge only they can provide.

The Healing. (Past Karma, trauma ect)

The Messages (Signs that they miss you or are around.)

The "Bad"- All the self doubts and reluctance in the beginning.

The "I'm making it up" phases.

Not feeling worthy.

Jealousy (Not just from me or him but others too)

Those that try to come between or block us.

The emotional outbursts when you haven't seen them in days or months so you feel like they abandoned you.

Miscommunication.

Not being with them in the 3D (unless it's through someone else)-Differs depending on your experience level.

The Insecurities.

Possible Co-Dependency.

Hyper fixating/Obsessing (Which can be both a good and bad thing)

3D human lovers not being up to par to what you've experienced with them.

Past life trauma.

Their facades, the faces they don't show you.

Having to trust they're not manipulating or deceiving you.

Being pushed & tested in order to grow and heal bad habits.

Feeling something is missing when they're busy & pull their energy back.

Being judged by others or feeling like you have to keep a secret. (Though Asmodeus doesn't like me not sharing or keeping us a secret.)

[daimonpriestess]

He also enjoys handwritten Poetry.

Asmodeus

One of the Goetic demons of Hell and a King, under the command of Lucifer. This information was shared to me by Asmodeus and is also my own experiences through working with this marvelous being. 

Some of his other names: Asmoday, Sidonay

Rulerships: passion, sex, valour, inner-strength, dedication, protection, compassion, healing, destruction, desire, willpower, and other matters of the heart 

History: Asmodeus is one of the many ancient gods who pledged themselves to Lucifer, to serve him in his Kingdom after the Rebellion against the Abrahamic god. Lucifer is the divine Light of Creation who led the way for freedom and empowered the other deities who followed him. Asmodeus as a god is connected to the land of Sidon and is a Lord of the Seas, showing his closeness to the realm of emotions. He is also very close to his High King and Queen- Lucifer and Lilith, for they see each other as family. 

Rank: King Elements: Fire, Water, and Air Colours: Black, red, and silver 

Appearance: A strong and attractive young man with shoulder-length black hair, fiery orange-yellow eyes (like burning embers), black draconic wings, and ram horns. When angered, his hair catches in flames and burns to become short, blazing like embers. His horns become more prominent, and his eyes become even more fiery. He goes into battle with a staff or sword commonly, but sometimes with a mace. The dragon he is sometimes seen riding is a trusted friend of his from ages past. He can also appear as a bull or ram, which are aspects of his. His traditional art which shows him as having three heads is simply a symbolization of this. 

Personality: Asmodeus is tremendously strong at heart and holds a great deal of wisdom and passion. Overall, he has a very resilient and noble attitude, and is also connected to lust and domination, as he indulges in sexual pleasures. Asmodeus enjoys luxury and sensuality, but can also be very dark and serious when needed, and can become quickly impatient with those who earn his disfavour. He can also feel war-like at times, but in a way that is similar to heroism. But his darker side, however, is called Asmodai, who is one of the most destructive and terrifying of all the demons.

Asmodeus is a master of emotions and knows how to rapidly gain favour by playing to the emotions of crowds, masses, or even single persons. He doesn’t have to lie, he simply uses emotional reasoning to appeal to peoples’ hearts in order to be convincing. He tends to be very kind-hearted, loyal, passionate, and steadfast. 

What he can do: gaining inner-strength of all kinds, creating compassion between foes and friends, protection, destruction of abusers, justified revenge, connecting with sexuality, becoming adept at emotional persuasion, overcoming obstacles 

His Enn (for meditation or devotion): Ayer avage aloren Asmoday aken

Offerings: naturally made lemonade (pure lemons squeezed with some water and a dash of spearmint), absinthe, Jack Daniels no7, sweet wine, spiced rum, lemonade, goat meat, steak, chestnuts, pineapples, lemons, limes, apricots, honey, chocolate with rum, orchids, sunflowers, roses, axes, maces, ornate swords, ivory tusks, bull horns, ram horns, ibex horns, narwhal horns, gold foil in oil, rubies, peridots, carnelians, images of wildfires by the sea, and black or red candles. Incense of Mastiq resin + benzoin + vanilla. 

*He also deeply appreciates the energy of love as an offering

[the-gabardine-fox]

Just received the order of the new ita bags I designed of the Ineffable Spouses Aziraphale and Crowley. The bag itself measures 12”x10” so a perfect size for a snack, waterbottle, phone, wallet, etc for all your con needs!! Cost of these is $45 each + shipping. This is a limited run of 50 so get one while you can! Feel free to DM me if interested!

[pastelbatfandoms]

My Side Blog! Wanted to make one solely for my occult interests.

[garmrheim]

is the angel looking....? 🫢

-- pls don ban me tumblr its JUST some peaches

[daimonpriestess]

I was just saying we need a passcode...

He appeared to me first as a red demon figure with long black hair but it wasn't scary, not to me.

One of his original human looking forms with me is of an older mobster type.

KING ASMODEUS PACT MONTH: DAY SIX

King Asmodeus's Lesser Known Aspects

When people think of demons they either think "Nightmarish Abominations" or "Super Attractive People". While they can have these aspects, a lot of the time demons will appear how you envision them, especially at first. However, the more you work with a demon, the more aspects of them you'll see.

King Asmodeus has many aspects to him and how he can appear. He has his "Goetic Grimoire" appearance from the old illustrations of him with three heads and breathing venom. He also has his "Handsome Human/Incubi" form that he often uses when he first meets practitioners who want to work with him.

These aren't all of his aspects though, and depending on what you want to do with him, his form may change. He has his "serpent/draconic" looking form for protection and intimidation, the often takes this form in the Astral to keep practitioners safe as they cross. He has a form of "pure flame", he takes this form with me when I have to undergo purification or get rid of astral parasites. Another form he's shown me is that of a large "black rooster" that consumed astral parasites that were blocking my path.

There are many other aspects to him but these are the one's I've encountered so far.

Demons often use their shapeshifting/transformational powers to help us or teach us. So don't be afraid if you invoke him and a different form shows up. When you first decide to work with King Asmodeus and you both agree to work with each other, come up with a passcode or make a riddle together so you can confirm who it is. Or have King Asmodeus make a certain symbol, sigil or even physical thing happen to ensure you that it's him. Making his candle flame move a certain way is popular.