#Demisexual Kakashi

[depressedhatakekakashi]

Kakashi discovering he’s demisexual and that he actually loves having sex, he just loves having sex with someone who actually makes him feel wanted and adored and cherished

[xoangel-dust]

Naruto Character Sexuality Headcanons

*also please note that these are MY personal opinions*

Naruto- Bisexual

Gaara- Gay and Demisexual

Sasuke- Demisexual

Sakura- Straight and Demisexual

Ino- Bisexual

Kiba- Bi curious

Hinata - Demisexual

Shino- Asexual

Neji- Aromantic

Sasori- Asexual

Deidara- Bisexual

Itachi- Demisexual

TenTen- Bi curious

Rock Lee- Pansexual

Kakashi- Unlabeled

Karin- Bisexual

Suigetsu- Straight

Sai- Unlabeled

[sinnbaddie]

There are some characters that don’t need to be confirmed canon to be queer because they just are

Maito Gai, Orochimaru, Mirai and Kakashi to name a few

[anbu-legacy]

Minato and Kakashi both some form of demisexual/demiromatic? 👀

Kakashi and Minato both some form of demisexual/demiromantic/grey-Ace/etc, yes!

(You might also enjoy this character-ask from the archives: Minato, would you ever play matchmaker for Kakashi?)

[stitchzin]

Sasuke The Demisexual King

I was a bit apprehensive about making this post because English is not my native language. So, apologies in advance. But thank you @kirinlady for the comment.

First of all, being demisexual has nothing to do with being gay or straight; you can be either. Another point is that you can have your headcanon; you are free to do so. But I am focusing on the canon line Kishimoto intended, which was SasuSaku from the start, according to the databooks and the novels.

There is A LOT OF CONTEXT SO GET READY.

Let's start!

In the first part of the Naruto series, Sasuke is very touch-deprived, traumatized by his family's murder by his brother, living in the house where they were killed, and self-isolating. A more correct way to describe it is to say he is touch-starved. Lack of physical touch can lead to feelings of emptiness and loneliness.

Sasuke had been without care for so long that being touched in a non-aggressive way might have given him sensory overload.

It's important to discuss these points when it comes to Sasuke's story. Naruto was also touch-deprived, but he externalized it, while Sasuke internalized it. This context aside:

A good part of the reason why people think Sasuke is gay is because he repels the touch of women and rejects flirtations from many girls. Sasuke doesn't need to feel anything towards these people, no matter their intentions. A man rejecting a girl does not make him gay, just as a girl rejecting a guy does not make her a lesbian. People have the right to their own bodies. It doesn't matter if you or many people would act differently; Sasuke is not that guy.

As I said, you can have your headcanon, but even fictional characters are people. Doubting someone's sexuality just because they don't follow a pattern says more about people in real life than about the character.

A good example is Gaara, who is clearly asexual with clear romantic feelings towards Naruto. I can see that in him more than in Sasuke. But this is my headcanon. I said Asexual no Aromantic.

Back in the series, Sasuke eventually gets more comfortable with Team 7. Kakashi respects his boundaries, Naruto is not the hugging type with him, but Sakura is another story. He can not avoid her like all the girls.

But this time is different. He sees her maturing, becoming a friend to him, and like a sister to Naruto. And this is the part where Sasuke starts to change. Seeing Sakura and Naruto's interactions makes him angry, maybe jealous. Sakura's attention was entirely his, but now it isn't, though a lot of it still is for him.

And this healthy distance makes him realize he misses her, maybe even wants her close. This brings us to the second part of being touch-deprived: What do you do when someone touches you? Mostly, he stands there or keeps his arms still. But he is not annoyed or pushing her away. He could, but he just doesn't want to.

She has such power over him that she can stop him even while he is controlled by Orochimaru's seal. He reaches for her while in pain, he gets mad when she is hurt. We all love the phase "who did this to you". He remembers her hug when he is losing control. She is that light.

They are kids at this point, but I really think he had feelings already. He wanted to protect her as a friend, and as something he did not understand. Lets not mention the blant Jealousy at adate ( =I think that's his name", and feeling powerless when Naruto saves her instead of him. But he had no time to figure out his feelings before being manipulated by Orochimaru's machinations to leave.

Even when he left, Sasuke accepted her feelings but chose to go anyway. But accepting her feelings, doesn't mean he is ready or is the time to act on them.

I have a post on their goodbye.

Now to the point of the post: Is Sasuke demisexual?

Demisexuality means being sexually attracted to someone only when you have an emotional bond with them.

The first part of the post was about 12-year-olds. This part is about 15/16-year-olds. Sasuke could have had any girl, and this is the age where most people's hormones are crazy. But he does not feel that need.

When facing Sakura for the first time, he recognizes her immediately. Sure, her hair is the same, but it has been three years. He is not attacking; he is just looking at her. It could be coldness, or it could be a boy who does not know what to do. I can't know what would have happened if they were alone. Sasuke shifts after Naruto gets there. His voice tone is different; he is not as pleased to see Naruto as he is to see her.

(there are great fics on this cenario, I would love some links because it was the SasuSaku fanfiction golden age)

This part is a more general view, but MOST demisexuals don't flirt like most people. Since it is deeply connected to emotions, there are a lot of acts of service, a lot of stares, and small touches. Much of what Sasuke shows towards Sakura and only Sakura.

And there is Karin. I dont have her, I like her. She is a great charact with great backstory if you don't agree fight me.

But Karin is very disrespectuful at the begning. Maybe that is why there was so much hate.

Sasuke pushes Karin away in a more respectful way than she behaves with him. He is not interested in that. Karin is pretty; anyone would want to be with her, but Sasuke did not because does not have feelings for her, plus she did not respect him. Even traveling with him for some time, she still did not respect his boundaries. Maybe that is why he has no warm feelings towards her. Feelings that would keep him from doing that infamous Danzo scene.

Karin did nothing to harm Sasuke, yet he harmed her because she wasn't important to him. So there were no feelings to hold him back, even a little. The once-manipulated Sasuke, this time by Obito, had no problem getting rid of her.

Yes, he was wrong. Terribly wrong, because she had helped him so many times. But the reason was that she wanted him carnally. And this does not flowrish in Sasuke.

Sakura and Sasuke are on a whole other level. Sasuke was fed up with Naruto and Kakashi because, even though Sakura also wanted him in the village, her methods to pursue him were different on his eyes. Sakura had hugged him, Sakura had begged him to stay. He had a completely different vision of her.

He attacked Naruto first.

But Sakura attacked him first, so he reacted.

I really think "losing Sakura" made him even madder. He dived even deeper into his sadness. She was that one thing he was sure about. Honestly, I think his offer was to push her away because hurting her would hurt him.

Sasuke put those feelings inside once more. But seeing her again at the war, he answers only to her. The more he tries to push her away, the stronger those feelings come. And he is always watching her. He smiles when she destroys the ground, she shakes when she calls him.

And he claims, "I have no reason to be loved by her or to love her," even if that was not what Kakashi said or asked. He said Sakura wanted to help him. Honestly, he brought up the romance card. The moments their eyes clicked, when he came to save her and succeeded, the way he once felt powerless to do as a child. So he puts her to sleep because her words would stop him.

Maybe he could take Naruto in a fight, but he could not handle Sakura's cry one more time.

Because he thinks he does not deserve her. He leaves and travels. Again, he could have had anyone at this time once more. Now a man with crimes pardoned, a respected man. Only when he was complete did he come back.

People talk about Sakura's constant "afterglow" when Sasuke is in the village. They comment that they have pillow talks, the intimacy he craves, and a person to go and call home.

Sasuke never loved another because he had already accepted Sakura's feelings at age 12. Sasuke never wanted another physically because he had wished for only one person. His desires are connected to his emotions.

Sasuke says that no matter how far they are, or how long they haven't seen each other, his feelings for Sakura will never change.

And neither have hers.

Ending with this frame because it shows what I think is the start of his feelings. Look at how beautiful she is; this is Sasuke's vision. I think Sakura is very pretty. But here, she is much prettier than normal.

He sees her as more beautiful than we do.

[teatitty]

KakaIru are both demisexual to me btw but Kakashi has had sex many times with people he feels no attraction for for the sake of his missions [with his mask still on or while henge'd to keep distance between himself and his bed partner] whereas Iruka 'king of repression' Umino feels ill at the very thought of doing that himself. They contain ~ multitudes ~ about this and I miiiiiiight be tempted to write out my "Iruka is fine with Kakashi doing honeypot missions but Kakashi feels Weird And Itchy about it and has a minor freakout until he figures out it's because he just doesn't wanna sleep with anyone who isn't Iruka anymore" idea I have been eyeing it up for a few weeks now

[wolfie-queen-bri]

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Hello and welcome! Here is, as stated above, some things about me!

Name: Wolfie or Bri

Species: Most likely a Hobbit of some sort. Probably also part goblin or crow or something that likes shiny things and hoarding collecting

Age: 31, almost out of my tweens! I'll be a fully grown Hobbit in 2 more years 😊

Mental Issues: Extreme Chronic Depression, Self-Loathing, and Inferiority Complex

Born This Way: Autism Spectrum Disorder

Gender: Female

Pronouns: She/Her (just for those who care)

Romantic Identity: Pan-romantic

Sexual Identity: Either Demisexual or Asexual, haven't had a lot of experience IRL

Favorite Person: My Mom is my IRL bestie because I have no real friends offline.

Hobbies: Too many but gaming, reading, and cross stitching are my main.

Fave Anime Husband: Kakashi Hatake was my very first anime crush. Will always be my fave ♡

Fave Anime Waifu: Tsuyu Asui/Froppy from My Hero Academia. She's best girl.

[mogai-headcanons]

Naruto Uzumaki from Naruto is an acespec transmasculine turigirl who uses he/him and it/its pronouns, and he has an unrequited crush on Sasuke!

Sasuke Uchiha is a sex-repulsed romance-neutral loveless demiaplatonic demiqueerplatonic aroace trans person who uses mirrored pronouns, and he's in a queerplatonic relationship with Sakura!

Sakura Haruno is a heteroromantic bisexual demisexual transfeminine person who uses she/her, he/him, ne/nem, xe/xem, and other neopronouns that rhyme with 'he' and 'she', and she's in a queerplatonic relationship with Sasuke!

Kakashi Hatake is a transmasculine aroflux mspec gaybian lesbian who uses it/its pronouns!

It's dating Might Guy, an mspec binary trans man who uses he/him pronouns!

Tenten is a polyamorous transhet binary girl who uses she/her pronouns!

Rock Lee is a lovequeer aromantic heteroromantic bisexual transneutral genderqueer lesboy turigirl who uses mirrored pronouns, and he has a crush on Neji!

Neji Hyuga is a demiaplatonic demiromantic demisexual gaybian genderqueer trans man who uses she/him pronouns, and she has a crush on Rock Lee!

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[kyousei]

     shipping/sexuality guide !!

below you'll find a handy shipping/sexuality guide for my muses! keep in mind this is not a be-all/end-all conclusive list, just some of my preferences regarding my muses' canons. this does not include the possibility of ocs or crossover ships, so if you're interested please let me know! i have muses listed by fandom, characters that are crossed out on my lists are not available as i currently have someone writing that ship with me.

     BLEACH

     BNHA

AIZEN (asexual/aromantic) : shipping closed indefinitely

RIRUKA (bisexual/biromantic) : moe, rukia, grimmjow, tsukishima

GREMMY (asexual/demiromantic) : liltotto

TOSHIRO (homosexual/homoromantic) : yukio

LUPPI (pansexual/aromantic) : grimmjow

ULQUIORRA (asexual/demiromantic) : grimmjow

YUKIO (asexual/homoromantic) : toshiro

GGIO (bisexual/biromantic) : grimmjow, cirucci, suifeng

HYOURINMARU (asexual/panromantic) : no preferences

JUGRAM (demisexual/demiromantic) : bazz-b

MAYURI (demisexual/aromantic) : kenpachi

NIANZOL (asexual/aromantic) : no preferences

HERMES (pansexual/panromantic) : no preferences

KASIMIRA (bisexual/biromantic) : äs nödt shipping closed

TIME (asexual/aromantic) : no preferences

     BUDDY DADDIES

TAMAKI (homosexual/homoromantic) : mirio shipping closed

MONOMA (pansexual/panromantic) : shinso shipping closed

ENJI (closeted and questioning) : rei, hawks

TOGA (pansexual/panromantic) : ochako

HIZASHI (pansexual/panromantic) : aizawa shipping closed

REI (homosexual/homoromantic) : kazuki shipping closed

     DEMON SLAYER

     NARUTO/BORUTO

DOUMA (pansexual/aromantic) : akaza, kotoha

MITSURI (bisexual/biromantic) : obanai, shinobu

KYOJURO (bisexual/biromantic) : akaza, tengen, suma, makio, hinatsuru, obanai

KOKUSHIBO (demisexual/demiromantic) : muzan

MASACHIKA (bisexual/biromantic) : sabito, sanemi shipping closed

KOYUKI (bisexual/biromantic) : akaza/hakuji

INOSUKE (demisexual/demiromantic) : tanjiro, zenitsu, aoi, genya

MUZAN (asexual/aromantic) : kokushibo, kagaya

YUSHIRO (pansexual/panromantic) : tamayo shipping closed

KANAMI (bisexual/biromantic) : haganezuka

HIBIKI (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

ZENNYO (pansexual/panromantic) : gyutaro

     HXH

SHINO (demisexual/demiromantic) : kankuro, kiba, ino, hinata

SASORI (asexual/demiromantic) : deidara, hidan, kakashi

KAKUZU (demisexual/demiromantic) : hidan

YAGURA (homosexual/homoromantic) : utakata

KAWAKI (demisexual/demiromantic) : sumire, shinki

GAARA (demisexual/demiromantic) : lee shipping closed

SHINKI (asexual/demiromantic) : kawaki, araya

AOZAME (demisexual/demiromantic) : no preferences

DIBA (pansexual/panromantic) : no preferences

FUNOSUKE (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

HISASHI (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

YUA (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

     DEATH NOTE

MERUEM (pansexual/panromantic) : komugi shipping closed

CHROLLO (pansexual/panromantic) : kurapika shipping closed

KILLUA (demisexual/demiromantic) : gon

SHALNARK (demisexual/demiromantic) : uvogin, feitan

     FAIRY TAIL

NEAR (asexual/demiromantic) : mello, gevanni shipping closed

REM (asexual/demiromantic) : misa shipping closed

     KAJIU NO. 8

ACNOLOGIA (demisexual/demiromantic) : no preferences

GAJEEL (demisexual/demiromantic) : levy

     NNT

IHARU (bisexual/biromantic) : reno

GEN (homosexual/homoromantic) : soshiro

     SK8

KING (pansexual/panromantic) : diane

SARIEL (pansexual/panromantic) : no preferences

ELOA (pansexual/panromantic) : meliodas, mael

     TRIGUN

KAORU (homosexual/homoromantic) : joe shipping closed

LANGA (homosexual/homoromantic) : reki shipping closed

     PKMN

LEGATO (homosexual/homoromantic) : knives

ZAZIE (asexual/aromantic) : meryl

     YGO

GRUSHA (homosexual/homoromantic) : rika shipping closed

BRIAR (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

CELIA (homosexual/homoromantic) : no preferences

CHARLOTTE (bisexual/biromantic) : no preferences

SILAS (bisexual/biromantic) : shipping closed

     YYH

HAGA (demisexual/demiromantic) : ryuzaki

KAIBA (demisexual/demiromantic) : jounouchi, atem/yami, yugi

HIEI (demisexual/demiromantic) : kurama, yusuke

[depressedkakashismut]

🍭🧁🍦

🍭 How sexually active is your character?

I headcannon Kakashi as Demisexual, so he’s very sexually active with the right partner. He doesn’t want to have sex just for the sake of having fun.

For him it’s a very intimate moment to enjoy with his partner and he can’t get into the mood if they’re not showing him some deep love (which he returns ten fold)

So he has the capabilities to be very sexually active, but if he’s with a partner who just wants sex for the sake of having sex, he may seem like he’s not very active.

🧁 When did your character lose their virginity?

So, i’d say he was about 16 (with someone his age/only a few years older than him)

I think he lost it in Anbu but it wasn’t neccessarily enjoyable/good so he never really understood why people liked it so much until he found a partner who wanted to genuinely love him in the bedroom.

Then he understood, at about the Ge of… 21?

🍦 Kinks your character would participate in? Name the kink.

Roleplay

Biting

Spanking

Blindfold

Being tied up

Wax/hot oil

Pegging (trans kakashi or not he likes it when his female partners f*** him)

I’d say watching porn together, but what i really mean is reenacting Icha Icha scenes

Public sex (they’re hidden well but he likes the thrill)

[trashcanonfire]

OKAY i'm kkinda drunk and watching naruto SO i'm gonna make a list of headcannons of some characters gender/sexualities, keep in mind that i've only watched classic naruto and will not be taking criticism thank you very much

Naruto: gay. in love with sasuke. do i need to elaborate? no i don't

Sasuke: also gay. in love with naruto. i also don't need to elaborate

Sakura: bisexual. she should date either ino or rock lee

Rock lee: demisexual. and maybe a trans man. still deciding. he does copy his male role model so there's that. the most precious boy.

Ino: lesbian. relies on pretending to like sasuke so she can doesn't have to deal with her feelings for sakura.

Shikamaru: gay and trans. cis people are not that tired. also one of my best boys.

Hinata: she's straight but that's cool because she's trans. will not elaborate.

Gara: gay, but he has to deal with some bullshit before coming to terms with that

Baki: non binary. the clothes and the make up? yeah

Temari: lesbian transfem. idk she just has a vibe.

Tenten: bi. she has too many weapons to not be a bi girl

Kiba: pansexual and transmasc. and a fury.

Kakashi: disaster bi with a terrible taste in literature

Iruka: gay. single father of naruto.

thank you for your time i will not be taking criticism or elaboration any further. sorry if i forgot someone. anyway. watch naruto, i guess

[cool-thymus]

my beloved hc is that Kakashi is demisexual. He needs time to establish trust first, have an emotional connection, a genuine bond 🩷 and then sexual attraction will bloom.

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[depressedkakashihatake]

I’ve always loved the idea that Kakashi is demisexual, that he just fell head over heels for Gai!!! In my head, I’ve always seen Gai as pansexual (like me - totally not projecting lol)

It's totally fine to project though XD

I definitly agree on Demisexual Kakashi. I have him writen as demisexual in my rouge Nonja's foc and i think i've talked about him being demisexual in the past. It just works for him and makes sense to me.

Pansexual Gai definitly also makes sense. He has no care for gender constructs. The only thing he cares about is personality and he has lots of love in his heart. I also headcannon him as gender fluid (as i've spoken about) mostly cuz of the Rock Lee show where he will wear anything and everything and he looks damn good in it all XD

I think Gai would be the only person who doesn't question Kakashi when he says he's demisexual. He knows enough about Kakashi to understand that Kakashi doesn't just choose to be distant and closed off. That's just his perosnality and it extends into his sexuality because he feels the need to have an emotional bond eith whoever he's going to be with

And the only people he has a string emotional bond with is Gai and Tenzou, but in very diffrent ways. Gai is that perosn he loves deeply and romanticlly and no one can match up to that. Tenzou is the person he loves as family. The person he'll always want to protect and keep safe

[stitchzin]

About Sasuke and Naruto

I forgot to put on my post about Sasuke's Demisexuality. There are Ideograms in Japanese that sound the same, that being said the way they are used in making sentences matter.

There are ideograms for a friendship, for hate, for love, respect etc. This ideograms make expressions used in this situations.

The team seven uses respectfull expressions with Kakashi more them just the "sensei" word. Reading im japonese I just get on so much respect and admirarion they have for him.

When Sasuke and Naruto talk about each other they use the ideograms that reference friendship, even brotherhood.

When Naruto and Sasuke talk about Sakura. Naruto uses Friendship and sometimes older sister like Ideograms/expresions, when talking to her or about her, that is why in japan Sakura is seen as some sort of siste ro Naruto.

Sasuke uses the affection ideograms in a more romantic tone. That is why everybody stated they dated in japan.

Japanese is hard. And many things are lost in translation.

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I need you to know it was really hard to pick for me as a very indecisive person lol but i have Takeshi Yamamoto from Katekyo Hitman Reborn suddenly on the mind despite recent Kakashi Brainrot.

My General hc for a lot of my f/o's is:

(Bi and demisexual usually)

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