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feenmies · 8 months ago
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formalwear (again)
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rose-tries-to-write · 2 months ago
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nothing raised my standards like the movie Strange Magic
if you aint treating me like those two be treating each other (deadly + sexy + If Anything Happens to You, I Won't Allow It) i don't Want it.
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scrupulosity-comics · 2 years ago
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I fucked my back up a couple months ago and need physical therapy for it BUT almost all the physical therapy exercises are derived from yoga, and I can’t do yoga because it gives me insane brain worms about cultural appropriation. And I can’t draw a Bart comic making fun of myself it because if I depict myself pelvic trusting I will be corrupting the innocent. So I just have to hope that ice and ibuprofen and patience will take care of it.
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funeralcity · 15 days ago
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out for a classic cami night walk and i saw the lights on and people standing outside at my local bar and thought i might get a beer but um they were about to close and i guess a woman they know showing up all alone at almost 3am is a little alarming and i think i made the bartender very worried about me. oops….
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is-today-tomorrow-in-nz · 3 months ago
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I've liked and disliked Jack Crawford in many moments. But, this moment, right there, is when I absolutely hated him.
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robinsnest2111 · 2 months ago
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warning, tmi
fr whenever this stupid connective tissue/blood vessel expansion issue crops up again my suicidal thoughts intensify by 400%
like im doing EVERYTHING I CAN to prevent this issue. got a whole double sided info sheet from the specialist I saw when it first happened in 2018, i follow the food and water recommendations, the exercise recommendations, even the fucking recommendations on how to shit!!!, BUT STILL
IT KEEPS HAPPENING AT RANDOM and always at the worst possible times tbh and every time it happens it gets worse because the area is already weakened from the previous times...
i hate it hate it hate it hate it.............
can I please have a different body? please?
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sherlock-is-ace · 1 year ago
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#oh wow...#i just had an oh shit fuck moment#wow#i usually complain about the one therapist i had in my entire life and how she wouldn't just listen to what i was saying#if it didn't fit her textbook definition of whatever she was thinking at the time#and how i talked to her about my anxiety and how that made me feel and she would only focus on how i acted#so the example i gave her was the one time i went into a shop to buy something by myself#because my mom didn't want to go in for me and arguing with my mom in front of the shop in public and then inevitably have to#go in myself either way was way worse to me#because of the embarrassement of arguing in public. the fact that my mom was gonna spend the entire walk home telling me how i have to#''just suck it up and learn and just overcome my anxiety because i don't have a problem'' or whatever#and then having to go into the shop where the lady had been watching me from inside the entire time how i clearly didn't want to go in#and possibly be even more awkward with teary eyes because of the anxiety and awkwardness i already bring to the table any day...#all of those things that were going inside my head were trumped by the fact that i did go in and did buy what i needed#although my heart was coming out of my chest the entire time... all that didn't matter to my therapist because in her words:#''if you had anxiety. you simply wouldn't have gone in''#which is ridiculous#but anyways... i just had an epiphany... that was masking wasn't it?#forcing myself to do something that brings me major discomfort to make my mother and the shop lady not judge me?#pretend i'm a normal human being just doing normal things instead of someone who's about to have a heart attack buying embroidery thread?#panicking the entire time because i wasn't prepeared and hadn't scripted the entire transaction in my head?#yet still going in and putting on my ''normal person'' mask to try to seem like i wasn't just dying seconds ago (and still was)?#isn't that literally what masking is?!#and the ''autism specialist'' ass therapist was like ''if you did it then you don't have a problem''#when i'm literally telling her how much of a problem it actually WAS?!#you know what's the best part about all this#that when i told my mom after i left that therapist that she didn't listen to me because [insert everything above]#my mom's response was ''well sometimes therapist will say things that you don't want to hear but you have to accept them''....#same woman who's always saying how much she hates therapists because they ''will say whatever and pretend they know shit''#ok so it's only The Truth when I tell you it isn't...
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beastblade69 · 3 months ago
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TWO STEPS AWAY FROM LEGALLY CHANGING MY NAME!!! gonna receive an approval within an hour ig and then have to make a new id with my actual name HAPPÆ HAPPÆ!!!
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captain-lovelace · 11 months ago
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#Watching ‘egg discourse’ go around frustrates me. Not even fully certain what the current round is about but. Augh.#Especially seeing a lot of transmascs get worked up about it#Like. 1. Reacting so violently and negatively to what is in reality a harmless comment by a trans woman is being#transmisogynistic#2. You get on trans women’s asses for ‘assuming’ genders but you are ALSO assuming someone’s gender. You are assuming they’re a cis man.#3. As one of my mutuals said very well: ‘misgendering’ a cis person does not carry the violent connotations of misgendering a trans person#And 4 and this one is transmasc specific: If you are reacting like this because a switch has flipped#in your brain and is saying ‘this is a sign that no matter what I do I can be seen as a Secret Girl’. Turn that switch back off.#Just because you feel uncomfortable or unsafe doesn’t mean you are#Versus the trans women who are ACTUALLY unsafe right now because they’re being harassed. This is a You Problem.#And it’s also not what’s happening#You are not being misgendered! You are not in danger of being misgendered!#and you know what? One day another queer person may in fact mistake you for a trans woman! It is not that big of a deal.#This has happened to me! It was fine! It was honestly a compliment in some ways! It is easily clarified!#Calm the fuck down! You are not in danger! No one is in danger!#It is not such an awful thing to be mistaken for a trans woman#YOU need to work on that. It’s on YOU to interrogate your discomfort.
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basu-shokikita · 1 year ago
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i'm not even particularly fond of magnus or anything but the way a subset of the fandom behaves towards fans of him/his shippers is deeply tiresome to see
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neige-leblanche · 10 months ago
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i am veering into Serious Mental Health Discussion but last is also why i can't stand those posts that are like "the only way to stop being depressed is to get off your ugly ass" like. first of all, on a personal level, i was rough with myself like that all of my childhood, which had no effect whatsoever, and when i finally started being radically gentle with myself & telling myself that struggling wasn't a moral failing but i deserved to feel better just for my own sake then i actually became able to take the steps i needed.
and secondly. my main point. if you go through a rough spot in your life, and do manage to dig yourself out with an uncomfortable amount of elbow grease, that's awesome, but how are you going to feel the next time you're in a bad place? i for one would be daunted & might stay in the hole longer if i thought brute forcing things was my only way out
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the-kneesbees · 1 year ago
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yk I felt really bad about this whole thing at first but looking back I think maybe I dodged a bullet
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mizzmellos · 2 years ago
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LMAO i like cunty pillow princess mello! i feel like i have schroedingers headcanons like. hes a top and a pillow princess and etc etc just depending on the day
Btw I know I just said this a few days ago but anybody who enjoys this needs to read Crush by morphinejunkie <- not going to tag morph and be annoying but go read it NOWWWW this fic made me believe in the potential of top Mello <3
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sophiethewitch1 · 1 year ago
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I can't believe you've done this. Dragging everyone back into the DC's hell, have you no mercy...😭😭😭😭
suffer with me <3 i'm mildly sadistic, so no mercy, no
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oflgtfol · 1 year ago
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it is so utterly insane to me the way i've had this like fundamental shift in my personality since i started therapy, started medication, and graduated college. i used to be so shy and quiet and awkward. it used to take me years of everyday interaction to begin to feel any sense of real friendship with anyone, and the idea of public speaking or small talk with strangers etc was enough to have me trembling and shaking
and now like. i'm doing public speaking. i'm doing small talk with strangers. at michaels i'm actually having conversations with customers whenever the mood hits because i like actually enjoy talking to people now? even if it's just small talk it's just nice to like, have a nice friendly conversation? if i need to confront someone now, for whatever reason, whether it's to ask a question or to politely ask them not to do something, nowadays i can actually do it, instead of being the living epitome of the coward end of the "he asked for no pickles" meme. now I'M the person saying "he asked for no pickles." i'm the one that my more shy coworkers turn to when the time comes. I'M the person being shoved at the shy coworkers to chat them up and get them to be more outgoing. I'M the one guiding the conversation asking questions and keeping people talking trying to get them to open up. literally never imagined myself like this
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benetnvsch · 2 years ago
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nothing is better than seeing all the quote retweets on That One Apology tweet by Dazai's eng VA lmao get fucked old man-
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