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[antiendovents]

Fakeclaiming someone for JUST being a MINOR is insane ??? Not to mention, DID and OSDD Assessment can take years to get one.

yesh, that is insane. Minors can and have been diagnosed with it. And yeah, assessments take a long time to get and some people can't get them at all, people who fail to understand this will forever annoy me

[system-hottakes]

This take probably isn't all that hot but it's not anyone's business who's fronting at a certain time, you don't owe anyone an answer

You're allowed to lie about who's fronting or say you don't want to tell them for literally any reason

real:3 I lie all the time. Actually we have a designated 'this is us when blurry alter' (basically an alter that we say we are when we're blurry to avoid questions) -> actually there's technically two, but one is for specific places and the other is for everywhere

[kolos013]

Aspencore

EDIT:

The amount of people in the notes going "yeah sure it may not be the answer for you but it absolutely is for me," is honestly concerning. It's very much like that one "I'm sorry your hubris was your doom but I'm built better" post that lives rent free in my head. These guidelines are there for a reason ya'll. (Also I'm not removing the wierd caption.)

[knickknackoftheday]

soy sauce flash drive

[perfectfeelings]

I stopped explaining myself when I realized people only understand from their level of perception.

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[stay-close]

Please stop destroying what is left of your heart by constantly thinking about things that have broken you.

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[resqectable]

Fall in love with the person who enjoys your madness, not an idiot who forces you to be normal.

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[emilybraydenblogs]

I confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i'm bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i'm healing and hurting at the same time. i'm dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage

[molags-balls]

big things happening in england

[thoughtkick]

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

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[antiendovents]

Why do endos claim you're ableist when you tell them they're not systems if they're not claiming to be disabled in the first place?

Like-

"I'm a non-disordered system who is not disabled by my alters and doesn't have trauma/PTSD!"

"So you don't have DID or OSDD?"

"No I do not!"

"Then you're not a system?"

"Why are you being ableist?"

"????"

Yeah. It doesn't make sense. Like what do you mean, your whole community is based on an ableist movement and you claim to not be disordered at all but suddenly it's ableist to call out your bullshit?? Make it make sense

[system-hottakes]

hot take: syscord & systok made our community incredibly anti recovery and pro "harassing people with cdds who prefer singular terms and being treated as one person", i have been accused of "suppressing" my parts because me and them have all agreed on final fusion & singular terms.

- same anon as the ageslider relationship ask, may I be⚓🎀 anon please?

Yeah--- it's like.. you're not hurting anyone, I don't get why people have such an issue with it. You can use singular terms if you want, you aren't suppressing your parts, you're healing

Also yeah, you can be that anon

[quotefeeling]

and at some point I thought to myself: ‘no person deserves this,’ and I realized that includes even me.

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[surqrised]

If you get that gut feeling that something isn’t right about a person or situation, trust it.

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