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Beautiful, But Broken
#bg3#tiefling#tw blood#c: Viivi#so I redid my bg3 character because I wasn't feeling durge that much. So now my sibling does durge and I regular tav Viivi#(changed her to tiefling for funs)#at least I meant to do regular tav but uhhhhh things have gone very unfortunately very fast#anyway. Viivi is an artist; she does painting sculpting poetry and some prose. Experimenting with this and that#unfortunately she is deaf which made making connections a bit hard in the fine arts world#fortunately she has a patreon with one very generous patron (she's fey warlock)✨ who has bestowed some gifts of charms for her#which have opened doors of many art galleries#She's not a fighter so although she is confident in her own lane she is also very aware of her mortality#so she avoided any fights she could#which might have saved her but also got her into the mess of her lifetime#you see she couldn't fight the entire goblin camp and their leaders. She would've just not survived that. So she convinced them#that she is a True Soul. She is good at convincing people. It worked. They thought she is on their side. Good#Halsin also though Viivi was on their side. Halsin attacked Viivi's party. Now Halsin is dead.#So Viivi and her group were still alone deep within enemy fort. Viivi made new plans. She frees the prisoner who says he will warn the grov#Good thinks Viivi now they know to flee. I will go to Minthara and tell we got the information from prisoner of the grove location#she will trust us and we walk off#when we get back to grove they have not fled and Minthara is at the gates#Minthara wants Viivi to sound the horn. Zevlor wants Viivi to sound the horn. Viivi asks Zevlor to please tell this plan in detail.#Zevlor says just blow the horn already. Viivi does that. Minthara thanks Viivi for leaving the gate open as planned#Zevlor does not thank Viivi for that. Viivi is confused as she did not leave the gate open. (for real the damn gate was left open)#So I did a Massacre.#now Karlach is gone Wyll is dead. Lae'zel is also dead#but apparently Minthara is ready to be very loving and sincere with Viivi. The most helpful person she has met in very long time.#Viivi might love her#so that is how she's doing.
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saw a post about "what if sonic and tails acted like realistic siblings" and sonic chasing tails around the house while tails was screaming bc tails ate sonic's food. but to me. it would be the other way around. it's TAILS' house. its' TAILS' food that he bought with his OWN money. sonic is the one mooching off him and tails is a lot more petty than sonic
#also i like. get really picky about 'realistic sibling experience' stuff too#yes a lot of it is true and amusing growing up with siblings is An Experience#but a lot of the stuff I see people do - in general im not talking about sonic fanart now - is passing off bullying or abuse as-#-'funny sibling shenanigans'. some 'average sibling experience' jokes and memes i laugh at but a lot just makes me cringe or get angry#idk. anyways i dont think sonic and tails would fall in to that dynamic too much or too often just due to them not living together#HOWEVER. yes. tails is conducting unethical experiments on sonic#egg.txt
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Clone wars headcanons that took me forever to edit
I feel like my last couple of headcanons have been mushy so I’ve decided to write some shit Ahsoka and Anakin do that piss each other off
Ahsoka bites the skin around her nails all the time and most of the time she won't stop till they’re bleeding
Anakin’s tried literally everything in the book to get her to stop
He tried putting spices on her hands forgetting that she likes spicy food, he’s tried painting her nails (like that’ll do anything) but she keeps picking the paint off, now he just uses the force to remove them from her mouth
That’s gotten a few growls from her but at least it makes her aware she’s doing it but it doesn’t stop her from bitting them a couple of seconds later
Honestly he’s given up and just sits in silence while she complains about the pain
Anakin paces whenever he’s even slightly nervous and she can tell how nervous he is depending on how fast he moves
If he’s just kinda anxious he moves pretty slow but if he’s like one shirt caught on a door handle away from a panic attack he’s teleporting
When Padme told him he was gonna be a dad he was ecstatic for about 24 hours but after that some invisible timer went off in his head he booked it to Ahsoka’s house (she lives down the street cause of course she does)
Walked into her room and woke her poor sleepy butt up with all his pacing
Girl swears to this day he broke the damn sound barrier with how fast he was moving
She just wordlessly sat up and patted her bed cause she knew she wasn’t gonna get any sleep until he did
She sat by him and listened as he rattled off all his worries and only really stepped in when the darker thoughts surfaced when it was all said and done she turned to him and said “Now let me kriffing sleep”
Should he have probably left the room yeah but he got a total of 30 minutes of “sleep” that night so it’s not surprising that he knocked the fuck out of
Padme was a little bit alarmed to wake up without Anakin but was quickly soothed when she read Ahsoka’s message “Your nerf herders with me”
She knew the pregnancy would dredge up some unhappy feelings and she also knew Anakin can’t think clearly if he doesn’t have Ahsoka to sort through the bullshit in his head
She just got ready for brunch with her two favorite people and smiled cause she knew Obi-Wan and Rex would join them for dinner with or without an invitation
When Anakin and Ahsoka were living together they would kick each other out of their own bathrooms
Why? Well Ahsoka said Anakin’s had better lighting and water pressure and Anakin would do it to spite Ahsoka because he knew it would piss her off
Slowly but surely their stuff gets moved into each other's bathrooms and it’s a weird amalgamation of crap
Also when they were living together Anakin would ask Ahsoka if she was hungry before cooking and she’d often say no because she didn’t want to impose but his cooking always looked and smelled good
So half the time girl would just end up eating some of his food when she thought he wasn’t looking
At first he was like “Snips you said you weren’t hungry” to which she would respond “Yeah I wasn’t hungry then but I am now” after that he starts making more food on instinct cause damn that girl can eat
Anakin gets back at her pretty easily tho by taking the first bite of her food whenever they go out to eat his excuse is that he’s “making sure it’s not poisoned” he never does this to Padme cause he respects her too damn much
And he can’t use that trick on Obi-Wan and Rex cause the former taught him the trick and the latter has a bullshit detecter built-in
Both Anakin and Ahsoka pull that trick on the twins tho (which gets them a quick scolding from Padme)
Speaking of the twins it’s not surprising that as they grow up they realize that their auntie isn’t human so of course like any normal child they have questions and Anakin being the little shit that he is spots an opportunity for some laughs
So he turns to the twins all serious-like and goes “Well my loves we actually found your auntie in a dumpster we have no idea where she came from” the twins are distraught and go to the nearest adult who just so happens to be their uncle Rex
And Rex also being a little shit backs up Anakin’s story with so much sincerity that even Anakin believed it a little bit
The twins being the angels they are apologize to their auntie for her terrible origin story with tears in their eyes and her reaction more than made up for the swift ass-kicking the boys got
When Anakin was taller than Ahsoka he made her life hell by making fun of her every time something was even slightly out of her reach
He would make a big deal about grabbing it for her while commenting about how the temple’s architecture wasn’t made with the “young ones” in mind
Obi-Wan has turned multiple blind eyes when Ahsoka socked the shit out of his arm when he tells one too many jokes some days
When she finally grows taller than him she makes the biggest deal about it and no one can blame her
While Anakin is the pilot Ahsoka is easily the navigator she often jokes that Anakin wouldn’t find his way out of bed without help
Which is funny cause he often acts like a herding dog with her putting his hand on her back or holding her arm to guide her
But he’s wrong 9/10 times so it’s not uncommon to see Anakin guiding her in one direction and then see him get dragged in the opposite direction a couple of minutes later
#star wars#the clone wars#star wars clone wars#star wars headcanons#anakin skywalker#ahsoka tano#obi wan kenobi#padmé amidala#captain rex#luke skywalker#leia organa#ahsoka and anakin#snips and skyguy#disaster siblings#the padme bit was a little mushy#but everything else is based on true experiences#most of my sibling headcanons are#i just know they piss each other off#but like in a normal healthy sibling way#that last one is aimed at my sister#she's directionally challenged#she calls me vertically challenged#so we're even#I'm trying to get her to watch clone wars#which is an uphill battle#even tho she likes star wars
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i like that the 90's turtles preferred method of stimming is saying words with no sentences whatsoever.
#the true autistic sibling experience#leonardo hamato#raphael hamato#donatello hamato#michelangelo hamato#tmnt#teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt 1991#tmnt secrets of the ooze
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Me, trying to teach my brother why bullying is bad: "You shouldn't call him after he said not to, because it's really mean. When I was your age, I felt really self-conscious because kids called me Spot, and--"
My brother, buckling over in laughter: "Spot! Spot is the best way to describe you, I'm gonna call you that all the time."
Me: *desperately using mindfulness to avoid murder*
#Me: not the point but okay#literally based on true events from like two months ago and more recently two minutes ago#ignore this lol I'm just sharing because it's distracting me from the kitchen knives#siblings#the joyous experiences of having a brother#personal#about me
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Becker family shenanigans >:) (ft. @villainsidestep's fawn becker and @idlenight's river becker! this was also inspired by their posts)
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#1. this whole au is an excuse for me to indulge in older sibling cyrus#and as much as i Love river#he gives off the most rancid little shit youngest sibling vibes known to man#2. fawn and river are of the same mind and that mind is making chen suffer for his Own decisions#what youre gonna fall for the pretty vigilante you used to distrust?#well they're going to justify that suspicion and also play their role up for the bit#3. step days vs current day river and cyrus has been bothering me since i saw river's sidestep design#they. they swapped. they're the same theyre literally just the other way around#also fun fact because this seems like a good place to put it: cyrus also has freckles! he just covers them up with makeup#it is for themmy related reasons :)#4. low effort shitpost based on me laughing at the height comparison between the three#to answer your question gideon#i thought fawn was a short step#i thought cyrus and fawn could bond over having a towering older brother but alas#cyrus is simply forced to endure the hashtag true oldest sibling experience and be the shortest out of the three#fhr#sidestep#cyrus becker#river becker#fawn becker#she illness on my mental till i draw#keeping up with the beckers
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actually not a bit i love talking about suicide i think its so important to talk about suicide
#the experience of suicidality is so packed with shame#and opening up abt suicidal ideation is often so loaded#but if it's already a part of the conversation it's so much easier to talk about on a personal and philosophical level#and i think its wildly disrespectful to people that have killed themselves to treat their death as shameful#talked to my mom tonight abt the time we watched dead poets society for my birthday while my sibling was like....#really in a bad way (as was i but less outwardly)#and my mom has dealt w depression etc for her whole life too#but my dad was sooooo nervous abt the movie he was convinced that if someone said the word suicide within 50 feet of our house#3/4 of our household would kill themselves on the spot#txt#idk i know some people consider it wildly irresponsible to talk like that#to 'condone' or 'encourage' suicide#irt which i have some radical takes#but even from a more moderate perspective the idea that talkinf openly about suicide n dismantling the shame that surrounds it#would somehow be harmful#is clearly a fear response#also suicide 'prevention' is a fucked up framework that removes agency from suicidal people and puts undue responsibility#on the people around them#also: if you are suicidal you are not alone and you are not a bad person for feeling that way#many narratives around suicidality imply that it's selfish or shameful to consider it and that's not true#it's one of the scariest things in the world to know so intimately that you have control over your own life
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Good point. (Most of Dawn's scars from Hisui would probably be mental, honestly-that's a lot for a kid to go through, even if she is a legendary. And there's the fear of Pokémon the people in that era felt too, so it's not known if she ever dropped her human form her entire time in Hisui.) Also, once Ash learns about Volo, it's on sight if they ever meet: Ash is going to throttle him with his bare hands.
To be fair, Dawn has a lot of experience from travelling with Ash, and she's older than her illusion suggests. Not that she knows that. Also her trust issues may be compounded a bit.
RIP Volo you shall not be missed.
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deeply confused abt the anselma/patricia n dimitri relationship timeline
#x#fe3h posting#i thought she went to the kingdom around the time of the insurrection of the 7. so when edelgard n dimitri would’ve been. ? 10 or 11 ish?#n then she got married to the king n was dimitris step mum for a couple years#but in dimitri hapi’s b support he says she raised him n hapi says she can see a lot of her in him. which like. i mean i guess that can#happen within a couple years but tbh it moreso seems to imply she was around For dimitri for a lot longer than i originally assumed#also like. i guess she didn’t go with edelgard ? so. so what does that mean.#bc edelgard was taken by her uncle but anselma APPARENTLY was helped by cornelia(???? what’s going on there)#was EDELGARD even raised by her mother actually?? the experiments i think it’s mentioned made her lose a lot of her memories#so i’m not even sure if she mentions it in her route. but like actually maybe this tracks n her mum had to leave the empire quite some time#before the insurrection even happened. which if true. begs the question of WHY#what was going on back then….. also literally wtf is up w the cornelia connection. suspicious. pensive dot png#okay as an aside tho. i will admit i kind of like dimitri very clearly having loved his step mum a lot i think that’s sweet#this game has a lot of terrible or mediocre adoptive parents/step parents so that’s kind of nice to see#actually in general the amount of adopted or step parents/siblings n half siblings is really interesting#you don’t really tend to see that a lot in most stuff. but here it’s like everyone has half siblings or a step parent lol
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first of all I’m blushing cause u said baby (what do you mean it’s a generic name no I’m delulu) and um second of all one of them talked to me in such a condescending way today (but also I made a mistake so I get it but she didn’t have to talk to me like I was 2 ugh)
the only good thing about this job is that I get to help the kids cause it’s like a beginner class so they’re all new to the subject and I wanna help them and I’m so happy when they ask me questions and things
sorry I rambled about this for no reason but I did have a question for you, thoughts on dean? There’s a little hatred of some kind there I can see it, but I wanted to ask why you don’t like him, only if you’re comfortable!!!
— kiss
omg no baby is said with flirtatious intent to make you blush, honey <33
BUT THAT'S SO RUDE ACTUALLY ugh i'm sorry they were condescending :((( but i'm glad that you're feeling like there is something good about the job!! it's awesome that you get to help the kids!!! and don't ever be sorry for rambling, i love to hear it all!!
i also rambled about dean a lot and it's definitely not coherent LOL
as for dean LOL i just have very complicated feelings and i think a lot of my hate/negative feelings are sometimes misplaced in him a little too strongly. i mostly just really really hate the treatment of him versus sam within the fandom :// if we're being honest with ourselves, he's kind of really not a good person sometimes!! and he treated a lot of people really awfully pretty consistently, especially sam. and i think that's part of how fascinating he is as a character!! he's incredibly interesting and i do hold love for him in my heart, not just for his good aspects but for his fucked up parts too hehe <33
it's just that i think he's very often misinterpreted and excused for actions he had full control over (sure, his trauma can explain lots of it, but does not excuse it!!), while sam is often harshly blamed (by both the fandom and by dean) for things he did not have complete or any control over (not saying he's never made a bad decision that he could control. it's just that a core aspect of sam's character and character arc is his lack of autonomy and people will very often literally victim blame him). both sam and dean are very flawed people and have made many many mistakes, my issue is that people both in the fandom and in the show are willing to overlook or excuse or whatever dean's mistakes and flaws but not sam's.
also people pretend like dean is a great brother to sam. he loves sam so much and would do anything for him, yes. they are codependent, yes. sam is not great to him all the time either, yes. but i view lots of dean's treatment towards sam as abusive. i don't think dean ever breaks the cycle of abuse. he is the angry man in the house. he has the power in his relationship with sam, he is the patriarch and perpetuates toxic patriarchal values.
more so than hating him, i think i hate what the fandom has done with him. can't we love him because he's awful??? and can't we recognize that he treats people in pretty awful ways lol. sometimes, he's so very lovely. sometimes, he's a piece of shit. and i love him for it! i'm very dean critical, but i think that my love for him has just been tainted by the way the fandom views him/acts towards him (versus sam especially).
and at the end of the day, as mr. jared padalecki put it, sam winchester is my only concern!! it's all about sam to me <33 i'm completely biased towards him and i love him more, and because i think dean treats him badly, i get angry at dean often! i recognize that i'm 100% biased towards sam and don't always look into nuances because of that. but i try not to actively hate hate on dean for stupid reasons. just reasons where he definitely was in the wrong LOL.
i just think sam deserves so much love and that the fandom hasn't given it to him partially because of the dean bias. i think a lot of people watch the show through dean's eyes, which means blaming sam and blaming mary and blaming cas and whoever he can. and thinking that he's in the right all the time (but wake up!!! dean blames himself too!! he knows he's done wrong, he thinks about it all the time!! he is constantly grappling with and weighed down by the consequences and implications of his actions!! he said so himself!! so let's love him for that too <33)
and also he bothers me sometimes <333 hashtag i love sam hashtag everything is about sam hashtag i just don't care about him as much as i care about sam! <333 lots of love <333 at the end of the day it's not even about him personally it's about sam lmao <33 and that's literally just the way that i enjoy this show the best, is by focusing on sam. i can absolutely be a dean enjoyer at times, i just prefer to completely obsess over sam all the time lol. and it's so completely valid if one enjoys the show the other way around or enjoys them equally <33 or doesn't give a shit about either of them and loves rowena the most, maybe we should all just do that instead <333
#oh and also i just relate to sam a lot more#i'm the second child in a formally codependent relationship with my older sister#there's trauma there (now addressed and healed trauma because we lead much more normal lives and go to therapy and talk about our emotions)#but i think i probably feel the injustice between sam and dean with a colored lens from my own experience#which is vastly different than theirs ofc#but there are things about family and siblings in this show that ring so true and i feel them very deeply#ig i'm i feel like my life would suck so much if my sister treated me the way that dean treats sam LMAO#and so i get so upset for sam when dean does indeed treat him that way#i could keep talking but i already said so much sorry lol#uhhh sam winchester is my only concern!!!#. >> asks !#. >> lovely anons !#. >> dean !#. >> spn !#. >> kiss anon !
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Pages 8 and 9 of Thirty More Years! The true sibling experience is being woken up at an ungodly hour cause of an obnoxious noise they’re making. Longer update this time, I thought it would be cleaner to post them together. Thanks for reading!
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#thirty more years au#gravity falls#gravity falls fanart#mabel pines#dipper pines#pines family#pines twins#gravity falls au#gravity falls comic#gravity falls art#gf art#gf au
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thinking about everything that has led up to now.
#vent#i could have had such a good life#i could have been smart or athletic or charismatic or anything else#i could have been someone with potential#but no. i just had to get autism and adhd and depression and a bunch of other genetic shit#while my siblings got off scot-free and are well adjusted and in control of their lives#they got to have a normal childhood while i watched#they got to have memorable experiences that i couldn’t even dream of#while i stayed behind because i couldn’t mask (and still can’t)#i threw temper tantrums almost daily#i can’t contain the shit that comes out of my mouth#i still can’t regulate my emotions at all#and now here i am#almost 21 and staring down the barrel of wasted potential and shattered hopes and dreams#unemployed and cheating my ass off in college to get by#and perpetually on the verge of suicide#all while my parents have always told me i’d grow up to be whoever i wanted to be#it was true for my siblings. but not for me#why me. god. why fucking me
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Welcome back to my new sexuality crisis everyone!
Am I Actually Autosexual, or Do I Just Have High Self-Esteem?!
#like the whole ‘sexually attracted to yourself’ definition seems a bit extreme#but I’ve related to a lot of autosexual experiences#it also scares me that I still don’t 100% understand the validity of the label#I still remember years ago that my sibling called selfcest incest#I think they also still believe that fucking your clone would be incest#and I’m wondering exactly why that’s not true for auto-spec ppl
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@chronal-anomaly sent:ㅤThey had already hushed down three of her protests by now, demanding silence as they worked. Discomfort tingled gently down her spine at the awkward angle and frozen body that they demanded as they loaded another brush with color and touched it to her face. Lena snorted, trying to rid herself of the sparkles that fell free and into her nose. "Think m'makeup is fine. Dunno why I agreed to this." Came the grumbled response, barely hiding the grin that threatened to come out. She was enjoying herself at the heart of the thing, but what would be a day with Byan if not for a little bickering. "Little heavy handed wit' that, aren't you?"
ㅤㅤ" sure, your makeup's fine, but just fine is borin'. "ㅤgiving a snort of their own, although theirs was more in dissatisfaction at her insolence than it was to blow any glitter free, byan tutted quietly.ㅤ" more fun t' spice things up once in a while, don'tcha think? "
ㅤan eyebrow raised with the inquiry, but their focus never left the brush which streaked a shimmery purple shade over lena's eyelid to compliment the deep navy they'd chosen as a base. the colours were a lot darker than anything they'd ever seen her wear, but they thought it quite suited her, honestly. besides, half the fun of letting someone else do your makeup was to experiment a little, wasn't it? dunno why i agreed to this, she said, like they were torturing her or trying to make her look like some sort of clown. of course, she was only teasing; they knew that much, and even played along with an amused roll of their eyes that she couldn't even see, her own eyes closed as they were.
ㅤㅤ" gotta be a little heavy handed sometimes t' get that full pigment payoff. "ㅤthe response was spoken as though this should be obvious.ㅤ" y'really don't know anythin' 'bout makeup, do ya? "ㅤtaking their turn to tease her back, a crooked grin of their own pulled at the corners of byan's mouth as they blended out the edges of lena's crease.ㅤ" s'fine, i'll clean up all the fallout 'fore i'm done, don't worry 'bout it. "
lowering the brush once satisfied, the teen leaned back in their seat, rounded end of their tool raised to tap thoughtfully against their lip as they took a moment to view their work from a distance. a hum of consideration rose in their throat, and then they were leaning forward again, shuffling through the stack of eyeshadow palettes they'd pulled out for the occasion.
ㅤㅤ" i think the tiniest hint'a some pink glitter in the corners'a your eyes'll look pretty sick... then maybe pull the whole look together with a— ...i think i got a silver eyeliner 'round here somewhere, could draw a couple stars with that, think that'd be pretty cute... "ㅤmuttering seemingly to themself more than to lena, byan continued digging only to halt abruptly about a second later, their thoughts suddenly jumping ahead several steps.ㅤ" —you don't got a problem with a darker lipstick, do ya? like, a black or a deep purple? think one'a those'd be perfect, though i s'pose a dark maroon or somethin' could work too... s'less fun, but it'd work. "
#chronal anomaly#━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ answered: ic ⋮ i am a vulture that feeds on pain.#was thinking about byan & makeup today and remembered that this was still sitting in my drafts from fuckin october#i'll forever have so many feelings about lena letting them do her makeup and draw around her tattoos and play with her hair...#she's a true big sister. byan's finally getting that sibling experience they always wanted
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Chara gives Asriel the true sibling experience-
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Why are trans men constantly gaslit about our lived experiences?
We try to talk about how we’re denied reproductive care and are treated as others in gynecological spaces. We should not be outliers or things of ridicule or disgust in these spaces. These are spaces where we should be welcomed like any cis woman would be. We are treated like this even when we need gynecological care because we are trans men.
We try to talk about how TERFs oversexualize us while infantalizing and talking down to us. They act like they have ownership of our bodies, and like we need them to guide us to “accepting” ourselves as women. They do this because we are trans men. People have started calling them TWERFs instead, because they like to believe that we are included on behalf of TERFs wanting to change our minds and bodies, and claiming that they will have open arms for us when we’re “done with our phase.” (Being sexualized is especially true of straight trans men. Gay trans men will be constantly subjected to fatphobic stereotypes, and plenty of things that are just “LIBERAL SJW,” misogynistic stereotypes turned around and used against someone who it’s slightly more acceptable to hurt. This is okay to so many people because we are trans men.)
When we point out any ways that we face oppression, we have 500 people screaming that another group has it worse. Depending on the group, they claim that we’re either privileged men or privileged little girls complaining about nothing.
There is no way for us to win in society’s eyes. We are constantly silenced and spoken over, even by some of our siblings. Trans men deserve to be respected. Trans men deserve to be understood. Trans men deserve to be accepted.
Trans men deserve to be believed.
#trans#transgender#transandrophobia#transmisandry#trans man#trans men#plenty of this is also relatable to other transmascs#I just say trans men because I am one and don’t want to speak for transmasc nonbinary people whose experiences I am not as familiar with#feel free to add on if you’re transmasc or posting in support of us
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