#//domestic girlfriends

[specsthesecond]

Wearing your werewolf partners clothes when you want to get them riled up cus you know covering yourself in their sent drives them crazy.

You walk into the kitchen with only their unwashed work shirt on, it's obviously pretty baggy because they're huge.

You cuddle close to them and kiss them, trying to get your intentions across in the best way without actually saying it.

They could obviously smell you and your intentions the second you walked in but they're trying to focus on the food they're making, huffing at you in amusement. You trail your hands under their shirt and over their happy trail, stopping at the waistband.

"You smell good." You mumble into their back and that makes them tense up a little. You smirk against their warm skin.

You take that as your cue to slip your hands down their pants and sure enough their arousal is very evident. Which you could already tell by the tail wagging between you.

They only return to make their food (in a very self-satisfied manner) when you're dozing off on the couch, full and satisfied. Still wearing their shirt which is now in even more need of a wash.

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[growing-bolder]

Them: How are you?

Me: *actively growing fatter before their eyes* Swell, thanks

[basslinegrave]

[hazel-callahan]

women in stem! (lesbian making bombs!)

[milo03co]

[nbsrca]

Spankings.

[anachronistica]

Put the work in.

i think it’s important when submissive and traditional women are unmarried to be constantly working on themselves. I feel the same way about Dominant and traditional men. Even though we are single, we should all be putting in the effort to learn to become the best partners for our dynamics as we can.

While I am no longer single, I mentor, coach and help many friends who are single in this lifestyle. These are my recommendations of why to continuously be learning and growing as a Dom or a sub while single, both sfw and nsfw.

Things a sub can/should do to prepare for a future Dom-

learn to cook and to set a proper table

learn to communicate in a polite, constructive way with no dramatic or abrasive tones

get into a good routine with cleaning and know how to clean / stain remove / disinfect all types of surfaces

have a decent wardrobe for casual, semi formal and formal attire

work on any weight loss or gain / appearance / health related (mental and physical) issues to keep yourself healthy

read up about common dynamic rules, expectations, day in the lifes, etc. to see what you like and don’t like (as well as collars, contracts, etc.)

learn to budget , grocery shop, meal prep / plan, learn block schedules techniques

do basic research on gardening, canning, food preservation / storage.

have strong knowledge of Dom/sub sexuality, kink, and common expectations

most importantly - find your limits and your dealbreakers on what you do and do not in a partner and both sexually and dynamic-wise. Make notes. Know what you need before you start vetting.

What Doms could do to prepare for a future sub-

be fully educated on the lifestyle, Domestic discipline, Trad living, consent, freeuse, contracts, types of commitment collars, all of it

have rough outline of expectations, rules, routines, future goals for what they would and would not expect from a sub (that can be eventually tailored to your specific dynamic)

Know their preferred methods of domestic discipline to use

work on their career, securing a decent career and stability

build up all savings accounts and investments

secure a decent place to live / buy a home with the thought in mind of having a private space for discipline to be conducted

have solid formed opinions about common topics brought up during vetting and lifestyle discussions

know their kinks and sexual expectations but don’t be gross about it when presenting it

Anything you would add or subtract?

[goldenamaranthe-blog]

Don't Do That: Chaggie

Charlie: *pushes back into Vaggie during nighttime cuddles*

Vaggie: Don't do that.

Charlie: Do what?

Vaggie: That.

Charlie: I'm not doing anything!

Vaggie: You know what you're doing.

Charlie: *laughing* Vaggie, I don't know what you're talking about!

Vaggie: Kiss mode activated. *rolls Charlie on her back, tops her, and smothers her face in kisses*

Charlie: *squeals and giggles* Vaggie!!!

[immeasurable-depths]

Obsessed with Marisha quietly picking up Laura’s dice and marvelling over how pretty they are as Laura proudly shows her all the different ones.

I just imagine Laudna getting excited like a spooky little magpie over sparkly trinkets that Imogen has brought home as Imogen grins and blushes cause she’s spent ages trying to find ones she thinks Laudna will like ����

[ryukisgod]

If a man engages in domestic violence but has never hit one of his bosses, he doesn’t have an anger “management” problem, he can manage his emotions just fine, he just thinks it’s morally okay to hit his wife/gf, and or there won’t be consequences for it

[quillkiller]

hear me out…. luna/harry is one of my favorite hp rare pairs and have been for years….:/ they’re so autistic4autistic soft and sweet and estranged from wizarding society post war coded. they own thestrals btw

[buddiebitch]

“you can multiship” but i won’t

“so glad i’m a multishipper” good for you

“why can’t everyone multiship?” because i don’t want to

[reinvent-and-believe]

[daddysroyalwhore]

“I’m sorry, I don’t speak blabbering idiot. Have you considered using your words?” As I’m DP’ing a short but thick, subby little femme alternating between her holes with her favorite toys and my fists.

[nbsrca]

A Woman's Place

A woman's place is in charge, a man's place is over her knee with his pants down.

[realbeefman]

chase probably hasn’t received an easter basket since he was tiny, maybe 8 years old, and it’s never been something he REALLY thinks about, even when he enters the seminary. but his first easter with cameron, she wakes him up early to surprise him with a tiny little basket with all the classic american candies because she “figured he didn’t have stuff like this back in australia”