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if that man don’t help you become the sexiest, healthiest, smartest, richest version of yourself .. let him go & do it alone

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Alignment, Gut Energy Center

The solar plexus is the power house of the chakras. Embodied by the knowledge of our own self worth, this is an evolution of the first two chakras with the addition of the confidence in your expression. Living in full autonomy and no regard for the voice of others opinions is the core of this energy center.

Affirmations

I can live the life of my dreams, regardless of anyone’s opinion.

I can have authentic, supportive, and mutually loving relationships of all kinds

I can feel all my emotions and still be worthy

I can fully express myself and still be aligned with my most abundant life

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Alignment, Reproductive / Creation Energy Center

The sacral chakra is the chakra of pleasure. This is embodied by our creativity and elevates the root chakra with the freedom of expression for our most authentic selves. The knowledge of we are all creators of our own lives and no one can create what comes from you is the key with this chakra.

Affirmations

I feel like the creator of my own reality

I feel at home in my body

I feel free to make any and all choices that align with me

I feel powerful when I create

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Alignment, Foot Sole Energy Center

The root chakra is the chakra of stability and grounding. This is embodied by strong boundaries and an unshakable knowledge of self. Your mindset is the core of this energy center.

Affirmations

I am strong

I am the artist of my own life

I am on the path of my most successful life

I am happy

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How To Unleash Your Inner Femme Fatale: Dark Feminine Energy

Attracting satisfaction – professionally, mentally, physically, sexually, and spiritually – is the secret of strong, seductive women.

Indulge in every aspect of your being:

Spend 20 minutes planning the next day

Focus on your most important 1-3 tasks that will generate the most impactful results

Read for least 30 minutes every day – self-development, to build a new skill set, stay updated on your industry

Set 5 main quarterly goals (work, finances, health, relationships, self-development)

Nourish your body with whole, plant foods and plenty of water

Take long walks daily

Do pilates, yoga, or other low-impact exercises to move and tone your body

Invest in clothes that make you feel your best – for the boardroom, bedroom, and everywhere in between

Find a beauty routine (hair, skincare, nails, makeup, perfume) that makes you feel your best

Make time every week to further explore your sexuality

Meditate for 10 minutes daily

Write down 3 affirmations that feel most powerful for you

Keep a reading list that you update regularly

Find a creative outlet and indulge in it at least 1-3 times weekly

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kindness feels like a slap to the face

andrea gibson / the ecstasy of st. theresa, avila josefa de óbidos / standard bitter love song #7, the mountain goats / tongues & teeth, the crane wives / crush, richard siken / bleeding heart dove, aaron fellmeth / fear & delight, the correspondents

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Serpentine

so crystals or gems, whatever you know them as, I like them. I could for sure believe that things have energy exchanged with everything.

serpentine has positive effects on your heart chakra. It’s got the music playing shit that’s really on a range of slightly sexually to straight 🦆 ing.

I’m realizing I never got the birds and the bees talk. So I guess I’ll give it to myself.

Before I start the first thing we need to know is there’s a difference between making love and casually sleeping with someone. when you casually sleep with someone you’re working together and making a new energetic bond to each other. Depending on the relationship with the person you can create a good and comfortable vibe or a bad uncomfortable one. So if you chose this one always be sure you have a good relationship with them first.

Making love is beautiful because you can only do it with someone you truly connect with. You laugh together, get to learn things about each other, and enjoy your time together. Its a lot more comfortable, more unified.

Always have discernment with every time you decide to sleep with someone. Make sure to see their test results before you decide to do anything, period. Make sure you set your boundaries with what your comfortable with is anything ever goes too far for you liking. Always pee afterwards. And don’t be afraid to let someone you trust know about your relationship so you always have someone who can be an hear for you. But DON’T emotionally dump. That’s not cool.

Okay lovey, that’s the talk. Do what you’re comfortable with and you don’t have to stick to one dating style forever. ALSO; neither dating style is perfect and like everything, has its ups and downs in experiences.

and remember that everyone is a reflection of you, if you’re having a bad time figure out why what happened mad you mad and whether. Everything is just a discussion away from a solution in all relationships.

kk. Luv ❣️

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imperfectly alone

Remember high school, most specifically test days. Omfg. That moment when you read a question and look around in hopes that you’ll meet someone else’s overwhelmed gaze.

You would think that the questions and knowledge from the test is what we took away most from but really, it’s that moment. The moment you felt lost but knew you had no real choice but to either give up or continue through.

If you feel this, you’re clearly not alone gui.

As a 20 smthing myself I can confidently say, that feeling is reoccurring. And don’t let you be actively working on something about yourself, it’s giving AP class vibes with more test moments than normal.

Is this suppose to be reassuring? Or just “yeah life’ll get your ass…. okay byeeee.”

Well, we did the latter so let’s try some reassurance. Uh… I went outside today. So that’s a thing. Sheesh this is harder than expected. Lol. Hey.

Yesterday I had this weird feeling that never really got explained so I just allowed myself to let the feeling ride out and not force myself out my comfort zone. Which usually I would be hard as sht on myself, you know the whole “YOU’RE GOING TO GO OUT AND YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE A FANTASTIC DAY!” but then i’m like “But it’s hot out there and I feel weird”

So I sat in, still got ready for the day of course. But that day was spent on the couch like a teenager staying home from school. Felt really refreshing honestly, I just needed that break. And not just from working but from adulting as a whole. (I don’t like that word but hey when you need it you need it)

Today, I woke up from a dream full of thrills, a perfectly landed plane by yours truly, and chilling with a women who me at any age thinks looked dope asf. The meaning of all that is for me to live with but it woke me up to a world of truths that my teenage self has been wanting conscious me to know.

Today I’ve been embodying these truths and come to realize that that nice polite behavior my child self was taught in order to be treated well isn’t my truth. I’m a 20 smthing now, I will be respected simply by being my most authentic self.

Simple Facts of Life by a wandering 20 smthing

I have no obligation to be extra respectful and nice to anyone in the hopes of receiving a fraction of that respect back.

I have no obligation to appear in a cute nice and “respectable” way in the hopes of being treated better than I would should I appear as my most authentic self.

My self expression is always my main priority. All else falls to the wayside.

My direction in life is not directed by anyone or anything but my own passions. I am not obligated to have my life laid out and completed before I get to enjoy it.

Well, that reassured me… if it didn’t for you then….

I Love You! …. Did that do it?

Oh well, we can’t please everyone. Here’s the songs that gave me this blog topic. Absolute bangers, Mr Mendes does not miss. I swear. Okay bye boo 👻

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how to make life a little better

we rise up, like a phoenix. start deep within to express and live out the organized chaos of life. when it’s organized it’s manageable and feels better in my experience

happy living! xoxo❣️sm