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forgot about this blog + been frontstuck for weeks this is so DIDcore

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DID is more than just having parts. Its also,

• amnesia

• confusion

• headaches

• nausea

• repeated childhood trauma

• anxiety

• spikes in fear. Anger. Or shame

• mood swings from parts

• body dysphoria

• depersonalization

• derealization

• self puzzlement

• loss of control

• flashbacks

• dizziness

And more.

DID is not "friends in your head" its traumatic, scary and uncomfortable. Its not fun it's a terrifying TRAUMA BASED disorder. And it should never be romanticized - Vesper

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how to grow the fuck up

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What if I just started going by a different name and pronouns and had different likes and ideas and memories and opinions and presented differently and acted differently... but like I'm still me though... no I'm not a system at all...

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go on a deep dive . find types that match you . week later go on another deep dive . oops wrong types . put on loop for rest of life

having disorders that cause identity confusion & being hyperfixated on typology is a match made in hell i think

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edit: this is primarily addressing minor systems!! any system can be put in danger by doing this, but minors are especially at risk.

this point has probably been made 700 times already but can we please stop normalizing putting every crumb of alter information into your intros/descriptions. i'm really tired of seeing people list their trauma holders & let their littles roam free online & minors listing their sexual protectors publicly, PLEASE stop putting targets on you. yeah your intro or pk description might look pretty but someone is going to take advantage of that information eventually and/or publicly blast you.

^ this also applies to triggers btw, even positive ones. you may think you're preventing something, but if you tell the internet not to do something then they're just gonna do it more, especially if your triggers are more obscure/"weird".

i say this as someone who used to do all of this too, i thought it was proving a point and showing the fakeclaimers that i really AM traumatized!! yeah no it doesn't work like that. don't try to prove yourself to people who will never listen to you, protect yourself please.

[partysystem]

edit: this is primarily addressing minor systems!! any system can be put in danger by doing this, but minors are especially at risk.

this point has probably been made 700 times already but can we please stop normalizing putting every crumb of alter information into your intros/descriptions. i'm really tired of seeing people list their trauma holders & let their littles roam free online & minors listing their sexual protectors publicly, PLEASE stop putting targets on you. yeah your intro or pk description might look pretty but someone is going to take advantage of that information eventually and/or publicly blast you.

^ this also applies to triggers btw, even positive ones. you may think you're preventing something, but if you tell the internet not to do something then they're just gonna do it more, especially if your triggers are more obscure/"weird".

i say this as someone who used to do all of this too, i thought it was proving a point and showing the fakeclaimers that i really AM traumatized!! yeah no it doesn't work like that. don't try to prove yourself to people who will never listen to you, protect yourself please.

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As a system myself, I’m not familiar with the traumagenic and endos labels.

Could you elaborate?

Thanks in advance 😊 ❤️

i'm unsure what this totally means so i'll give a tldr:

traumagenic is a label for systems formed by trauma, aka the only way a system can exist. it's sad that we even have to have this a label but endos lack the understanding of actual psychology.

endogenic is a label for systems who claim to be systems without trauma, which again, aint a thing!! they have a whole catalogue of "origins". if you hear a 'genic' that doesn't start with 'trauma', that's endo shit.

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what do u do after posting a banger

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“You can’t be a system!! You and ___ both do this!!!”

We still share a brain.

“You and ____ LOVEEE this!!”

We still share a brain.

“You and ____ talk very similarly!!!”

We still share a brain.

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funny enough i found a version of this in our drafts specifically addressing minors doing this, idk why it wasn't written out but:

this post IS addressing minor systems specifically!!!

i'm probably gonna edit that in for clarity lol ty ^^

this point has probably been made 700 times already but can we please stop normalizing putting every crumb of alter information into your intros/descriptions. i'm really tired of seeing people list their trauma holders & let their littles roam free online & minors listing their sexual protectors publicly, PLEASE stop putting targets on you. yeah your intro or pk description might look pretty but someone is going to take advantage of that information eventually and/or publicly blast you.

^ this also applies to triggers btw, even positive ones. you may think you're preventing something, but if you tell the internet not to do something then they're just gonna do it more, especially if your triggers are more obscure/"weird".

i say this as someone who used to do all of this too, i thought it was proving a point and showing the fakeclaimers that i really AM traumatized!! yeah no it doesn't work like that. don't try to prove yourself to people who will never listen to you, protect yourself please.

[partysystem]

edit: this is primarily addressing minor systems!! any system can be put in danger by doing this, but minors are especially at risk.

this point has probably been made 700 times already but can we please stop normalizing putting every crumb of alter information into your intros/descriptions. i'm really tired of seeing people list their trauma holders & let their littles roam free online & minors listing their sexual protectors publicly, PLEASE stop putting targets on you. yeah your intro or pk description might look pretty but someone is going to take advantage of that information eventually and/or publicly blast you.

^ this also applies to triggers btw, even positive ones. you may think you're preventing something, but if you tell the internet not to do something then they're just gonna do it more, especially if your triggers are more obscure/"weird".

i say this as someone who used to do all of this too, i thought it was proving a point and showing the fakeclaimers that i really AM traumatized!! yeah no it doesn't work like that. don't try to prove yourself to people who will never listen to you, protect yourself please.

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having disorders that cause identity confusion & being hyperfixated on typology is a match made in hell i think

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"was it dishes again" Yes

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"The future is plural"

No the fuck it isn't. Why would you want the future to be plural. You are just wishing for children to go through trauma, to be put through fucking harm to the point of where their brains cannot take it. If the future is plural than we as a society have fucked up and failed. We should not exist! It is not a good thing for us to exist! We exist due to repeated trauma in childhood. The future should NOT be plural.

- Vayu

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the "60+ score on the DES-II means it's imitative DID!!!" thing i've heard bounced around almost made sense before we realized: if you're further into your discovery and/or are in therapy/treatment, and your amnesia barriers lower, you're gonna remember how often you experience things more & thus result in a higher score. our score right before beginning therapy was ~50, now it's around 58 because we've realized that certain things happen more than we remember/realize.

tldr: if you've ever heard this """fact""" then i'm sorry you were lied to. also the study that it came from was done in 2001 so i wouldn't trust it anyway

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saw another fuckin post about how "the future is plural" brother you is on CRACK we dont WANT the future to be plural cause it means some people sucked so badly at being good parents or friends or classmates that someone developed an INCURABLE mental disorder that will never 100% go away.

fuckin endos. get over yourself. the futures not plural the future has less plurality because people are learnin how to treat kids well enough so they DONT get horrible trauma.

-Cassidy