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My experience:
"You haven't grown up yet!"
"You need to masturbate!"
Pride Month and The Aphobic Stereotypes
With Pride Month being here we will unfortunately see a lot of aphobia. The usual:
'you just haven't found the right one'
'are you x because you have suffered?'
'sex/romance is everything!'
'you're like an innocent child'
'you're a monster for not feeling (romantic) love'
'how can you write/draw smut or enjoy smut art if you're asexual?'
'how can you write/draw romance or enjoy romance art if you're aromantic?'
'you're going to die alone/be miserable without a partner!'
'that person't can't be your friend; must be your lover/crush'
No aphobia allowed. Asexuality and aromanticism is a spectrum. We're not all the same. I'm a sex-repulsed and romance-repulsed aro/ace. If you want to learn more research and kindly ask around. So Happy Pride Month to Aromantics, Asexuals, and Aroaces!
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Normalise bringing stim toys to exams, weddings, work meetings and other important events
#actually autistic#autistic adult#autistic things#autism spectrum#autism#adhd stuff#adhd mood#adhd problems#adhd brain#adhd#actually adhd#adult adhd#living with adhd#adhd things#autism spectrum disorder#audhd#neurodivergence#actually neurodiverse#neurodivergent#neurodiverse#neurodiversity#its the neurodivergency#neurodivergencies#neurodiverse stuff#neurospicy#stimming#normalize this
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reminder that donating just a few $ to gofundme campaigns actually helps, you don't have to donate huge amounts if you don't have the funds, every little bit is useful. give $10, $5, even $1. it all adds up. don't scroll past because you think you can't help. help in your own capacity. donate a dollar. share and speak up.
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Sometimes I hate my autism, I have a huge problem with establishing social connections and finding friends, and then I'm so lonely I'm trying to trick my brain by talking to the Chat GPT about my problems 🥲🥲🥲
At least I can pretend I'm in some dystopian sci fi show
#actually autistic#autistic adult#autistic things#autism spectrum disorder#autism#audhd#autism spectrum#mental health#this is a cry for help#i feel like shit
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I'm on this photo
ADHD & Oversharing
Future ADHD
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Just randomly posting the asexual flag to outnumber the supplement bots and get our hashtag back
DO THE SAME
#asexual spectrum#asexuality#asexual#asexual pride#spam bots#fight fight fight#get our hashtag back#fuck spam bots#ace mafia#aspec mafia#aaaaaaaaaa
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Sweet Jesus, now the asexual tag is spammed by bots advertising supplements and other shit
I'M SO MAD
TUMBLR DO SOMETHING
#asexual spectrum#asexual#asexuality#aromantic asexual#acespec#ace pride#ace spectrum#ace mafia#spam bots#tumblr bots#i hate this#do something#ace memes#ace#tumblr do something#aaaaaa#aaaaaaaaaa#im so angry#tumblr memes
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I use ADHD meds and I'm scared
I fucking knew it, I SAID it: they're making ADHD people the next culture war targets. They will 'just ask questions' until we lose every scrap of ground we've gained in the last decade and more. We may not quite inspire the same level of hatred as a sexual minority, but we can very easily be made to inspire disdain and that also works.
They will strip us of our accomodations and our medications and try to stifle any sense of shared identity, and if that kills some of us, oh well. So long as it fuels another outrage cycle, fine.
So many of the tropes they've been using on trans people work extremely well on ADHD people too! "There are too many of these people suddenly! It must be a fad! It spreads through friend groups! And online! People are going private for diagnoses and that's bad! They are using pOwERfUl medical interventions and we think it's freaky!"
I saw the first ripples of this in terf circles about two years ago. And of course it's spread.
6% of British ADHD people lost their jobs in the last year thanks to the meds shortage. SIX PER CENT! And that just made these ghouls go "ooh, tasty, what else can we do?"
Recently an 'expert' was on the BBC saying people see ADHD diagnosis as a "golden ticket." Laurence Fox has been ranting that the condition doesn't exist and threatening "'you won't poison my child's body [with ADHD meds] against my consent"
People need to be aware this is going to get worse. Maybe, if we're lucky, it won't get really bad. But it's going to get worse than it is now.
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Take a look at this luscious Lucius
🍷Who’s here for femDaddy! Lucius Malfoy?
You know he raids Narcissa’s wardrobe when he’s drunk, just to prove he wears it better.
Thank you for the request!
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help how to stop daydreaming about my fanfic and start writing
#fanfiction#fandom#writer thoughts#i'll write it#ao3 writer#writing#writers on tumblr#writers and poets#writerscommunity#writeblr#i love fanfiction#fanfic#i need help#pls help#help
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It’s okay to not want to have sex ever. It’s okay to never even try it.
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I went to a bad psychotherapist and she made me realize I'm non binary
I told her I'm autistic and it influences my life in every aspect
And she got overheated and said
"NO, YOU'RE NOT A DIAGNOSIS, AGATA. YOU'RE A WOMAN. I SEE A WOMAN. NOT A LABEL."
No
I do not vibe with "womanity"
I vibe with my autism label
I DON'T WANT TO BE A WOMAN. I WANT TO BE AN AUTISTIC HUMAN BEING
#nonbinary#autistic adult#actually autistic#autism spectrum disorder#autism#autism spectrum#autistic things#audhd#its the neurodivergency#neurodiverse stuff#neurodivergent#actually neurodiverse#neurodiversity#neurodivergence#neurodiverse#non binary#queer#i think im non binary
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My freshest Drarry fic!
Title: Hand in Hand to Nowhere
Characters: Draco and Harry
Word count: 4k
Tags: There Was Only One Bed, Open Ending, Horror Elements, Cuddling, Holding Hands
Fragment:
"I'm asking you, what are you doing, Malfoy?"
"Potter. The hero of Hogwarts saving the world again," Draco tried to sound ironic, but it didn't come off well. His voice cracked.
"If the world didn't have losers like you, I'd have a lot less work to do."
"What do you want from me?"
"Answer my questions. What are you doing?"
"I'm... fixing the wardrobe."
"Is it broken?"
"Yes."
"Why are you fixing it?"
"I have to."
"Because?"
"Because I want to stuff you in it and set it on fire," Malfoy somehow managed to keep calm and joke, though Harry saw that his enemy was trembling.
#fanfiction#ao3#ao3 fanfic#draco malfoy#harry potter fanfiction#hp fanfic#draco x harry#drarry#ao3 link#ao3fic#ao3 writer#new fanfic#harry potter#there was only one bed
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Forgot I never showed my poster designs for this pride month
I did this for uni
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