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Hot take. People act so weird about factives and fictives who date. People are already weird to fictives who are dating and don't share a source, and it only gets worse when it's a factive and a fictive. Be normal please.

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as a system of colour, I just want to set stuff straight about alter race.

alters can have different skin colours to the body, but that does not make them a different race than the body. skin colour is just part of someone's appearance while race has multiple factors to it such as culture.

being a poc is an experience that only someone who is bodily a poc will understand, hence why "alter race" is just impossible.

it's like how an adult alter in a minor bodied system will not have the same mentality as an actual adult since the brain only has the experience of a minor to base that alter off of.

also I know that I've been focusing on poc, but this applies to any race

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hot take?? it's okay to be wrong about things. that's it that's the post it's fine to be wrong about things pertaining to your system. whatever you're having jump to your mind? yeah that's what i mean

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seeing an endogenic call themselves a system gives me the same feeling as when a straight girl calls herself a twink, slightly confused but yas bitch slayyy

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sometimes [plurality] is "haha people in brain"

but most of the time its:

"fuck wait when did it become [time] why am i on my phone didnt i need to make dinner? oh no who am i whats going on"

*constant vague flashbacks as people float in and out of front*

"oh god when did i get here where am i?"

*deep dissociation*

*being unable to care for myself due to dissociation*

"i do this all the time why cant *i* do this why can i not remember?"

*forgetting important or even just every day things*

*can never think clearly*

*too many voices and thoughts that arent mine*

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Don't date someone unless you can't handle all their disorders, let me repeat Do not date someone unless you can handle ALL their disorders

Don't date someone with a personality disorder unless you can handle the episodes

Do not date someone with a trauma disorder can you can handle the flashblacks

Do not date someone with mood disorder unless you can handle the mood swings

Do not date someone with a disorder you cannot handle

Do not date someone if you're going to villainize them or their disorders

Do not date someone if you're going to romanticize their disorders

It shows you have little to no understanding of their disorders or who they are as a person, it shows you can't truly love them because you refuse to learn the basics of the disorder, and it shows just how much of a shitty person you are

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system protip: if trying to keep track of your switches and fragments feels impossible and is driving you crazy, stop doing it. or at the very least dont put as much weight into making it perfect. you dont need to track every switch, you dont need every fragment logged. sometimes its easier to just exist as a system than drive yourself up the wall trying to micromanage everything about your complex disorder

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i love you systems who call your alters "parts"

i love you systems who call your alters "alters"

i love you systems who call your alters "headmates"

i love you systems who call your alters "voices"

i love you systems who call your alters swears

i love you systems who call your alters things that are silly, weird, or normal

dont let anyone tell you what to call them <3

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“You can’t be a system!! You and ___ both do this!!!”

We still share a brain.

“You and ____ LOVEEE this!!”

We still share a brain.

“You and ____ talk very similarly!!!”

We still share a brain.

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“introjects aren’t their source” until its a true crime factive

“introjects aren’t their source” until its a problematic person

“introjects aren’t their source” until its an introject of someone you like

“introjects aren’t their source” until its an introject of someone you hate

“introjects aren’t their source” until they act nothing like source

“introjects aren’t their source” until they act exactly like source

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unfriendly reminder.

No, splits are not *only* caused by severe/extreme trauma. After the disorder is formed your brain will split as it feels is needed. Someone's for stress, sometimes to lessen the load of another trauma holder ect. If you are hyperfixating or watching a show and have strong feelings about a character it's possible that new split or fragment will attach to that characters identity. Stop Fakeclaiming and bring assholes to people who split easily, often, or are fictive heavy. You are only causing harm. Stop fucking Fakeclaiming in general. YOU ARE ONLY CAUSING HARM.

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If you grew up constantly apologizing and then apologizing for apologizing and you were/are afraid (or unable) to express your emotions and feelings because it was seen as “manipulative”, or for any reason, I love you and I hope you’re having a good day

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*remembers something from our childhood I had forgotten about*

-1 HP

-1 HP

-1 HP

-1 HP

-1 HP

-1 HP

-1 HP

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for the ask game!!

- @cytochrome-system

yes, our system is mostly nonhuman actually

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"you cant use your disabilities an excuse"

there are many reasons why a disability will disable someone. before you call it an excuse, maybe try considering why their disability, visible or invisible, effects their abilities.

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‘Reblog if [something normal]!!’ No. Stop.

You want internet points. You dont care about male victims, you dont care about women. You dont care about kids. You care about the internet points that they will get you.

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by the way. uh. introjects do not take years to form. they can take years, but they're just like any other alter and do not necessarily NEED to and they follow by the same logic as 'brainmade' alters. can't believe i have to say this. they can split already formed, or take a short time to form

it'd be hella weird if it was introjects in specific that took 1+ year to form everytime in every system