T4T extends to friendship
if you're T4T and exclude, alienate, gossip, and make other trans people feel uncomfortable or unloved; then you aren't T4T
just because we share trans identity DOESNT mean we are automatically friends, it DOENT mean we are besties now, but it DOES mean we should make an effort to make each other feel loved and included. we are all in this shitstorm together
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A Proposal to Solve the Pronoun Culture Battle
I was thinking the other day that there are already gender-neutral second person singular pronouns in modern (if archaic) English: thee, thou, thy, thine, and singular ye. I propose we make a serious effort and bring them back.
Even though they are not used in everyday speech often, people still understand them almost intuitively.
Usage
Thee - means singular you, her, or him as the subject of a sentence: I give thee thy book.
Thou - informal singular you, she, or he as the object of a sentence: Thou have/has many of thine odds and ends strewn about!
Thy - singular possessive pronoun as your, her, or his when preceding a word stating with a consonant: Thy nose is warty and misshapen, ye varlet!
Thine - singular possessive pronoun for words starting with a vowel: I dream of thine eyes of tawny gold, so bright and beautiful are they.
Ye - singular or plural second person form of you - Fly thee away, ye scalawag, before thy buttocks be thoroughly kicked!
You - formal singular or plural pronoun as the subject of a sentence. You are the Mayor of Burgerville, Mayor McCheese. Thank you for your efforts to build this community library! This use as formal will probably be disregarded, but that’s the historical context.
Your - formal singular or plural possessive pronoun: get off my lawn, you cretinous urchins; your lawn darts are ruining my daffodils!
She, He - gendered second person singular pronouns. S/he has been dancing on the roof in the rain; I hope she doesn’t fall off!
Me - first person as object: Jennifer threw the football in a perfect spiral to me; thirty meters is an amazing distance!
My, Mine - first person possessive pronouns where the next word starts with a consonant or vowel respectively: my book was sitting upon mine octagonal coffee table. I know this an archaic usage, but it would bookend with thy and thine nicely.
Just as an aside, mine and my had also been used as thine and thy had been used: before vowel led or consonant led words.
In my opinion, the gendered pronouns would eventually be used less frequently eventually, because in most instances, the gender of the person is not relevant. That would probably take a generation or two to come to fruition.
So, we have: I, me, my, mine, she, her, hers, he him, his, thou, thee, thy, thine, ye, you, your, yours, they, them, theirs.
This also solves the problem of singular they referring to a known individual, although it will still be used to refer to singular and plural unknown persons and known and unknown things.
There, I’ve solved the pronoun problem!
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