#you can be non binary and gay!!!!!!!
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The "robot/alien learns how to love" trope is just aphobia btw.
#i could write a whole essay#i mean i did talk about this in my pinned essay but it's not the main thesis#but fundamentally if this was any other orientation. if this was a gay non human who learnt how to love the opposite binary gender-#you would all understand intuitively#but aromanticism and asexuality aren't viewed as real orientations so people don't care#like if someone uses the labels you go âoh alright i'm a queer/an ally i gotta respect thatâ but this is fake acceptance#bc if someone shows a lack of interest without using those labels the default response is âthere's something wrong with youâ#âyou're lyingâ âyou just haven't met the right person who will fix youâ âyou're repressedâ#and this attitude makes it into fiction where they make fantasies of fixing the poor non human aroace so they can be a real person#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aphobia#foenixed.txt
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What if we were Funko Pop! Star Wars - The Mandalorian #461 and #482 and we were DinLuke-ing
(no background version and my IRL bobble dads below)
nyeheheheh
#star wars#the mandalorian#din djarin#luke skywalker#dinluke#skydalorian#grogu#funko pop#clan of three#clan of four technically#GROGU HAS A TWIN#Mr. Funko please hire me so I can make your bobbleheads gay#this was so much fun to draw after my brutal hell stats midterm#It's been a hot minute since I've drawn something this detailed#ONCE AGAIN THE NON-BINARY URGE TO MAKE THIS A STANDEE IS KICKING HARD#but I literally have no idea how and I sure as hell can't sell shit from my dorm room :'(#literally if you have those kinds of resources DM me for the image file just mail me one too pls#sol draws the space gays
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Anya taking care of Dylan after medical things. Whether it be surgery, medication with side effects, period cramps, other pains â Sheâs there for them. Cuddling them, showing them in affection, just being so gentle with them. If theyâre cold, she wraps them up in their favorite soft blankets, and gathers up their favorite plushies. If theyâre hot, she makes sure the AC is working, constantly making sure they donât overheat. If theyâre hungry, sheâll make them food in bed. She constantly makes sure to stock up on their comfort foods.
Sheâll hold them in bed, stroking their hair and not letting them get up to do much if she can. If they need food, water, anything â She has it covered. If they need reassurance, theyâll get that too. If theyâre having trouble sleeping, sheâll hum to them. Sheâll lay there, one hand on their cheek, stroking it with her thumb as she mutters sweet nothings to them. Sheâll hold them against her chest, telling them to pay attention to her heartbeat, or cuddle them from behind, idly tracing shapes into their soft skin.
Sheâll help them bathe, too. Sheâll start a warm bath â Not too hot, as she knows hot baths can overstimulate them sometimes. Sheâll sit behind them, getting those hard to reach places, or washing their hair for them. Sometimes, theyâll even nearly fall asleep as she works her soft hands along their body.
When theyâre not feeling well, they know they can just melt into her arms. They trust her with their life. I mean, she saved it. They wouldnât be where they are without her. Theyâre so grateful for her, they can hardly put their appreciation into words, but theyâre amazing with expressing it through actions.
âYouâre okay, angel⊠I promiseâŠâ
âThatâs just a side effect, itâll pass⊠Shh..â
âOh, baby⊠I know you donât like being dizzy⊠Youâll be okay⊠i got you sweetie, okay? You know i do.â
âCome on, eat up before it gets cold.â
âOh, you⊠Youâre so dramatic.. Come here.â
âYour wifeâs got you, sweet thing.â
âIs this why you married me? So you could be laaazy? Have me do eeeeverything for you? Nooo, iâm just teasing. You know i adore taking care of you, lovely.â
ââŠI would do everything for you, you know.â
âI could lay here like this forever.â
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op is anyaâs wife ~ đ©”
#polle says: imagine#polle says: đ©”đ#polle says: drabble#mouthwashing#anya mouthwashing#yumeship#yumeshipper#nonsharing yumeshipper#dylanya#polle says: wife yearning#wlw#non binary loving women#women loving women#yume imagines#iâm up at 3 am writing GAY shit. course i am#you can always count on me to do that LMAOOO#god i love them so bad itâs insane#soulmates⊠theyre soulmates your honor
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Happy Pride once again!
Be yourself >:D Have Fun! Express yourself!! :3
Homophobics be Darned..
#Itâs important to try And make sure youâre Comfortable#:3#pride#lgqbt#lgbtqia#pride month#lgbtq community#happy pride#aromantic#gay#lesbian#pansexual#bisexual#non binary#transgender#genders#lgbtqa+#gay people#hehe..#asexual#aroace#You can express yourself ANY DAY Tho!!
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sometimes a family is a tiefling, her cheater mom, her mom's werewolf boyfriend, the werewolf boyfriend's niece, the niece's girlfriend, the werewolf's adopted oracledaughter, the tiefling's pathetic non biological dad, his new elf girlfriend, his girlfriend's pirate son who kind of hates him, the tiefling's biological dad, his goblin girlfriend, the goblin girlfriend's detective son, and a half orc with gnome parents
#caro I'm sorry for stealing your post and making it mine unfortunately I'm currently watching fantasy high sophomore year#if you want to be even more expansive with the found family thing. you can include another half orc (this one is gay)#an autistic coded half phoenix#half phoenix's non binary guardian#and of course. pirate maid
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I'm afraid I really cannot donate, at least as of right now, but if any of my followers see this and can donate, please do so đđ
the link to their gofundme: https://gofund.me/6930e2d7
#donate if you can#kenya#queer community#gay#wlw#mlm#gay man#bisexual#transgender#transfem#transmasc#bigender#genderfluid#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#non binary#sapphic#lesbian#asexual#aromantic#demiromantic#demisexual#please reblog
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Have you heard about this project?
đ"PRIDE BANK"đ: An inclusive bank for a united community
Built on the principles of inclusivity, respect and equality, Pride Bank is a revolutionary banking project designed to meet the specific needs of LGBTQ+ people. Conceived in 2018, this ambitious project aims to offer an inclusive financial alternative, allowing everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, to access essential banking services.
A bank without discrimination Pride Bank promises to put an end to the financial discrimination often experienced by members of the LGBTQ+ community. It commits to:
Offering banking without discrimination, allowing the opening of bank accounts simply and securely. Offering equitable access to credit, in particular to finance personal and professional projects, or steps such as transition operations. Supporting LGBTQ+ entrepreneurship by providing suitable financial tools and actively supporting initiatives led by members of the community.
A Dual Global Location Pride Bank plans a dual headquarters to embody its global mission:
đșđžSilicon Valley, California: A symbol of technological innovation and inclusion. đ§đ·SĂŁo Paulo, Brazil: A strategic stepping stone to serve Latin America, where the đLGBTQ+ communityđ faces unique challenges but also immense potential for economic development.
A vision for 2026-2027 The project, currently in the reflection phase, is facing many challenges, particularly due to global political upheavals. The inauguration of Donald Trump has slowed down certain aspects of development in the United States, but Pride Bank remains determined to see the light of day in 2027, by integrating innovative solutions to bypass regulatory and societal obstacles.
Technological and sustainable ambitions Relying on modern technologies such as blockchain to secure transactions and artificial intelligence to personalize services, Pride Bank also aims to integrate sustainable practices, by committing to minimizing its carbon footprint and supporting ecological projects led by the LGBTQ+ community.
A project in co-creation with the community Pride Bank wishes to actively involve the LGBTQ+ community in its creation process. Consultations will be organized to identify priority needs and co-construct truly adapted financial services.
Towards a new era of inclusive financial services By placing people and equality at the heart of its model, Pride Bank aspires to become much more than a bank: a true life partner, committed to the economic and social emancipation of the LGBTQ+ community. Stay connected for this bold adventure. Together, let's make Pride Bank a real reality and not a fantasy!đ
#lgbtq#california#lgbt#lgbt pride#gay#lgbtq community#bank#queer community#queer artist#lgbtqia#queer christian#gay community#trans community#non binary#woke agenda#anti woke#future#projet#donald trump#donate if you can#trans pride#gay pride#trans woman#transgender#tgirl#pride
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QUEER JOY
So last night my partner asked if they could surprise me with a hangout and they took me to a BUTCH vs FEMME OLYMPICS NIGHT!!!!!
We drove an hour to this event space that has a lot of queer nights and it was a DREAM!!!!
there was a relay race that involved putting on a harness and watering a houseplant
the Butch team made me swoon so hard there was an, adam sandler type, a James Dean type, and just every other flavor of butch. The MC was a Very handsome short jewish butch wearing a wifehelper with her hair all slicked back!!! The Judge was the Brooklyn winner of the Twinks vs Dolls competition!!!!
there were so many people saying âiâm butch⊠Tonight!!â and âiâm for the femmes, Most of the timeâ and there was a Secret Third Thing category and they were all so beautiful!!!!
I got to see queer people wrestle to eat a piece of candy off of the others ankle where it was tied, i saw a beautiful non-binary person preform burlesque in a challenge to seduce the judge!!!! in the poetry contest this Very handsome Secret Third Thing got up and said âmy voice may be dropping, but i still wonât be toppingâ and the crowd went Wild.
I was invited to smoke weed by a really tall femme in a sick ass goth outfit a mere 15 minutes after i saw her wrestle her butch to the floor. she gave me the gentlest touch on the shoulder and said âweâre going to go have weed, if youâd like to come. you seem lovelyâ
A Very very handsome butch with her shirt half unbuttoned and her hat slightly askew from the other butches roughhousing gave me the most charming sideways grin as she walked by
there was a small group of millennial gay guys hanging at the bar that just seemed so happy and content to be there and witness the shenanigans in their very normal old navy clothes.
The bartender was in drag and while i was outside smoking, they kicked someone out and used the most Protective and fierce voice to say âLeave this building NOW. DO NOT COME BACKâ i tipped them heavily and thanked them for keeping us all safe before i went home.
Not a SINGLE person questioned or looked confused or upset at whoever looking however they wanted stepping up to be on either team.
I got to be with my community and it fucking HEALED me
Thank you to my partner. they know what i needed and brought me to it đ
#THIS IS YOUR SIGN TO MAKE THE TRIP#I LIVE IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE#AND I BET A BUNCH IF YOU DO TOO#BUT IT CAN BE DONE!!!#GONFIND YOUR PEOPLE#iâm fucking Ecstatic#it has spoken#queer#butch#butch femme#femme#femme lesbian#femme queer#queer femme#queer butch#butch queer#non-binary#gay community#lgbt community
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i re-came out at work in order to like, subtly remind people to use they/theirs and immediately got she/her-ed by a coworker
#this is what happens when everyone you work with is at least a decade older than you#rani makes text posts no one will read#work tag#i felt so dumb wasting my fun fact on being non-binary & trying to transition but i was like.#maybe if i gently lead them theyâll notice. đ itâs like listen i know she was born in the late 60s but đđ#i told them i was bisexual too just cuz like why not#i know all you bitches are married iâve met 80% of their spouses u can hear im gay#my old lady bestie told us she lost her engagement 11 years ago so she stopped wearing her band too & told her husband it was the arthritis#FOR ELEVEN YEARS THIS MAN HAS NO IDEA SHE NO LONGER HAS HER DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING#SHE MADE US ALL COMPLICIT AKSKDKDKKDKDJD i love her so fucking much iâm gonna miss her when she retires
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From the person who brought you such posts as"im so fucking gay for Melanie Cavill" and later "I'm so fucking gay for Ruth Wardell"
I am so fucking gay for every character on this show
#Literally like. Since getting here I realised I'm non binary so now I can be gay in every direction#Which makes so much sense because daveed diggs and aleks paunovic#I'm pretty sure I lamented to some of you that whilst it emphasised my gay the show actually made me more bi and I was very confused#Turns out my sexuality wasn't wrong just my gender#I'm gay 4 all of u#Except Ben
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i donât really post about politicis but tomorrow we have elections here in argentina, and its very likely that a far right misogynistic asshole who just wants to sell our country away will win. iâm so fucking nervous
#he is literally so scary and disgusting#he negates the atrocities that the dictatorship did in the 70s-80s#wants to take our right of a free education and free health care#iâm so fucking sad think about what my country will become if he wins#the worst thing is there isnât any other good candidate. they all suck#the vice president candidates believes misogyny doesnt exist because she was never treated less by men. how can you be that stupid#they are also against non-binary/trans/gay people of course#and against abortion#argentina
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On the one hand, I want to take people who want to invalidate parts of [redacted] character's sexuality and shake them. I'm personally over here romancing him with a bi woman who frequently flirts with gender (that ends up genderfluid), her AU version I am also romancing him with is a bi man (who also flirts with gender). In the origin PT I am romancing Gale, but I also fuck with the Karlach and Wyll ships. I personally could not interact with this character in a more bisexual way.
But all of that is irrelevant, because the whole point of bi/pansexuality is that they are attracted to more than one gender. They are not required to literally be fucking every single permutation of that spectrum to validate that identity. Denying any aspect of it is literally erasing it. How you interact with the chararcter does not change their sexuality.
[Redacted] could exclusively flirt with every straight femme person in the Forgotten Realms, if he then said 'but Sebastian was my first love' he would still be fucking pansexual. They do not have to be fucking every single gender at once to be pansexual. They remain pansexual in every variation, regardless of their partner's orientation. If that makes you uncomfortable, you might want to examine your bipanphobia and/or misogyny. Unsurprisingly, the two are linked.
#fandom critical#i want to launch some of the takes I've been seeing cropping up directly into the sun#no 'this character is gay to me' is not an acceptable thing to say???#what the fuck is wrong with you#can you imagine going Dorian dragon age? oh yeah he's straight to me#choosing to ignore bipan characters is JUST AS BAD AND I WILL NOT BE TAKING ANY PUSHBACK ON THAT#the fact it's even a discourse is actually wild to me#monosexuals be normal about non-binary orientations challenge impossible
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Normalize non-binary characters who don't dress like total dorks. Normalize non-binary characters who don't remind you of the most exhausting person you knew in drama class. Normalize non-binary characters who look like they'd be happiest bombing around rugged terrain in a 1987 Ford Ranger Bigfoot Cruiser they restored themselves.
Normalize non-binary characters who've never painted so much as a toenail and have no inclination to do so.
Normalize non-binary characters who are hairy, heavy, sweaty, and whose favourite musical group is The California Raisins. Normalize non-binary characters who you can't identify from the other side of a warehouse by sight.
Normalize non-binary characters who look and act like a diverse group of people you might meet in your everyday life because god damn am I sick to death of shows getting praised for 'representation' that never stops feeling like a caricatured Other.
#non-binary#queer#enby#characters#yes I am watching Star Trek Discovery#yes its version of queer feels like it had to pass through six comittees of studio execs#yes its cringey as hell and no amount of 'but isn't it GOOD to see ourselves on screen at all' can makeup for how false it feels#I'm old enough to remember the 90s/00s and the first gay characters we were supposed to applaud for breaking barriers#they were all the same guy#the same catty sexless asshole#(Remember Second City's 'Sassy Gay Friend'? No? Man I'm old)#and it honestly did more harm than good because The Gay was always The Other#and rather than teach the lesson that 'a gay can be anyone around you'#it instead taught the world 'how to recognize a gay'#and even within the queer community we still internalize those fucking paradigms today#see: every self-doubt post going 'am I really [x] if I don't [y]#imagine how much freer the queer community would be if we hadn't internalized that sense of checklist gatekeeping#Am I really gay if i'm not an enormous tool like Kurt Hummel?#and so on#we don't take a lot of steps forward#we take a lot of steps sideways and call it progress because there's technically movement
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âBut can you REALLY be a lesbian if-â Iâll kill you. Say that to me again and Iâll kill you. Actually.
#dimaposting#can you REALLY be gay if youâre non-binary dude?#this person is in what they describe as a gay relationship with another man and yet somehow non-binary lesbians are a bridge too far for hi
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A little update on what i'm working on. This piece involves my 5 main characters of my story (that will probably stay a WIP for years to come).
This will be the first time i draw 3 of these characters and giving them concrete designs. Establishing colours on them is especially hard since i want to have matching colors on them but also want them to be distinct in terms of theming.
In other words, I have only one person's colors down and set. Still, I'm glad I got the design down enough to make a piece of art of them togheter.
Lineart is next and I may or may not make a timelapse of my process. Dunno tho.
Shit is still up in the air.
#digital art#original art#sketch#my art#berry's art#two of em are gay and one is trans#can you guess who?#the other is non-binary#there is only one cis-het here and that person is 100% an ally
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I'm genderfluid, but that's flowing from the butchiest dyke you ever saw to the flamingest fag you ever saw, with lil run offs/stops at to What The Fuck and I Don't Care. You might never know which one I am on a particular day or even moment bc my fashion is almost exclusively androgenous punk and/or emo. Hope this helps <3
#lgbtq#trans#i am both#sapphic#and#achillian#but gender is not a factor in what im attracted to#do you see what i mean#terfs please fuck off#i can do whatever i want forever <3#gay#non-binary#genderfluid#pansexual
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