#you are allowed to ship things i dont like
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tbh, one of the things I can't wait to be over with this campaign is the idea that any real person's engagement with feminism is somehow tethered to whether or not/how much they like imogen and laudna (and additionally, having the concept of lesbophobia attached to whether you enjoy the ship between them). i feel like every single time there's been a word of criticism about their behavior or development, it's immediately been met with a cry (in certain circles) that anyone being critical isn't feminist and doesn't support sapphic relationships, which has been a WILD experience on my end as a stan blog for a female character who has notable sapphic ships. but none of that has mattered in the wake of these two SPECIFIC characters. like they're the linchpins of feminism and all sapphics around the world, and to dislike or even just be mildly critical of them proves you have disavowed your rights to be a feminist. or queer yourself. if i am eager for ANYTHING to be over, it is that
#like i'm sorry it's known i dont fuck with their ship#but i have come out of this as strongly disliking laudn/a which. IS ALLOWED#you can't revoke my feminist card (that you do NOT have access to anyway)#because i don't fuck with your personal blorbo!#one of these people one time left a comment of a fic of mine in a different fandom that was sapphic and i laughed so hard about it#like. if only you knew whomst i was and the accusations i had received. lol. lmao even#and this is simply a parable against assuming things like one's status regarding feminism and sapphic fiction when you DON'T KNOW THEM#the most extreme response is rarely if ever the one you should just automatically jump to#perhaps i simply don't like a character or ship because of something to do with the character or ship#and there is NO reason to apply an -ism or a -phobia to make me into a bad guy for simply not liking what you like#anyway#i HOPE this goes away after the campaign ends at least#cr tag
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Eddie hate is exhausting tbh, would love not to see it
#at least its tagged????#this is about fics btw#like you do you but eddie is Buck's bestie and he and tommy are friends#tbd#kayla.txt#like not even a buddietommy thing#though I ship them hard#its just not fun to see character bashing#and I already see enough of it in the tag with tommy#like eddie is a great character I love him#being on the sidelines of this fandom and then being in it during the WORST time is wild#like a person is allowed to dislike a character#and Im allowed to complain about that#BUT BE FUCKING NORMAL ABOUT IT#anyways i dont like seeing it in the bucktommy tag
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ugh, just woke in the middle of the night thinking about how in season 10, carol said to daryl "you don't have to be alone" only a few episodes after they planned to run away together. Idk, it never occurred to me before that daryl was prob thinking "damn how did we get from running away together to now she thinks I'm gonna be alone if I don't make a move on another woman".
#it makes me sad idk#like at the time I really thought daryl felt happy to be spending more time with carol now and then shes like shipping him with ppl and he's#like nah I just wanna chill with you#but I never made the connection before about that sharp contrast between lets run away together and you'll be alone if you dont date someone#dont mind me just hyperfixating season 10 bc its the last time I truly feel like we were allowed nice things#i miss you season 10#caryl
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alright, im getting sick of the “m/f ships can be alright guys trust me! they can be bisexual!!” posts ive been seeing lately. i know it is such an insignificant thing to get mad at because its not like the broader community of straight people are starving for representation but i am loooosing my mind seeing people left and right try to claim that m/f ships can Only be good if one or both members are bisexual or if the writer is bisexual. god like WHAT media are you people consuming that makes you think there has never been a well written heterosexual romance in all of human history. call me a hetjoshi i love heterosexuals okay. sue me!
#i just do nottttt get why this is a thing people have to defend in this exact manner#open up your minds to the beauty of heterosexual romance and drama or ! if you find it boring or unrelatable#you do not have to pursue media which contains it. you dont. youre allowed to stick to f/f and m/m or whatever else#i guess i just dont get the angle of saying that the Most represented form of romance is somehow lacking in bangers#you can want more bi m/f thats always Good thats a Good Thing but it is not the way to make m/f ships ‘better’#you actually have to like#work for that
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Hywel is inspired by a mix of my issues with stories with nonhuman protagonist/about nonhumans becoming human AND vet posts ive seen warning people about the dangers of anthropomorphisizing animals. Its fine to joke about your pets doing things out of spite or other human emotions, it does put you at risk of not being able to read their body language correctly. Cats dont cry out of sadness, a cat crying, with actual tears streaming down its face, is a sign of a medical issue. A dog smiling isn't doing it bc its happy, it means its nervous. Not being able to spot these is bad, and sometimes even dangerous, for you and the animal.
If you never get past Hywel's human appearance and treat him like one its like getting a reactive dog, doing zero research or training, and then taking it to a dog park. If Hywel mauls someone in town then its on you.
#hywel struggles a lot with good vs bad things specifically#he makes decisions based on what makes him feel good or bad (like most people) but#if you explain something being bad to him using emotional reasons (it makes you a bad person‚ its an awful thing to do‚ its gross)#he genuinely will not get it#he'll try to stop! just bc he was told to stop! but he doesn't know how to apply it to other situations#murder for example#he's immortal death doesnt have the same meaning to him#and he doesn't particularly care about people outside of arisen#they're entertaining he finds them fun. they're critters to him#but he's not bothered by them dying#arisen dying is bad bc it means he failed his charge. he cant die. regular people dying? eh whatever#so he doesn't really get why murder is bad#if ur in vernsworth and tell him no then he'll be like i dont understand but ok!!#its only bad in vernsworth bc thats where you said no at!! everywhere else is fine !#he's not trying to find loopholes!!! he genuinely doesn't get it and is doing his best to work with what he's given!!!#his way of thinking is p straightforward and logical though#so you have to explain stuff by how it effects him and how the cons of doing it outweigh the benefits#hywel u cant murder people you dont like bc if we allowed that people would kill merchants and then you couldn't buy stuff#anyway bonus scifi au stuff while im here#hywel would remember the time loops and would do whatever it takes to keep the crew safe#but the thing is. cosmic horror hywel doesn't really understand time or how the loops are fucking people up#he knows the false dawn losing its crew was bad. he doesn't understand WHY its bad‚ but he knows it is#and he loves this crew! theyre funny and some of them are fun to chew on. enrichment.#he's gonna do whateve it takes to keep this crew safe and together. on the ship. y'know‚‚‚ bc the other ship losing its crew was bad#restarting a loop means nothing to him. yeah he's gotta start over with his friendships but thats fun! enrichment!#hes a creature time means nothing to him#beginning of the loop all his friends are here :^) he's completely unaware of how its negatively effecting people#anyway i cannot stress enough he isn't doing this to be malicious he's just doing his best#someone would absolutely realize he was doing this early on and if you tell him to stop he will#but yeah better hope you can explain why he cant do that well enough or hywels gonna unintentionally find every loophole
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✨ venting ✨
#sometimes i feel like i dont make myself clear enough and i come off as very anti b/ddie but like im not i promise i sincerely would love it#and i like the idea of it but it gets so frustrating seeing people swear up and down every fucking season that its going to happen#like you're allowed to enjoy it unless it goes canon and you have a ten page essay on WHY it should go canon and thats just 🪓🪓🪓#like idk maybe im in the wrong spaces but i feel like ive accumulated a very anti b/ddie audience and that was not ny intention#i just wanna vent about how frustrating it is to see ppl try to convince themselves every little thing = b/ddie when like maybe it doesn't#and that should be fine yknow like youre sucking all of the flavor out of these characters by insisting theres something there that isnt#when there is actually a lot of natural chemisty between the characters and a good foundation for their relationship#that you dilute because no here look they were in the same frame that means b/ddie canon in season 14#like the metas ill see are just see here they looked at each other#when you dont have to do that. the ship speaks for itself. the will reveal. the well situation. the sniper arc. like ALL OF THAT means smth#like the b/cktommy deal. tommy can be important to buck OUTSIDE of how important eddie is. it doesn't have to threaten their relationship#but you let it and you come off as insane and insecure because every little fucking thing has to be about b/ddie and its like jfcccc
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reading a chiluc piece going well until it says (mid heated i-hate-you makeout session) that childe reminds diluc of kaeya and he doesnt want to face that. i dont think i have ever clicked off a fic faster
#😰when will they invent a function that allows me to filter out a ship that isnt even tagged#sometimes that's not enough you should be able to form a telepathic connection w the author#to find out their stance on adoptive sibling incest#complaining tag#childe was like. looking for zhongli in diluc and diluc.. looking for kaeya.. eugh#could have been a very fun concept actually if not for the obvious#like id enjoy that dynamic. chiluc isnt an endgame sort of thing to me anyway i dont think theyd be capable of a established relationship#anyways
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with every new collector monster high release i become more and more convinced that theyre just deciding the prices at random because what the fuck makes fang vote rochelle worth 90 dollars when they just sold that chucky and tiffany two pack for 90 dollars and none of these dolls look like they should cost 90 dollars anyway
#also what makes every other doll worth like 70+ dollars when they just sold that ghoulia doll for 50#you had to pay for that membership to get her i think so its actually 60. but Still.#tbh. while i personally wouldnt spend 90 dollars on a two pack of dolls#if the dolls are actually really nice i can see why it would be worth it to some people#but the chucky and tiffany two pack doesnt look like it should cost 90 dollars???? at all???#maybe it has a really cool detailed box or comes with a bunch of accessories or something but the dolls themselves#dont look like they should cost that much. feels like theyre just overcharging because a popular movies name is attached to it#and this is not hate to the dolls themselves i dont really know anything about the characters theyre based on but i think they look fine#i just dont think they should cost 90 dollars (actually its probably closer to 100 when you consider shipping and tax. but whatever)#again it feels like theyre pricing things at random#and making things as expensive as possible because they know a lot of g1 only collectors are desperate and will buy anything#so they can get away with it#this all comes from somebody who never buys the collector monster high stuff because most of it doesnt interest me#i only ever buy playline stuff because im satisfied with that + they feel more worth it for the prices theyre asking for#but still. i am allowed to have opinions
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i submitted something about the beatles to dadrockconfessions a week ago or something and i started it with "i dont even like the beatles" but they took that part out NOOO YOU DONT FUCKING UNDERSTAND
#my confession just seems like a creepy fan thing now you dont get it i dont ship them im perceptive i just know these things#have you seen jackie?#AND THEY'LL ALLOW PARAGRAPHS OF PPL DESCRIBING HOW THEY WANT TO BE FUCKED BY SOME OLD HAG BUT WILL EDIT MY CONFESSION#THEYRE SILENCING ME
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Oh and in that marvel rant when I said people who have complaints that I don't agree with are still valid. I do not mean people who stopped watching (or attacked other fans) because stucky wasn't canon. That's dumb.
#im not tagging this bc i dont want death threats ❤️#what i mean by that is#everyone is allowed to ship whoever they want#but you have to be realistic bestie#theres nothing wrong with shipping stucky and making/reading fanfic or art or headcanons etc etc#but you have to recognize that You Made That Up ❤️ the movies did Not Tell You That ❤️#which is FINE!!! its GREAT!! its the point of fandom!!!! have fun!!!!!#but when people convinced themselves that stucky was soooo canon#and peggy in endgame made no sense whatsoever and came out of left field and was ridiculous#youre lying to yourself ❤️#you dont have to like it or accept it in your personal canon#but dont make the filmmakers responsible for your headcanons#when writers MAKE THEMSELVES responsible for people's headcanons. bad things happen#thasmin happens#and THAT. WAS BAD!#ok im gonna stop saying things before i get sniped
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been almost 3 yrs and i am still struggling with the whole mikachi first meeting thing. bye
#for zl its something simple. i just saw cute fanart of it with another ship [ p sure it was someones 2 ocs ] and enjoyed the idea#i lost my black umbrella irl but tbf it doesnt really matter because i always fucking forget to bring it anyways. so sometimes i get caught#in the rain. so idk zl lends me his umbrella bc. fuck! heading in the same direction and is like hey loser . . let me help you . .#cue immediate heart eyes bc handsome stranger helped her. like Wow Yuo Are So Cool... ♡#afterwards she mentions this interaction to her friend [ yun jin or hu tao .. unsure but they are both so silly so its hard 2 decide ] and#then they are like wait i know that grandpa you're talking about! let me set you up lalala theres this whole thing i'm lazy#i'll write about it Maybe bc i do want to write for my platonic f/os. and also cover all the [ firsts ] in my self ships#its just: i don't like feeling obligated to stick to things (like a series or theme or whatever) so maybe not. would be nice though..#nobody in this world is allowed to laugh at me i'll die#as for childe my plan was he breaks into her house and then shes like wtf who r u?!! they make eye contact and kiss + get married asap#no actually i truly dont know. zl's is slightly easier because he lives a mortal life. just chills#has connections with a lot of the liyue chars. literally just enjoying his retirement era now#ajax doesn't have many connections ( other harbingers but they dgaf about each other i think x ) and i just cant imagine that. idk#just fucking. bumping into him would lead to anything. maybe i should turn into a fish and have him fish me up and then i transform into a#girl and then we fall in love what do you guys think (losing my grip on humanity)#💭#mika ♡ ajax#mika ♡ zhongli
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I think people are still allowed to dislike anything and still have a right to outright say they just don't like said thing, have opinions and then move on with their life
#meej txt#that is as long as they dont tag their hate into tags or straight off have any ill will attacking people then things should be fine#ngl ohseexcanon has never really been a big cup of my tea for the longest time. i always avoid/block/ filter it on all the websites i use#like i hate it but im not going to go around and ruin everyones parade. it has a right to exist people are allowed to have fun#but these days i would see someone just merely saying “i dont like ohseexcanon shipping” and all of a sudden so many#ohseexcanon shippers come out of nowhere just outright harass the person all because they said they dont vibe with it. yall#need to chill tf out. people are allowed to dislike things just how some of you dislike canon pairings. damn#its literally not the end of the world when someone hates something. if you hate that block them. harassing ppl isnt going#to solve anything#and ngl everytime i see incidents like these i start to dislike these kinds of shippers more and more. harassing ppl in general is never ok
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#august/ july (just winter in general i think) always serves as a check in point.#bc i get DepressedTM and feel spirally bc bithday n jus . august is Rough no matter what#werein JULY and im already suffering. its coming w hands this year#anyway off topic: i am not happy lol#like#idk how to explain it. but my job is not what id like to be doing. i like certain aspects of it. but its taking such a toll on me in so man#ways i just . i dont think this is for me. i am a nighttime person but not like this#so im gonna. see if i can jump ship to a restaurant / cocktail bar here#n if not. booking it to melbourne.#not an ideal trip . will be 48hrs of travel bc . i need breaks. but . fuck brisbane#n fuck sydney (expensive)#brisbanes alright but . i dont wanna live there? i only wanted to bc it was Close n Easy ig#but anyway. reread the sick messages exchanged 2wks ago n winced at my responses but also. no wonder#im replying like that ??? hes so fuckig irritating to talk to now. likw bruhh. anyway i was dealthy ill and dealing w that.#i did fucking WELL handling his loser ass actually.#the lack of reply after i explicitly and graphically called him out on his shitty behaviour towards me like#fuck you fr dawg. you rlly cant take accountability ?#god i wanna wring his neck#its funny that i dont even know if im allowed to . send him the paragraph brewing inmy notes#n the thing is#it wouldnt matter . im not sending i to get a response from him. but i have Thoughts and have to deal with him CONSTANTLY. SO i wanna.#yell at him a lil im ngl. and then just block him for good bc fuck you for good.#dipshit.
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love how my mother purchased a new grill and accidentally shipped it to us (somehow) and was like: ‘can you just mail it back and i’ll pay you for shipping?’ as if it wouldn’t cost us like $300 to schedule a pick up for it (and it would have! to be a fedex pick up because we can’t lift it) but anyway
she calls me today and goes: ‘oh i got someone so helpful via customer support finally and you know what! they are sending a whole new grill to the correct address! the woman on the phone said to tell my daughter she can just keep it!’ as if that’s a good thing!!! like what on earth are we going to do with this!!!
then she goes: ‘try to sell it for me and make me back some money!’ as if i have the energy to do that!!!! also like why is this my job! i seriously want to shake her
#i’m getting married in a month i don’t need this taking up space in our apartment 😭😭😭#i have wedding shit taking up space already!!! arggg#i can’t even use it. bc we live in an APARTMENT that doesn’t allow grills on balconies. plus it’s huge. plus like…I DONT WANT IT!!!!!!!#idk how you accidentally ship such an expensive thing to the wrong address btw like. only my mother. she simply can’t read#text
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slightly parallel universe where tumblr allows alphabets from other languages to be used in peoples urls, so 2012 bloggers used katakana phonetically to shorten their ridiculously long fandom urls that contained every single ship theyve ever loved so that the whole goddamn thing could actually fit onscreen. a few users started using khmer and sinhala and other alphabets that are hard for monolingual english speakers to parse solely so it would be difficult for most tumblr users to @ them and/or track them down to block. this lead to discourse blogs demanding that people post selfies to "prove" that they arent using arabic for "nefarious purposes" and saying blatantly racist shit like "i block people using sanskrit on sight" or "can you claim ancestral reasons for using ge'ez?". someone gets called out for race-faking because they use chinese but their icon is a white woman, who turns out to just be a fictional character that they like, and they actually are chinese. several prominent and terminally online leftist blogs make bizarre claims about how using alphabets they dont know is basically the exact same thing as paywalls on academic articles because its "hiding information from people who cant afford college". it all culminates in staff making a meme that reeks of "how do you do fellow kids" vibes about how only cyberbullies use bangla, which is widely condemned by literally everyone as being racist as hell, and any further alphabet discourse from then on is shot down hard by merely posting tumblrstaffbangla.jpeg
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