#you are a symptom of my mental illness

[stillhaventgotmydriverslicense]

please please please get out of my head

[uncanny-tranny]

I think it would really benefit people to internalize that mental illnesses are often chronic and not acute. Some of us will never be able to jump the hurdle of managing illness, much less sustaining a sense of normalcy. Many of us will never "recover," will never manage symptoms, will never even come close to appearing normal - and this is for any condition, even the ones labeled as "simple" disorders or "easy-to-manage" disorders.

It isn't a failure if you cannot manage your symptoms. It isn't a moral failure, and you aren't an awful person. You are human. There's only so much you can do before recognizing that you cannot lift the world. Give yourself the space to be ill because, functionally, you are.

[itsalmostavengers]

I’m a truly incredible covert operative when it comes to fandom like no-one irl knows the depths of my obsession HOWEVER. I am aware of the fact that if anyone called iron man a narcissist in front of me I’d have no choice but to kill them with hammers

[disasterhimbo]

My friend @frivolousfuckery is such a lovely person, with the worst luck I have ever seen.

They

Became homeless at the end of January, due to the $2.35/hour tipped wage of North Carolina,

Have a brain tumor they became aware of in September last year and for which they have been struggling to afford medical care, and

Dislocated their knee two days ago by *checks notes* standing up, and now they need surgery because the tendons and ligaments are pulling apart.

The current situation:

They moved to Colorado where the wages are better (but still inadequate). They are currently uninsured and waiting to be approved for Medicaid. They are continuing to work at Waffle House in a knee brace because they have no choice, in spite of their symptoms: severe chronic fatigue and pain, migraines, nausea, trouble eating and sleeping, seizures, and significant hearing loss.

Our goals:

We need to raise $400 for their doctor’s appointment for the knee that is in one week, on March 26.

We need to raise about $4000 by April 1, in under two weeks, for them to get housing.

The brain cancer treatment is kind of on hold because the other two issues are more pressing but obviously it would be great to raise more money so they can afford treatment for that too.

We have been fundraising since September when they found out about the tumor, and we’ve raised less than $2000. We desperately need to speed up the process in order for them to get the care they need.

Anything you can give, even a dollar, will make a tremendous difference in their health, safety, and quality of life.

Please help save my friend's life.

PayPal: willefordsavannah@gmail.com

Venmo: @enbymickie

Cashapp: $enbymickie

[wortcunningwitch]

PSA: my blog is NOT for people who believe crystals can cure disease, mental illness, chronic conditions, disabilities, etc. or people who believe crystals can substitute modern medicine and be effective in the slightest. yes, this includes people who say crystals can “help with depression/anxiety/etc”.

[starleska]

my god. guys. just gotta scream about some medical stuff for a second. you know how i've been ill for quite some time. like really nastily ill. bizarre migraines, constant fatigue/joint pain, awful depressive mood swings? well, alongside some proper migraine meds, my doctor prescribed me vitamin D tablets. and the black cloud is gone. the fatigue is gone. the pain is gone. what!!!!!!!! 😭😭😭 this reinforces my belief that vitamin/mineral deficiencies can be extra insidious for neurodivergent folks because we're so used to ignoring our pain, and our difficulties with eating a wide range of foods/getting outside enough/breaking our routine/etc. set us up to be deficient!! 💔

to be clear, my doctor and the NHS say that folks in my country ought to be taking vitamin D supplements during the winter months anyway. it's actually mandated for everyone and i had no idea. just. enormous relief. getting my bloods done in a couple of weeks to confirm, but i wasn't expecting such an immediate effect 😳 so if anyone's been feeling unusually fatigued, sick, with disturbed menstrual cycles, migraines and moodswings, and there's no underlying cause...see if you can get your bloods checked, and consult with your doctor. especially if you're ND/get less sunlight/have a restricted diet!!!!

[greensaplinggrace]

im going insane btw jon was literally right. tim's so angry at him for how he acted paranoid out of his mind and like. i get it. but jon was right. sasha was a doppleganger!! his boss is a manipulative cunt that is trying to end the world! people are quite literally out to fucking get him!! like tim i get it i get it but are you aware of the genre you're in im alskdjflk

[sleepy-crypt1d]

One of my favorite parts of COF that I find is commonly overlooked is the fact that it doesn't sanitized itself for a broader audience, it comes in with a message, with a story to tell that's hard to swallow with characters that are realistic and heartbreaking, and it doesn't apologize for this once.

Something interesting that occurred to me was how people who have never experienced severe mental health struggles view COF- the specific instance I'm thinking of is when I was explaining the plot to my mom, and had explained the different endings to her and how to get those endings, and what each one seemed to imply both for Simon and his relationship with those in his life, and her takeaway from the conversation was- "I don't like that the mentally ill main character becomes a killer. I don't like that he's the bad guy"

And this was interesting to me because, that's kind of the whole reason why I started to love Simon in the first place.

So infrequently are we shown mentally ill characters who do bad things yet still deserve redemption. Who still deserve to be treated as a person, because they are one. In a world that is becoming largely comfortable with the idea "bad person = deserves to die" it was insanely refreshing to see a character like Simon, who we see hurt people, who we see become obsessed and stalkerish and violent, gain redemption through healing. Through therapy and community and the belief from others that he will get better. That he isn't a lost cause.

In ending 2, one of the darker endings of the experience, we learn that Simon is alone. That his friends and family have all left him. That he's been abandoned due to his disability and general mental health struggles, and this was devastating to me. Upsetting to a degree that had me thinking about it for days afterward. Not helped by Simon's plea to Dr. Purnell to not feel bad because "not everyone can be saved". The way Simon views himself is much too similar to my own view of myself as someone who has struggled with similar issues.

As someone who was led down a path of harm due to untreated issues and still struggles with believing I "deserve" redemption.

Because I do, and so does he.

And it's always so upsetting seeing so many people who view victims as one note stories. As people who just cry sometimes and have trouble talking to people or get sad every once in awhile. Mental health is messy and hard to live with and life ruining at times, and this stripping of it's nuance is so frustrating to see happen over and over and over again.

Victims are not your savior story. They are not cookie cutter helpless children that need to be protected. Abuse and severe struggles do not make you stronger, they do not make you better, they do not magically make you more empathetic or loving and I'm fucking tired of that narrative. I'm tired of being talked over by people who've never experienced it or other victims who think they're the "good" ones because, well, they never did that which means anyone who did is horrible. I'm tired of stories of illness being sanitized for other people's comfort.

Victims can become perpetrators, that does not take away from their victim status. That does not change the fact that they still deserve help. That does not take away from their personhood. They are a human being that needs help, not a death sentence. Should they take accountability? Of fucking course. Does their trauma absolve them of wrongdoing? No. But I'm tired of people acting like cycles don't exist, like the second you act out on your trauma you're past saving.

Simon's story is perfect the way it is. A story of redemption and acceptance, of learning to live and grow and learn from past mistakes and find a way to live peacefully. To take responsibility and attempt to rekindle the relationships you lost, the ones you hurt.

Ending 4 and his admittance to the hospital, as well as his continued friendship with Sophie but acceptance of his loss of a romantic one, is heart breakingly bittersweet in a way that is hard for me to describe. Him getting better but living with what he's done, growing from it and learning to live anyways.

Another part of this is that, in his happy ending, in the ending where he does get better; he doesn't do it alone. Largely, the narrative of community is lost in these stories, how helpful a support system can be. Simon gets better because he has people there for him, because he has Purnell and Sophie and his mom looking out for him. He has his doctors and the staff at the hospital and people who know he can get better, that he's still a person deserving and capable of good.

People need people, and this seems an obvious note to me in the story of COF. Simon needs people. He needed people the entire time. Someone, anyone, to listen to him and give him the hand he needed.

And it's so refreshing to see a character like Simon still be loved and cared about and helped even when he was "the bad guy". Let mental ill characters be realistic. I'm begging you.

[do-not-consume]

If you have a friend with a quirk you find annoying do both of you a favor and don't invite them to long term hangouts.

People with an "annoying" sense of humor will make annoying jokes on your girls trip

People with "annoying" religious habits will practice said habits at your sleepover

People with "annoying" traits will still have those traits if you take them on vacation

A person with an "annoying" voice will have the same voice the whole road trip

A person who can't read the room won't suddenly learn over a week

If someone warns you they have "annoying" symptoms of any illness/disability (physical or mental) they're not suddenly going to stop experiencing that at your next shopping spree

You knew them before this. You invited them.

Sincerely, a person who got eyerolled by their supposed friends for being too annoying at a squad trip

[clowningaroundmars]

i still cannot get over The Twins like.

imagine.

you have another version of you out there arguably living a life just as difficult as yours, if not more, that you can talk to at literally Any Time! and they're You so you basically already have half a convo down anytime you decide to pop on over via a portal

1610 and 42 stepping out of their respective portals side-by-side just to stroll out of an alleyway like nothin happened just going:

1610: LOUD SIGH

42: rough day too huh?

1610, brushing debris off of his shoulder: yeeep. another run-in with the rhino. again.

42: you didn't lock his dumb ass up like, last month? how'd he get out?

1610: don't know, don't care. so done with this week, i just wanna... i dunno. hibernate til spring 😮‍💨

42: man, what a mood.

1610: what happened to you? you look like you had a rougher day than me!

42, covered in visible bruises and cuts along with his bandages: mannnn... rougher week more like. well... rougher life. but. anyways.

they both nod at each other in Understanding

[juliamccartney]

hey can y'all stop calling evil people 'psychopaths'

[genderfluid-and-confuzled]

I WAS ON THAT

[bpdamn]

daily reminder that there’s a difference between hating your abuser and hating every single person with npd. one is understandable the other one just makes you an asshole

[sbeana]

undoubtedly in my flop era. however to flop now means to fly later... i fucking hope

[orca-iguana]

Sometimes I think people get discomfort and hurt and suffering mixed up and it fucks up a lot of shit. Sometimes people will make you uncomfortable and that is sometimes their fault sometimes your problem and sometimes literally just a thing that happens. It's important to be okay with being uncomfortable and avoiding the uncomfortable often hurts a lot of people around you. Sometimes people will hurt you and a lot of times it's their fault, it's never your fault if you are genuinely hurt, and worst of all sometimes it is nobodies fault at all and is just unavoidable. You can't really get better at dealing with hurt, unless you turn it into the melancholy of suffering. Which sucks. It sucks. But just because you got hurt doesn't mean the correct response is to hurt back. But also when you are suffering you can't really do the whole logical processing thing. And generally I just think people need to be more okay with understanding that sometimes people will be really fucking annoying to you and sometimes the correct response is to block them and move on and sometimes the correct response is to realize oh shit I have something to work through.

[ongreenergrasses]

is there a specific disorder that you would say Annie has? is it just severe ptsd or could something else have developed from the trauma of her games?

short answer? I don’t think I can say.

what psychiatry defines as a disorder is a collection of symptoms, right, and their presence (or lack of in some cases) is how people get diagnosed. Annie presents a couple symptoms…definitely the one that people fix on the most is her psychosis, which presents predominately with hallucinations. she sees things that aren’t there (those green eyes fixate on a point with such intensity that you find yourself trying to make out what she sees in the empty air), she seems to hear things that aren’t there (sometimes, for no reason, she presses both her hands over her ears as if to block out a painful sound)(both mj, 225). a condition called brief psychotic disorder (previously known as brief reactive psychosis) can be triggered as a result of severe trauma. she’s also highly reactive to triggers and they can cause her to dissociate, which we see when Johanna brings up the events in the Capitol.

“Peeta and I had adjoining cells in the Capitol. We’re very familiar with each other’s screams.”

Annie, who’s on Johanna’s other side, does that thing where she covers her ears and exits reality. (mj, 241)

this falls in line with ptsd.

it’s complicated because ptsd co-occurs with so many other mental illnesses, namely anxiety and depression, and the traumatic event that triggered her ptsd could also trigger potential recurrent bouts of brief psychotic disorder. but again disorders are a cluster of symptoms, and many symptoms can be indicators for a variety of mental health issues, and many symptoms come linked inextricably with others. personally, I find it more useful and reasonable to write Annie in terms of the symptoms she experiences as opposed to finding her a definitive diagnosis.

the other thing is we have no idea how Annie acts at home. we only ever see her in times of incredible stress. she might live with these symptoms all the time, or she might experience them rarely once she’s in a safe environment with her coping mechanisms and a routine she’s set up, and that makes any type of diagnosis difficult because a lot of diagnoses are based on symptom duration.

I think the ambiguity is valuable because it allows people to feel seen and connect their own diagnoses to her experiences, but I know that in part comes from the fact that Panem has absolutely no understanding of trauma or mental health issues. she’d never get anything remotely like a diagnosis besides people calling her “the mad girl” (which is unacceptable to say and something I’m still mad at Suzanne Collins for including). the ambiguity also comes from SC’s laziness in writing Annie’s primary presence in the story as ‘Finnick’s girlfriend’ and ‘trauma personified’.

in terms of other types of neurodivergence, I know there’s people who hc Annie as autistic, but i personally don’t feel qualified to speak on that.