#you say you support people with marginalized mental illnesses but someone with BPD exaggerates a little bit and suddenly

[orca-iguana]

Sometimes I think people get discomfort and hurt and suffering mixed up and it fucks up a lot of shit. Sometimes people will make you uncomfortable and that is sometimes their fault sometimes your problem and sometimes literally just a thing that happens. It's important to be okay with being uncomfortable and avoiding the uncomfortable often hurts a lot of people around you. Sometimes people will hurt you and a lot of times it's their fault, it's never your fault if you are genuinely hurt, and worst of all sometimes it is nobodies fault at all and is just unavoidable. You can't really get better at dealing with hurt, unless you turn it into the melancholy of suffering. Which sucks. It sucks. But just because you got hurt doesn't mean the correct response is to hurt back. But also when you are suffering you can't really do the whole logical processing thing. And generally I just think people need to be more okay with understanding that sometimes people will be really fucking annoying to you and sometimes the correct response is to block them and move on and sometimes the correct response is to realize oh shit I have something to work through.