#y'all I made a discover

[phoenixiancrystallist]

Month 7, day 30

Two new materials today! First up is a camouflage patterned fabric, and the second is a nice thrown clay :D

[scarapanna]

News flash!!

Silly little snipit of info undercut regarding SM in the au for the funsies!!

So Shadow Milk is a bit of a bully at times, sometimes messing with Pure Vanilla or just generally doing what he wants outside of the void (aka the mind space). However, he's not prone to fighting at all due to his weakened state (Thanks to Lily's seal), and thus avoids conflict to not damage his "vessel" whilst not wanting to lose the barebones power he has regained trough drainage after leaving the faerie kingdom.

Because of this, every being stronger than him is intimidating, causing him to be less mean to it and avoid it's presence. Yet he never admits fear as it would damage his ego. (It's an unlikely scenario in the timeline, but still a fun topic to tackle)

Tldr: He's a bit hypocritical/silly

[dont-open-dead-inside-25]

*voice of boy who just experienced romantic/sexual attraction for the first time* did you guys see that. that was insane. wdym you live like this

[pinkyjulien]

Tagged by @arcandoria MMWAH Thank you bb 👁👄👁

Rules: Make a poll with five of your all-time favorite characters and then tag five people to do the same. See which character is everyone's favorite!

▶ Tagging, no pressure in doing it 🤏 @lokiina - @elvenbeard - @wraithsoutlaws - @cybersteal - @teddys-shion

[sincapjelly]

Ok so I recently bought a Bloom doll that surprised me because she has a recording feature that I wasn't informed of. And my adhd brain made it about Ninjago somehow. So now you have to listen my new fic idea. (Promise I'll write this later.)

Cole, when he is like 8, goes to a park with his mother, and finds a doll. He remembers he did see the doll the day before too, and realises no one came to pick her up. As he is looking at the doll, he overhears some other boys thinking about throwing the doll to trash and break it, so Cole decides to keep the doll himself.

He shows it to Lilly, and she asks "where did you find this?", he explains why they have to keep her and so Lilly says they can bring her home and clean her up. Cole gets happy, and they go home to clean the doll, and taking the dress off to wash it, they realise it has some voice feature. But they can't make it work, even though they change her batteries and stuff. It's only when Lou returns from the city and they tell him about the doll. He figures it might be a voice recording feature because it has two buttons and one makes this beeping sound. He shows it to Cole and they record silly stuff all evening.

Later it becomes Cole's favourite toy. Whenever one of his parents had to leave before saying goodbye to him, let it be Lilly's missions or Lou's shows, they'd record something and Cole'd check it as the first thing when he wakes up. It was sometimes silly stuff like "Tell your father/mother to buy me [thing]!" or sometimes just a simple "I will try to come back asap, love you!". The doll still sits in his room in his childhood house. Sometimes when he visits, he records something, and he always checks it first, because his father still leaves some message inside each time.

This family means so much so me y'all are so wrong about their dynamics sometimes it makes me so sad 💔💔💔💔

[lususnatura]

OOH... i might have just come up with a new plot-line for blamore, and it is kind of diabolical, NGL 👀

[elfblcd]

hello! trying to revive my dash here. please like/reblog if you would like to interact with a primarily urban fantasy-based elven prince who is the last of his species and Doing His Best! fantasy-based verses also available; written by tez ♥

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[darkdragon768]

Happy 17th Mother's Day!

[yinwaryuri]

Thank you @snake-and-mouse for this dash experience 😂

[byanyan]

while byan's dyslexia and ptsd is a little up in the air in terms of diagnosis, they have been given a diagnosis of conduct disorder and oppositional defiant disorder through the mandatory counselling and the various psychiatric evaluations they've had throughout their life. ptsd, adhd, dyslexia, and depression are all assumed to be present as well, based on observation and information provided by teachers, caretakers, and foster parents, but remain unconfirmed due to byan's tendency to be extremely difficult with psychiatrists and psychologists and the inconsistency of the amount of time spent with those who have provided outside observation.

byan has, of course, never been cooperative in any treatment.

[jdeanmorgan]

begging y’all to watch the cleansing hour

[wander-over-the-words]

Tiktok FINALLY had a benefit to my life

[frootloopscereal]

alexa play December, 1963 (Oh, What A Night) by The Four Seasons

[rosesocietyy]

why does jollof rice have to be our staple food that shit is lowkey mid lmao

[evangelifloss]

Thinking about a certain scene in Dungeon Meshi that completely encapsulates the Autistic experience of making friends as an adult and how hard it is to try and navigate it without ending up getting hurt.

Like IDK about y'all, but this is a common problem ALOT of Autistic Adults face when trying to make friends with other people, because unlike children who aren't good at keeping their opinions to themselves, Adults ARE. In society, we're even encouraged to "keep the peace" "be polite" and etc, which commonly leads to awful scenarios as shown above when Laois finds out his buddy has come to resent who Laois is without actually telling him. All too often the friends that we love to hang out with, people that we're so happy to spend time with, don't feel the same way and in many cases, come to blame us for our social cues or lack thereof.

And when/if we do eventually find out how our friend feels, Dungeon Meshi hits us with another painful panel of how that usually ends up playing out.

It's hard for Adults with Autism to make friends, and even harder to maintain them because alot of the ways Neurotypicals tell other Neurotypicals that they don't like a certain behavior is by quietly disengaging. Whether that involves having one sentence answers, going quiet, or having a certain tone in their voice, all those things signal annoyance or disapproval, but for the Neurodivergents, those subtle cues are completely missed.

And yet when we inevitably discover we DID do something, it is natural to ask "well why didn't you tell me?" because in our minds, it should've been the next step in the equation. However for the Neurotypicals, that's NOT something to bring up. Its important to be SUBTLE about the issue at hand and rely on signals to tell the other person. Blame is placed on us for not noticing the "obvious" signs of disapproval rather than the idea of talking it out as such things are uncomfortable and harder to do. Alot of the time what ends up happening is resentment due to the idea that it was "obvious" and the fact one didn't notice indicates a deliberate ignorance rather than a complete unawareness. It ends up calling into question our quality as a person and our sincerity. We get called "fake" or "malicious" or even "stupid" for failing social cues rather than questioning the decision to be indirect and vague.

For a manga about exploring the dungeon, it seems that the artist would rather explore very real and prevalent dynamics in society with the adventuring premise as a backdrop. I felt VERY seen in these panels, and many others, because it happens so suddenly and dare I say it, plainly. There's no dramatic build-up or spectacle made and in essence, it just Happens.

I think that's what makes the scene hit even harder. It seemingly comes out of nowhere for Laois, like how it always comes out of nowhere for alot of people, and it's never a dramatic twist either. It's always mundane and hurtful. A sudden unforeseen bump in the road that ends up calling into question one's entire friendship with someone and consequent other friendships. It asks "what if other friends feel the same. What if the people that I really like actually hate me and I don't know it?" Or at least that's what I came away with after reading the chapter. I've been where Laois was and the only reason I'm not there now is because I lost the naivete I had and doubt everyone else's sincerity.

[riptozier]

( sometimes i remember i'm only 22 and i feel like such a baby afljksdfh )