#womenhealing

[ihatemyhusband]

Ok here goes… I’m married to an absolute jerk. Like the worst kind you can imagine. It’s been 14 years and I just want to be free of him. Problem is, years of emotional and mental abuse has me stuck in trauma. I don’t have the strength to make the plan and set it in motion. I don’t feel strong enough but I need a place to write anonymously and sort out what I’m going through. Thanks for listening.

[queerponcho]

get to know me tag game!!!

tagged by @eelqueen

no pressure tags : @my-secret-shame @soft-girl-musings @lemongirl5910 @basicalyrandom @spacecowboyhotch @honeypotsworld

last song : goodbye~ by Corbon Amodio

current song : one and only by adele

currently watching : youtube lmao, just recently finished watching 'The Maid' on Netflix and lemme tell you that show had me STRESSED!

three ships : see i am a 'reader x ____' typa gurl but i'll tell ya about my past ships and how i started out as an avid fanfic enjoyer.

Wolfstar- of course cuz wtf else was i supposed to read on Wattpad.

Catradora- cuz its about two women loving each other (even if controversially) cuz i was starving for some gay rep lol.

and last one which is pretty recent are kit and jade from WILLOW- truly such a good rep for sapphic couples. like them kissing SEVERAL times and still not being sure if the other one likes them is so fucking accurate its not even funny. (also not sure if they have a ship-name tbh)

favourite colour : purple and pink 💜💗

currently consuming : (in types of content i am guessing...) Youtubers like "not even emily" , "salem tovar" , "film cooper" , and very frequently also listen to "critical role" to sleep or while drawing cuz its really creativity inducing ngl. (the youtubers mentioned are commentary youtubers- but the fun, feminist cool kind...not the problematic, womenhating kind)

first ship : see i could just lie and say smth nice like wolfstar or smth but i am soso sad to admit that it was actually "adrinette"- PLEASE I DIDN'T KNOW BETTER DON'T TAKE THIS AS A REFERENCE FOR MY CHARACTER - i was like twelve okay -

place of birth : this tiny town in the canton of Bern, Switzlerland

current location : Bern (Capital of Switzerland)

relationship status : single and desperate (yes, this is a cry for help)

last movie : charlies angels i think??? i really wanted to see Kristen Stewart in all her lesbian glory-

currently working on : "Transfixed" my moonknight series hehe. Its my baby and i am having alot of fun writing it. I am thinking of writing new things aswell! if anybody wants to send me any requests i'd love to write them!

also working on becoming better at playin the saxophone, been playing for over ten years now but i still have a lot to learn and love to get better and practice.

[heartshapedcreaturefromcriptoon]

If you're a Hazbin Hotel Kinnie that's not your own O.C I officially have beef with you. I'm in my "Anti Kinnie" villain era and I'm done.

First of all, I'm so sorry for not having proper context for the screenshots, dude was typing at me so fast and just attacking me so quickly and refused to let up for me to catch my breath, and I knew if I was gonna say what I needed to say and bounce, then I knew that I had to start getting those screen shots quick because I knew how this situation escalated was gonna be so fucking funny, man...

All this for saying that if I was Viv, I probably wouldn't have *confirmed* the cannibalistic Serial Killer as being her only asexual representation and people had a right to critique it and then this Alastor Kinnie in this 21+ server with me turned it into "so you don't want Viv's characters to be morally gray and evil even though they're in hell?' and I was like: "I literally didn't say that", and then "Al" ignored me, and I didn't feel like being attacked and ganged up on by another group of radiodust kinnie, so I went off and said my piece and was clearly about to leave:

Cue these weebs acting like I literally did not say I was just leaving or was about to, and acting like Brandon Rogers ableism doesn't exist:

But see, now I'm apparently "transphobic" and in need of "a warning", even though I clearly deadass just said the words "OH BABY I'm already gone ... "

AGAIN LETS JUST IGNORE HOW 'ROLLING ROBBIE' DISRESPECTED DISABLED PEOPLE AND HOW I WAS 'BOUT TO SAY THAT THIS GUYS KINNIE S/O SHOULD JUST PICK A DIFFERENT NAME IF HE WANTS ME TO TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY BECAUSE, FICTIONAL CHARACTERS AREN'T REAL ....

(Blatantly ignoring how I just implied/said I would be leaving/not acknowledging how Rogers' BLATANT ABLEISM is fucked up to begin with, because as soon as I mention any sort of ableism in this fandom I'm the one who needs to "cool off" again, acting and talking at me as though I hadn't already made up my mind, making new edits to the conversation my crippled arse can't even keep up with.. Acting like having a fictional characters name for your chosen Queer Name and then shouting "TRANSPHOBE!" when people make fun of you for it isn't already the most High School thing ever...When I know that in turn if I jokingly replied that I can't "Take a step back" because wheelchair user, their big ol' anime titties would have exploded... )

(I literally introduced myself into this server as a High Femme Queer Trans She/They, aspiring Drag Artist.. Why does the Angel Kinnie get to call out my perceived "transphobia" for implying his beloved Alastor Kinnie should just pick a different name, before their "husband" attacks me like he's being discriminated against for just saying we could've avoided a lot of weirdness in the fandom around the sexuality of the radio demon and the concept of asexuality in general if The CHARACTER who kills and eats people just wasn't the one to be confirmed asexual? But then the Alastor Kinnie is just allowed to get away with calling me "bro" here, even though I'm obviously the most feminine presenting person in the conversation, and, as far as I know, the only actual girl involved in this conversation? Why am I being misgendered? If I pretty much said I was a girl when I got in here, then why are you calling me "Bro"? #Hypocritical #Transphobic Transfemmephobic. #Femmephobia #WomenHating #MenHatingWoman #Misogyny Guess this particular Alastor Kinnie absorbed a little bit too much of Edward's "Dude Bro" personality into his own gender presentation so #BlameBosco for that one, I guess? Did I mention that Edward Bosco keeps getting squicked out by kinnies cause they're weird? Well he's right, they're weird. )

(And again, as you can probably make out, these people are still talking about me as if I wasn't the one to start announcing my intention to leave and in the above image are still talking at me as if I didn't basically just tell everyone to fuck off. So we ignored me bringing up Brandon Rogers ableism and then this dorkis just lets his kinnie husband outright misgender me for real and then this weirdo can't even be fucked to unfollow me on here afterward so then I have to be the one to do the blocking. Great.)

But not before ladies get the final word... ;)

( Yes this server owner is also the kind of person who censors the names of fictional characters they don't like, FYI. And all these radiodust kinnie couples just seem to bleed into eachother, don't they? Especially if the Angel Dust kinnie also just so happens to be an Italian femmeboy trans who also happened to be a sex worker and I'm gonna be called "whorephobic" now, but hot tip: If you claim to be/ have done sex work in the past, maybe then it's time to move past the need to "kin" your comfort characters if you don't want all the mean little girls out there that you misgender and all mean Mommie Doms out there who hate cartoons to laugh at you because this shit is why they're laughing and this shit is why they hate you and this this shit is why I'm starting to hate you too. And I'm saying this as someone who had to learn that lesson the hard way okay? Okay. So glad we cleared that up. )

(And yeah this person was 29 years old the same as me... SO! SO MUCH FOR A 21+ HAZBIN HOTEL DISCORD SERVER NAMED FOR A GODDAMN FUCKING CHILDREN'S TOY SHOP I DON"T DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS EXPECTING BUT AS SOON AS HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT CENSORING FICTIONAL CHARACTERS NAMES LIKE SLURS I KNEW I WOULDN'T LAST LONG GURL. LOL! )

Putting the transcript of my last message to this douche bag "pastamic" under 'readmore' with more corrected spelling cause I'm so exhausted. And Anti Kinnie. ^_^

To "pastamic":

You know …. I literally just left your server and I don't care if you're "literally married". I literally said you're the second radiodust kinnie couple I had issues with and I don't care. I am a nonbinary transgender, queer drag artist and just like every other disabled person, had a period where I thought I was a sex repulsed asexual. I'm not "transphobic" for saying I felt uncomfortable calling your s/o "Alastor" after feeling attacked by him and expressing you're literally the second pair of radiodust kinnies in love that I've had issue with because FICTIONAL CHARACTERS ARE NOT REAL. Valentino isn't real for that matter ether, so you don't need to censor his name like a slur. You also have bad taste in Hazbin Fan Music. You're 29 years old please get a life.

[dykementality]

i have been trying to remove the belief that the world is a lost cause from my personal system and today i was talking to my friend about how depressing the comment section on videos of girls at the gym is and how quick your notifications will get flooded by guys backing each other up if you reply to one of their comments and it got me thinking about this phenomenon in general. in any video of a girl doing anything you will get this specific sort of guy leaving the most uninventive misogynistic comment possible thats less about the women’s reaction itself - which is usually none - and more about the hope of getting other guys to interact with them so they can feel good. like this particular brand of womenhating is literally just another intricate ritual they perform like a mating dance to achieve a sense of community. a fast and infallible way they have of building interpersonal relations with other boys while asserting their heterosexuality. because hating on girls is a very hetero trait they feel comfortable in wanting to see other boys liking their comments and defending them and following them. this is the type of thing that i find really hard to look past the immediate feeling of aversion it gives me and think of a useful counter behavior but maybe theres hope. maybe there is a way of making young boys learn to have relationships with each other in ways that are not destructive so they dont grow to be this kind of guy. maybe if theyre intercepted early and maybe with enough love and patience. i just need to believe this rotten earth can change or i will die for real!

[psiimaid]

the in-universe explanation for handmaid’s outfits is lord english right. like there was some cultural blending there with the japanese schoolgirl uniform and the dress closer to a chinese cheongsam but her wearing those wasn’t tied to any sort of stereotypical mannerisms as far as i’m aware? like it stemmed from caliborn’s obsession with manga and rancid views of women in general right. that girl grew up in an environment permeated with his influence was she really going to escape his fetishistic womenhating ultraantifeminism 💀

[trerinn]

LEAVE ME ALONE AAAAAAAAAAAAA

STOP FOLLOWING ME YOU DARN BOTS

[theresoneicouldcallking]

my 2022 bingo card; things i did not expect to be on it

- shipping inc*st (that’s you, house of the dragon) - thirsting after sauron - shipping galadriel with sauron - shipping inc*st (that’s you again, house of the dragon) - another slashpairing going canon but in spanish only - henry cavill is back as superman - henry cavill is out as superman - liam hemsworth is now a witcher - ten is now fourteen - pikachu retiring - all major actors over at dc are out  - greta thunberg destroys womenhating piece of s**t with one simple tweet (tho lbr; we all know the power she wields)

[stormyfayethechristianrunaway]

Reposted from @oliviabshepherd

🗣This year be mindful that some conversations we have with others can have negative consequences. Just like Eve talked to a snake and it resulted in her downfall, this can happen to you.

Remember you don’t have to engage in conversations that aren’t healthy for you. This year we aren’t the dumping ground for others’ baggage.

Everybody doesn’t need to have access to you, and you don’t have to have access to everybody!!

Unhealthy conversations keep you stuck, most people who don’t have anything going on in their lives will keep you from doing what’s best for you in yours.

Unproductive conversations yield unproductive results. Your conversations should uplift, educate, and empower, not harm you!

2024 is all about positive people, positive conversations, and healing!!! 🙌🏾

Watch out for those snakes 🐍

#watchwhoyoutrust #watchyourtalk #productivity #beproductive #theyearofme #healingjourney #healgrowtransform #healingprocess #healingyourself #selfdevelopmentjourney #personalgrowth #growthandhealing #healingera #womenhealing #blackwomenhealing #ladyo

[popbyte]

thinkin abt when a wrestling fan blog said ppl hornyposting abt men and not women was "giving ancient greek vibes - so misogynstic nd womenhating they end up being gay about it" ....... when talking about the queer men and masc people who hornypost about male wrestlers because they are ATTRACTED TO MEN AND NOT WOMEN.

reinventing ancient homophobia

[water-pokemon-appreciator]

How is that womenhating....

now I want to kiss women but my girlfriend is so far away (in the other room)

[pussymagicuniverse]

🌒 Do you have a favorite moon phase, kittens? Via @kristenkorvette #meow #pussymagic #womenhealing #sisterhood #womenscircle #coven #holisticwitch https://www.instagram.com/p/CKalBlGHouP/?igshid=1di3kf7vs6i0p

[sticky-dolls]

Water healing 🌊 . . . . . . #waterhealing #womenart #womenhealing #beauty #water #sea #art #artofthenight #drawing #pieceofart #color #meaningoflife #art https://www.instagram.com/p/CaGa-_6Ax9j/?utm_medium=tumblr

[flairbulous]

Self care is not a luxury. It is a necessity and definitely an essential. Taking good care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally need to be consistently done. It is important to maintain a healthy lifestyle towards postivity and better well-being 🌹 #tarawomenwellness #tarainnercleanser #tarajuice #taravmist #taragloriousskinscrub #tarafemininewipes #tarabynoradanish #forwomenbywomen #womenwellness #womenmenopause #womenhygiene #womenhealing #womenhealth #ladieshygiene #ladieshealth #ladieswellness #ladieshealing #tarasingapore #cintabellezateam #cbtunited #flairbulousbyff #flairyourbeauty https://www.instagram.com/p/CISVpSjhQvC/?igshid=1crzhr5qbi1g

[reeyasspiritualremedies]

New video up chk website or visit you tube channel #spirituality #spiritualchakra #mantramiracles #om #womenhealing #covid19 #covidindia #powerfulmantra #mantras #india #indianyoutubers #banglore #bangloreyoutubers #yogamudra #meditation #meditationpractice #chanting #newvideo (at Bangalore, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBfLyNvlNgb/?igshid=13y2p5c0agzcm

[homeopathyschooltoronto]

Women have played a huge role in healthcare throughout history. In fact, the health and welfare of the family is often times, the woman’s responsibility. The mother, grandmother, aunt, big sister…they’re the ones taking care of the family’s health issues. Women are strong and rise to the challenge! This responsibility, has changed our society…it has changed the healthcare outcomes of those around us. I’m sitting with this information today and realizing how powerful it is to be a woman…how powerful it is, to be able to care for our families and our world through healthcare contributions. Homeopathy equips us with the tools and knowledge to be able to put this innate healing ability to work and to continue helping our world. We use it because it is safe, effective, accessible and affordable. At OCHM, we foster a learning environment where everyone is welcome, heard and inspired. We encourage open and respectful discussion about healthcare topics so that our students are prepared to successfully deal with the health challenges of their society. It is through education that we help our students achieve greatness ultimately changing the lives of those around them and the world as a whole. We will continue to support women in this cause and are proud to be offering an incredibly comprehensive and robust homeopathic education so that YOU can continue to contribute to your family, your society and the world in a positive way! . @homeopathy_school_in_toronto . #womenempowerment #empoweringwomen #womenempoweringwomen #womenhelpingwomen #womenhelpwomen #womenhelpingwomenwin #helpingwomennow #womeninspiringwomen #womeninspiring #womensupportwomen #womenshealth #womenhealing #womenhealers #homeopathy #homeopathicmedicine #homeopathic #homeopatía #homeopati #homeopathie #homeopatia #homeopath #homeopata #homeopathics #homeopathicremedy #homeopathicremedies #homeopathichealth #homeopathyworks #homeopathyheals #homeopathyrocks #homeopathyforall (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2HPt44FJ5M/?igshid=1x02fh7ftdqc

[pocketgalaxies]

I think is about the girl that died last week in Mexico. That Barbara also post about her. That’s why Maca says I dream of save her. But I’m not sure.

i read a bit about it just now and i think that makes sense!