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i need to know about that suguru idea !!!
HAHAHAHAHAH YOU GOT HERE SO FAST NONNIE MY LOVE i'm gonna keep it short just bc i feel like i have zoomies rn and i need to write it. now. but just imagine bully knight!suguru and fighting and arguing and him being mean and maybe blood and tension and yeahhhh it's very sex. i'm sorry i can't tell you more rn just trust me on this okay i am fucking jumping off the walls rn
#it's literally so sex#without it actually being sex#my eyes just rolled back inside my head omfg#i love it so bad#friends!!
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Turtle Takedown Teamwork.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#tulu xuanwu#Something about changing the action sequence to something gentle is hilarious to me.#The lesson here is โBe nice to turtles. They are gentle creatures. And many are very endangered.โ#don't get me wrong here; I love this scene a lot. LWJ's string technique is one of my favoyrite things.#We do get a fair amount of LWJ fighting but I always loved how the theme of strings comes into play.#There is actually a lot to unpack with LWJ being associate with 'strings'.#The musicianship: Of dedication and rigor in one's practice.#The tension between following along a path or composing your own way forwards (playing what has been written vs composing)#A string is a tightly coiled/taunt entity; The same tension that makes it sing so beautifully can be it's downfall if pushed too hard.#And as a non-musical string - something that binds. Be it to his sect and family or how he binds his fate to WWX -#LWJ cannot exist without his binds. It is not something which ties him down though. It keeps him together.#And he himself *is* a bind. He 'ties wwx down' in ways that are initially negatively viewed ('come to gusu' - feels like: come be trapped)#But later it is shown how (despite being introduced as a free spirit) WWX truly wants to be bound to something and someone.#Marriage is a bind he wants. He wants to be tied and grounded by LWJ.#It's starting to sound like innuendo. Let's call his fondness for being literally tied up smart thematic writing.#Finally. Sex scenes that are important to the plot and characters
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valentine, you're a horse โค๏ธ
#my little pony#mlp g3#wish-I-may#wish-I-might#ok so. I'm gonna ramble for a sec#normally when I post on valentine's day I complain in the tags about being single. but I won't this year!#I've recently realized I'm definitely somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. and that I'm perfectly content without a partner#in the past I've described myself as 'emotionally unavailable' or having 'commitment issues' but neither of those things were ever true#I'm a very loving and loyal person!#I've always been extremely affectionate with friends and family but unable to have the same level of love for potential partners#unsure if I'm just demisexual/demiromantic or actually aroace but I'm definitely not the default settings type of gay lol#I'm a big fan of romance and sex in fiction! but irl? ๐
๐ฌ idk about that fam! idk!#hypothetically I would like to have a gf one day and maybe fall in love but now I understand why that may not happen#or atleast is gonna take a while. and that's fine :)#tldr; if your top song on spotify last year was Cupid by Fifty Fifty it's time to do some soul searching lol#happy valentine's day!! ๐
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mmmmmm read a disciple shen yuan/shizun luo binghe fanfic about two days ago where the first chapter was the Immortal Conference arc, and SQQ was the one who had to be pushed into the abyss (he was still the villain) except Luo Binghe was refusing and was like, lowkey losing his mind about SQQ being so close to the edge. SQQ ended up having to be the one to fall in himself because of the system's punishment system. The rest of the fic is leading up to that moment. But like, MMM i've been obsessively thinking about that first chapter for DAYS ever since.
now i've been in svsss for a grand total of *checks watch* a week. but god obsessed with that. I want to write/read a fic where disciple SQQ goes a little nuts down there. Like keep all of the things that make SQQ, SQQ, but just. Throw in a little bit more trauma in there. A little bit of a mental break. Let him go a little nuts as a treat. Just a tad unhinged. I wanna see him go, just a little, "god fuck it, i've tried so hard to change this shitty story's outcome and it feels like everything i've done has been for nothing. I'm going to die in this world no matter what I do, I've been doomed from the start, so might as well die the way I want to." and he just, breaks a little! Under all the stress.
He still retains the traits that makes shen yuan, shen yuan, like his overwhelming kindness. But he's just! yk. A little less patient. Paranoid. Jumpy. Colder. A little more aloof and closed off. A little more Shen Jiu. He's no asshole child abuser, but he was a Number One Hater in his past life and he's leaning into that old habit a little more now.
(On a totally coincidental not-at-all related note, there's not enough SJ-and-SY-are-the-same-people fics out there that i've found. This is totally unrelated...)
The Endless Abyss turns the mind into an over-sharpened blade, and SQQ is both fascinated and perhaps a little excited to explore a place that doesn't have a lot of info on it in the mortal realm, but still terrified out of his mind. And he's no Luo Binghe, he doesn't have the sheer brute strength and power to just bulldoze his way through, so he has to be a lot more sneaky and cunning if he wants to survive.
The fic itself role-swapped LBH and SQQ so that SQQ was the half-demon (which lowkey fucks) and LBH the human, but I'm equally-if-not-more obsessed with the idea that LBH remains the half-heavenly demon and SQQ the human. If only because I keep thinking about SQQ befriending some demons (particularly and specifically a group of succubi) and they grow very attached to this Human Cultivator so through magic plot stuff they create some kind of seal/illusion/talisman that makes SQQ appear as a demon because a human cultivator in the endless abyss may as well be the equivalent of putting a giant neon target on your back.
And iirc Shen Jiu was taught demonic cultivation by that one guy(?? i've only been here a week so im not caught up in ALL of the lore yet) so that could totally happen here.
(On the other end of the realms, poor Shizun Luo Binghe is just. losing his fucking mind over losing his most precious and beloved disciple. About .5 seconds from burning down the peaks himself. somebody sedate him.)
The Endless Abyss sucks and SQQ is having a really terrible time and can feel himself going lowkey mad, but also holy shit look at all this WORLD-BUILDING. look at all this flora and fauna, and oh if he had the equipment for it he'd be writing all of this down. ALL OF IT. He was kinda-sorta-already planning on never leaving the Abyss as some sort of fucked up self-exile and self-preservation thing, but now he might? actually just?? never leave if he can help it, like he lowkey likes it down here.
anyways the next time anyone ever sees SQQ again he's got hair so long its almost touching the ground and he's either in rags and half-feral or he's been completely dolled up by his adoptive succubi sisters and still about three seconds from biting anyone who tries to touch him. (he's also lowkey trying to book it back down to the abyss even if he has desperately missed all of his friends and shizun)
#mxtx svsss#svsss au#scum villian self saving system#shen qingqiu#shen yuan#luo binghe#disciple shen yuan#scum villain#svsss#*points at SQQ/SY* i want him to go nuts. as a treat. let him crumble just a little over the stress of his fate and the stress of survival#and the stress of having a lack of autonomy over a handful of his decisions. starry craves angst and she craves a very specific SQQ angst#he was a number 1 hater back in the day and lbr being a hater takes energyyyy. ive heard that this man was the BIGGEST hater i wanna#see him rip a man to shreds with nothing but his tongue and a voice that could cut marble clean in half. skin a man alive sqq you deserve i#*mortal kombat voice* FINISH HIM#i love without-a-cure but unfortunately i dont think SQQ would be able to have WAC and also survive in the abyss.#the succubi nest that adopted him tried seducing him at first. it didn't work. but he did somehow charm them with his cringefail ways#so now they have a brand new mortal big/little brother to dote on. SQQ is frankly delighted to learn all about succubi culture that doesnt#revolve around sex. he makes quite a few friends/allies in the abyss because of his pure fascination and unbiased desire to learn about#demonic culture and all the different niches and nuances of it across species. he's still going insane tho. like that's not stopping.#there's a single LBH pov chapter in the fic and its frankly so unhinged it was fantastic. he's so possessive. he straight up goes:#'oh SQQ isnt gonna be the next peak lord. he's ascending to heaven with me when i do :)' when Sha Hualing (also peak lord) told him that he#couldn't keep his disciple in the bamboo house all the time. what was SQQ gonna do when LBH ascends and he becomes the new peak lord?#gosh that first chapter is rotating around in my mind so bad. LBH was SO unwell. like losing his actual shit over SQQ near the edge.#i so want to write a oneshot abt this where SQQ is also in hysterics (albeit over slightly diff reasons) and tells LBH on his knees:#'this disciple deeply apologizes to his shizun. for he will not be ascending to the heavens with him.' right before he falls into the abyss#this au being disciple SY is for shits and giggles but i can also see it happening for regular SQQ bc 'fuck it im a dead man either way'#frothing at the mouth at this idea also being a SY-is-SJ au too. for the extra angst of SQQ trying to bear the weight of multiple lives on#his shoulders and trying to figure out what is real and what isn't and if he's meant to suffer in all of his lives no matter what he does.#not once in his life has he ever been free to do what he likes has he? self-hatred to the max. he's going mad. poor boy :]
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Probably SUCH an unpopular opinion except in my little corner of the world, but BOY would Bridgerton so be my thing if it weren't for all the sex scenes
#i know that's kind of the point atp but it's so annoying to me#id love to watch a lovely regenecy romance series focusing on a different family member each season! do not want to watch porn!#i watched the first season while scrolling past all the sex scenes and was pleasantly surprised to find only like two sex scenes in season 2#season 2 was actually pretty enjoyable for me!#i tried watching season 3 but it was just too hard to scroll past all the gross stuff#and honestly? the show would be better without all the smut. like. so much better.#it adds nothing#like 99% of all sex scenes#id hoped future seasons were going to continue the trend of season 2 of being more chill but nope. so i will not be watching.#my soul is worth way more than keeping up with whatever is popular#lilac rambles#honestly i hate that smut has made its way into almost all media lately
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Every day is a great day to headcanon a character as aroallo
#aro#aromantic#to me every character who can be interpreted as aro without any hint of being ace is aroallo. i do make the rules actually#'they're so aroace coded' are they really. or did they just show a lack of interest in romance. they might be aroallo. consider#if there's no implications of them not being interested in sex then it's settled. aroallo.
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These haphazard ideas for blogposts keep rotating in my brain:
writing interactive sex scenes in ways that I personally think are appealing and characterful
how characterisation can interweave with dom/sub dynamics in interactive sex scenes and how to make those dynamics feel well-rounded (I feel like this could be its own thing in addition to the above)
my specific feelings about the kinds of cute/adorable characters that are often called golden-retriever
various ways to write nonbinary MCs and NPCs without being weird about it
various ways to write gender-selectable characters in a way that I personally enjoy
#will I ever actually write these high-effort posts? perhaps#I have a two-page document with notes for the sex scene one... just need to expand and make it more coherent because there's a lot to say#and bullet points for the โwrite nonbinary characters without being weird about itโ one#I'm sorting through my drafts and have... a lot of unfinished stuff aha#including this post which I made in a brief whirlwind of energy and then did not follow up on
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seeing your face for the first time since following. how can you be single? you're so beautiful!! What horrible tragedy is this?!
okay just to be clear, I'm single because I broke up with my boyfriend in July and I have high standards (aka the bare minimum) that the fools around here arent even close to meeting. I would like to not be single, but there aren't very many queer people up here and I'm tired of dating cishet men
#also I'm nonmonogamous and a lot of people arent cool with that#and I'm not gonna force somebody to be in an open relationship if they don't want it#on the flip side I don't like just hooking up with people unless I'm actually friends with them#like we have to be able to hang out with each other without it being a precursor to sex#bitts answers
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Re-reading Robin (1993) and when Timโs girlfriend suggests they have sex 15 year old crime fighting vigilante Tim Drake just looks at her like
He just wants to drink his Zesti soda and hold hands
#his gf is actually working on some trauma#and they agree to talk about it#and to slow down their relationship#except her uncle comes home and accuses Tim of sexing her up#very teenage shenanigans#thus begins Timโs very bad luck in which all parents hate him#he starts running away from home to do Robin things without telling his dad where he is#just goes to Europe for a few weeks#forced to move to keystone city and he runs home to Gotham following the earthquake#sneaks into the heart of the city which is closed off bc of the earthquake and come and chaos#and his dad has the president and other American politicians campaign to get him out of there#cut to Tim drake sick and injured being air lifted out of Gotham city#then being sent to a strict private boarding school#tim drake robin#Tim drake#robin 1993#Batman#dc comics
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Being ace but also being people-pleasing enough that I think I'm not ace cuz I like to make my partner happy...is a mind-fuck.
#ace#asexual#trans#lgbtqia#trans man#ace trans#ace pride#ace problems#sex doesnt disgust me per se#for the most part#but I want it to be done fast#like yeah yeah just get there already#so we can get to the cuddles and lovey dovey stuff#can I actually just have lovey cuddles without the sex?#like for reals#that'd be great#but I know that isn't how the vast majority of people are#finding another ace?#ridonkulous#finding another ace around my age who likes me and who I like back?#may as well start my search for unicorns cuz I'll find one of those before a relationship#and y'know what I'm cool with that#dream home is a house in the woods far away from people#so I can wander barefoot in the forest without people wondering what in god's name I'm doing walking barefoot with coffee in hand#and if I'm being honest probably also a book#walking while reading is underrated#I used to rollerblade up and down the street while reading#I will forever associate Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with rollerblading and the scent of the fields by my house#anyways yeah#im an urban hermit dreaming of being a forest hermit
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i think is really funny when tgcf fans on twit / tt straight up lie about the original text because ??? gnc gay men make them uncomfortable i guess. ็ฑๅฆป is not a gender-neutral term lmfao xie lian is a WIFE!! put some respect on his name
#nevermind that same-sex couples calling each other husband/wife is like. Super common in china#actually it's common here too. do you know how many lesbian husbands there are around here#really really weird new phenomenon of people online being so scared of 'stereotyping' that they railroad characters into things they aren't#. . . usually being misogynistic in the process at the least. if we're being honest. el oh el#'umm xie lian is THE STRONGEST MARTIAL GOD?? so how could he be feminine or enjoy femininity ๐คจ' explain how these are contradictory#WITHOUT being misogynistic. Quickly#also don't really know how one could read tgcf and come away thinking xie lian is 100% unquestionably a gender-conforming cisgender man. hu#this is so whiney it's ok it's my monthly allotted whiney post#t#tgcf
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#so im thinking#hopefully things work out with the guy im talking to cause i like him an insane amount#but if they dont#i think ive outgrown hookups#being with this dude has reminded me how little i enjoy sex without a connection. like mast*rb*ting is 100% better lol#just kissing with feelings > hook ups every time for me#JUST TO REITERATE NOTHING WRONG WITH HOOK UPS this is just how im feeling#also when i kiss this dude i can actually feel myself melting into him...its.... addicting
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okay I need to leave, but I've been poking at wips, and after a month in the trenches trying to find romance authors I like, it's crazy to return back to fanfic and just be like oh. shit. this is good. why can't I find stuff like this published??
#but just. yeah. how fanfic writers just GET intimacy#and sex without it being purely physical#my ongoing theory is the prevelance of ace writers in fandom know how to write smut in a way that is sexy#without relying on basic descriptions of bodily parts and movements (pls no more shaft pistoning)#me i'm the ace writer#but also. a significant proportion of my favourite authors are ace okay#it's a beautiful phenomenon#but in general#smut in fandom communities >>>>>>> published smut#fanfic writers beloved#but really it's just about practicing the craft and sharing with people#practice is all it takes#and diversity of perspectives too#(plus like. actual diversity. which is also missing in published romance)
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Imagine reading a new manga and joking about it being homoerotic and then it gets explicitly stated that one of the protags is gay
If I don't see any weird romance blossom between those two istg-
#AINT NO WAY I WENT 'OH TOXIC HORROR YAOI /J' AND THEN THE NARRATIVE SAID 'bet.'#oh if they dont eventually end up together ill lose it#i thought- i thought i was just too influenced by tumblr when i saw the vivisection scene and went 'haha gay sex /j' and then- and then???#i dont even care if they actually get together tbh#i just want them to keep being that weird#the entire situation is fun if you ignore the atrocities lack of morality and cannibalism#one day youre a 30 y/o high school teacher - the other youre a lab experiment on immortality and a househusband. and a murder accomplice#also congrats you just gain a pet monkey who hates the mad scientist that kidnapped your corpse and brought it back to life#EDIT: OH THEYRE SO IN LOVE THERES NO WAY-#problematic couple for the win#nobody deserve to deal with them so they should stick together#i cant stop laughing#toya wtf#edit 2: officially gay yay#edit 3: ITS AN UNHAPPY ENDING NUOOOOOHHH#sleeping dead#pretty sure i stumbled on the first chapter some years ago#anyway - my conclusion to this is: sometimes its good to read smth without having any clue on what its about - sometimes all you need is to#look at the volume cover and go 'eh. lets try it'#conclusion n2: indulge in dark stories from time to time. its good. not that id say sleeping dead is the darkest out there but that may be#just me-#theres def worse than that#ive made this post in my draft before posting - thats why there are already 'edit's
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lesbian masterdoc and the unforgivable damage of making people hear compulsory heterosexuality and think of "can lesbians have crushes on men?" (no) instead of "are heterosexual women settling in unhappy marriages with men bellow their worth because of economic and social pressure?" (yes)
#not claiming the theory was without flaws but it sure didn't describe some virus mental affliction that exclusively plagues lesbians#for starters the theory was primarily about marriage. so it did recognise the historical fact of lesbians forced into marriage to avoid#honor killings and the still present possibility and threats especially when it comes to cults and strong religions#(once again mentioning as a Jeovรก's witness in a brazilian periphery my girlfriend accepted the tool of losing her entire family and social#circles to reject an arranged marriage at the age of 17. and she's bisexual. but THAT is what compulsory heterosexuality alludes to)#but more often than not when it addressed lesbians it was as the inherent threat they pose to heteropatriarchy#that they mere existence proved women were not all born to serve men. and that their lives often proved women are much happier and#accomplished when away from the burden of men.#and this acknowledging just how much loneliness was a reality through lesbian's experiences#at the same time I can understand the frustration of that feminist theory being reduced to 'comphet is when lesbians in high school were#pressured into picking one of the Backstreet Boys to lie about finding attractive'. and even more so when that non universal and much less#serious example somehow morphed into 'comphet is when bisexual women either lying or confused about being lesbians have sex with men and#find it unfulfilling' because accepting that narrative erases and harms lesbians#so I understand the 'comphet isn't real' posts especially because written like that it tends to refer to lesbian masterdoc and following#fiasco. but at the same time that wasn't the original intent of compulsory heterosexuality the actual feminist term#this is just me complaining about how social media butchers theory tho unless they are specifically naming Rich and the many other feminist#who wrote about heterosexual marriage as an institution I won't bother lesbians for venting frustration about neoliberal erasure of lesbian#the original theory sure didn't claim lesbians were immune to all this misogynistic violence but the term was never exclusively about them#and tended to ask more of 'where do we stand as women and feminists as a group much more interested in destroying heterosexual marriage than#simply making it more bearable?'#this got a little messy and senseless I'm tired#.txt
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more snake eye Crowley since I mistakenly called them cat eyes last time lol
#i can't decide whether yellow or red is better bc obviously yellow eyes already means something else in spn#also it's crazy how they showed crowley and dean having gay sex like this without actually confirming either of them as being into men#anyway i am once again asking for your fav pics of crowley for me to edit since i only have like 4 episodes on my computer#crowley#crowley supernatural#spn#supernatural
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