I have a lot of cooking to do today but im chilling. Also at ikea i got a hamper for hay and a nicer looking container for the rabbit litter.. so i dont have a big stack of ugly storage bins in my room LOL so yay for that ^__^
2 notes
·
View notes
*takes your face gently in my hands and looks sincerely into your eyes* listen. your home does not need to look like a showroom. homes are meant to be lived in, and that means a certain amount of mess. it's okay if there is clutter on your desk or if you don't remember the last time you cleaned your oven. mess is morally neutral. but at the same time, you deserve to live in an environment that is safe and comfortable, and that means someone has to clean sometimes. things like mold, spoiled food, and dirty litter boxes are genuine health hazards and need to be dealt with before they make someone sick. think of cleaning less as "my home needs to be completely spotless" and more as "I am an animal and I need a habitat that is free of hazardous material." it's okay. *kisses you on the forehead and tucks you into a blanket*
(and of course it is always acceptable and even good for you to ask someone else to help you with cleaning if it's physically or mentally difficult for you. even if you're paying them to do it.)
10K notes
·
View notes
You are not what happened to you. You didn't deserve to go through all that. You deserved to be loved, to feel safe, to be safe. You deserved kindness. Patience. You deserved better.
6K notes
·
View notes
Tip for all artists: if your art starts to feel off and you are not improving it means that your eyes have evolved artistically but your hands didn't. By that I mean that you're better at analyzing but not at drawing. Don't get discouraged if you feel like everything you draw doesn't look good, eyesight evolves faster than learning how to do things properly, so it's easier to spot errors in your art before even learning how to fix them.
If you learn and improve your ability will catch up with your critical eye and you'll be at a comfortable spot with your art again. I feel like i'm saying a bunch of nonsense rn but I SWEAR this is real.
255 notes
·
View notes
i have been reading through the diary I kept from ages 14-17 and realising how helpful it can be to keep a record of how you're feeling at different moments.
not only is it helpful to write down and process how your feeling and give yourself time to truly think about it, it's nice to have something to look back on. to not just remember how you felt about a certain situation but to actually have yourself from that time tell you.
and also, from an adhd perspective, it's really lovely to have reminders of things I'd almost entirely forgotten. it's easy to think that your life right now isn't interesting, but in 5 years time? to know what songs you were listening to or book you were reading or even that Thing that you were so worried about but now you can't even remember the details. it's nice to have a physical reminder that time passes and things really can get better.
456 notes
·
View notes
I saw the TV glow and I don’t think I’ve ever had such a visceral movie experience. I want to choke on this move like Tara choked on the dirt. Take my egg tooth razor blade and split open this skin of mine. See the static beyond. Feel my heart beat, because it’s not too late, it’s not too late, it’s not too late.
279 notes
·
View notes
okay here's my TLT self insert, im sixth house and sexy and cool and harrow is totally into me
290 notes
·
View notes