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daisyswift3 · 1 year

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“We can’t talk about pride month without talking about pain”

#having to hide who you are even tho it’s destroying your mental health #it’s extremely painful and chips away at your soul a little each day #i look forward to the day i get to live my life as my authentic self without having to lie and feel uncomfortable just making small talk w m #family and friends #why does life have to be so unfair #taylor swift #taylorswift #gaylor #gaylor swift #pride month #lgbtq

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softiedingo · 11 months

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it's so sad to wake up and find out that there isn't a guy like Frankie Morales in my kitchen making pancakes and telling me "good morning love" 🥺😔

#pedro pascal fandom #pedro pascal #francisco catfish morales #frankie catfish morales #frankie morales #why does life have to be so unfair #i need a man like him in my life #where is the reset button #something must be wrong #fuck my liiiiife #where's my frankie 😭#my sad morning thoughts 💔

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goldenhypen · 8 months

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BY. THE. WAY. TELL ME THESE ARENT THE PRETTIEST PHOTOS YOUVE EVER SEEN IN YOUR WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE

#shut. up.#SHUT UP RN #these photos are literally my new fav obsession #giggling #WHY DOES HE HAVE TO BE SOOO HANDSOME #life is so unfair #em speaks #♡

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skylersprompts · 10 months

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DC x DP Prompt *15*

When Batman is out in his cowl he is able to record anything so that he can few it later. The faces he sees will run through a program for face recognition. This makes it easier to recognize faces of potential villains civilian identities. Because of that, the camera system of Wayne Enterprises is also linked to the program. The problem is, the same things applies to his league colleagues.

Of course he already knows the identity of most of them, but that is because they told him or he found out on pure accident.

But because of this he takes his colleagues faces out of the program. As long as they don't go rouge he sees no reason to infringe on this part of their life.

Well at least that is what he normally does, but he didn't bother with Phantom. Not only are there few cameras that can even catch him. He is also a dead, fourteen years old boy.

So really, it isn't Bruce fault. If he had known that Danny Phantom had a civilian identity, he would have gone through the trouble of blocking his face in the program.

But now a young man in his early twentieth sat before him, with a nervous smile on his face. And he is making puns. Daniel Fenton (and God they needed to talk about a better hero name, now that he knew the boy had a very similar civilian name) was the negative of Phantom. Black hair, blue eyes, older and alive.

But he could scold him later, after the job interview was over and Bruce found a way to explain to Danny that his new boss was also a founder of the Justice League.

That wouldn't be fun...

#skylers prompts #dcxdp #dcxdp prompt #dpxdc #don't tag the danny phantom fandom #Bruce doesn't know that Danny is still alive #so he does not bother to block his face for the program #big mistake #also that means that Phantom should have been with the Young Justice Team in the beginning #and he will scold him for that #the only reason why he wasn't was because they thought he had been dead for a ling while and didn't want him to feel bas #but whoops #he was still a kid back then #if Bruce had known this he would had have a new son #the conversation will be so akward #Danny just wants to help in the Wayne's Space Program #why is life so unfair

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hollow-toy · 25 days

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i do feel this terrible awful ache of loss when people talk about teenage boys because of all parts of my childhood i feel the most robbed of, it is by far my teenage years, even without the extra layer that i didn't get to be a boy during them. but it's fine. we're chill

#idk i have a lot of trouble expressing the sentiment that i wish i was a boy during earlier years of my life #i'm not sure why. it's a very normal feeling for a trans person to have #i guess sometimes it feels like i'm saying “i wish i had begun to experience male privilege earlier in my life”#which of course is not at all what i'm saying and very unfair to myself #idk i've known so many people who desperately did not want to have to spend their teenage years as boys and it feels somehow rude #to want what hurt them so badly #but that also feels unfair to them. i shouldn't assume they'd judge me so harshly #and then i feel bad for feeling bad about it because i know that transfems face ridiculous amounts of hostility and condescension for #expressing that they wish they got to live as girls in their earlier years #so really what's my fucking problem. i have it easy and i'll be fine #dysphoria does not really seem to agree with me lately on that. but i know it's true #i have it easy. i'll be fine #thoughts inc

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michelleelizabethtanner · 1 year

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I am still not over the way literally EVERYONE was ready for Brio to be like…

And instead we got…

#life is so unfair #and here we are still sharing the same three scenes in every form #🤡🤡🤡💦#why did they make Annie like this?#why does she have literally 0 standards #why does she parent like this?#I hate it #gg 4.15 #good girls nbc

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llumimoon · 11 months

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im so bored i wish i was a cat and also that i could just instantly teleport to my friends so i could bother them as a cat. i am headbutting you and also biting you and flopping over ur keyboard 🥺

#cal rambles #i feel like a kitty meowinf for attention #except i dont wanna bother ppl so im just sitting here like >:[#OUGGH. OUHGGFFF. life is soooo unfair why does distance have to be a thing why do i gotta be a human #i wanna :[ just do nothing but be a kitty and sit next to u and watch u do ur stuff

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mouseratz · 17 hours

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"Bruce being violently protective of Selina" she doesn't need all that. she's fine at protecting herself nine times out of ten and, generally, fiercely independent (which has been one of the major obstacles between them). she also probably doesn't super love the fact that he can be violent & extremely reactive (in many stories saving her female friends or being fiercely protective of them because of the violence, which is also often of a sexual nature, that they face). just a hunch... I don't think she'd be like all that into it even though the superhero stuff obviously is sexy/cool at times right. she usually is less playing "oh woe is me damsel in distress" and more so playing "I'm being bad and you should chase me about it". let's be real. the dynamic is wrong if youre looking at the first one

#not that like. fiction cant be toxic and unhealthy right. and honestly they are. but to do it like this is So Boring and Sucks #just imo. peak batcat is returns. shes ANGRY that she could be saved by him. RESENTFUL of his privilege & wealth.#even though she knows hes a good man and finds his career as the dark knight super exciting. its not about attraction.#its about how unfair it all is. she has to be bad not bc she even did anything wrong. but bc a man had more power than her #bc shed spent her whole life trying to please men romantically.....and only now does she find love #she loves him. but she also believes its too late for her. and she doesnt want to be saved.#she did want to be saved a long time ago. before she died. before her life was revealed as meaningless to the ppl around her.#but she cant be that girl anymore. theres something dark and wrong festering inside her because of what shes been through.#and he cant make that go away.#and maybe she doesnt want it to go away. its what finally gave her the strength to stand on her own anyway.#and he doesnt understand this. he never could. hes always been a valuable man treated as a whole person by everyone around him.#this is why they have a really interesting push and pull

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thedevotionaltour · 5 months

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thinking about daredevil yellow again im not. going to make it Guys.

#static.soundz #crying screaming and hitting the ground. so good. it made me cry really bad #bc whenever i think about jack n matt it always makes me think of me n my dad for various reasons #when matt said i couldnt feel his heartbeat inside me anymore. no words.#i rambled about it on my main but dd is very much intwined in an interesting and special way with my own heavy grief about my dad #and matt was a very important character to me during that time of my life for the exact same reason.#it's why i take a lot of very heavy issue when things try to make it so his dad died in his childhood as opposed to college #bc a) think it takes away a lot of the important nature of their relationship and b) my own personal projection #bc all grief at any stage is highly personal and unique and particular #but it really does feel like. matt is really just starting to become an adult (depending whether he dies when matt's in under or post grad)#(bc i can never remember which) but he's not quite a mega established one. there's still that lingering of childhood #so even though he's grown. it just hurts in a very particular way. they saw you grow up. but they didnt really see you become an adult.#they did not see the person you're going to be. that you are. that you're becoming. it feels like such a bizarre unfair moment in time.#bc why now? why not when i was younger? why not when i was truly an adult adult who is expecting to lose you now?#why at this moment and no other time?#but thinking about matt going i wish i told my dad how much i loved him.#more than anything when he goes 'i love you dad. did you hear? i love you.'#it made me cry like a fucking bitch. honest to god tearing up when i type about it. it wrenches my heart it twists it and it makes me wanna #drop to my knees and just weep and weep and weep. they are everything to me.#i have intertwined a lot of matt's grief with mine in a way that makes him so so so important to me. because as stupid as it fucking sounds #that comic and him as a character are everything to me. so genuinely. they were a lifeline my freshman year #when i was so depressed all i could do was read comics. or listen to music #i could do nothing else. i did. clearly. i did work and assignments. but dd was everything to me alongside dm #im sorry i am being an actual like nutbag in my tags im sorry i just have a lot of feelings. this story is everything to me ever ok? ok.

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faaun · 2 years

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i feel conflicted abt my relationship...need advice etc . in tags . pls i need input sm

#i love my gf a lot and i think our relationship is doing rly good rn . i miss her a lot bc im in a diff country to her but ill see her #in a few weeks etc. anyway things are good....HOWERVER. i am worried abt . our future #like u are supposed to live in the moment and have fun and be young etc etc but this is like..the fact that its going well #is making me consider how our life paths would go tgth and if it would be fair to stay in a relationship u know wont work forever. like #this was one of the reasons why i felt hesitant at first etc. basically i swore to myself i would only date an academic or at least someone #who like. has. A Thing. that they are working towards that they are rly rly passionate abt. bc i thought it just wouldnt work out otherwise #and it seemed after a while of talking that she IS like that...shes applying for a graphic design degree and she seems to genuinely #love art etc so much and also she is amazing at it. HOWRVER...she hasnt drawn in a while #and is working a min wage job despite meaning to quit for ages...and as far as im aware #she still hasnt made a portfolio...etc etc. but im so confused bc like...shes great and ik she can do it i just dont #understand why she wont. she could also get an internship etc in the relevant field but i still dont get it...and its not my place to be #pushy abt it. like i already suggested these things and asked abt them but i dont want to ask any more bc like. its her choice #what she does w her life etc. but anyway its like...am i being pessimistic/impatient and everything is gonna #go well for her or do i hold genuine concerns. and if the latter/both potentially...is it unfair to be like #hey babe ik things are amazing rn but we have to reevaluate bc idk if in 10 yrs i would be happy w where we are #my friend was like. Break Up W Her from the beginning bc he thinks u shouldn't get into a relationship w smn whom you think will not also #elevate u in some way..and ur life paths dont align etc...but he is genuinely married to his academics like hes sworn off #love so i didnt rly listen bc hes rly extreme w his. love gets in the way of academics. etc #but also his point was valid i think? that you want the person u spend ur life w to elevate you. u want them to challenge you and make you #want to work harder and be better and achieve more and more...and i do want that and i have been trying to be that for them #but A) i can only be that to a reasonable extent for them before it starts being like nagging/being pushy and #B) i feel like if they end up going the way they are rn they can never be that for me. is that bad #like am i a horrible person for thinking this way. obviously i am not casting a moral judgement on her or anyone #for whatever path in life they choose to go down but also is it like...Silly to give up on a perfectly good #relationship bc ur like. as it stands i do not see you walking alongside me in 10 yrs etc #like im lich rally 20 . but what if it DOES end up going rly well and it DOES end up being thr case that we end up staying together #and then im like. feeling discouraged bc my partner in life is just not the kind of person i imagined being w when i was 19 or 20...#like in terms of careers etc. more importantly is this a discussion i should have w her . bc i literally do not know how to raise this #without sounding like a dick but is that bc i...am being a dick? is this a bad thing ?? is this thought not that of a good person ?#it sounds so WEIRD to be like hey babe either u have to start being more ambitious and insane abt ur art or i might break up w you. like :/

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mizumuu · 10 months

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would you guys forgive me if i played zenless zone zero be honest

#theyve got a furry guy i desire carnally ☹️ why does he have to be from a mihoyo game lifes so unfair #talking

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saltysatellite804 · 1 year

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ever sit there watching yuri/yaoi amvs on YouTube and having totally normal reactions

#god #why cant i just fall in lovee #im lovesick #like homesick #but for love #im very gay feeling tonight #why the fuck does life have to be so goddamned hard #i deserve a halfway decent romance before i die goddamn it #im so angery at the unfairness #i hate how long ive lived in alienation and isolation #why do i feel like the only person on this earth sometimes #anyway ive got at least 3 new animes to watch

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thewhizzyhead · 2 years

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you know my dudes i don't think i'm quite sure on whether i prefer "it's not a game" or "be safe/be good" as a prelude to it's just a ride aka the rtc finale cause like. "It's not a game" fits more musically and thematically to it's just a ride and it sounds so damn good and it focuses on the kids bittersweetingly making peace with their choice to concede for Jane Doe which is VERY important to them making peace with their lives in "it's just a ride" and their character arcs in regards to how they treat Jane Doe BUT THEN AGAIN "be safe/be good" has the kids MOURNING their deaths and the lives they left behind and like,,,the idea of first mourning their own deaths before coming to peace with them via finding the fun in the rollercoaster ride that led to their deaths IS SO FUCKING HEAVY AND PROFOUND ESPECIALLY CONSIDERING THAT THE CHARACTERS ARE KIDS LIKE HOLY FUCK THAT'S IMPACTFUL

#as u can see i am torn once again #cAN WE HAVE BOTH? CAN WE PLEASE HAVE BOTH #i can see why their director liked be safe/be good a lot because damn (also may she rest in peace)#i dunno like i am in love with the idea that to first make amends with your life and with your death you have to first MOURN your losses #like #fuck #i kinda wish rtc featured that more somewhere #but also hngggg it's not a game/it's just a ride fits so fucking well in the show though #and it's important to show that these kids have also learned to gain empathy for someone they barely know (jane doe)#to the point of voting for her to live again #so HOW DO WE SOLVE THIS HMM #anyways woo rtc brainrot #ride the cyclone #aLSO LIKE TO EXPOUND ON THE MOURNING PART - HAVING THAT PART STAY EMPHASIZES THAT THE CHOICE WAS *PAINFUL*#THE CHOICE TO VOTE JANE DOE - THOUGH MADE WILLFULLY - HAD TO BE PERSONALLY PAINFUL TO THEM #BECAUSE THAT MEANT LETTING GO OF THEIR OWN LIVES #AND YET NO MATTER HOW UNFAIR THEY FIND THEIR SITUATION TO BE (it's not fAAAAAAIR not faiiiiir)#tHEY STILL MAKE THAT CHOICE #aND THEY STAND BY IT - WHICH LEADS TO THEM COMING TO TERMS WITH THEIR LIVES AND DEATHS IN THE NEXT PART OF THE FINALE #IT'S JUST SO FUCKING GOOD GUYS

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8liralik-armin-albumu · 1 year

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okay i will genuinely ask a question

#how does someone go on and live their so called life with no motivation wish or will to live #seriously it's just... so wrong?#like what am i gonna do now #i don't want to do anything i just want to not exist #and now am i supposed to go and study and/or work hard because it is what's expected?#until when and for what #it's even unfair to everyone like I'm basically wasting resources time and chances #not that they're oh so amazing i suck but #i unfortunately still exist so are the consequences #so why?#seriously i can't find any answer any little branch or even a leaf to hold onto #i don't know how queue works but i used it #;dl #tw negativity #negativity tw #idk #tw death #death tw #not explicitly said but definitely expressed ig #idk apparently im not even reading enough to have a sufficient enough vocabulary and speaking/writing skills

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that-was-a-bit-stupid-of-you · 2 years

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Why are the "aesthetic" or "that girl" or "glow up" pics on pinterest always thin skinny white girls???

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fellhellion · 1 year

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Hm. Something I’ve been thinking about (since I never shut up about Miguel apparently) is the idea that maybe there’s not supposed to be, to his understanding of what happened, a singular canon event that he breaks when dipping dimensions, it’s more the idea that he “breaks” canon by no longer being present to carry out his own canon events, by wanting something outside of what was apparently predestined to him, and the universe punished him for it.

I broke [canon] once myself, he says, but he doesn’t name the event even as the examples he pulls up are labelled.

Perhaps the “event”, as the characters perceive it, could just be something as simple as by virtue of replacing alt!Miguel he negated the intended effect of the man’s death upon the world around him.

But I just wonder. Because the way Miguel speaks of this to Miles portrays his own wanting for something different as being what he thinks invoked that destruction.

“We all want to live the life we wish we had, believe me I’ve tried. And the harder I tried, the more damage I did. You can’t have it all, kid.”

I wanted something more, but Spider-Man’s fate is set. Any and all events, regardless of their nature. And defying that fate, trying to live a life beyond what it asked of me killed people.

If you alter your course from canon in any way, you hurt people.

#tunes talks spiderverse #long post #idk idk just thinking thoughts #I find it interesting to think of different ways we can interpret the same information #interpret the characters’ thinking in different ways #maybe they DO think alt!Miguel’s death was a canon event and our Miguel just didn’t know at the time #but i wonder. considering there’s a big overhanging metanarrative question about the purpose of suffering in spiderman stories #- asking us who suffers (Gwen being constantly fridged) and why -#it could be a matter of the characters thinking if they try escape or outwit ‘predetermined’ suffering the universe will only take more from #you #it’s so interesting to me because Miguel pre-dimension dip left because he felt such an absence of joy in his life #he was deeply unhappy and wanted something as simple as a happy family life #he doesn’t WANT to be in pain. some part of him resents the idea that this seems to be his lot in life #he resents it as much as Miles does. but he believes he needs to bear it because look what happened when u wanted better you hurt people #and like. have yammered about this in a previous post but I think part of his nasty rant at Miles is abt offloading some of that suppressed #resentment for the toll this fate has taken on him onto Miles #he blames Miles because Miles is THERE. you can control that at least. it’s not the intangible cosmic force that would apparently as soon as #murder you than change #it’s unfair of him to do so (offload onto Miles I mean) DEEPLY unfair and inappropriate behaviour.#but also god. is the desire not to hurt anymore so human. is the idea of RESENTING that hurt being ur lot in life human #the narratives…they’re foiling….

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