#we can have empathy too
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 6 months ago
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“You Can’t be Autistic…”
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The Autistic Teacher
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too-many-rooks · 23 days ago
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Reminds me of someone.
Istvan Toth + respecting Henry during 'The Storm'
(+making these I had a little moment of realisation because. Does Istvan even know Henry's fucking name? He and Erik usually refer to him in relation to Radzig, but I can't remember if they ever actually call him Henry?
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volivolition · 6 months ago
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DAY 4: DRAMA - Put on your prettiest face for the masses!
gonna start adding silly captions actually. [POINTS ACCUSINGLY] MELTY FUCK (AFFECTIONATE)!!
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aliciavance4228 · 6 months ago
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"Medusa x Perseus" Why don't you guys ship Bellerophon with Chimera? Or Heracles with the Hydra?
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tallwife · 3 months ago
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david lynch signing the polanski petition will always be a black mark on his legacy, the same way its coloured my views of scorsese, or xavier dolan or alfonso cuarón, and so on and on and on. it feels endless and it speaks to a deep stupidity and a deeper misogyny present in hollywood. if you believe people like natalie portman (who also signed it) the petition was being passed around and people felt obligated or casual about signing what their peers were asking them to. its up to you as an individual to decide if you agree with this version of events. i think its a version of the story that omits some responsibility from the signees and i dont totally agree with it.
an anon coming into my inbox to act morally superior and tell me about the polanski petition, only now when im making posts about how sad it is that david lynch died from a very painful disease, but not sending anything any of the times ive posted about twin peaks or the elephant man or blue velvet, doesnt feel like its coming from a place of good faith. you wait until hes dead to send me an anonymous message about it?
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queencaramilflinda · 1 year ago
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The real message of Lucy vs Buddy is that worshipping a divinity is about following the values that the god puts forth, not about preaching or praying or evangelizing.
When Buddy was offered to die a Helio worshipper or live with a different god, he chose to abandon the faith he claimed such devotion to. When Lucy was offered the same thing, she looked to her values as they related to her religion and decided that she would not add to the coldness of the world. Lucy, even in death, remains a light in the dark, the warm memory in the coldness of the ratgrinders. That’s true devotion. That’s the point of religion.
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caligvlasaqvarivm · 9 months ago
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wanna ask how you feel about the eridan bpd headcanon/theory(?? not sure what to call it!) you're so good at your character analysis and i'd love to see your outlook on it
Since I don't have a degree or any formal training in psychology, I feel deeply uncomfortable diagnosing characters. I've made an autism joke before but only because I'm on the spectrum. He's definitely traumatized and anxious, but I mean those as descriptors of his behavior rather than capital-D Diagnoses. I try to focus on those when I can - the cause and effect of cognition, self-image, and behavior - and those factors may very well match up with DSM criteria, but I try not to touch an actual diagnosis with a ten foot pole unless the author has explicitly stated that X character has Y condition.
#there's a variety of reasons for this#part of it is that im GROSSLY unqualified to be handing out diagnoses when it takes a full on PhD to do that in real life#part of it is that psychology is inchoate and we are still very much in murky waters#for example: complex ptsd isn't even IN the DSM yet#and iirc my therapist told me it was because theyre still figuring out how to classify it (attachment disorder? trauma disorder? etc.)#part of it is that (from my limited and undereducated understanding) there are diagnoses that you can assign by completing a checklist...#but some that require a hell of a lot more testing and ruling out other potential causes#and the cluster-b personalities are (IIRC) not even ones you're supposed to diagnose minors with#bc of fears of self fulfilling prophecy and because minors in general are still developing personalities In General#and like the fact that i can't say that with authority speaks to how unqualified i am to do any diagnosing right? hahaha#and part of it is just because like#unless the story is specifically About That and the author has stated so explicitly#i think diagnosing characters tends to put blinders on analysis#like if i were to seriously go 'eridan is autistic' then it would massively bias my reading and understanding of his character#and we have 0 indication that eridan was ever explicitly intended to be autistic or that the author was trying to do an autism specifically#that doesn't mean that the reading is invalid because like thats what death of the author means#all readings are technically valid including stuff the author didn't necessarily intend#but that's just not the way i like to engage with media and not the way i like to approach character analysis#because PERSONALLY it just feels kind of reductive - but also -#i'd wager MOST of us don't have degrees in psychology#so when i say 'X character has Y condition' it might mean something totally different to somebody reading my analysis#even people who have Y condition aren't exempt because a lot of mental illnesses differ from person to person#whereas if i explain “X character has Y thoughts and Z behaviors” there's no ambiguity in that#eridan struggles with noticing that people are suffering and with realizing that he should care#at least part of this is due to his horrific murder-filled upbringing which rendered empathy a detriment & so he learned to ignore it#it could be autism - but it could also be trauma -#or he might just be Like That without actually meeting the diagnostic criteria for autism#& you can't even technically be diagnosed with C-PTSD#or maybe he has a burgeoning personality disorder but you aren't supposed to DX those too early anyway#or maybe hes just 13. see what i mean hahaha. ive reached the 30 tag limit
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heavenbloom · 2 months ago
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if you have a large following, there is no reason why you are not posting about palestine still, even if it’s only semi-regularly or when you see it. you lot will say “boycott tlou, neil druckmann is a zionist!” until you are blue in the face, and while that is important, you know what also is much more important? directly helping the people in need by reblogging their posts to the copious amounts of people that follow you and by sacrificing your morning coffee and donating like 5-10 bucks if you’re able to. it takes two seconds to check vetting and it doesn’t hurt to use your platform for simple human decency. we may not be able to take the suffering of people away as individuals, but that is why community and care is important. if everyone is able to chip in or at least share, we could make a difference to the people who are enduring these nightmarish realities. you need to believe in your own kindnesses and your own humanity. you need to believe in your own power to help others.
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aq2003 · 11 months ago
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i saw a post saying boom was good bc it feels like it could be done with any doctor/companion duo and honestly that was one of the things i felt was wrong with it
#in a show with a title character that could be Literally Anyone and a companion sharing the lead that could be Literally Anyone#i value the little moments that set this duo apart from the rest. ESPECIALLY when it comes to returning writers like rtd/moff#fifteen and ruby felt a little too eleven/twelve and clara adjacent in boom. in both their dialogue and characterization#space babies also landed a little weird at first bc it lifted a bit from end of the world BUT the scenes that fifteen and ruby#had to themselves. like ruby getting covered in snot and fifteen laughing. or fifteen and ruby looking after the Space Babies#or fifteen going out of his way to save the monster bc that monster is the only one of its kind Just Like Him Fr#that stuff is so good and its also something we haven't seen from another nuwho doctor. the vulnerable bleeding-heart empathy#and a dynamic w a companion that is basically 'two troublemakers that just deeply love fun and adventure and getting into trouble together'#oh yeah and also the devil's chord was peak fiction because it touches on fifteen's renewed connection and love for humanity#and marries it to ruby being a musician and how music like any art is the expression of the human soul etc etc#WHAT MAKES A DOCTOR WHO STORY GOOD TO ME IS PARTLY HOW THE PREMISE TIES INTO THE DOCTOR AND COMPANION'S CHARACTERS#IT HAS TO FEEL LIKE IT WAS TAILOR MADE TO THEM. ELSE IT WONT LAND RIGHT TO ME#i hate the take that they should've saved wild blue yonder for a fifteen episode bc#the tension is hinged on how well the doctor/companion know each other. u have a level of it that u can ONLY get#with fourteen and donna who are two halves of a whole soul but have also spent much more time missing the other than knowing them#im not rewatching fifteen's eps rn until a week later when i can watch it w my qpp but#rn i still feel a stronger sense of fifteen and ruby's characters from all the rtd-written eps rather moffat#which like. i get that a lot of that is my personal dislike of moffat's writing style but still#dr who#15 era#dw spoilers
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 11 months ago
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The Autism Urge to be Helpful
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The Autistic Teacher
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junewild · 5 months ago
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i neeeeeeed a therapist so fucking bad lmfao
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wetslug · 1 year ago
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accused of having no empathy today bc i dont cry or get sad when im doing pediatric autopsies.im busy @ work i dont have time to cry !!!
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noireservoir · 9 months ago
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Genuine question but why is it that people on this site really lose all sense of empathy and compassion for people at the drop of a hat. Like it feels as though people were waiting for that stupid ass "all Gazan GFMs are actually scams dont donate!!!" post to drop to justify wanting to ignore someone elses struggle
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tvnacity · 2 months ago
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i had a professor last semester call my cohort "chill" (we laughed at this) and she said we'd understand what she meant when we had class with the second-years in the spring and well. it's now spring. and she was right. We Understand.
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thebestusernamepossible · 3 months ago
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Seeing how downhill everything going gives me a special kind of pain because I *dont* want to just move to a different contry. Despite everything I like living here, I like the good aspects of it. I like our cultural diversity, I like summer BBQs and visiting my great grandma every few months. I like fishing with my grandpa, and despite what a shithole it is I love the people who love their lives everyday here. And I am so so so so scared for them.
I don’t want to have to leave my home to not live in a facist nazi contry. I don’t want to have to move to be happy.
I hate the America of today…. But the people? The American people, who are scraping paycheck to paycheck and getting fed unjust propaganda? The people in my community? The people stuck in this burnt melting pot with me?
I love them.
And I can only hope for their safety.
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