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“You Can’t be Autistic…”







The Autistic Teacher
#autism#actually autistic#autism stereotypes#I hate stereotypes so much#I hate how they depict us as either super smart or the exact opposite and need help with everything#we can have empathy too#I’m hyperempathetic#women can have autism too#masking#we can make eye contact too#every autistic person is different#no one is the same#neurodiversity#actually neurodivergent#ARFID#tw eating issues#feel free to share/reblog#The Autistic Teacher (facebook)
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Reminds me of someone.
Istvan Toth + respecting Henry during 'The Storm'
(+making these I had a little moment of realisation because. Does Istvan even know Henry's fucking name? He and Erik usually refer to him in relation to Radzig, but I can't remember if they ever actually call him Henry?
#Is this respect? is it sympathy? is it empathy? It's something that I'm compelled by. Recognition at the very least.#+re the name thing I can just picture Istvan and Erik doing some evil plotting and theyre talking about Henry and go 'it's Capon and... him#and then they look at each other while they realise they don't know what their 20y/o nemisis is called.#WAY too awkward to ask now. Let's just insult him whenever we see him. much easier.#Kinda love this bitch ngl#The voice actor seems to be having so much fun. and the character seems to be having so much fun scheming and being evil#and a dramatic petty bitch#Istvan Toth#Kingdom Come Deliverance#Kingdom Come Deliverance 2#Kingdom come deliverance spoilers#kcd2 spoilers#kcd2#my gifs#rooks's gifs
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DAY 4: DRAMA - Put on your prettiest face for the masses!
gonna start adding silly captions actually. [POINTS ACCUSINGLY] MELTY FUCK (AFFECTIONATE)!!
#disco elysium#drama#de drama#disco elysium skills#skilltober#skilltober 2024#de skills#voliart#GUY WHO IS GOOP AND SPOTLIGHTS!! he can form the lights into hands but usually theyre lights!! i think bottom left face is always sad :']#lmao i don't know why i was worried about posting on schedule with everyone. im VERY MUCH BEHIND hgkj but we stay silly!!#also BIG OOF GUY WITH ONE (1) SKILL POINT. NOT FILLED IN. THAT'S GENUINELY JUST ONE.#harry is a BAD LIAR. its really funny to me like all INTs are supposed to have 2 at LEAST??#but the Remote Viewer's Division thought LMAO sorry for nerfing you for fic reasons bud :']#to note: unfilled skill points also count as one! so if you see six skill points and three are filled that means 9 points total! :]#empty skill points are just the skill cap. technically even this is wrong since thoughts just remove from the number and not the diamonds?#but NEVERTHELESS i dont want to work on this anymore so let's carry on shall we?#i love his swept up chapter. empathy (highest level skill! 9 points!) and drama put on a little play together :3#and no one is jealoussss of anyone!!! certainly not!!! :)!!!#the thing about it is that i also have concept completely done too; EXCEPT for her quote caption!! so i'll just have to post xer later :']#alas <33 sleep time for voli!!
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"Medusa x Perseus" Why don't you guys ship Bellerophon with Chimera? Or Heracles with the Hydra?
#greek mythology#medusa#perseus#ramblings#Yes I know that Medusa has a more humanoid appearance and human intellect compared to the other female monsters#But she is still a monster#She was supposed to have a monstruous appearance but then people made her dirty#Imagine if I would turn the Minotaur into a hot guy with horns and then ship him with Theseus AKA his own killer#I know it sounds ridiculous but this is exactly how some people out there sound too#Why can't we acknowledge that one doesn’t need to be conventionally attractive in order to deserve empathy or understanding?#Or that a woman can be evil and malevolent without a tragic background story that turn all women into victims and all men into assholes?#And why do we have to come up with the most stupid pairs to ever exist?#My tags are becoming more and more distant from the post's subject but my FYP is full of this type of BS so here I am#Thanks for my (salty) Ted Talk!
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david lynch signing the polanski petition will always be a black mark on his legacy, the same way its coloured my views of scorsese, or xavier dolan or alfonso cuarón, and so on and on and on. it feels endless and it speaks to a deep stupidity and a deeper misogyny present in hollywood. if you believe people like natalie portman (who also signed it) the petition was being passed around and people felt obligated or casual about signing what their peers were asking them to. its up to you as an individual to decide if you agree with this version of events. i think its a version of the story that omits some responsibility from the signees and i dont totally agree with it.
an anon coming into my inbox to act morally superior and tell me about the polanski petition, only now when im making posts about how sad it is that david lynch died from a very painful disease, but not sending anything any of the times ive posted about twin peaks or the elephant man or blue velvet, doesnt feel like its coming from a place of good faith. you wait until hes dead to send me an anonymous message about it?
#the people who signed it need to be held accountable#but getting on your high horse and acting like im advocating for roman polanski bc im sad david lynch died is weird behaviour actually!#people on this website constantly praise del toro without a peep#also like me finding david lynchs work really inspiring and finding him to be a unique and interesting person#doesnt mean i think he was an ideologically pure soul?#he had some weird views about women#which is something that can coexist with him having huge empathy for his female characters. if you can imagine.#will you keep the same energy when harmony korine or wes anderson or guillermo del toro die too?
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The real message of Lucy vs Buddy is that worshipping a divinity is about following the values that the god puts forth, not about preaching or praying or evangelizing.
When Buddy was offered to die a Helio worshipper or live with a different god, he chose to abandon the faith he claimed such devotion to. When Lucy was offered the same thing, she looked to her values as they related to her religion and decided that she would not add to the coldness of the world. Lucy, even in death, remains a light in the dark, the warm memory in the coldness of the ratgrinders. That’s true devotion. That’s the point of religion.
#thinking about. when I went to the leadership conference in January#and we each were given a list of like 100 values. and we each had to choose 5 to claim as Our Values#and at the end I looked around the room to find that 90% of other people had picked self serving values#family. friends. inner peace. self esteem. faith. etc#and I had things that helped the world. empathy. justice. knowledge. etc#and like… there is nothing wrong with valuing family or self esteem. those things when positive can make life worth living. I get it#but would those people who chose to value inner peace and family have chosen the god of rage?#if u value inner peace over world peace what decisions will you make that fuck over the world to save urself?#this is certainly too deep for a d20 post ignore me#cienna talks#fhjy#fantasy high
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wanna ask how you feel about the eridan bpd headcanon/theory(?? not sure what to call it!) you're so good at your character analysis and i'd love to see your outlook on it
Since I don't have a degree or any formal training in psychology, I feel deeply uncomfortable diagnosing characters. I've made an autism joke before but only because I'm on the spectrum. He's definitely traumatized and anxious, but I mean those as descriptors of his behavior rather than capital-D Diagnoses. I try to focus on those when I can - the cause and effect of cognition, self-image, and behavior - and those factors may very well match up with DSM criteria, but I try not to touch an actual diagnosis with a ten foot pole unless the author has explicitly stated that X character has Y condition.
#there's a variety of reasons for this#part of it is that im GROSSLY unqualified to be handing out diagnoses when it takes a full on PhD to do that in real life#part of it is that psychology is inchoate and we are still very much in murky waters#for example: complex ptsd isn't even IN the DSM yet#and iirc my therapist told me it was because theyre still figuring out how to classify it (attachment disorder? trauma disorder? etc.)#part of it is that (from my limited and undereducated understanding) there are diagnoses that you can assign by completing a checklist...#but some that require a hell of a lot more testing and ruling out other potential causes#and the cluster-b personalities are (IIRC) not even ones you're supposed to diagnose minors with#bc of fears of self fulfilling prophecy and because minors in general are still developing personalities In General#and like the fact that i can't say that with authority speaks to how unqualified i am to do any diagnosing right? hahaha#and part of it is just because like#unless the story is specifically About That and the author has stated so explicitly#i think diagnosing characters tends to put blinders on analysis#like if i were to seriously go 'eridan is autistic' then it would massively bias my reading and understanding of his character#and we have 0 indication that eridan was ever explicitly intended to be autistic or that the author was trying to do an autism specifically#that doesn't mean that the reading is invalid because like thats what death of the author means#all readings are technically valid including stuff the author didn't necessarily intend#but that's just not the way i like to engage with media and not the way i like to approach character analysis#because PERSONALLY it just feels kind of reductive - but also -#i'd wager MOST of us don't have degrees in psychology#so when i say 'X character has Y condition' it might mean something totally different to somebody reading my analysis#even people who have Y condition aren't exempt because a lot of mental illnesses differ from person to person#whereas if i explain “X character has Y thoughts and Z behaviors” there's no ambiguity in that#eridan struggles with noticing that people are suffering and with realizing that he should care#at least part of this is due to his horrific murder-filled upbringing which rendered empathy a detriment & so he learned to ignore it#it could be autism - but it could also be trauma -#or he might just be Like That without actually meeting the diagnostic criteria for autism#& you can't even technically be diagnosed with C-PTSD#or maybe he has a burgeoning personality disorder but you aren't supposed to DX those too early anyway#or maybe hes just 13. see what i mean hahaha. ive reached the 30 tag limit
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if you have a large following, there is no reason why you are not posting about palestine still, even if it’s only semi-regularly or when you see it. you lot will say “boycott tlou, neil druckmann is a zionist!” until you are blue in the face, and while that is important, you know what also is much more important? directly helping the people in need by reblogging their posts to the copious amounts of people that follow you and by sacrificing your morning coffee and donating like 5-10 bucks if you’re able to. it takes two seconds to check vetting and it doesn’t hurt to use your platform for simple human decency. we may not be able to take the suffering of people away as individuals, but that is why community and care is important. if everyone is able to chip in or at least share, we could make a difference to the people who are enduring these nightmarish realities. you need to believe in your own kindnesses and your own humanity. you need to believe in your own power to help others.
#i get not having money bc most of mine goes to supporting a sick family member#but sharing doesn’t hurt???#so others who have the money can donate#a lot of u are too focused on numbers and attention on ur works it’s sometimes sickening ngl!#im barely on tumblr but like… from what i’ve been seeing as i’m more active it’s kinda sad#as someone who’s written my entire life to me writing is abt humanity and love for what we experience & endure#so i find it crazy sometimes how some prioritise notes over empathy#it feels soulless to me#isa muses
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i saw a post saying boom was good bc it feels like it could be done with any doctor/companion duo and honestly that was one of the things i felt was wrong with it
#in a show with a title character that could be Literally Anyone and a companion sharing the lead that could be Literally Anyone#i value the little moments that set this duo apart from the rest. ESPECIALLY when it comes to returning writers like rtd/moff#fifteen and ruby felt a little too eleven/twelve and clara adjacent in boom. in both their dialogue and characterization#space babies also landed a little weird at first bc it lifted a bit from end of the world BUT the scenes that fifteen and ruby#had to themselves. like ruby getting covered in snot and fifteen laughing. or fifteen and ruby looking after the Space Babies#or fifteen going out of his way to save the monster bc that monster is the only one of its kind Just Like Him Fr#that stuff is so good and its also something we haven't seen from another nuwho doctor. the vulnerable bleeding-heart empathy#and a dynamic w a companion that is basically 'two troublemakers that just deeply love fun and adventure and getting into trouble together'#oh yeah and also the devil's chord was peak fiction because it touches on fifteen's renewed connection and love for humanity#and marries it to ruby being a musician and how music like any art is the expression of the human soul etc etc#WHAT MAKES A DOCTOR WHO STORY GOOD TO ME IS PARTLY HOW THE PREMISE TIES INTO THE DOCTOR AND COMPANION'S CHARACTERS#IT HAS TO FEEL LIKE IT WAS TAILOR MADE TO THEM. ELSE IT WONT LAND RIGHT TO ME#i hate the take that they should've saved wild blue yonder for a fifteen episode bc#the tension is hinged on how well the doctor/companion know each other. u have a level of it that u can ONLY get#with fourteen and donna who are two halves of a whole soul but have also spent much more time missing the other than knowing them#im not rewatching fifteen's eps rn until a week later when i can watch it w my qpp but#rn i still feel a stronger sense of fifteen and ruby's characters from all the rtd-written eps rather moffat#which like. i get that a lot of that is my personal dislike of moffat's writing style but still#dr who#15 era#dw spoilers
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The Autism Urge to be Helpful








The Autistic Teacher
#autism#actually autistic#the urge to be helpful#some might think it’s fake#I hope some don’t think I’m TOO helpful#helping others can leave us vulnerable#we unique why of thinking#some of us have a strong sense of empathy#but it’s ok to have little or no empathy#neurodivergence#neurodiversity#actually neurodivergent#feel free to share/reblog#The Autistic Teacher (Facebook)
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i neeeeeeed a therapist so fucking bad lmfao
#k talks#someone who will have both perspective & empathy to talk thru this issue w#bc it is ALL tangled up in my head & i simply cannot unsnarl it by myself#the lich is too close to the problem to be helpful & the other people i’d talk to about it are solidly in the ‘well fuck that’ camp#& i don’t think that’s the correct answer either tbh#altho i don’t blame them for taking that position bc i’d prob be telling them the same thing if the roles were reversed#the one friend who DID have a v useful perspective about it last time we talked is superrrrr busy & i can’t drag him out of his life just#to talk to me abt this one thing#so i am counting the days until my insurance kicks in & i can afford therapy again 😭🙏🏼#(20 days. btw)
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accused of having no empathy today bc i dont cry or get sad when im doing pediatric autopsies.im busy @ work i dont have time to cry !!!
#id say i have adequate empathy and sympathy for ppl i know but if its a kid i dont know im sorry im just gonna break down n cry here#i can assess that its sad and that everyone around me is sad but that doesnt mean i gotta be too idk#life is hard but we stay sillayyyyy
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Genuine question but why is it that people on this site really lose all sense of empathy and compassion for people at the drop of a hat. Like it feels as though people were waiting for that stupid ass "all Gazan GFMs are actually scams dont donate!!!" post to drop to justify wanting to ignore someone elses struggle
#which is weird considering this site is supposed to be all about helping our communities via mutual aid#like yeaha scams are a probelm ive fallen for them as well but do you have any idea how exhausting begging for help is#begging for help when you know not everyone can contribute or understand you or see what you have to put up with#i see people struggling on this site every damn day! people i may not know personally but i still care about#i dont want them to suffer even if I dont have the funds to share and that goes for Gazans too#the scams dont suddenly make their needs easier to ignore and scroll past like do we really have no empathy for them rn#mag.txt
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i had a professor last semester call my cohort "chill" (we laughed at this) and she said we'd understand what she meant when we had class with the second-years in the spring and well. it's now spring. and she was right. We Understand.
#they have SO MUCH DRAMA and all of them act like children???#the fucking. antics#middle school levels of catty bitchiness plus just being way too stressed about things that don't matter#it's so weird#every class with just the 4 of us first years is like omg! yay! and the class we have with them is just. tension all the time forever#one of them said something bitchy to me under her breath and i was like girl??? we are getting phds??? you don't have to like me but??#everyone heard you be a bitch??? why would you want that???#i could keep explaining this drama but like#there are 6 of them and they all have some crazy dynamics with reality tv level drama#meanwhile my cohort is like. hey we naturally have empathy for each other and can talk like adults because we are adults#like we are trying to become CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGISTS why are all of you some combo of MEAN NEUROTIC AND OVERLY ANXIOUS??#lucy speaks#grad school life#like the overly anxious i get but it's to a point where one of them had to be held back from practicum for ayear
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Seeing how downhill everything going gives me a special kind of pain because I *dont* want to just move to a different contry. Despite everything I like living here, I like the good aspects of it. I like our cultural diversity, I like summer BBQs and visiting my great grandma every few months. I like fishing with my grandpa, and despite what a shithole it is I love the people who love their lives everyday here. And I am so so so so scared for them.
I don’t want to have to leave my home to not live in a facist nazi contry. I don’t want to have to move to be happy.
I hate the America of today…. But the people? The American people, who are scraping paycheck to paycheck and getting fed unjust propaganda? The people in my community? The people stuck in this burnt melting pot with me?
I love them.
And I can only hope for their safety.
#class conciousness is about to become real important#imo when I talk to conservatives I always wish I was more eloquent than I am#ik they usually have to figure it out themselves if they want to change#but by god I can see why it happens#why people get radicalized#I can look at a conservative red neck and understand why they’re like that and I hate that fact because they’re WRONG#but it’s just empathy you know#they’re lashing out in fear#this is their fight too they just don’t know it#the right is weaponising hatred and giving them a target#an average blue collar worker is just trying to make ends meet and they haven’t been exposed to enough things to shake the propaganda#if you’re born into right wing politics and raised to belive this is the problem#why would t you think that#I’m not JUSTIFYING IT#It’s just frustrating#I wish they had the opportunity to learn and see that we are not enemies in this fight#it is not me vs you#it is us vs the people who exploit us (rich)#if they were willing to listen and understand they’d see that a lot of the things they’re scared of (trans ppl#gay ppl etc) are just regular things being held up as a problem to make them feel better with a target#but it’s so hard#I am naive and so full of hope and love I may shatter#but one day we will be able to come togther and realize we the people are the same- and we the people deserve to be happy and healthy#I’m tired this is a tried post
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