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so pixies regularly try to take over fairyworld is timmy on the pixie side?
At first, Timmy was adamantly against the Pixies. He'd tell Jorgen every time he got a notice of their plans to take over Fairyworld, and work to stop it! But it gets a bit harder to resist against your own court the longer you hang out with them.
In the present time, Timmy schedules to be out of FairyWorld during their takeovers. He doesn't try to stop them, but also refuses to be anywhere near when it happens.
He... doesn't like how he's slowly starting to cheer for them. Or how their arguments are becoming more convincing. Or how he's struggling to recall why he was so against them to begin with.
There will come a point where he becomes an active participant. Timmy worries that it's coming sooner than he'd like.
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#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop timmy turner#fop timmy#timmy turner#asks#itty bitties fop au#AJHEHEHEHEH#timmy's happy that hp never ever tries to convince him to take part#hp knows timmy's antagonistic against him and knows going to timmy would just ruin their plans#but oughghg.#sanderson has such GOOD arguments.#taking over fairyworld means not working in the office....#you get paid time off....#....the more you participate the bigger the payout bonus after.........#the only reason timmy doesnt bother fighting against them anymore is because he knows theyll fail#there has never been a successful take over#at this point its a bit like playing snip the tail#just a way for the pixies to relieve stress and let their voices be heard#or at least that's how he tries to reason it to himself#also if ur wondering where he goes when hes not allowed on earth#timmy goes to anti-fairy world and hangs out with his anti relatives#well its more like doing chores for them and being their busboy but like!!!#better than being in fairyworld and feeling conflict between your instincts and your family!!!!!
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learning abt friendship decay and "not reaching out to your friends for months at a time unprompted is not neurotypical behaviour" has me feeling a certain way
#experiencing some BIG FEELINGS OVER THIS REVELATION#listen i have never ever been bothered abt not seeing someone in a while or making time to talk to them bc in my mind its like not thst muc#time has passed. i mean it with every fibre of my being that when im like 'oh its ok even though we havent talked in a while and have our#own things going on it doesnt mean we're not friends anymore since we left things on a good note 8 months ago' i sincerely believe that#and for the longest time i just thought everybody makes peace with it at some point and not automatically assuming the other person doesnt#wanna talk to me anymore or smth. my longest lasting friendships are with ppl who work the same way i just thouhght that was normal#whatever organ everybody has that makes them reach out to their friends and plan hang outs i probably dont have it#i was already hesitant to ask out Alex bc i spend almost every waking hour doing smth that isnt talking to ppl unless they happen to be in#the vicinity. and at first it was bc i planned on making sure i had everything set up so i dont get stressed out and do it one at a time#but then i find out theres a friendship decay mechanic? and after dating and marrying someone you lose -10 friendship points for every#day u dont talk to them?? actually ive probably been losing friendship points this whole time without knowing bc of this?????#and i notice a lot of my own habits are also reflected in how i play bc ive been avoiding getting close to pierre and marnie since its more#of a professional relationship. like i know theyre npcs but im approaching it the way i would in real life its fucking nuts#i think its a little relieving im playing /as/ a character than myself bc as im playing im just making up little interactions in my head#than approaching things the way i would myself so it takes a bit of the stress off trying to put myself in there as a spectator. but well#being in a relationship demands a certain amount of energy even more so when theyre things that already take up energy on its own#like making time to talk to your partner and make sure they know theyre loved. i dont always have energy to put all my mental focus into it#and this is true for real life so im not really bothered by not dating anyone. but when its a game and i want my character to be with someo#and i know its fully optional and i know i could just apply the same logic to this i dont /want/ to. sometimes i want to experience#the same things other people do at least to a certain degree without the same emotional andmental stakes#no offense krobus#yapping#stardew#stardew valley#puppy plays sdv#sdv#this game has me by the ankles man
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what's stressing you if you don't mind sharing? :/
it's the end of semester so uni is terrible, but the main thing is my housemate. she's really controlling and finds flaws in everything i do (i lived with multiple people before her and it has always been fine), so it's really stressing me out because every damn week she has something to say.
#she's the type of person that wants everything her way#i thought she's like that because i live with her#but apparently she's just terrible to deal with lmao#a friend of mine does an internship at a clinic#and there's two girls that are in the same uni as my housemate#and they told him she's insane. not a single soul wants to any group work with her#she simply doesn't know how to deal with people#i'm somehow a bit more relieved knowing this#but it's draining. i don't feel at home at all#and i literally just go there to sleep because i'm out working and at uni the entire day#i was living with my friends before and it was amazing! but it was too far away from my work and uni#i moved only to get more sleep and peace#and now i can sleep but i barely have peace and i'm dealing with a stress i never had :(#replies
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"We can get through this by working together, reach out to your friends, community is all we have, a social network will be your security in the world, now is the time to lean on others!"
I do agree, and it's scientifically sound (pretty sure there is data about how people with better social networks live longer and etc) but also....augh..... what about the severe social issues, difficulty to leave the house, physical issues which lead to like zero socialization energy a majority of the time, etc. etc. Social support can be a replacement for structural support, but.. I guess I just wish it didn't have to be. Community is extremely difficult to build, even moreso if you're someone who has issues with social cues or group conversations or even just being around others in the first place. And blah, nuance, of course I'm just complaining or maybe being too negative or maybe misunderstanding, but, I hardly have the energy to brush my hair once every 2 months.. how am I supposed to maintain a wide social network and be active in a Community and Join Groups lol... sometimes it kind of feels like "er.. well if thats my only option then...... ruh roh". It's overwhelming
#Kind of like some post I saw a long time ago talking about how even the meanest shittiest most difficult to get along with#elderly people or whaever still deserve to have some sort of systems in place to support them so they're not just relying on the#grace of relatives or etc. who may not be able to deal with them. Not saying that I'm like mean and cruel or anything#but the fact of the matter is in most social situations either I am compromising or the other person is. Not in like an ~`ouuu im so weirdd#nobody willever understand my quirky swagg hee heee~' way but like a.. Just factually the things that make me happy and comfortable#are often incompatible with people. The way I communicate and process things is different from the way other people do and that#is always a barrier. I cannot have ''easy''' interactions. Even with 'understanding' people there is nearly always a significant#amount of effort. You can't walk into a group of people and then be like ''okay you guys all have to wear#masks and you also cant play music too loud and also we should communicate turns of speaking very clearly so group conversations#arent too stressful. and also i need this and that and we have to do this and that and '' etc. etc. You CAN. And some people will#go along with that. but they will ALWAYS secretly resent you for it. You will be the one person they're relieved to not have to be around.#theyre glad when you dont show up since they can go back to doing things however they want and not masking and all these boring#annoying things. OR you can say none of that and just deal with the loud music and the talking and the unmasked people. but then#YOU'RE compromising. and no matter how nice they are it's exhausting to be around and youre just further alienated#while in the presence of people and uncofmrtoabel the whole time.#Which I'm not saying the only form of community is a group setting specificially but just giving that as an example lol#I just wish there were a better option than ''well learn to socialize normally or just suffer then'' . Which I know is not what people are#saying. I guess I just always feel a bit scared when 'community is the answer'. Since its not like 'oh im just socially anxious and need to#get out of my shell~!' or something thats really that remedy-able. It's like.. my mostly unchangeable physical health issues combined#with the mostly unchangable literal way that my brain processes sensory informationand other things means that interacting with#others in a normal and easy way is incredibly difficult and often exhausting especially to maintain in any longform fashion. So then#when it's like ''the answer to staying safe is to maintain longform social connections!! :3 just reach out!!'' then.. ermm... O_O#also I'm not even one of the cutesy shy emotional hermits that's nervous. I'm the Bad Stereotype emotionless robotic cold seeming#looms in the corner of the room type of thing so people have less pity on you in that way. -_- ANYWAY gghj#I need like.. a designated social representative or something.. When I did work in that bookshop forever ago they gave me a#person who basically was just with me to help communicate with others on my behalf and supervise me and stuff. I need that.. Some#more extraverted person I can latch onto and they can maintain the Social Support Network for me and I can just be their +1 to all#of the Social Things and community. I have helpful skills I can contribute to other people and stuff it's just like.. I cant socialize lol#I cook food or something for you.. then you keep me in contact with Community.. a deal. (but then what about when I'm too sick to#contribute? as is often the case. there's not much place for people like me in communities sometimes i fear.. sigh.) ***
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#the cryptid talks#one of those days where you’re irritated by everything and everyone#I had to lay on the floor while playing one of those angry/mad playlists as i dissociated#the kids annoying me then my dad spewing about whatever I don’t even remember#mainly how me n my sis are trying to raise the kids in a way different form his past#like sorry you were abused as a child and thought it was fine but we don’t wanna do that for these kids#cuz that parenting style TOTALLY worked for me n my sibslings and totally didn’t give us fucked self esteem issues that we have to carry#through our adulthood#WHOOPS#and don’t address me as a friend we are not on that level#I wouldn’t even want to be associated with if we were strangers let alone related#i was already annoyed before that and just wished he’d stop talking#doesn’t help I’ve having a headache ever since the election too#just fuck me i guess#played some borderlands 3 as a stress reliever#even at the cost of seeing Ava again and the storyline ughhh#I miss my bird#I wonder how she would’ve grown by now
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the bittersweet but absolute flood of relief that comes from admitting defeat at living independently, to have to move back in with parents. we tried! we gave it our best shot for almost 3 years! but living like this (being on our own) is just not possible for us at this time of our lives. we've finally proved it to ourselves that we can't do it. it'll be okay to let ourselves rest now
#latimers parents not mine!!!! i am NOT moving back to florida LOL#really hope that the changes will be good for my mental health. this apartment is toxic to us#ive been on the verge of meltdowns Kind Of A Lot lately. imnot doing great#extremely dependent on substances. just to reach a baseline level of functioning. but even that isnt working as much anymore#the only things i do on my phone or tablet these days is like. 2 mobile games. and skirting past my dms to check latimers blog#its too overwhelming to even open discord these days yknow. everything on earth is too much for me right meow#i havent been drawing i havent been social online OR irl i havent been cooking or creating#i havent been keeping up with personal hygiene like at all im particularly ashamed about that one#i've been really bad about doing my T the past few months which is a HUGE shame because im SO fucking hyped to be on it#theres just. too many obstacles in getting it done half the time. and the other half of the time i just forget#anyway. anyway.#our lease ends in july so between now and then we're just gonna try our best to tolerate our living situation enough to get by#there's a light at the end of the tunnel. and its called 'i only have to be in charge of like 2 rooms at most. and not a household!'#we're gonna try to slowly comb through all our things between now and then so the process of moving wont suck as bad#cuz listen. its pretty fucking bad right now#maybe not for other people. but it is for me. and its okay to let myself come to terms with that#im just. so relieved. still very stressed! but theres at least light at the end of the tunnel and its only like 2 months away#ill be able to draw guilt-free again. ill be able to just EXIST guilt-free#i dont think ive felt guilt-free for just existing the way i do since like. turning 20#i know my mom wouldve loved if i stayed home forever. and im sad i cant be there for her#but ever since i had a fight with my dad at 15 or 16 it just really felt like he didnt want me there more and more#maybe as the youngest he was resenting that i was preventing him from becoming an empty nester or something. i dont know#because all the other kids had been moved out and on their own at least once but i had never left home before#i dont know if he'd be heartbroken or not to hear that i feeling like he was resenting me. but thats the energy i was picking up for years#i dunno. i dont know#anyway. back to housing. for now im going to try to relax and store energy for the moving process#the huge pile of things by the kitchen? i dont have to worry about that becoming permanent because we're leaving in 2 months#the general discord of the state of our possessions? we have to go through everything to pack it all anyway. we can move in RIGHT this time#when we moved in here we didnt have a car or license so we were dependent on latimers 3-hr-drive-away parents to help us move#just /across town/. and we had a whole month between leases! but it still had to be done in a weekend
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Are ppl actually seriously saying Netflix is queerbaiting with the "sonadow" moment in the sneak peek for sonic prime s3 or is it all a joke I can't tell
#ramblings#i put sonadow in quotes bc i don't personally think they're even trying to hint at a ship or anything with their interaction there#sonic is just relieved to know shadow is fully on his side supporting him#when more often than not whenever they have to work together they make it a competition or something#sonic is stressed tf out throughout the whole series of course he's going to react that way to shadow's support#like it doesn't have to be interpreted in a romantic way it can be completely platonic#this is coming from someone who likes sonadow. not every interaction they have where they don't fight is ship bait. chill#also pretty sure 'possibly hinting at a popular ship if you squint' doesn't equal 'queerbaiting'#but idk maybe it's just a big inside joke that i wasn't let in on
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i'm going to be okay 😌
#🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿#i'm sooooo !!!!!!!#need everything to be finalized and approved etc before i can let myself believe but#but if this happens i'm gonna be so relieved and way way less stressed#and maybe i can finally have some time to study for my certification exam and apply to jobs#i'm trying to manage my emotions but i feel so relieved and excited#i couldn't even properly work today 😭
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I feel violence in my very bones this evening.
#I'm angry and I'm tired of trying to destress in my own way WHICH HARMS NO ONE MIND YOU#and instead I get treated like I'm a babbling retard worrying about nothing#you don't get to decide that for me#What you claim is me stressing over nothing is me actively FORCING myself to face something to relax long term#I have severe anxiety over money because of being poor most of my life so my relaxation is literally writing down every fucking expense#all of them for the month#and seeing how much money I make#I am trying to coordinate with Tim and he just doesn't get it#he'll say things to make me not worry about it and when I try to explain he isn't helping by giving me words#instead of numbers he just keeps going with how what he says is him trying to relax me#Am I talking to a goddamn brick wall#I'm trying to do the thing where you talk to your partner and it isn't fucking working and I just want to break things so fucking bad#but I can be good I will not break things I will not self harm to relieve stress the unhealthy way I will sit and sew my fucking skirt
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always fun to remind myself of the side effects of my thyroid meds
#the first time i treated my thyroid my endo was like ‘i havent had a patient who had this happen for a while so im due for one’ THANKS MAN#personal#im just waiting for it to hurry up and work. my health has PLUMMETED in the last week or so#im so sick and i can’t DO ANYTHING. including SLEEP. even if i was getting enough good sleep i was be exhausted but i’m not so.#the energy’s doing Great#and i’m so hungry all the time but also nauseous so all food is unappealing#genuinely have no idea how i made it through years 7-10 undiagnosed. no wonder i ended up with such a severe phobia of going to bed????????#i don’t have to worry about routine right now so it’s not as stressful (just horrible because i’m so tired) but i COULDNT SLEEP back then#im just relieved that this time it was found through a routine check rather than me getting a test because of symptoms#usually i test when my anxiety gets really bad in a specific way#but my anxiety isn’t bad this time. no panic attacks and also no migraines. those are all usually the worst to deal with#so comparatively this isn’t even a particularly bad episode?/relapse?/flare?#still more sick than i’ve been in……..years?#im not sure if covid was better or worse. but it was only really bad for a week#this’ll be worse overall because it’ll last a lot longer#hopefully only a month or two but that’s still a few months of my life that just vanish. cool!!!!!!!!!!!#and there wasn’t even a notable event to trigger it this time. first time was whooping cough and subsequent times have been things like—#starting uni and then the last 2 years of uni where i took 10 units in one year then overworked myself doing my thesis#im SLIGHTLY worried that maybe i’ve developed rheumatoid arthritis and that set it off because it’s also autoimmune#i should see my gp soon to get a general antibody test. my joint have been so bad it’s been hard to walk for quite a few months#idk man it all sucks. but for now at least i have my white blood cells (even if they’re literally the problem lmao)
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Oh noooooo Netflix Shadow and Bone is a lot of things but qualified to tackle jurda parem absolutely not
#this is turning into a hard tv squick for me#bc media does Fake Fantasy Drugs using like#american pop sci twelve step under standing of How Drugs Work#which is and i cannot stress this enough not how drugs work#like was it absolutely balls to the wall absurd#when they grossed me tf out with a slow mo sequence of every single extra in that chapel vomiting blood#and alina having a Dark Smile (tm) to the sound of the ominous fantasy trombones#of course#do i want these baby actors to tackle anything approaching this#so very much no#i was so relieved when they skipped the ice court and just sprinkled the crows in however they pleased#like yes we'll just blast on through to fjerda and chew through king of scars and NEVER DISCUSS IT#i was also hoping they'd skip the weird darkling tree thing#but alas#like i know the point here is that i am not the target audience for this show#but i wish i was#so they would make it in a way that pleased me#shadow and bone feelings#shadow and bone spoilers
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senioritis hitting me hard
#but its not a bad thing!#i think im just so so done with school im like checked out#have a midterm today didnt study dont care im sure ill be fine#worst i can do for it is low b#been skipping this one class cuz i dont like the prof but whever i did the work for it and gots A's whatever#got papers im not trying to hard but its ok im getting A's and B's on them#i am very very perfectionistic and was to the point where id destroy myself over some papers i wrote#so maybe theres a lil fragment of it left when i halfass my papers#but anyway its very been very relieving#very freeing to not care#ive been checking stuff off my before-graduating-college bucket list#i didnt really live life during college and do stuff people usually would do with experiences#i got a second piercing! i dyed my virgin hair! i went to a party with people i dont know! im going to a rave in dec!#im stressed but also stressfree!#ive cared way too much for too long so its a nice change#my post#jenivi rant
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i do not think about how i had no concrete health issues after thesis. i do not think abt how the moment i started working out again i got 17 caution pop-ups across my body. i do not think about how i did not have wrist pain on main until i overplayed hades one night in december & how getting covid & then christmas prevented me from seeking immediate treatment until a full month in. i am going to cryscreamdie if i think about it
#my health would have collapsed sooner or later anyway. yes i should have started gentler or earlier sports wise#but i dont think i will ever get rid of my wrist pain now#it's manageable currently but it feels like im right on the borderline of swinging into chronic trouble no matter how little i stress it#now. when i was finally on the verge of a future. i am biting my tongue off abt it or i will cry and never stop#:((((((((((((#elia txts#like was there a way to do this differently. am i still paying the price of a once a week high intensity workout from three months ago?#how am i supposed to gain muscle mass to relieve joint pain if i cannot work out without triggering said pain even on low impact sport. :'(#no amount of resting is making it fully go away and if i dont move my range of motion will decrease even more. im so stuck i want to cry#health vent sorry i simply cannot take it anymore <3
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don't you just LOVE it when your relatives try and push their points of view on you just because they don't agree with your plans 🙃🙃🙃
#Feed from the Flame#do not rb#ahahhahahahahhahahaa#bitch i hope you fucking choke#i have my reasons for staying behind to study#and i know what happens when i bottle it all up#the only way for me to get my work done in this hellhole of a manipulative place#is if i fucking study#nOT BY FUCKING GOING TO A PLACE OF WORSHIP AND ASKING FOR THE BEST GRADES#THATS NOT HOW GOD WORKS YOU DICKHEAD#LET ME FUCKING MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS YOU FUCK#MANIPULATIVE BITCH I HAVE MY OWN LIFE#AND IT'S STRESSFUL AND I CAN ONLY RELIEVE STRESS BY SLEEPING AND PLAYING MY SILLY LITTLE VIDEO GAMES AT HOME#SO SHUT THE FUCK UP AND FUCK OFF#GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BUSINESS AND DON'T PRESSURE ME INTO ACCEPTING YOUR FUCKING POINT OF VIEW#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA#fuck okay i'm sorry if you read through this whole thing im. very angry
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I don't know any statistics, but I assume that economic class probably plays a role as well. My parents both have high school diplomas and both went to college (mom finished, dad didn't). But they were both raised poor and stayed poor as adults. They both smoked well into their elder years and only stopped for personal health reasons.
All of my siblings (young Gen X to mid Millennial) smoke or smoked in the past, despite all of them having high school diplomas and varying levels of college education. However, with one exception, we're all poor (and I'm the exception to smoking at all). My younger sibling, who has smoked the least besides me, is the one who has managed to rise above our original economic class. Most of our poor relatives smoke as well while our more middle-class relatives don't.
I'm sure that it's not a perfect graph, but I can see the logic.
*you can answer "yes, but not bedrooms" if that also includes bathrooms or the whole upstairs if that's where all the bedrooms are
also let me know where you're from if you want!
#smoking#poll#polls#tumblr#tumbling#tumblring#tumblr poll#tumblr polls#cigarette#cigarettes#smoking is something to do#it's a legal addiction#it's a way to control your life#that poor people often can't#it's a way to relieve stress#when every single day is full of stress#it's really really hard to quit#if you're already constantly stressed#you can't be an angry addict going thru withdrawal#if you have a customer service job#or have to raise kids#or have to work three jobs#you can't afford better drugs#it seems counterintuitive#because smoking is expensive#but so are all drugs#and guess what?#homeless and poor and mentally ill people#get addicted to stuff#even when stuff is expensive
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“baby stop im trying to read”
“what do you mean ma im just getting warm”
toji was in fact not just getting warm. his big calloused palms were currently underneath your (his) shirt fondling your tits. it wasn’t uncommon for toji to have his hands on your breasts as you read before bed. He used them like stress relievers. warm and soft and comforting to the touch. you had your kindle in one hand and the other placed on his head gently rubbing at his scalp as he nosed his way into the crevice of your neck.
“fuck baby you smell so good. you always smell so clean and vanillery.”
that made you smile.
“yeah i know i smell great.”
he laughed at that because yes you did always smell great. god he was so comfortable right now. nothing on the planet could top this for him. with your boobs in his palms toji could overcome anything. his touch became a bit heated and you knew this would soon be escalating. but you weren’t going to be the one giving in, if he wanted you he was going to have to ask. carefully his fingers began to pinch at your nipples and he knew he had you right where he wanted you when you began to mewl at his touch.
“what are you reading about that’s got you like this baby? are you cheating on me?”
“how’s it cheating if i’m reading you buffoon? and you know exactly why.”
he couldn’t help but smile at the easy banter that was so common between the two of you.
“want me to do to you whatever you’re reading about?”
and just as toji began to hike up your shirt with the intention of putting his mouth to work you both heard a slight little patter of feet on the hard wood floor. you couldn’t see anything due to the darkness in the room but you were pretty sure someone was here. toji lifted his head up with his hands still holding your chest under your shirt and craned his neck over the edge of the bed when he felt a little finger pat his shoulder.
“daddy i did sick”
“oh megs for fucks sake.”
authors note: i didn’t expect to receive so much love on this lil drabble! thank you so much lovely people
#jjk#jjk x you#gojo satoru#jjk toji#jjk smut#jujutsu kaisen#jujutsu kaisen toji#toji fushigro x reader#toji x reader#toji fluff#toji x y/n#toji x you#toji smut#toji fushiguro#toji zenin#jjk x reader#jjk fluff#jjk gojo#gojo x you#geto x reader#nanami x reader#nanami kento#jjk fanfic#jungkook x reader#jujutsu toji#tojbnuy#toji angst#toji au
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