#walkingoneggshells

[ohmygoodnessturtle]

Fragile Footsteps

empathy for whom with more to say without the time to convey

"You never open up," they say,

A closed-off soul, they perceive each day.

But when I dare to speak my mind,

They nitpick and offend, a response unkind.

I am blunt, while they tiptoe with care,

"Make it sound different," they declare.

How do I converse with a lofty soul,

A parent whose superiority takes its toll?

But as I pose that daunting query,

They shut me down, claim it's all theory.

Denying every word, dismissing my voice,

Leaving no room for understanding or choice.

A superiority complex they possess,

Believing they're better, above the rest.

Condescending, they look upon others low,

Their children included, a harsh blow.

Mad at me for waiting to stumble and fall,

Trouble arising from nowhere, their call.

Children in their grip, facing constant strife,

Affecting their well-being, draining life.

Low self-esteem takes its toll,

Feeling inadequate, a heavy toll.

Fear of failure lingers, a weight so vast,

Their ambitions curtailed, present and past.

Perfectionism arises, a burden to bear,

To meet high standards, an endless affair.

Seeking approval, desperate for praise,

Their sense of self lost in a haze.

Resentment builds, relationships strained,

Criticism endured, the bond restrained.

Autonomy and decisions cast aside,

Parent's judgment, the only guide.

Emotional distress, anxiety's embrace,

Worthlessness lingers, a darkened space.

Complaints dismissed, grievances ignored,

My voice unheard, my soul deplored.

But what is a "complain" if not expression,

Of discontent, seeking resolution's progression.

Dismissed and misunderstood, my plea,

A lack of understanding, as clear as can be.

Dismiss, get offended, correct my every word,

Listening? No, not a trait they've preferred.

To open up, I must tread so light,

Align my words with their superior might.

High horse, a phrase I dare to speak,

Yet they recoil, their reaction bleak.

Judgmental they are, critiquing all,

Their parenting prowess, never to fall.

Arrogance claims their sense of right,

More knowledgeable, an incessant plight.

Self-righteousness clouds their view,

Invalidating perspectives, a judgment they spew.

Control they crave, every aspect they steer,

Micromanaging lives, instilling fear.

Lacking empathy, distant from the pain,

Their own methods, the ultimate reign.

Criticism, their Achilles' heel,

Defensive, dismissive, their response surreal.

Oh, the high horse they ride, so grand,

Unwilling to consider, they cannot understand.

So, in this poem, I speak my truth,

Of a parent lost in superiority's booth.

May understanding find its way,

And bridge the gap that lingers today.

[jordanisthewade]

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[smokemirrorsmasks]

This is one of the biggest red flags of a toxic relationship. Most likely the victim or target doesn’t even realize they are hyper vigilant. You must have recognized the behavior and when someone is carefully walking on eggshells right? . 🥚 👣 🥚 . . #walkingoneggshells #hypervigilance #anxiety #smokeandmirrors #narcissisticmother #golddigger #manipulation #femalenarcissist #narcissisticwife #narcissism #narcissist #celebrity #publicitystunt #toxicrelationship #conartist #socialmediarelationship #redflags #trauma #opportunist #himtoo #toxic #stockholmsyndrome #psychology #isolation #behindcloseddoors #laurenkittcarter #nickcarter #malevictims #femaleabusers #emotionalabuse https://www.instagram.com/p/CS7v8pbsoUm/?utm_medium=tumblr

[sami-2021]

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[ramyeonupdates]

{ #coparenting } || source: crazy__catz

[empressempathidi]

Tues 2.11.20 12:30a . Reposted from @crazy__catz #ifmywoundswerevisible #cptsd #domesticviolence #abuse #trauma #redflags #narcissisticabuse #survivor #traumabonding #mindgames #nocontact #gaslighting #emotionalabuse #coercivecontrol #coparenting #financialabuse #walkingoneggshells #covert #boundaries #psycologicalabuse #powerandcontrol #silenttreatment #hoover #isolate #smearcampaign #greyrock #liar #mask #lovebomb #toxic https://www.instagram.com/p/B8ajggEnT4a/?igshid=1pns2967wuy2l

[aeepoetry]

" he never put me back together again" 🥚 A.E.E ... ... #AEEPoetry #poetry #poems #abusiverelationship #writetosurvive #humptydumpty #walkingoneggshells #hebrokeme #riseagain #bebetter #mentalhealthawareness #quotes #wordstoliveby #buttonpoetry #love #fightabuse https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz8cJ-DF1C0/?igshid=1rx9vxmnipw6e

[kingcharliestudios]

I never got away. 2019. ⠀⠀ #artofpoetry #artofwriters #poems #poetry #poetsofinstagram #poetrycommunity #lostlove #lovepoems #lovepoetry #writersofinstagram #writerscommunity #authorsofinstagram #wordlover #booklover #booklovers #romance #breakupquotes #sadquotes #emotionalabuse #walkingoneggshells #survivor #lovequotes #quotes #littlewrittensnippets #bykatelacecarter https://www.instagram.com/p/BzI4g4YBxfX/?igshid=12cpm7o9713t3

[lucidnap]

It took me a long time to learn this, until I realized I had become a hostage in my own life and took control. My life has been improving exponentially! #takecontrol #truth #freedom #buildingabetterme #buildingabetterlife #noexplanationneeded #noapologies #sorrynotsorry #friendsforever #youdontneedthem #suffernofools #lifelessons #yourlifematters #yourlifeyourway #byefelicia #falsefriends #pityfriends #guilttrips #walkingoneggshells #abusivefriendships #invasivefriendships #suffocatingfriendships #growth #growthmindset #makeyourownreality https://www.instagram.com/p/CeKLlJGv7YT/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[nelehjr]

Censored version, of course.💋 #Sass #sassygirlsays #Birdistheword #walkingoneggshells #tapdance #Offensive #instawriters #Instaquotes #Attitude #quoteoftheday #Quoteblr #quotestagram #Quotes #quotestoliveby #Egg #Eggshells #TastefullyOffensive https://www.instagram.com/p/BnAp3dZBGHQ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=8e0dxnndl3pw

[monriatitans]

Sun, January 3, 2021 Preach! ~~~ ~~~ ~~~ #walkingoneggshells #feelings @ambr.ncole https://www.instagram.com/p/CJl1cOTjKnM/?igshid=nx8b4bkegpo6

[debrarelly]

Dear God help us to be less critical and just see the good in people. Let us remember the good times and pray that we will experience positive times now and in the future. Help us to be happy around those who are so difficult and we have to walk on egg shells around them. Surround us with so much love that the words spoken in anger do not wound us. Sometimes there are people in our life who only make us courageous, brave and strong because they make our life so difficult. We learn to navigate the most difficult waters because of these people. Perhaps we are better people because of what these people have put us through. God you brought me into this situation now provide me with the skills to deal with it. Help me to use my strength to not allow this person to make me feel less than I am. Protect and guide me when I am around them. Give me the right words to say and help me to react in the correct way not to bring anger down on me. Today bring me peace when I encounter the most difficult people and shield me from their arrows of hurt. Block the hurtful words they say from my mind and allow me to carry on and feel joy. The hurtful words they speak have no power over me...And so it is ~Debra~ #dailydosefromdebra #dailyprayer#change#thesituationwillimprove #theycanthurtyou #wordsarewords#goddefendsme #walkingoneggshells https://www.instagram.com/p/CGSd7EVABDP/?igshid=qwx3t3u777yb

[thesunsetpodcast]

Reposted from @silenceofthenarcs Another term for a Covert Narcissist is a Highly Sensitive narcissists. These are the ones where no matter what you say is a direct dig on them! Eggshell city and a marriage and divorce made in hell 🔥👺 #highlysensitivenarcissist #covertnarcissist #hypersensitivenarcissist #walkingoneggshells #paranoid #narcissist #narcopath #sociopath #psychopathfree #hiddenabuse #grandiosity #noaccountability #nocontact #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/CFEAszUj5Fs/?igshid=vzq0dh8w83w1

[stacieoverman]

#happysaturday Beautiful! 🌸 Are you tired of walking on eggshells at home? Feel like you are just “roommates” and know deep inside there must for something more for you in this life? I remember when I felt this way in my 1st marriage. Feeling angry and stuck and even secretly worried if I made the big change I would lose the lifestyle I enjoyed. I get you sister. ♥️♥️♥️ I can sooo help. I created a system that can get you feeling more peace, love and joy in your life quicker. Getting you to a place of being who God truly meant for you to be. If you would like to get the same amazing results my clients are getting DM me and let’s jump on a call together. 💕 You don’t have to figure this all out alone. ~Stacie #walkingoneggshells #avoidance #workaholics #perfectionist #newyou #removethemask #spiritualcoach #yournotalone #faith #happiness https://www.instagram.com/p/CDEJC9RAdtW/?igshid=ek8up936foun

[paraphraze615]

You have no idea... #ImTrying #ImReallyTrying #IWantYouToBeHappy #AMansEffort #GoHardForWhoYouLove #WalkingOnEggshells #WalkingOnLandmines #Love #Dating #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipProblems #DatingAdvice https://www.instagram.com/p/B4_GOXDguP5/?igshid=6n9iafp66grf

[edwindavis2000]

#walkingoneggshells #peacetrainnyc #keepitmoving #valueyourself (at 24 Hour Fitness - Scarsdale, NY) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4UqK5rj11r7pRIV9LHLycVmrk6MtEdCR-B0G40/?igshid=ii9l938im70