#unhealthy enfj

[despairots]

#𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐃𝐑𝐀𝐁𝐁𝐋𝐄: ANGST

「 satoru gojo x gender neutral! reader 」

GENRE: angst and fluff im feeling evil 2day

CONTENT WARNING: depression, gojo being an unhealthy entp and r! being an unhealthy enfj, sum miscommunication, not sure if this has a happy ending, pstd, issues 😓, established relationship, toxic relationship but its bc theyre both unhealthy and theyre trying to fix it (its not working)

AUTHORS NOTE: i need to see more angst posts of this man cuz im feeling devious 🤤

gojo satoru is insensitive. it shows and it’s true. he’s too egotistical, too stupid, too cocky, and even though he can see through people with his six eyes, his growing ego blinds his eye sight.

some may say it’s just him being him but he’s arrogant and extremely self absorbed, it’s unhealthy. this relationship is unhealthy, you’re both unhealthy.

they both can tear people to shreds with their sarcasm, regardless of the fact that it’s play fighting, some words sting most of the times.

the relationship shouldn’t have lasted this long, you were shocked by how long it’s been since everything started.

you two should’ve broken up a long time ago but the “love” you held for eachother were too strong that parting ways could easily lead eachother back to their beds.

when you sense an argument, the both of you turn into hypocrites. you’re emotionally manipulative and gojo likes rationalizing everything, even your bad habits.

despite how lovely you two actually are, no one’s aware that you both are horrible people, especially to eachother.

you two are the calm before the storm, a good duo to hang out with, terrifying to go against.

miscommunication happens. it’s been like that for while, apologies always happen the next day. they say “they’ll never do it again” but it happens almost every 2 months.

relationship’s have their ups and downs. every time you try to talk it out with gojo, the two of you get argumentative and break eachother down. no matter how hard you two try to work it out, it never works and goes back to being unhealthy.

gojo satoru isn’t a good boyfriend.

neither are you.

[micahzdort]

theres just something about "humanity will be saved" hero x "humanity will be saved" villain. Like. The same idea but very very different executions. These kinds of ships are always SO complex 😭😭

[donotpercieveme123]

Hiii it's the first time i interact with you i think 💗! (Im also a Tobirama fan, i know my name is misleading 😝)

Character ask : Minato 💛 !

Hii thx for the ask (and anyone who says they aren't a tobirama fan is lying😂)

God Minato is very strongly in the list of ppl I don't remember or care about. This is gonna be hard😂

First impression

Uhhhh… nice hair thingies? Ur wife is hot, ur ok too, u definitely deserved that punch tho. In theory and at face value he is my favourite kind of person (same with hashirama who actually does it well) but for whatever reason I couldn't care less about him. Was low key very disturbed but I couldn't place my finger on why

Impression now

Whatever he's trying to do or be Hashirama does it better in every way😂 Idk I don't have many thoughts about him, he's entertaining enough I guess. My opinions haven't changed at all. But I saw this rp thread a while ago that explored the darker side of him and that adequately answers why he made me so disturbed. He's interesting for sure, if more ppl explored that side I might be a little less disinterested

Favourite moment

When Naruto punches him probably, or when they name their son after ramen. It was also pretty sexy of him when he sealed a nuke inside his newborn

Idea for a story

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh- Off the top of my head a founders/ early konoha AU where he's on Tobirama’s genin team. That could definitely be funny

Unpopular opinion

Idek what a popular opinion is

Favourite relationship

Kushina?? She definitely pegs him

Favourite headcanon

He definitely likes being pegged

[everningdearth]

My take on the MBTI from the perspective of an ENTJ

1. ENTP: Smart, fun people; easy to get along with.

2. INTP: I want a piece of your mind.

3. INTJ: Cool and mysterious, but the males are annoying

4. ENTJ: Hyperfocused on success to the point that it's unhealthy

5. ENFJ: The chronic need to be the center of attention is excusable because y'all have a good heart

6. ENFP: Y'all put too much effort into acting like you don't care if you're liked by everyone for being "quirky", but you do.

7. INFP: Pathetic; really need to stop letting people walk all over themselves

8. INFJ: Sage wisdom, kind heart

9. ISFJ: Lowkey boring ngl

10. ISFP: You make sure to stand out in your own ways

11. ESFP: Annoying, self-indulgent, the lack of awareness is ghastly. Often wonder what it is like to be in your head because you seem to have no self-critique whatsoever.

12. ESFJ: Kind-hearted, too kind in fact, because nobody thinks of you when the day ends.

13. ESTJ: Y'all are just annoying

14. ESTP: Charming, very, very charming.

15. ISTP: Coolest people I know

16. ISTJ: Boring; more like tiring

[rainytypology]

A view of each MBTI type by an INTJ:

Saw a few of these lately so why not? Lol

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INTJ: My type and the best type obviously. Kidding. Not really. Healthy/mature ones are interesting and helpful, nice and easy to talk to. I've noticed immature ones try a little too hard to seem edgy and cool to fit into the "cold" INTJ stereotype when that's not a flex at all. I think a lot of us are impatient and stubborn too.

ENTJ: Often driven and motivated individuals who put in a lot of effort into what they do. I admire their hardworking nature. I've unfortunately come across a very unhealthy one before who was quite possessive and narcissistic. I did not have to deal with them personally, but a few of my friends did and their horror stories of that ENTJ will probably be stuck with me forever.

INTP: Their minds are...unique. I wonder what goes on in there. Such weird yet interesting individuals. Sometimes a bit rude, unintentional or not. My younger sister is one and I have to resist the urge to fight with her a lot lmao, but maybe that's just us being siblings.

ENTP: Love them. ENxPs in general 🤌🤌. I've never come across a boring ENTP. Often so chaotic. Never fail to make me laugh. I can have the funnest conversations with them. So witty.

INFJ: One of my best friends is one and it's kinda funny how similar yet different we both are. Ni dom things I guess. Other INFJs I've observed seem to have a lot of patience and kindness. Genuinely have a good heart and want the best for others.

ENFJ: I've only met two personally. Can be funny and witty, really approachable people. Both are very loyal and care a lot about their families, they carry a lot of responsibilities for others. Do not like to show their struggles, will probably mention it briefly before changing the subject.

INFP: Probably my least favorite type due to having bad experiences with them. Unhealthy ones can be so whiney and pathetic. Always want to cry and complain but never actually do anything about it. Can burst emotionally without warning. They can be so exhausting to deal with. I'm not gonna automatically hate you if you're an INFP though, that's just stupid lol, but I will be wary. I only have one INFP friend for now and likely because she's a lot older than me, she's much calmer and more considerate compared to the previous INFPs I've encountered.

ENFP: Some weirdos fr but I love it. Always so talkative and excited. Why are you guys lowkey kinda sad though 😭

ISTJ: I haven't come across any irl yet, but a few of my favorite fictional characters are ISTJs. One of my fav kpop idols as well. Not really sure where the boring stereotype comes from as I think ISTJs are quite nice.

ESTJ: I don't think I've met any yet and have typed a few idols as an ESTJ. I know they get a bad rep, but I honestly just think it stems from ESTJ's tendency to be direct, no bs, which can be intimidating/overwhelming for people. They can be really weird and silly only if they're comfortable.

ISFJ: I don't know any ISFJs irl, but seeing ISFJ idols/celebrities, they're just usually nice and kind people. Quiet but do enjoy being with others.

ESFJ: Honestly think my other best friend may be one 🤔 I do think she has a high Fe for sure. They seem to care the most about their presentation and other's opinions of them.

ISTP: I've only met one and they were okay. Pretty chill and had immense "idgaf" energy. But that attitude was also what made them a bit unlikeable as it extended to having a disregard for feelings and morals. Nobody's perfect, but I don't think it's that difficult to have common human decency. I do like a few ISTP characters and celebrities though.

ESTP: One of my older siblings is one and we get along fine. She has a good eye for aesthetics. Her and other ESTPs I've seen don't really seem to be super serious people, they're just trying their best to enjoy life. Adventurous and open minded. Can't seem to stay still.

ISFP: Have only met a few irl and I've also typed several kpop idols as one. From what I've seen, they are a lot calmer compared to INFPs. They're quite passionate but more realistic individuals though, always going for what they want (likely due to aux Se). Also quite blunt lol but it does not top IxTP's honesty.

ESFP: Have not met any irl yet, but from observing an ESFP I follow and ESFP celebrities, I like their straightforwardness. Passionate and expressive. Funny.

[personality-corner]

Encanto MBTI

Mirabel - ENFJ

Mirabel’s Fe contributes to nearly every decision she makes, and also manages to contribute to her main conflict. She wants nothing more than to fit in and be accepted by her family, and her most popular catchphrase is “make my family proud.” When her family is in danger, she does everything to find out the truth of why the cracks are appearing in the wall, by using her Ni to narrow the ideas down.

Isabela - ESFJ

Isabela, similarly to Mirabel, wants nothing more than to maintain the love and acceptance of her family. She does so by practicing how she acts in front of people, and growing pretty flowers, because that is what she is familiar with (Si). However, when she starts to realize her trauma, we see her lower functions (Ne & Ti) begins to really show.

Luisa - INFP

Unlike her two Fe dom sisters, Luisa’s morals come more from within than from the family. Her fears and struggles come from the fact that she wants to protect her family and her home, because she’s the “strong one”, putting her in an Fi-Si loop, where she constantly ignores her Ne. However, as we see in her song, Luisa actually loves escaping into her fantasy world.

Bruno - ISFJ

Despite his power being foresight, the past seems to be a prime motivator for Bruno. His reasoning for wanting to “leave” is to protect his niece, who from his own experience, he knew would have a horrible life if everyone knew the prophecy. His connection to his family, and his motivation to never truly leave is also motivated by his Si and Fe.

Abuela Alma - ESTJ

While she loves her family, Alma tends to lead based on objective logic first and foremost, pushing her emotions (Fi) to the side, until she realizes what she is doing is hurting people. Because her sadness and emotions do seep through with a lot of her actions, and her focus on her past (Si) somewhat contributes to this as well, but overall, she is shown to be an unhealthy ESTJ, until she is able to do a little introspection.

Dolores - ISFP

We don’t see much from Dolores throughout the film, but when we do, she is very silent and reserved. She feels things deeply, yet keeps these emotions to herself unless she feels like everyone absolutely has to know something. She is very in tune to the world around her, both power wise and personality wise. She prefers to know what’s going on, and relies heavily on her world around her and instinct to make decisions.

[lazysublimeengineer]

One of the biggest crimes that the fandom has created is.....

Having Kaiser type as ENTP. Ness as ENFJ. Bachira as an ESTP.

LIKE HOW?

Where is the Fe, Ti and Ne?

What is this blasphemy I encountered today?

Look me in the eye and tell me with a straight faced that you've seen them like that in franchise?

Kaiser is obviously an ENTJ with an unhealthy Fi. That single minded goal and philosophical, dark views is his Ni. His shadow functions is blatantly showing under extreme amount of stress and pressure.

I can't see any Fe and Ni towards Ness. His Fi and Ne is shining especially when we were introduced into his backstory. That creativity coupled with strong personal beliefs is shining through his character and he was in the grip of his Te everytime he's under an extreme amount of stress.

Bachira is the poster child of ESFP. Look at that motivation for playing soccer and strong inner sense of belief and tell me he doesn't have a Fi? 🤨

Thank God that Nagi is correctly typed as ISTP. He's an ISTP 9w8. Enough said.

Nanase is debatable. I need to see more of him if there's a Ne in his functions. Safe to say for the meantime: ExFP

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[literatureloverx]

You’re always talking about how much you like INTJs. Would you consider any other MBTI type as a potential partner or is it just INTJs for you? And why?

Of course, I could consider other MBTI types as potential romantic partners besides INTJs.♥️

My preference would probably be something like this:

INTJs > ISTJs > ENTJs > ESTJs > ENTPs > INTPs > ISTPs > ENFJs.

When it comes to friendships, I’m quite flexible.

However, I’ve found that the least compatible types for me, so far, have been (in no particular order):

ESFPs, ESTPs, and some unhealthy ISFPs and unhealthy INFPs. I never met healthy ISFPs but healthy INFPs are absolutely adorable to me (like my 🧛🏻‍♀️🫀-anon, for example).

I also really enjoy having ENFJs and ESFJs as friends. My two closest friends are an ESFJ and an ENFP. I sometimes struggle to keep up with the dominant Ne of ENFPs (or ENTPs), so I try to take a step back from time to time, but they always seem to become quite obsessed with me, so it’s not really possible. (Weird, weird.)

I hope this clarifies everything!♥️ Have a delightful day/night!♥️

[elaho]

An ENFJ 9w1, redrawn in my own style from a previous sketch

"Mama's Boy" by Hazlett ---------------------------------------------

Story Time [continued from my first INFP 6w5 post] Given how much I had suffered at the hands of [unhealthy] Fe for the majority of my life, I began to despair that Fi could never be safe in the presence of Fe [or high Fe users] at all.

That was until an eye-opening experience back in early January:

It was the holidays and I didn't have many plans or activities for the start of 2024, I decided to snuggle up and start watching one of my "watch later" shows, "Komi Can't Communicate".

"Komi Can't Communicate" is a slice-of-life story about a young INFJ 6w5 girl who struggles to speak and interact in social situations, despite desperately wanting to connect with others.

She is often misjudged as being aloof, distant, judgemental, depressing, or disinterested despite her best efforts -- leading her to feel isolated, lonely, and misunderstood.

That is until she meets an ENFJ 9w1 boy who can see past her cold and intimidating exterior to view the wonderful, vibrant person she truly is - becoming her first friend and helping her achieve her goals of making 100 friends - all by using his Fe.

And I cried.

I never thought an anime could so clearly help me see what Fe, REAL Fe, looked like and how it could be used to "see" and help other people like that; how true Fe wants others to be authentic and outwardly express their innermost feelings and desires without suppressing or minimizing them, or to appeal to what they or others are feeling in those moments either.

Seeing this dynamic "awakened" something deep in my heart, and maybe for the first time, made me want a dynamic like this for myself in my own life.

So to all the Fe doms out there who can and want to see me and others for who we really are - and all our innermost complexities and depth of feeling- and embrace us for it:

I love you

[darkbluekies]

Hey blue! I really enjoy your OC's, precisely Hedwig. I was just curious about her MBTI (if you know what that is). I would probably say that she is an ENFJ or even an ESFJ with an unhealthy Fe-dom! You're the one to choose (I would see Jerry as an ISTP..) and if you aren't familiar with these letters, I'm sorry for bringing up this topic, lol.

Anyway, could I perhaps be the 🇫🇷 anon if it isn't taken? (French flag cause I'm French and all)

Have a good day.

You've come to the wrong person with this question😅 I know absolutely nothing about mbti, I'm not very interested in it, unfortunately!!

But of course you can be 🇫🇷anon, welcome<3

[blueopinions49]

Healthy/Unhealthy ENFJ

1. Minato Uzumaki 

-Overall healthy use of his FeNi always being able to bring others forward and helping them into reaching their potential. His believe in others is what got him to the position of Homage in the first place. Overall his functions are all very balanced.

2.Storm 

-Healthy use of her FeNi always balancing her idealism with practicality being able to make solid and good choices for the team and mutant kind. Depending on the run she might struggle to express her own emotions in favor of focusing on others. 

3.Mike Wheeler 

-Decent use of all of his functions. He sticks to his FeNi most of the time to see what benefits the group more and often relies on his Se if problemas arrive. Usually strategizing in the moment to get the best results. 

4.Howl Jenkins  Pendragon

-Unhealthy use of FeNi; his desire to be free makes constantly but heads with reality. Usually detaching from his reality to look for what satisfy his emotional needs in the moment. Usually using his fe to play off others emotions.

5.Love Quinn

-Probably the best example of an unhealthy ENFJ, her desire to fulfill her ideal vision of what a relationship looks like makes her frustrated when the relationship itself doesn't work. Her FeNi narrows her view of romance in general disposing of others when the rose tinted glasses come off. 

[immortaltale]

Which mbti personality type do you think Klopp is? According to the internet, he is supposed to be an entp but I don’t think he seems like one. I believe he once said in an interview that he can’t stand being late and in another he suggested something like his past life has been very disciplined and planned. This kind of corresponds more with a J instead of a P? Emotion is a big part of his football philosophy, but I kind of have this feeling that instead of pure sentiment it is more about the fact that he is keenly aware of the power of emotions and is very capable of using it and channeling it? There is also an interesting anecdote in Klopp’s biography that a dortmund player was upset because (he believed) Klopp tried to use the anfield crowd against them when the two teams met just a year or so after he left. Klopp himself also mentioned in some interview that he did not observe the warm-up sessions of the opposition team on purpose except the one occasion when it was with his old dortmund squad. This does show more T than F? Anyways I do feel rather clueless now as he really has a very interesting mix of character traits🧐

hi anon! sooooo glad you asked as personality typing is a big interest of mine :)

let me just preface by saying that i've thought about his type quite a bit, and i personally have come to the conclusion that he is an ESFJ (ennea so2). i have some reasoning for this which i'll explain. (long post ahead!! be warned!!)

so an ESFJ's dominant function (i.e. how they primarily navigate the world) is extroverted feeling, or Fe. Fe's whole idea is about basing values on other people's feelings and harmony. their emotions are influenced by external factors (hence the term "extroverted feeling")

this sounds to me like it fits klopp pretty well, don't you think? here's a quote from him:

"All we do in life is about relationships. Otherwise, if you only want to be responsible for the things you do and not anyone else, then live in a forest alone or on a mountain alone. When you enter a room, you have a little bit of responsibility for the mood in the room."

obviously everybody can have or prioritize emotions, but for Fe-doms (ESFJ and ENFJ) this is the most important thing for them. and this can be seen even by klopp's outlook on being a football manager. he says that it's not just about football, but it's about the people and how you treat them.

i also like how you mentioned that he seems very keenly aware of the power of emotions as well as being able to "channel" them, because Fe-doms can have a bad rap for being emotionally manipulative when unhealthy. of course i'm not calling klopp manipulative at all but rather pointing out how his behavior can be in line with others of his type.

this ain't about pep but quickly let's compare him, a Fi (introverted feeling) user to klopp the Fe-dom. while pep obviously isn't the totally unfeeling overlord some people tend to portray him as, his emotions are much more reserved outwardly as they're internal to him. klopp in comparison is much more of an open book, getting visibly angry at times while pep is more likely to be passive-aggressive. this is just an aside and not too in-depth but i find the comparison interesting so i brought it up.

now, klopp being Fe-dom leaves ENFJ and ESFJ as the possibilities so why have i decided on the latter? you pointed out a big part of it in your ask, it's his use of Si (introverted sensing). being an introverted function focused on the internal it's a bit harder to spot, but it's usually characterized by adherence to set rules and past experiences. his affinity for being "disciplined and planned" as you state, as well as his strict rules for his squad like not being late. Si-users also tend to like organization and routine.

"For me I love to organise other things to get advantage from [not having the ball] and that is deep in my personality..."

so that's basically it for Fe-Si, which would point towards him being an ESFJ! overall though i think his function stack is quite balanced as a result of him being a very healthy individual so i understand why it might be difficult to type him, i had trouble at first too.

but one last thing, because i've stated my case for why i think he's an ESFJ but i haven't necessarily said why i don't think he's an ENTP: i just don't see enough Ne (extroverted intuition) in him. certainly not enough for it to be his dominant function. Ne is all about abstraction, creativity, new ideas etc. klopp himself admits that he thinks he lacks creativity, and while i wouldn't call him tactically inflexible, i would say he has a certain bit of stubbornness about him where he tends to stick to his tried-and-true methods and philosophy rather than adapting, e.g. him not liking to utilize a low block (this is also another reason for Si>Ne). honestly i sometimes get the feeling that people only say he has Ne because he's funny and he laughs loud which is honestly just sterotyping to the max. "this guy is charismatic and funny? well he must be an ENTP har har." it's dumb as hell

anyway i hope you enjoyed my little explanation of my thoughts (if anyone even managed to read this far)! i can also explain pep and arteta (and to a lesser extent mourinho) but don't ask me about anyone else lol because i won't have anything to say

[abcwordsurge]

WttT MBTI Types pt 1

Well, I love the states and I love MBTI, so why not combine my interests? Please, allow me to share with you: my personal headcanons on the states' MBTI types. (Calling it "part 1" is optimistic- I'm only doing the main six in this one, and I want to get around to other states, but we'll see if that ever happens)

And of course, here's the mandatory disclaimer that all MBTI types are equal, and please remember that it doesn't define you (like I know that's literally what it's trying to do, but just... you've got personality traits besides those listed on 16personalities.com, I promise)

Florida: ENTP

Ok, this one took me a bit, because he's such a weird and complicated guy, but I think ENTP fits him best. He's got the chaos factor, obviously, so definitely an ExxP. But he isn't quite open enough about his feelings to be ExFP, and he's a bit too quick witted and clever to be ESxP, so ENTP it is

Gov: ISTJ

He's just barely holding it together, man. He's trying his best and overworking himself and can't stand it when the states act out of his control and all of that is just so ISTJ (also he needs a hug but doesn't know he needs a hug, again, very ISTJ- unhealthy ISTJ but ISTJ nonetheless- someone give this boy a hug please)

California: ENFJ

Most obvious reason is his commitment to social issues, but I also feel like he has that desire to be around people, and a sort of need for external validation, y'know? (Which isn't angsty at all, no siree, no angst material here)

New York: ISTP

Must I even explain? Acting tough + actually thoughtful and sweet but it's hard to tell + intelligent and well informed = ISTP

Texas: ESTP

I hovered between ESTP and ESTJ for a while, because yeah, I can see him being an ESTJ, but I feel like his tendency to do things purely out of spite is very ESTP. Also, that bit where he's trying to shoot down the Chinese balloon or whatever it was ("Table News: Crown of Ice")? Look me in the eyes and tell me that's not an ESTP thing to do

Loui: ISFP

He's just chilling, man. He's enjoying life, taking it easy, hanging out with his bestie, and occasionally falling apart because his emotions are too strong. Love it. He is everything I aspire to be

Thank you for coming to my TedTalk (and if you have any specific states you want me to do this for, let me know in a reblog or my ask box)

[adamworu]

ok ok ok. I was wondering about this and thought: I know exactly who to ask. 💀

so according to the four sides of mind theory infp's shadow personality is enfj. and likewise enfj's shadow personality is infp.

If I somewhat understood correctly shadow is supposed to be our darker traits? like insecurities and fears, unhealthy ways of coping with and internally reasoning with what we deeply repress.

I immediately thought of:

1. your domestic kawoshin headcannons where they beef with each other over differences (I love the idea of them arguing and having interpersonal tension ahhhh)

2. kaworu on the beach saying "i'm just like you. that's why I was attracted to you."

If Kaworu was to identify his own dark or more repressed infp traits what do you think they could be?

Shinji's dark enfj traits?

I love the idea of them both being stoopid soft and vanilla with each other, and I also love the idea of them being mutually attracted to each other's darkness and holding space for each other's darkness.

Also how are you? :- )

One of INFP's dark trait is a crippling fear of failure, and I feel like this would definitely capture Kaworu's plight given the loops. A lifetime of failures in the face of eternity gives him all the fear and anxiety he needs to perfectly capture that dark trait. There's also the very fact that Kaworu's enigmatic nature could count as an INFP trait. Because what is there to share? That, for how powerful and well-versed he is, he is not immune to harmful cycles of the Curse of Eva? And oh god. There's a neglect of personal wants and needs. This is Kaworu's characterization to a T.

As for Shinji? His escapist tendencies mesh well with the ENFJ trait of not being able to make difficult decisions. Being stubborn is also a tenet of an ENFJ. It's a double edged sword that can often lead one deep into trouble. Self-esteem that fluctuates is another facet. Shinji's perceived inferiority could creep up every time Kaworu shows proficiency with piano. Or just forgiving him and being that shoulder to cry on in his low moments.

Also? Same! I love the idea of the inherent sweet nature of domestic kawoshins but I also feel like Domestic Kawoshins wouldn't have the same amount of emotional heft without their respective crises. Kaworu should still struggle with identity even though he feels chiefly at peace with Shinji. Shinji should still have those creeping desires of running and keeping to his escapism when things get tough. Old habits die hard, unfortunately. Being with the ones you love most won't magically eradicate your issues, but with the proper mindset you can tackle them together.

I'm fine, thanks for asking! Was thinking of doing a rewatch of Evangelion. Or playing/buying Ultrakill. It was recommended to me by a friend so I want to play it, because it sort of reminds me of Evangelion.

How are you?

[personality-corner]

Hazbin Hotel MBTI

Charlie Morningstar - ENFJ

Charlie has an idealistic desire to solve everyone else’s problems but her own. She had a tender heart, which has been both her biggest strengths and her biggest weaknesses. Her focus on everyone else’s emotions (Fe), hasn’t allowed her to be assertive when she needs to, always sugarcoating her words to avoid offending everyone else. However, it has allowed her to open other people’s eyes to the concept of redemption. She has a very narrowed focus on her singular goal to make the Hazbin Hotel work and she has very specifically focuses on the concept of redemption.

Vaggie - ISTJ

Vaggie is the grounded, down-to-earth half of Charlie. She uses her experience rooted in Si both in Hell and with other people, to challenge Charlie’s perspective at times. She is also able to take control of certain situations, in ways that Charlie might not be able to at times. Her Te consistently causes her to doubt certain aspects of these ideas, like the idea Angel can change. She doesn’t believe it until Angel objectively shows signs of changing.

Angel Dust - ESFP

Angel Dust can be impulsive, throwing himself into drinking and sex, to cope with his surroundings, showing his unhealthy Se. He puts up a wall, and is portrayed as being fake, however his decision to push his own emotions aside has much more to do with self-preservation than it does with conforming to his friend group, like an Fe would do. His Fi is shown in the way he always tries to protect himself and hide his emotions, to avoid getting hurt. He is constantly trying to get out of work, trying to get out of having to answer to Valentino. He wants nothing more than to separate himself from his toxic environment.

Alastor - ENTJ

Not much is known about Alastor’s true intentions, but from what we do know, he likes to be in complete control of situations. His decisions are based on information that works, rather than his own personal frameworks and theories, and doesn’t necessarily believe in things, such as redemption, until there is probable data in front of him. He also has a narrowed focus, Ni, where he uses his tertiary Se to pull from his environment to make decisions.

Sir Pentious - INFP

While he may disguise himself as a Te user, Sir Pentious is guided by his own feelings and desires, first and foremost. He attacks the hotel because he thinks it will earn him respect, and his inability to come up with any sort of feasible plan, indicates he has low Te. This being said, he has many strong ideas for the future, and he tends to be the most easy to convince to be on board.

Husk - ISTP

Husk comes off as cold and detached towards people he doesn’t know- and towards people he does know. He is aware of how people in his environment acts, and can see through people and their behaviors, but lacks empathy when addressing it, indicating strong inferior Fe. Like Angel Dust, he can also be impulsive, and enjoys sensory activities, such as gambling. Because of this, Husk is able to relate to Angel’s issues in ways that other main characters can’t, and uses this as a way to comfort him.

Lucifer Morningstar - ENFP

Lucifer’s many ideas about free will, and his desires to help humanity is what initially separates him from the other angels. However, as his hope is lost and his depression grows, he gets himself into an Si grip. He wants things to change, but he has also seen from experience how difficult it is to change a sinner. His Fi is shown when we see his personal values. He is so obsessed with his own emotions and his own past, that he doesn’t really comply to group morals at all.

Adam - ESTP

Adam is impulsive and tends to act without thinking about the long term effects, and he tends to use his own logic, developed by social standards, to justify his actions. He suggests the extermination, not as much as a solution to the problem at hand, but for the sake of entertainment. His impulsive nature is also what ends up exposing the exterminations to everyone.

To Be Typed: For now, this is all I’m doing, as I don’t feel like I know enough about the other characters to type them.