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is no one going to say how perfect brittle bones nicky is for charles and edwin specifically verse 3 and the breakdown
#dead boy detectives#dbd#edwin payne#edwin paine#charles rowland#met a man named ... quite sharp & witty??#gave me books about money & cities??#taught me ropes only years couldve gained??#looked out for each other M.Oâs the same??#yellinâ so loud#two decades we aged??#if it costed me my life man i'd save my only friend??#that's something icould live with i could take that to the end??
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Between Cerkonos of the Fire Ashari and Dr. Howard Margrove Robbie's proving that he can and he will play the weirdest middle-aged men you've ever seen in your life
#this is why dorian needs to survive all this#he needs to cook for another two to three decades#so we can see what flavour of weird middle-aged man he will become#critical role#critical role spoilers#cr spoilers#candela obscura#cerkonos of the fire ashari#howard margrove
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I'm gonna be real, so little of previous games have actually mattered in any way beyond flavor text that I literally could not give less of a shit about this whole debacle. Like it's such a non-issue to me. Idk what games y'all have been playing for 15 years but truly this is the norm. Barely anything carried over from Origins to Hawke and all pretty minor shit, and I genuinely cannot think of anything beyond flavor text carrying over to Inquisition. Oh you could customize Hawke and they can answer a few vague questions with vague bullshit? Cool, presumably that's what the Inquisitor will give us. Like idk guys but I think maybe building up your expectations for a decade has had a detrimental effect on what should be reasonable expectations for a video game that's truly been in development hell for like eight years and wants to be functionably playable to brand new players without alienating them.
#like i played inquisition first and THEN played the first two and i didn't really lose anything doing it like that#it functioned as a fun game in a bubble that parcelled background info in small digestible codex snippets#then after playing the other games there was more IMPACT in new playthrough but no major revelations#honestly i think i probably had MORE fun playing Inquisition first that i would have if i'd played origins and hawke beforehand#presumably that's what they're aiming for with veilguard and honestly i'm super chill with that#i hope they once again succeeded in making both a good bubble video game AND reasonable sequel#like they set it a decade later for a reason guys: i'm pretty sure most major inquisition decisions will be old news by then#'oh a shitty mage/assassin/cop is the divine? she has been for like twelve years get over it grandpa'#'oh the circles are restored/abolished? yeah we know little timmy the mage was born AFTER the mage revolt of :41 and is doing fine'#'hey what happened with all those wardens fucking about in orlais during the breach crisis? literally who gives a fuck that was AGES ago'#look. i just cannot comprehend getting genuinely bent out of shape about this. like are you also still made about origins' epilogue slides?#dragon age: the veilguard#by apples
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Reminiscing over how Brutus used to sit at Maxâ grave for the first few weeks following his death. Weâd let him out to do his rounds, he was very diligent in keeping his âinheritedâ territory, but heâd always start by sitting for five minutes or so at the grave. Just sitting there, looking at nothing in particular.
#myart#brutus#maximilian lucifer#max died as a result of a massive heart attack at the age of eleven#he was always a little bit on the sicklier side#brutus went and found him for us when max went out to die#so we got to bury him properly#up by the two birches#brutus himself got the last laugh - we never found his body#he went to die in the woods and the woods kept his secret#this all happened so many years ago#its strange to think max has been gone nearly two decades#brutus was better than all of us at dealing with grief#cuz one day he moved on and we never saw him at the grave again
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at this point I don't even know if tag fragmentation in the general russian holmes space is worth addressing. a few years ago I successfully kept the ancient customs intact because I wrote a post so deranged and pretentious it displeased people into doing what I wanted but nowadays what's the point in making a grand return of being terminally online if yall kinda right
#history: in the ice age the soviet series were exclusively russian sherlock holmes#the 2013 show is about to appear under a surprisingly generic title of Sherlock Holmes that is also russian#the contemporaries can't come up with anything better than naming it the new russian holmes#it is a decade later#soon it will be 11 years of nrh being *new*#and russian sh keeps dying out in favour of soviet sh#tag fragmentation occurs where the historic russian sh name with almost 15 years of tumblr history gets shafted in favour of soviet sh#a relatively new tag nowhere near of the russian sh legacy#as someone who actually scrolled it all the way back to the very beginning and yes to the first posts of circa 2010/2011#you can guess why I felt strongly about it since you are just creating an issue that never was and also making a false impression#of how sparsely populated soviet sh is while all this time it was just a secondary but also straight up unused tag#the same thing having two tags with totally different content bc of tag fragmentation is quite annoying#but it is now the modern age and idk if you can even go that deep into any tag anymore with how the search function doesn't work#and who could be wrong. russian sh Is soviet. nrh Is new. and nrh will never change and mix with the russian sh search forever.#plus what is the issue. russian sh gets one post a week and nrh gets one every half a year. the annoyance exists to me only.#do we assemble a council and grant both shows new unique tags and resolve the mistakes of our ancestors#while erasing 10+ years of history behind their current tags in the process thus basically wiping the fandom clean#or do we just live with it while occasionally shrugging at how this all happened#I thought and fought to keep it the way it was because adding to a search that goes back to 2010 is what it's all about o7#but nowadays truly. everyone else is technically right. what's the point
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Benny Boy doing the one uncle who's the real life version of the how you doing fellow kids meme.
#ben barnes#the worst benny boy updates blog kinda had no idea how to caption this#cuz it's just pure unadulterated cringe#also can we put on the record that it's yet another girl TWO DECADES younger thank him who's his music 'friend'?#yeah i can see a pattern here#and him being emotionally stunted and his age of stagnation starting when he was like 27 are only a part of it#google says the band is a duo but ye know..........#the coral found an ounce of energy spam
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we should be very concerned what children are being taught about the Third Reich and the Soviet Union by institutions which cleave to the same materialist worldview that spawned those regimes
#Iâve been thinking a lot about those man-on-the-street interviews#with people my age who canât tell you the two main sides of the Revolutionary War#or what decade WWII occurred in#and Iâm like. do these people who fling the word âNaziâ at any conservatives who breathes even know what a Nazi was beyond a racist?#*breathe#do they even know what happened during the Holocaust? let alone how it came about? the ideas that created it?#I mean weâve got a whole percentage block of high school graduates who canât read so why should we be surprised#when their understanding of the words âNaziâ and âSocialistâ are wrapped in 73 layers of pop progressivism#(19 percent by the way. of HS graduates. illiterate.)#if they can graduate without literacy we have to ask the question: what are the schools for?#mobile#x#education#respublica#history
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Okay, looking at the history of Alan's page on the wiki, look into age shit. Going to try to keep my "I was literally there" commentary to myself.
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First mention of his age comes on April 28 2010, claiming it was stated by McDuffie but with nothing backing the claim.
It then back and forths a bit between his age being listed as 10, being listed as in his teens, or not listed at all based essentially on 'you don't have proof he's that young' 'you don't have proof he's not' and presumably 'guys he's like an inch shorter than Ben and built like a teen' it seems, eventually being left on 'he's 10'.
On January 2 2011 McDuffie is asked if the wiki is accurate as far as Alan's age and answers with "No, he's 11". This claim isn't added to the wiki, it seems nobody was citing any sources at the time.
On January 15 2011 the wiki is altered to show Alan as being 14 in AF, though the same page also lists him as 11.
January 16 2011 sees the 11 removed and replaced with fifteen.
An January 20 2011 the page is again altered to list him as 10 in AF and remove the mention of his age from the main body of the page.
On June 20 2011 somebody alters the wiki to state that he's 12 during AF, again with no citation.
This is changed back on June 24 2011.
On October 8 2011 the page is again changed to state that Alan is 14 in AF.
The page stays this way, including through multiple edits by the seeming originator of the 'Alan is 10' concept, until July 6 2014, when his age is removed entirely from the page.
The next time we see his age listed is after a long stint of the page being partially broken, on November 23 2014, listing him as 14 in AF.
His age is then removed again on January 18 2015.
And it stays like that until February 13 2019, when his age in AF is listed as 10 again, this time at least with a damn citation. The first, by the way, up until that day nobody was citing shit.
And that's how shit remains to this day.
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Now, doing this for 2 reasons. One- to back up my claims that 'he's 10' is inaccurate, there's a reason it was changed in the first place after that first comment from McDuffie ended up staying up nearly three years. And these weren't inactive years either, there were plenty of people going in and editing shit. Two- to give me a time to start looking to see if I can find where McDuffie clarified his age- somewhere between Jan 2 and Jan 15, probably closer to the latter.
Probably I won't be able to find it, it's been ages since the forum was taken down, and surely if it hadn't been lost to time somebody would have tracked it down by now, but I have to try. It just, burns at me so damn much, I have to make as strong an attempt as I can.
So, here I am off to search...
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And back several hours later with nothing to show for my trawling of archives, and I did fucking trawl. I've got 80 tons of shellfish and not a sign of this damn post because there's a massive chunk gone between the thread page fuckers managed to find and the next one I could get my mitts on.
Also the fucking site this thread page can be found on. It has like 70-odd pages from the old McDuffie site saved, all of them random single pages. How did this happen? Who set this up? The Internet Archive has shit in small batches, but this shit is just individual pages with whole chunks unaccounted for between them. Fucking weird. If nothing else these fuckers need to get in touch with each other and share what they've got.
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In the end though, I think this is if nothing else a solid reminder to archive shit. And to cite your goddamn sources when you're editing a wiki! Seriously, how the fuck did it take over twenty years to get a single citation on Alan's page? If people had been doing that from the start we would have had far fewer problems because we could just go 'this is what was said'! But no, now we're here, with me having to submit to the fact everybody is going to take a sarcastic remark as gospel despite contradictory evidence on the fucking screen until all knowledge of this fandom fizzles away!
Sorry, sorry, was trying to stay off that soapbox.
But, as important if not more so than the citations on wikis thing is still, back shit up people. Archive crap if you can. The Internet Archive has a Firefox extension, you can literally set it to automatically archive pages you go to. Because if this whole situation brings anything into the spotlight, it should be the fact that it's real easy for information to be lost to time. One man died, and because so much wasn't backed up, hundreds of pages, we've lost entire huge chunks of WoG and worldbuilding that now exists only in the heads of the people who were there to read it.
'The internet is forever' only holds true if we put in the effort, because otherwise everything from fandom crap to news articles to instruction manuals can vanish in a poof of lost funds and lost attention. If we wanna know shit later, we've got to store it now.
#alan albright#i don't have the strength to go check for citations on other pages i can only hope and pray they didn't take *two fucking decades* like ala#we literally have over a month of missing information just between that page and the nearest available one and it is *painful* to me#because there is information in there#and i remember some of this information#but i can't *prove it* aside from pointing out that alan literally looks *nothing like* that young#especially when compared to children we know for damn sure are that age in the show
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I am very sorry to make a terrible joke, but our student workers whom I was overseeing were being super efficient today with their shelf shifting project in the children's section. They were totally booking it.
#random personal stuff#I also learned that a student worker who is from Spain grew up watching Arthur just like I did - which I would not have expected#two completely different countries and at least a decade's age gap and we still shared a part of our childhoods how cool is that
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Preview for GotG #03...
#guardians of the galaxy#wednesday spoilers#tw animal death#spoilers tag if u care i doubt anyone at this point does but ah.#why are they being turned into the british :(#idc if Djurdjevic had redesigned pete for the modern age to be vaguely british THAT WAS TWO DECADES AGO.. AND IT WAS ALREADY A DUMB STRETCH#anyways this is how i lose. goodbye goodbye to the astrologers of spartax and the mystic angle i guess#not that i don't think spartoi society isn't bigoted. they absolutely are we know this. i'd like an exploration of that issue but UHM#maybe not like this cartoonish thing written by two white men.#doubt she'll actually show up but at least victoria is still queen?? small win?? PLEASE don't fuck her up too#they really perverted peter's gold antlers by giving him a dumb hat with wooden ones... get out of here. i hate u.#also idk if it's just my dumb brain or my attention span problems but every issue of this is so hard to read and comprehend is it JUST me??#genuine question for anyone who's read this far into the tags legit is anything else by these writers. like this...
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me watching any piece of media ever made: how can i make the thesis here about the wondrous, fulfilling, frightening, destroying, restorative, glimmering thrall of, and tragic inevitability of grief within, any and every form of love?
elvis (2022): *very first thing we hear* oh, let our love survive... *later*: love song i've known since childhood used in a dark, ominous way and a desperately tender one: some things are meant to be. take my hand, take my whole life too, for i can't help falling in love... *later still*: it was love. *last*: i need your love...
ah. okay. so you just made my job too easy. i don't even have to search for it. thank you. guess i'll go insane.
#if you need the short explanation#joanna newsom: a little shade of grief comes in when love is its most real version.#then it contains death inside of it and then that death contains love inside of it.#i want to write so much but 99% of you are not here for this and think i have well and truly lost it and that's fair#what's so funny is it's exactly what happened with moulin rouge two decades ago#christian: a story about a time; a story about a place; a story about the people.#but above all things: a story about love. a love that will live forever.#younger me: thank you. guess i'll go insane!#and it predates that considerably. i have countless examples. it's so funny HOW predictable i am and have been since the age of about seven#okay i have to go to bed i'm destroying my body with sleep deprivation đ i'll be back for more derangement later#elvis#i was a dreamer#sail on silver girl; sail on by#it starts as OUR love because it's already telling us it's shared. we're a part of this now#and then can't help falling is like: do we find what we love or does it find us? is this fate or could one thing have been different#if one thing had been different would everything be different today#does it matter even though it's already done? (yes) if you reach out your hand to the sense of that love how does it affect your life?#(and on a personal level for me: you heard but you didn't listen carefully enough. the door was always open)#i'll be coming home. *wait* for me.#then the conclusion is it's love it was always love. but from the person who doesn't even understand that#so we have to take it to heart differently. time goes by so slowly and TIME CAN DO SO MUCH. are you still mine?#time transforms and time provides distance but time can also give clarity#and then it's an entreaty and a prayer: i need your *love*. i *need* your love. godspeed your love to me.#it's never not needed and it's never not valuable and it's never not new and it's never not fate and grief and light and spirit.#you can run and run and always land back home. you can hurt and triumph and break and always find your love. even if it's yours alone.#it's yours baby and no one can take it away from you#put me in the heart locket i'm done
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pc players talking about missing the combat of dao and how good it is as if they donât have twenty million quality of life improvements and still constantly use skip combat mods. you do not want dao combat again. you hate it. take it from a console player who is forced to endure dao as it actually is: you do not want this again. you are not playing dao and you canât even begin to understand how little you know it nor how good you have it
#keeping some degree of tactical elements and party control is good but dao is not a good game to play. its bad#iâm genuinely astounded at how much it sucks to play despite only being from 2009. itâs aged Decades it feels#which is baffling because earlier bioware games and even da2 just a year and a half later donât have this problem or itâs only a fraction#as bad as origins is#anyways every da game is super different from the last and also dai will be a decade old when dreadwolf comes out and origins can probably#get a learnerâs permit to drive in the us by that time. the new gameplayâll be fine probably and either way thatâs not really what most#fans are really here for anyhow. itâs about the cast and the world and scrambling that egg#i just really hate this specific kind of player whoâs deluded themselves into thinking origins doesnât suck#itâs good and itâs bad and feels terrible and amazing#it needs a remake for so many reasons and number one is an oghren rewrite and number two is making it bearable to play#also we literally have no idea what the gameplay for dreadwolf looks like in practice so maybe save your comments for when you play it
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Mattresses, unbeknownst to many, are a lot like cars. Every year new ones roll out, theyâre always tweaking and innovating and youâll never find the same one you loved decades ago when buying a new one.
Where I sold mattresses had a three month return or exchange program for this reason. New beds take a while to break in, and theyâre a big expense. Your body is used to the old one. So we made sure people were loving it. If a bed got returned weâd take it back, sanitize and clean it, then sell it again on clearance.
To sell these we always had to disclose what clearance meant to customers, and they had to sign that they knew what they were getting. (FYI, not every company is as⌠forthright about the used bed situation)
In clearance we had beds that were floor models, we had returns, and more rarely we had old models whose line had been discontinued. These clearance beds were always final sale, so a bed could only be sold twice.
Now, the manager at the store I was working at had realized a vital fact. Clearance beds in the warehouse didnât sell, especially old models that salespeople werenât familiar with. And even more especially in odd sizes, like twin extra longs. So he set up a split king on the showroom floor to exhibit clearance beds, pulling all those forgotten twin extra longs out onto the showroom.
Almost all of these were brand new discontinued models. Beds Iâd never learned in training were exhumed to be displayed. The manufacturers had moved on to new lines and theyâd been left behind. Why would he take such in interest in selling old stock, you might wonder? Because we made double commission on the sales margin of clearance beds, and if weâd had a bed long enough they dropped the cost in the system so it was a fucking cash cow to sell these. Even with huge discounts the commissions were wonderful so it was a win win.
When I got started I was jazzed about this program, I was so on board to sell weird old brand new beds and make a ton of money. I had a wonderful older couple come in, looking for a split king adjustable set. This was a white whale sale.
The current clearance models on the floor were a latex mattress that was brand new despite being of an age to start first grade, and a tempurpedic floor model. The couple laid down and it was like magic. They each loved the bed theyâd laid down on. They wanted to buy the whole shebang.
I. Was. Thrilled. I told them about the clearance program and what that meant, and they werenât bothered in the least. I wrote up the sale then dashed into the back, fizzing with excitement to tell my manager what Iâd done.
âYou sold the death bed?!â He asked in delight.
I pulled up short, my smile freezing in place. âWhatâŚ?â
âDidnât you check the notes?â
I hesitated for a long beat then slowly shook my head. You see, dear reader, all beds had a personal history. Every clearance bed had logs written up by the person who took the return, as well as warehouse crew after sanitizing. It helped us know what to expect when selling them. âWasnât it just a floor model? You said it was a floor modelâŚâ
He slowly shook his head. I checked the notes.
It turned out, it had been sold as a floor model. The first time. But the company had made an exception and taken it back as a return two months later. Why? Because itâs owner had passed away.
I stared at the computer in horror and my manager shrugged. âThey signed the clearance form. Technically it was a floor model.â
âWe know for a fact that a man died in that bed!â
âWhat they donât know canât haunt them,â he said philosophically.
The man came back a week later for more sheets, utterly delighted to tell me how well they were sleeping. I clamped my teeth down around the secret of the deathbed, choosing to let them love their new bed without the stigma. Only one person would be haunted by that deathbed, and it was me.
#ramblies#ffs foibles#that sale was over ten thousand dollars#and I made a thousand dollars in that one sale#I cried about it later because I couldnât even conceive of making that much money#story#writing#funny
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babydaddy!toji would never admit that he got jealous when you were around guys your age. heâd never get insecure, no, but he felt a deep pang of jealously in his chest. like he prayed that he had been born later so he could be more similar to you. your relationship with him was complicated. you were dating on and off but finally just settled as friends with benefits (who took care of a ridiculously cute baby together).
your parents often asked you why you dated a guy who was less than a decade away from being your father. your friends did the same too, not seeing the appeal in being with a âbroke old manâ. you never understood why toji just scoffed and looked away. it was out of character since heâd usually just cuss people out.
babydaddy!toji who let his jealousy show a little too much when you ran into an old high school friend of yours while you were out shopping. toji had to piss and you were waiting outside when he came up to you. shit, you didnât even recognize him at first and the conversation was merely small talk but when toji came out, he had his arm around your waist, his hands coming down a little too low.
âthis is your uh.. boyfriend, yeah?â, you friend asked, his eyes immediately going to the hand on your waist. most people just assumed you were single again.
âyou could say that..â, you sheepishly replied, trying to swat tojiâs hand away.
âtsk whyâre you acting like i didnât just dick you down and you didnât carry my baby, ma? course youâre mineâ, toji scoffed, looking away.
your eyes dart from your friendâs to his and it finally clicked. he was jealous. with a small smile, you excused yourself and tugged on the hem of tojiâs shirt, signaling him to walk out to his car. the walk there was filled with short protests from him and silence from you. of course, he didnât mean it, he loved this kind of attention from you. as you got to his car you rummaged through his pants pocket to grab his keysânot being shy to graze his dickâand unlocked the car.
babydaddy!toji whoâd never admit he was jealous, even when you two were making out in the middle of a mall parking lot with your hand on his crotch.
âadmit it, you stillâah, you still love me and you were jealousâ
âcourse i fuckin love youâfuck yeah,keep your hand thereâweâre long over, ma. didnât you say we were just friends with benefits?â
âyouâre avoiding the question, tojiâ
he had his hands all over you at this point, tugging at your shirt but you pulled away and furrowed your eyebrows.
âadmit that you were jealous, old pervâ
âfuckâfine. i was jealous. i hate seeing you with men younger than me. makes me feel old. happy now, doll?â, he leaned in again, grabbing your face as you kissed back with a smirk.
âyeah, iâm elatedâ, you grinned, trailing your hand up to play with his dark happy trail and dipping it in his sweatpants.
âdonât be a fuckin brat, ma. mâgonna give you a second snotty little shit if you keep this upâ, toji growled, trailing open-mouthed kisses down your neck and onto your collarbone
âyeah?â, you smirked, tangling your fingers in his hair as you guided him down, âkeep that promise and maybe weâll get marriedâ
babydaddy!toji who was definitely going to take you in the backseat for hours. fuck driving home.
babydaddy!toji who nearly died at the spot from the news of you being pregnant not with just one baby, but twins. you ended the year with a ring and a freshly painted nursery.
#jjk x reader#jjk smut#jjk x reader smut#toji fushiguro#jjk toji#toji x reader#toji smut#toji x reader smut#i want him#CAN HE GET ME PREGNANT#rina thinking đ
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I need you people to realize that you can be friends with people younger than you. like, much younger than you. like, decades younger than you. you can be friends with these people. regular friends, just like anyone your age. it is possible.
I need you people to realize that you can be friends with people older than you. like, much older than you. like, decades older than you. you can be friends with these people. regular friends, just like anyone your age. it is possible.
#i'm in my mid-30s and went back to college#my friend group is as young as 18 and we have friends in their 40s#this is not weird#my 20yo friend texted me when he needed help and he knew i could help because i'm older and have experience#my 44yo friend and i were laughing in the lab the other day about old '90s sitcoms we both liked#please get to know people outside your age group#definitely have friends within your age group as wall#like i have many friends in their late 20s through 30s because we all grew up together#i socialize with my family and friends from my generation a ton#but i have a weekly get together where our group spans over a decade and a half#ages 18 - 19 - 21 - 24 - 26 - 33 - 34#that 21 was 20 until recently and that's the friend who reached out last semester#my 18yo friend made me chicken soup when i got pneumonia#my 24yo friend has several degrees including a masters and is working on another but has never driven a car#we all have interesting lives and circumstances that brought us to college#different families and backgrounds so we learn so much from each other#also it's a very diverse group otherwise#guys gals gays queers and allies unite#i'm afab queer married to my afab nb wife#two of my friends are cis and straight and dating#one is catholic one is pagan one is surrealist agnostic several of us are ex-evangelicals with one erring toward buddhism now#several secular agnostic/atheist with no ties to church at all#we have a lot of really interesting conversations because we all just have wildly different lived experiences#a young black man moves through the world differently than a white queer woman#someone from a mixed race heritage has a different lived experience from someone who only has one racial/ethnic identity#someone whose parents were accepting of their queerness has a different experience than someone hiding being trans from phobic parents#these are all real descriptions of several of the people in our group#please talk to people who aren't your age race sex gender orientation etc.#i am begging you to hear about lives you will never live and truly experience compassion and curiosity and respect for those lives
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