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Yandere
With Toko stalking Hinata, Genocide Syo is bound to come out. However Toko isn't the only one with a second personality, as Hinata has one as well in Izuru. It is the meeting of two alternate personalities, both dangerous in their own ways.
"Finally. I finally got you where I wanted you to be."
Genocide Syo said in a depraved lovesick voice as she licked her lips as she stared at the man whom she had been stalking over two and half week, just waiting for the right moment to give this handsome hunk of a man her confession via death with her scissors.
"...."
"Got nothing to say to me, Darling~?" Genocide Syo cooed as she twirlinng her signature weapon of choice, lust and love filled her black heart. "Do this mean you are ready for my-"
"How boring." Spoken the deep monotone voice that was far from the shadow which he stepped out revealing...Izuru Kamukura was staring at her with an apathetic expression as he stared at her with boredom-filled red eyes. "How completely and utterly boring this is...." He said to the murderous yandere woman who blinked in surprise at the sudden change of physical appearance and tone of her love...
...but this made the deranged even more deranged as she let out an excited giggle and her pupils were replaced with bright luminous pink hearts.
"This...is going to be so much fun~!" Syo said as she speed toward the man with the murderous intent to express her twisted love toward the man who stared at her with a dead, apathetic expression.
#danganronpa#genocide syo#genocide jack#toko fukawa#hajime hinata#izuru kamukura#yandere au#yandere au prompt#tw: mental illness#multiple personality disorder#dissociative identity disorder#did#tw: attempted murder#tw: twisted affection#tw: unhealthy feeling
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Ask me what type of romantic dreams I have at night.
The man in my dreams:
(He wasn't happy I escaped from my gilded cage)
#I haven't stopped thinking about him#that dream will not leave me alone#I NEED to know what he was going to do to me#he wanted me so bad I could feel his burning gaze on me#my ocs#obsessive yandere#yandere#tw yandere#dark imagines#dark art#dark content#stalker bf#stalking fantasy#dead dove do not eat#this is extremely unhealthy but I need him#tw dubcon#tw noncon
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I realized that the reason I can't get better is because I feel the best when I'm at my sickest
#actually bpd#bpd#bpd thoughts#i'm so tired#s3lf harn#s3lfharmm#tw s3lf harm#vent#bpd blog#bpd mood#bpd problems#bpd stuff#bpd feels#bpd meme#bpd shit#bpd things#bpd vent#actually mentally ill#mentally unhealthy#mentally unwell#mentally fucked#self sabotage#self destruction
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what bothers me about horde prime, more than his lazy characterization or his lack of impact on the narrative, is the fact that he is such a bad representation of a cult leader. like,, this is not how cults work. they don’t just insert a chip into you and make you follow their every directive like a robot. real life cults are a lot more terrifying because they use manipulation as a tactic to convince people to join them. it’s not a digital chip that you can remove from your system and suddenly you’re in complete control of yourself. cult survivors have talked about how hard it is to actually unlearn that mindset and start thinking for themselves, how many years it takes to stop feeling guilty for leaving their cult or seeing the toxicity in the leaders they so religiously followed.
sure, hordak and catra have some trauma tied to their experience with horde prime, but most of that is because of the physical torture they went through, rather than their experience of being brainwashed. and it’s fine if horde prime was just some villain and not a genocidal cult leader. but it’s clear that he was written to be a religious authority figure, the execution is just so off.
i know he’s a character in a fantasy world, so he had to use his powers for something. but instead of turning people into robots, he could have shown them a “better world” through his tech, talked them into joining him and forgetting about all their current worries, and then used them as weapons against etheria.
it would have been a lot more impactful and angsty if catra had willingly joined horde prime’s cult so that she could repress her guilt. in fact, it would have been really interesting if horde prime had convinced catra that he would help her repend for all that she did, if she joined his cult. this would have been a lot more comparable to religious guilt and trauma in real life, and it would show that catra actually felt bad for what she did, instead of just looking sad for a while and then continuing to be a shitty person anyway.
#everyday i mourn the character horde prime could have been#he could have actually been representative of toxic religious figures who push unhealthy mindsets#instead of being all “heehee you love adora dont you” he could have been like#“i sense guilt. you’ve done a lot of horrible things and you want to take it all back but you can’t. at least you think you can’t.#but if you join me you can repend for all your sins. dedicate yourself to me and i’ll make sure you’ll never feel like a bad person again.”#and it sounds like escapism because it is#halfway through catra begins to realize this and she has to choose between repressing her guilt#and actually allowing herself to feel guilty so that she can work on being better#and instead of having adora rescue her catra rescues herself by making a hard decision#but alas#spop critical#spop salt#spop#spop discourse#spop criticism#she ra#anti spop#tw religious guilt#tw religious trauma#tw religion#tw cult
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StaticMoth Abuse
Featuring mentions of Angel Dust's relationship with Val
TW: ABUSE, SA
SPOILERS AHEAD ↓
Here's a fact. Vox is not being abused by Valentino.
This fandom is so deep in fanon content that it heavily intertwines with canon. But let's try to understand where Val abusing Vox came from, why it's not true and how it correlates to Angel Dust's relationship with Val.
Let's begin:
In the, now archived, posts on Instagram (or voxtagram), it was revealed that Vox and Val were in a situation-ship, and canon officially confirmed it.
Now, Val as a character is heavily hated and for good reasons while Vox is not. Many people adore Vox and for that, his relationship with Val can be conflicting, adding a bit of difficulty in justifying their like for him.
Here's where Valentino's relationship with Angel Dust comes in.
Val has been shown to be abusive and to SA Angel Dust. First example of that being the Addict music video.
This has created the need for people to give a reason behind Vox's relationship with Val and make excuses for him so they can validate their favoritism.
"Val is so awful! He must be abusing Vox! Breaking his screen and whatnot!"
What people don't take into consideration is the difference in their power imbalance or lack thereof.
One of the core factors in Angel Dust's relationship with Val is the power difference between them.
Val is an overlord while Angel is a sinner.
A sinner that signed a contract with Val and gave his soul. That alone makes their dynamic vastly different. Val feels it's within his right to abuse Angel, to test his limits until he breaks. And up until episode 4, Angel believed he deserved it because whatever Val did to have him sign the contract must have been his fault. Although that's not true, Angel felt so. Heck, he wanted to break himself so that Val would let him go.
Vox and Val, on the other hand, don't have that. Both of them are overlords.
They are on equal footing. There is no power imbalance. In fact, the Vees could have not existed and both Vox and Val, including Velvette, would be completely fine without each other and continue to have their respective overlord status.
The reason it exists is exploitation.
All three can and do use each other so they can have a more powerful front. A mutual alliance of exploitation. Within this, they have created their own fucked up bond. As a result of that, Val and Vox have an on-again, off-again relationship. It's far from healthy, but it's not an abusive one.
Vox knows of Valentino's behavior but as long as it's not effecting their shared partnership, he will not interfere nor will he care about it.
Or maybe the next seasons will give me the middle finger and I'm completely wrong. Who knows? I just read a fic and saw posts about Vox being abused by Val and wanted to give my two cents on the topic.
#staticmoth#hazbin hotel#hazbin vox#hazbin valentino#unhealthy relationships#this is specifically about ppl claiming vox is abused or even manipulated by val#tw sa mention#tw abuse#hazbin analysis#hazbin angel dust#< mentioned#feel free to ignore#ok bye
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quick shoutout to the bg3 community and all their beautiful art, fics and mods for plus size/fat tavs/companions because i struggled so long with my weight gain after ed recovery and hated my belly for a long time but now i am growing to love it because lots of people are posting about and also loving that body type.
i feel all out of proportion because i have no chest to speak of, but i do have a belly... and i felt so super insecure about it bc of internalised fatphobia and previous experience of only being told i was worthy of love when stick thin.
lots of love to you all. thank you for helping me love my body and take up space.
#tw weight#mine#love to the bg3 fandom#i hope i'm not stepping on any toes. idk if i am considered 'fat' or 'average' at a uk size 16#but i used to be a super unhealthy size 6 so my perception is really skewed i know#i feel far far better now though#i can say that
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This is a random dark thing but I was looping Too Young again which is like The "fc!bf's negative emotions" song so idk why I'm surprised BFJQHDJ ANYWAY. A thing w fc!Pico is that he makes a lot of offhand jokes abt how like he Should be dead or making rly dark jokes about his near-death experiences just bc of the amount of shit he's been through and he doesn't really see a problem with it but I feel like after The Hanzou Incident BF starts saying similar shit and Pico's like woah hey wait a minute that's illegal you can't do that
#abrupt realization of Poor Coping Mechanisms through seeing someone you love do the same thing. or smth#its a touchy thing bc this sort of thing tends to be a cry for help but also an indicator that the person is like#Not emotionally ready to deal with it#idk. rotating in my mind how they would talk abt this in their mutual recovery process#... and also thinking abt rgbfverse scenarios bc its indulgent who better to snap u out of an unhealthy coping mechanism than Youdnajsk#💛#uhhh. i feel like this needs a trigger tag but idk what#fucking. angst tw dkqhdnajs#ask to tag#<- works for now
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Boyfriend
CW: College AU; Unreliable narrator/reader; Delusional reader/Nobunaga; Unhealthy relationship; Lovesick reader; Insecurities (Reader); Possessive; Ignoring multiple red flags; Sexual content towards the end (Grinding, Messy Kisses)
Summary: You’re hesitant to ask Nobunaga on a date due to not wanting to destroy your friendship with him. He has other views on the subject at hand.
Word Count: 2,094 Note from Knux: I just wanted to say that I was very inspired by this fic from @uvobreakmylegs (they have the best writing PLEASE-). But, seriously wanted to give credit where credit is due though!
You leaned against Nobunaga’s side, his steady breathing helping to distract you from your nerves. It was so silly how nervous you were; it was just a date after all- well, it would be a date if he accepted. The words seemed to die in your throat, turning into a hard lump that made it hard to breathe, every time you tried to ask the simple question: do you want to go on a date with me?
Honestly, those words weren’t daunting at all and it was frustrating that you’ve never had any issues asking before. You were used to making the first moves on people you liked- sure, you haven’t done it since high school, but that’s besides the point. The point now is that you felt like you were drowning in your own emotions because you could spit out the damn phrase.
You glanced up at Nobunaga, taking in his face: angular, lips drawn into a thin line and his dark eyes focusing hard on the text in front of him. It was funny to you how you had convinced him to join you on this little study date- it made you feel fuzzy inside. Though, you had finished your studies and were simply keeping him company now. Which, you didn’t mind. If it meant that you got to hang around the silly athlete, the better it was.
You sighed, nestling closer to him, allowing your eyes to slip shut as you snuggled deeper into the blanket you wrapped yourself in.
“Hmm, getting bored?” Nobunaga’s voice said, startingling you out of your dozing.
“Maybe,” you murmured against him, pressing your face further into his arm as you let your eyes slip close again, “but I don’t really mind if I get to sit with you.”
He snorted. “You sap. You sound like you really like me.”
“Well, yeah.” You quickly added: “we’re friends after all.”
He went silent and you couldn’t help the way your stomach started to churn with a strange sort of anxiety. A frown tugged at your lips, peaking one eye open to glance up at him. He seemed irritated as he glared at the book in front of him.
You slumped against him once again, both eyes open now, as you thought of how you (or what) had upset him. Nobunaga had a bit of a hairline trigger with his frustrations occasionally- you sometimes felt like you were walking a tightrope with him, but you didn’t really mind. It was just how Nobu was. Your silly friend who was sweet and always took care of you. Before him there was only you.
A small smile pulled at your lips. How did you ever make it without him?
“Ah, fuck- this thing is boring!” Nobunaga finally declared, slamming the book shut.
You couldn’t help but giggle despite how he jostled you around when he crossed his arms and pressed himself back into the worn (but comfortable) couch in your living room. “How about you take a break, I’ll make some tea, that sound good?”
He grunted, sulking into the cushions while you unwrapped yourself and laying the fluffy blanket on his chest and tucking it behind his shoulders after you got up. He had grumbled but let you continue with your antics. You laughed as you went to the small kitchen in the apartment- nothing too fancy, just big enough for the fridge, a sink, an oven, and a little bit of counter space for a microwave and the odd times you wanted to bake.
You reached into the cabinet right above what little counter space you had and pulled out two mugs. They were cute: a sleepy gray cat face and an overly excited white and tan puppy face for the other- they were round and the little cat reminded you too much of Nobunaga not to get. Though he had also insisted that he’d get the puppy one for you if you were getting the “damn cat” for him.
You traced over the smooth porcelain with the tip of your finger. Maybe… maybe you could just let things be. Let them snowball into dating all on their own. At least, that’s how you hoped that they were going to snowball. The worries began to pile up as you got to work making the drinks.
Nobunaga was a handsome guy with his angular features, fit form, and his glossy hair. The only downside to him was probably how radically his emotions could go from one end of the spectrum to the other but that was easily avoidable (at least you thought it was, there were several people who dined to disagree but you simply assured yourself that it was because of something they did. Not Nobu. Never Nobu). He could have any person in the world that he wanted if he really wanted- what was stopping him from pursuing someone prettier, more charismatic, more successful than you? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
There was a level of anxiety that shook in your fingers as you had finished Nobu’s and your tea, stirring honey in the calming herbal mix.
You took a deep breath, trying to gather your wits. Your mind was wondering again. You need to stop before Nobu thinks something’s wrong because you won’t be able to control your tongue if he does.
You nod to yourself before going to pick up the two mugs just to stop as a strong pair of arms wrap around your waist and a sharp chin rests against the junction of your shoulder. “What’s wrong?” Fuck.
“Nothing- nothing’s wrong.”
“Now, now,” he started to lean his whole body weight against you, causing you to catch yourself on the counter. “ Lying ain’t a good look for you and we both know it.”
There was a certain edge to his voice that made your blood freeze. You had only heard it once or twice, just towards guys who didn’t know when to quit hounding and couldn’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Never at you.
You licked your lips, squeezing your eyes shut as you willed your knees not to shake. “I-I’m not lying, Nobu-”
He shifted his feet, pressing himself even harder against your back, like he was trying to become a second skin. “Lying doesn’t look good on you.” He repeated, squeezing his arms around your stomach. Hard.
You wheezed, hands scrambling to hold onto his arms. Though, you made no attempt to pull him off. It was so fucked up how you were relishing in how close he was despite how angry he was at you. You just wanted to be held by him- be close to him- you wanted to be as important to him as he was to you. You just wanted to melt into him.
What a horrible friend you were.
Your chest burned like you had ran a marathon and suddenly the world was spinning and your eyes were stinging with tears that rested heavy on your lashes. How pathetic.
Hearing a sniffle come from you, something seemed to snap Nobunaga out of his frustrations. “Hey, you ok?” He began to loosen his hold on you, muscles relaxing until your shaking hands squeezed his wrists.
“No…” You whimpered, “no, please- please don’t let go.”
You sounded so weak and frail. It made Nobunaga’s heart leap to his throat. He squeezed his arms around you again, much more gently compared to a few moments ago, but enough for you to know he had no intentions of leaving.
It was a couple of moments until you stopped shaking. By this point, you were leaning back against him, hands still resting on his as he held you. His face nestled against your neck. “You feelin’ ok to talk?”
He wasn’t letting this go, was he? You took a deep breath, releasing it as you nodded against the side of his head.
He pulled away from you slowly until his face was level with your peripheral. His eyes were dark and observant. “What’s wrong?”
Your throat felt tight again, but you still forced yourself to talk. “I- you- what… would you…” you lick your lips. “Would you date me? If I asked you out?” Your hands were sweating and you looked away, instead, focusing on the smooth skin of his arms, running your fingers over the sparse hairs.
When he didn’t answer you began to shift, uncomfortable on your feet. Your skin feeling like it was boiling. This was stupid. You were stupid. You just ruined your friendship with Nobunaga. You’d never be able to see him again- you’d just have to sit like some stranger while he moved on with someone that was on his level- someone who was prettier, more talented- better than you. He was going to leave you behind and take your bleeding heart with him-
“I don’t get it.” You felt a sudden dread rest deep in your chest. He sounded mad. “Why do you always talk like that? Like we aren’t dating already?”
Huh?
Before you can voice anything, his hands come slamming on your counter, once again caging you. You can see the veins pulse on the side of his temple, frown deep as he seethes: “you think I act like this with everyone? Think that I get like this-” one of his hands glides down your spine, a gasp leaving you as when he grabs your ass in a tight grip and presses your hips hard against his. You gape. He’s hard. He’s so, so hard- “with everyone?” He begins to grind against you, hot breath moist against your cheeks as he huffs in frustration. Your hands scramble to hold onto his shirt, head spinning with too many things at once. “I only get this fucking hard with you- it fucking- oh, fuck- do you know how hard it is not to grab you and shove you face first into the closest surface I can? Not to rip you apart? You’re like- like a damn lamb: dumb and oblivious to everything around you-” he grunts when you hike your leg up on his hip (or try to, it’s a bit of an awkward endeavor considering how close he’s pressed against you).
You’re desperate. You want more of his demeaning words. You want more and more of his attention. You want him to sink his teeth into you and rip you apart. Your blood boiling with white, hot want. “��M sorry-” you gasp as you begin to rock your hips back against his; sloppy and uncoordinated. “‘M sorry, I didn’t notice. I was-” a moan wretches out of your throat. You crane your head back, the expanse of your neck presented to Nobu, who wastes no time pressing wet, open mouthed kisses against your salty skin. “You’re just so beautiful, there was no way you’d want to go out with someone like me-”
A growl comes from deep within his throat. His hands have come to dig into your hips, guiding you to grind harder against him. “You're so stupid. Stupid, stupid, stupid- you’re mine. Mine. No one gets to see you like this.” He crushes his lips against yours. The kiss is all teeth and tongue- a mess of passion and repressed frustrations.
You couldn’t get enough.
“‘M yours. ‘M yours-” you chant against his mouth, head spinning, close to the precipice of an orgasm. Teetering on a precarious line that, whichever way you end up tipping, you’ll be drowning in the euphoria of having Nobunaga suffocating you in his affections.
He lets out a loud moan, all guttural and masculine, it has your legs trembling. He uses one hand to squeeze your cheeks, swirling his tongue with yours in a sloppy french kiss that has drool dripping from the corners of your mouth. “You’ve been mine since I laid eyes on you.” He pants, his forehead resting against yours, his hips coming to a stop. You whine at the loss of friction, the leg that is still hooked over his hip trembling with leftover electricity. He chuckles, pressing pecks to your lips. “I’m not letting you go.” You envy how even his voice despite having humped you like a dog in heat only a moment ago.
You nod, not trusting your voice. You would give him anything he asked for. Whatever to keep him near you.
So, you follow him, with your heartbeat pulsing in your ears, as he pulls on your wrists towards the couch, tearing your clothes from your body. You accept that he’s going to tear you apart with open arms.
#hxh#hunter x hunter#hxh x reader#x reader#reader insert#nonbinary reader#n/s/f/w#hxh nobunaga#nobunaga x reader#yandere#yandere nobunaga#tw: unhealthy relationship#tw: possessive behavior#tw: cussing#tw: yandere themes#Hmmmmm#love me some moody samurai man#also I feel like the yandere in this one isn't nearly as overt as I wanted it to be but hopefully people still like it lmao
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"Fuck it if I can't have us. I might just not get up, I might stay down bad."
Dib only lets himself get sentimental about Zim when there's serious blood loss involved. And isn't that the truest love of all?
#invader zim#the brainrot is terminal#ZADR#zadrday#zadr day#zim#dib membrane#chellos art tag#tw blood#Look before you report me for being a swiftie on main this song has a lot of unhealthy relationship and alien imagery#I like to imagine that later into their rivalry Dib gets weirdly emotional after a big fight#like he gets overwhelmed with the feeling that this is what he was meant to be doing with his life#doesnt matter if its fighting to the death or getting slushies at 2am he's mean to be with this weird little alien
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No but like what if one bad day Angel and Husk get into a fight in regards to Valentino and Husk is like:
Husk: You need to stop making excuses for him! He doesn't even care about you!
Angel: Fuck you! You don't even know him! You don't know what we've been through together!
Husk: I know he treats you like shit! You complain enough about him to make that perfectly clear! But he does ONE half assed decent thing and suddenly he's Mother fucking Teresa!
Angel: He has his issues! I do too and so do you, you fucking hypocrite!
Husk: God fucking knows that he does but he ain't never going to fix them!
Angel: Oh and you're such a standing pillar of the community! Get the fuck over yourself!
Husk: You god damn know thats not what I meant! You just want to avoid looking at the obvious truth in front of you!
Angel: And you just want to pretend to be this wise old mentor that fixes everybody's problems but your own! Because in reality you're a shriveled up, useless drunk!
Husk: God damn it Angel fucking listen!
Angel: No, you listen! I'm tired of people playing up the pity card and just assume they know what I'm going through! How the fuck do you know what's best for me! You don't fucking know me! YOU DON'T ANYTHING ABOUT ME AND HOW I FEEL!!!
Husk: DO YOU THINK YOU'RE THE FIRST SINNER TO HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH THEIR SHITTY OVERLORD!!!
Angel: ......
Husk: .......
Angel: Y...you?
Husk: .....yeah...
Angel: .......With um....?
Husk: *looking away* *arms holding himself tightly*
Angel: Oh........does he know?
Husk: *slow reluctant nod*
Angel: Fuck.....
Husk: ......
Angel: .....
Angel: Do you...still um...?
Husk: *shrugs* Sometimes....when it's late at night while we're drinking and talking just like we used to before the........I can pretend he isn't a monster for a little bit. Ya know?
Angel: Yeah.....I think I get that.
Husk: *finally looking back at him, a tiny sad smile fitting his face* Yeah, I think you do.
Angel: It's just....hard to remember that sometimes.
Husk: I know....
Angel: *a matching sad smile as he wraps his arms around himself tightly* You do, don't you.
Because I think it would be really interesting for them to be a reflection of each other's situation. Makes them have that much of a deeper connection and understanding of each other.
#hazbin hotel#bunny talks#hazbin hotel husk#angel dust hazbin hotel#huskerdust#platonic huskerdust#mainly its them just understanding each other on a deeper level#i think it would be so interesting if Husk had been in love with Alastor only for his feelings to be exploited#it be a very interesting dynamic to explore#considering Alastor's whole thing with sex he'd be more emotionally manipulative/abusive than sexually#he'd cater to that more romantic side of Husk to get what he wants when the cat man is being stubborn#i could honestly write a whole fanfic about this 👀#tw valangel#tw radiohusk#both are one sided and abusive in this context#tw abuse#abusive relationship mentioned#unhealthy relationships
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I would mutilate every inch of my skin with marks of love, let me bleed my love for you in your arms, care for the wounds I am blessed to have. The scars are a reminder for every thought I've had of you and they still aren't enough to show, there's not enough room. If you hold the glass it's like you're touching me in a way sex could never, you're touching the pulse that beats only for you
#artanon#obsessive love#bpd favorite person#obssesive#bpd blog#lovesick#bpd#obslove#actually bpd#borderline blog#bpd thoughts#bpd moment#bpd feels#lovecore#darlingcore#unhealthy obsession#obsessivecore#obsessive thinking#tw obsessive behavior#tw obsessive love#tw obsession#tw obsessive thoughts#bpd fp#bpd stuff#bpd safe#bpd obsession#tw blood#cw blood#self h@rm#tw self h4rm
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this video of the offering in adelaide is everything to me right now, it’s got:
☑️ vessel’s vocals sounding absolutely phenomenal
☑️ ii being the absolute fucking percussion king that he is👑
☑️ iii rocking to his heart’s content (also HANDS)
☑️ iv being casually hot and slutty (affectionate)
☑️ ves dancing his sweet, funky lil heart out💖
#this video must have been recorded with the eyes of god because it feels like a blessing from above#(though in this case god is samtoken_ on tiktok which for all the aus sleep token content she’s been giving she may as well be)#i have watched this an unhealthy number of times#sleep token#sleep token vessel#sleep token ii#sleep token iii#sleep token iv#tw flashing lights#okay i’m going to drink a lot of water and go to bed now but i leave you all with this 🤲🏼🖤
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Mouthwashing Spoilers
TW: Addiction and Self Harm
I wanna go on about Swansea's final monologue but it's hard to put into words, but I'm gonna try anyways cause it's a short, but strong story about autonomy again. This post ended up significantly longer than I wanted though
It's the autonomy to choose the "less healthy" option because it's appealing to you. It's the moral assignment to normality and stability. An alcoholic is an alcoholic by choice, technically, but do they owe us otherwise? Is it morally reprehensible to enjoy taking LSD at a party? Should we see someone as less than because they relax with a xanax instead of a hot shower? It's not healthy. We know that. We've seen anti-drug ad after ad after ad. But is that the part that's morally wrong, in and of itself? Does enjoying the drugs and chaos make Swansea a worse person?
Like him talking about his entire life and ending it by saying between the "stable" "normal" life and him waking up every morning with a new hangover, he preferred the latter. People always talk about getting clean and fixing their lives and Swansea did it! He did the thing "good men" do! A wife and kids and a trade job and sobriety! He was doing it! He was finally "worth" something!
And he hated it! I mean I don't know if he actually hated/despised it, but he misses his previous life. He misses drugs and partying and living like you might not wake up the next day. He said the thing that changed him was seeing himself dead in a ditch under the bright beam of a streetlight. Now he's looking down the barrel of a gun. And as he looks down it, he looks back. That was his preference. It felt good to be like that. And he wouldn't be here if he stayed there
We always have a narrative about drugs or gambling or sleeping around where a person suddenly realizes that they aren't "doing anything" with their life and becomes stable and it's always played like addiction is a false pleasure. Swansea got to the stability people said would be the real pleasure of life and that just wasn't true for him. One bad paycheck could've been the difference between his stable life and falling apart anyways. His lifestyle was going to kill him someday apparently, yet he's staring down the barrel of a gun at his steady trade job to feed his wife and kids.
I don't know quite how to word it but Swansea is the poster child for rehabilitation. There's this weight to him saying his alcoholic period was the best time of his life. Like it just hits at that pang that makes people wear DARE shirts while smoking weed and post those videos of smoking 100 cigarettes at once. Anti-vaping ads tell you about the damage they do to your body but everyone knows that already. Everyone knows "this is what your brain looks like on drugs." I smoke medical marijuana and it isn't good for my lungs but it's good for my pain. Doing drugs isn't good for me and I know that and that's sorta the point sometimes.
I don't know it's just this weird pang where I know what Swansea means, just not to nearly the same extent. I don't have an addiction so I don't think I could fully understand it. Maybe a better thing I could relate it to for myself is self harm. It's not healthy sure, but who do I owe health? Myself? Other people? And what is healthy? Is it feeling better now? Is it resisting now and feeling worse for it until it stops? What if the coping skills I learn make it worse? What if they make it better? Do I want it to get better? Does Swansea want to get better? What would better feel like to either of us?
Who knows until you try. Swansea got a collared shirt, a mortgage, and a credit card. He got a job and a wife and kids. He got sober. He got healthier, depending on your definition.
But did he feel better? He's looking down a barrel of a gun and he has to decide if he feels better. It doesn't seem like he regrets his new life. He says he wants his kids to be better than him. He wants good things to happen for them. He saw himself as one bad slip away from falling again. I don't think he felt better though. I think he got healthier. He likely would've ended up in the ditch he dreamt about, but we don't know that. We also don't know if that's what he'd prefer. But, we do know he got healthier, depending on your definition.
#mouthwashing#tw addiction#tw self harm#It got a little personal in the end but I keep watching that scene cause it reminds me of a convo with my therapist#It's been a lil under a year since I last self harmed#but he told me that things like addictions and self harm are tools#they're neutral actions that either make you feel better or worse#and that's usually up to the circumstances around the action rather than the act itself#Taking narcotics might fill you with shame or make you feel giddy. Maybe even both#Self harm can make you feel embarrassed but cathartic#That's unhealthy#now what?#There needs to be something to replace that feeling or you'll just crave it until you can't stand the feeling anymore#And sure you can talk about will and self control but why? Who are they doing this for? Themselves? Friends? Family?#Cause there's so many factors that can make that difference and sometimes the answer is 'No one'#So you crave and is that healthier? I'm not saying to self harm again or break your sobriety#But there's gotta be something to replace it. AA and NA use a higher power and ppl use nicotine gum for smoking#Essentially what I'm saying is that it's not the end of the world to enjoy your addiction#Is it unhealthy? Absolutely. Wounds can get infected and drugs can be laced or you can OD#But is it morally wrong for Swansea to say those were the best days of his life?#Is it wrong for him to live the sober life and decide he preferred his alcoholism?#My therapist doesn't want me to harm myself. He'd prefer for me to learn new coping skills to replace it. And I did#The urges still come up for me sometimes. He says they come up for him too. Less so. But they do#He says a relapse could happen. What's wrong with that? You just start over with a new goal and a new skill. And if that skill is worse?#Well that original tool is there until you get a new one. It's not great but it feels better than a new bad tool#And maybe it's okay to fiddle with that old tool if you don't wanna bother with a new one again
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an idea for how another character could meet barton in an untraditional way: your muse met barton while he was in residency by expressing concern for him as they saw him at the grocery store... with only like five bottles of wine in his cart at the checkout 🫠 JSJSJ
#OF MONSTERS AND MEN: musings.#so i may or may not have this hc now that barton used to tell himself that wine didn't get him as badly drunk as whiskey / bourbon did-#while he was in residency so that was his uhhh. vice of choice i guess you could say at pretty much any given moment that he wasn't working#but if i'm being honest... it got barton drunk even MORE as he always drank red wine and that's saying something BC this man has a high#alcohol tolerance to the point where it usually takes him about maybe seven or eight shots of whiskey for him to start feeling anything#but yeahhh a lot if not all of this man's coping methods to deal with stress during residency were either unhealthy or on the borderline-#of being dangerously reckless such as him choosing to gamble at that one bar i told y'all about that he frequents to this day until-#he won big but wellll he wasn't always good at gambling let me just say that AHHH so no matter what this guy tries to tell you-#barton was going THROUGH it FR when he was in residency and he would neverrr want to relive those years again#tw: alcohol mention.#tw: mentions of unhealthy coping mechanisms.
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I won't be posting my meals every day. Maybe sometimes but I am currently sick and even tho I still count my calories I really don't have the energy to make an aesthetic post rn.
I hope you guys understand.
Here is the food I ate these past days, since still take pictures of my food:
The day before yesterday:
Yesterday:
Breakfast
A mug cake experiment. The first one turned out hard. The second one was okay
Right now I am eating between 600 and 800 calories a day. I know it's a lot but it's still under 1000calories idk what to tell you.
#tw ed ana#tw ana bløg#4norexla#ana angels🪽#🕯️as a feather#4nor3xia#ed but not ed sheeran#low cal restriction#sleeping and 🌟ving#⭐️ ing motivation#anoresick#4n0rexic#4n4blr#4n4rexia#4n@diary#@tw edd#ed not ed sheeran#ed blr#soupinmysocks#soupinmyshoes#soupinmypockets#what i ate today#low calorie meals#mealsp0#mealspø#mealspo#low cal meal#i feel sick#tw food#tw unhealthy eating habits
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listen to me. stop rbing ed and thinspo posts with memes telling them to eat. just block/report and move on. diet culture is dangerous and vile but trying to be snarky at people who're clearly struggling helps no one. in fact you're more likely to cause them to double down in their unhealthy behaviors
#YOU'RE EITHER GONNA MAKE THEM FEEL SHITTIER AND THEY'RE GONNA WANNA HARM THEMSELVES MORE BECAUSE OF IT#OR THEY'RE GONNA FEEL EMBOLDENED TO KEEP HARMING THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY THINK YOU'RE BEING STUPID#OR THEY'RE GONNA DOUBLE DOWN OUT OF SPITE! there's literally hundreds of ways that person could react#but 'suddenly abandoning their unhealthy behavior and reflecting on how they participate in diet culture' AIN'T ONE OF THEM!!!!!#EUGENIA COONEY DIDN'T GET HELP AFTER THOUSANDS OF VIDEOS OVER SEVERAL YEARS WERE MADE ABOUT HER HEALTH WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU'D HELP??#I HATE THINSPO TOO BUT EDS ARE VERY SERIOUS MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. PLEASE TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY#mickey.txt#ed tw#eating disorder tw
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